Dumped on Valentines day!

[Possiblehousemate]

How bad is that!

We have been dating 4 months, since before Xmas and seen each other ALOT! The plan was to go to his house.. but 3 days before valentines i began to get ignored, i tried calling and all that stuff, but he is active on facebook yet i'm being ignored..

I didn't get one text or message saying happy valentines.. so who knows what has happened?

Is it best to just MOVE ON already you think? Cause this is what my head is telling me to do? I'm angry at him!

[Patrick]

Glad im not the only one.

[GypsyGoth]

Move on. He seems to be a jerk or a coward.

[arsenalforever]

thats nasty

[Possiblehousemate]

Is it wrong that something inside me wants revenge!?

I want to meet him once more
kiss him
and then go
you know what
Im suddenly not interested in you
or like
heavily pett
then say that
then just GO
just to sting him
i am childish like that
I watch too many movies
and i want the world to slow down
as i walk away
and my hair to vibrantly bounce
like a wella advert

.. I have been thinking about this all day, I'm just soo angry and it is amplified because it is Valentines day, I don't think i can forgive him? I mean what possible reason could there be for him not to contact message or even txt me, ... He didn't give any hint of this :conf::bawling:

Today has been terrible,

[Enid]

Maybe he spent V. Day with another girl?

[GypsyGoth]

Maybe he spent V. Day with another girl?

:hug: You're wonderful.

And Possiblehousemate you are soo much better without him. Yes it may hurt for the next few months and you maybe filled with self doubt. But on the plus side you are rid of the jerk.

[Possiblehousemate]

well that has crossed my mind..
but we have been dating 4 months,
to just do this when we had valentines plans is mean!

I havent had a card or anything today not even a text!
I'm fed up, I wonder if he realised he would upset me?

he must have, he has been on facebook all day though, as ive seen his stuff being updated and he has been talking to ppl just ignoring me, and he isn't a "player" or anything, we were getting on absoloutley fine,

maybe valentines freaked him out? :S

[GypsyGoth]

Go have sex with his best friend.

[Possiblehousemate]

LOL! His best friends a lesbian ><

[GypsyGoth]

LOL! His best friends a lesbian ><

:)

Are you a guy or girl?

[Possiblehousemate]

I don't wanna say, because my username is possiblehousemate and ive said in other posts im in waiting for a call back off big brother, so dont want them to figure out who i am.. I'm anonymous for now [ i know it sounds sketchy but i gotta be secret, they said going on any forum would automatically exclude me from being in the house ] they can fit the puzzle together n figure you out quite easily i would imagine

[Possiblehousemate]

OH! and i hope i get on big brother! TO rub it in his face ¬_¬ He doesn't know i auditioned

[GypsyGoth]

Well I hope you get on BB too. I was going to apply but I chickened out.

[Possiblehousemate]

Cheers i hope i get on too, Maybe i will meet someone in the house! When i auditioned i did say i was single, because we didn't announce ourselves as GOING OUT, but he had hinted that was the plan for valentines day.. at least now if i get on big brother i will be fully single and ready to mingle ><

[Possiblehousemate]

you should have applied, i was nervous the whole day but ya just gotta fight your nerves! It is tough

[GypsyGoth]

Chances are thAT if you get in, you will meet someone and fall for them. But on the plus side you will get a magazine deal.

And I'm glad now that I didn't apply. I wouldn't have been able to cope.

[GypsyGoth]

I think he is probably the type of guy who would laugh and say; "well I can't catch it twice!"

[Sticks]

Was it Valentines day yesterday?

I was too busy contemplating Chinese New Year

[Stacey.]

aww. :sad:
Maybe in the long-run it was the right thing for you both though :)

[Crimson Dynamo]

Inject him with aids.

idiot

[eye sea]

How bad is that!

We have been dating 4 months, since before Xmas and seen each other ALOT! The plan was to go to his house.. but 3 days before valentines i began to get ignored, i tried calling and all that stuff, but he is active on facebook yet i'm being ignored..

I didn't get one text or message saying happy valentines.. so who knows what has happened?

Is it best to just MOVE ON already you think? Cause this is what my head is telling me to do? I'm angry at him!

That's life. Better off without him, he was probably cheating behind your back anyway.

[Stu]

Was it Valentines day yesterday?

I was too busy contemplating Chinese New Year
Yes. It's a holiday with no real signifigance. A bit like Easter & Christmas rolled into one.

[kjtnation]

That isn't nice!>!!?>!

[Jords]

Sorry to hear that!

[rapunza1977]

How bad is that!

We have been dating 4 months, since before Xmas and seen each other ALOT! The plan was to go to his house.. but 3 days before valentines i began to get ignored, i tried calling and all that stuff, but he is active on facebook yet i'm being ignored..

I didn't get one text or message saying happy valentines.. so who knows what has happened?

Is it best to just MOVE ON already you think? Cause this is what my head is telling me to do? I'm angry at him!

Hmmmmmmmmmm could it be possible he has met someone else?

[Niamh.]

Harsh........................

[rapunza1977]

Harsh........................

Oh come off it. It's a public forum posting personal stuff up like that on a PUBLIC BB forum is askig for trouble - epecially the "heavy" petting bit!

Go and chat to your mates about it not a bunch of cyber peeps.

hilarious

[Beastie]

Oh come off it. It's a public forum posting personal stuff up like that on a PUBLIC BB forum is askig for trouble - epecially the "heavy" petting bit!

Go and chat to your mates about it not a bunch of cyber peeps.

hilarious

Oi! Niamh is a legend!

And aww possiblehousemate.. this sounds cruel but you are better off without him and I hope you get on bb! :)

[*mazedsalv**]

Thats horrible :(

[Crimson Dynamo]

how does the op know that official status is dumpsville?

[Niamh.]

Oh come off it. It's a public forum posting personal stuff up like that on a PUBLIC BB forum is askig for trouble - epecially the "heavy" petting bit!

Go and chat to your mates about it not a bunch of cyber peeps.

hilarious

I was talking about being dumped on Valentines day being harsh

[Niamh.]

Oi! Niamh is a legend!

And aww possiblehousemate.. this sounds cruel but you are better off without him and I hope you get on bb! :)

aaawwww, thanks Beasty

[rapunza1977]

I was talking about being dumped on Valentines day being harsh

Ah sorry!

My bad!

It's only just another day to be honest though is it not?

Loads of nonsense if you ask me. And before anyone wades in about my being single and sad and as got no cards, I have a lovely guy who treats me every other week, do not need "the most romantic day of the year" to prove it!


Just another way of cashing in...........................tacky tacky taaaacky!

[rapunza1977]

Oi! Niamh is a legend!

And aww possiblehousemate.. this sounds cruel but you are better off without him and I hope you get on bb! :)


Did I say anything untoward again Niamh? No, I was only commenting.

Her posts are always spot on....................not a personal attack here

[Beastie]

Did I say anything untoward again Niamh? No, I was only commenting.

Her posts are always spot on....................not a personal attack here

Okay dude.

[Niamh.]

Ah sorry!

My bad!

It's only just another day to be honest though is it not?

Loads of nonsense if you ask me. And before anyone wades in about my being single and sad and as got no cards, I have a lovely guy who treats me every other week, do not need "the most romantic day of the year" to prove it!


Just another way of cashing in...........................tacky tacky taaaacky!

Yeah, I agree with you but when you're younger or at the beginning of a relationship it means more. Plus, If something crap like being dumped happens on Valentines Day you have to relive the bad memories even more so every year cos you have all the romantic and lovey dovey ****e being pushed in your face for a week or so!!

[Crimson Dynamo]

the upside is that you get 364 days to get a new valentine

[rapunza1977]

Or................................................ .................................................g o out this weekend and pull a hottie!!!!!

[Sticks]

Yes. It's a holiday with no real signifigance. A bit like Easter & Christmas rolled into one.

But my Chinese friends find it very significant. I even had a Chinese takeout today :sad:

[Crimson Dynamo]

But my Chinese friends find it very significant. I even had a Chinese takeout today :sad:

i hope it was not KFC

[Sticks]

i hope it was not KFC

It was from the China Town Express on Stowell Street in Newcastle :conf:

[Possiblehousemate]

It's fine, i'm tough i can take criticism easily, only upsets ya when its somebody ya trust, I'm feeling better today anyway, Am still being ignored. I'm confident he will want to chat at some point and when he does i will just explain to him he is a LOOOOSER!! ><

He was the only person i told about ma bb success though, so i should probs tell him i got rejected incase he decides to spread it like wildfire outta revenge.

[Possiblehousemate]

Oh and i agree it is a BIG CASH IN, like the other holidays, but cash in or not, it is pushed in your face how happy all the other couples are ! Its annoying!

[WOMBAI]

Is it wrong that something inside me wants revenge!?

I want to meet him once more
kiss him
and then go
you know what
Im suddenly not interested in you
or like
heavily pett
then say that
then just GO
just to sting him
i am childish like that
I watch too many movies
and i want the world to slow down
as i walk away
and my hair to vibrantly bounce
like a wella advert

.. I have been thinking about this all day, I'm just soo angry and it is amplified because it is Valentines day, I don't think i can forgive him? I mean what possible reason could there be for him not to contact message or even txt me, ... He didn't give any hint of this :conf::bawling:

Today has been terrible,

The best revenge - is to move on! Let him see you neither need him or want him!

[Beastie]

The best revenge - is to move on! Let him see you neither need him or want him!

This. However get the last work in and then cut the pillock off.

[Possiblehousemate]

I know the best revenge is to move on, and i'm gonna try my hardest not to engage in ANY conversation.

[Possiblehousemate]

Finally got a text and this is what it said:

My head is very confused *****. Im sorrt for not talking tonight on msn but i havent been ignoring you. I don't want you to hate me. X I go to bed now x

[I am confused, did he totally forget about valentines day then, after making plans for it :S ]

[Possiblehousemate]

[My reply]


I don't hate you, obviously you left me confused and wondering if it was me, but im fine and a tough cookie and used to it tbh lol! Your a nice person and i do like you but if your confused at this point it's obviously not going anywhere, and im cool with that and with just being your friend [Thats what they all say :P]. Honestly i wasn't sure what was going on between me and you and you but just through caution to the wind and went with the flow. Being ignored made me think & analyse things slightly and I realise now that me an you don't match. But i hope you find someone cute X chow.

[WOMBAI]

[My reply]


I don't hate you, obviously you left me confused and wondering if it was me, but im fine and a tough cookie and used to it tbh lol! Your a nice person and i do like you but if your confused at this point it's obviously not going anywhere, and im cool with that and with just being your friend [Thats what they all say :P]. Honestly i wasn't sure what was going on between me and you and you but just through caution to the wind and went with the flow. Being ignored made me think & analyse things slightly and I realise now that me an you don't match. But i hope you find someone cute X chow.

For what its worth - I would take out the tough cookie, used to it bit. Might make him think he has licence to mess you about - that you will put up with it! Rest is fine! :elephant:

[Possiblehousemate]

Too late it is sent now,

Hopefully he will read it and think oops, i messed up, but i'm gonna keep ignoring from now on.

[Tom4784]

My advice is just to try to see the funny side and move on, it's what I'd do and it seems like he isn't worth the time of day anyway. It's his loss not yours.