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_Seth
21-02-2010, 01:33 AM
Don't you just hate that? You tell someone something in confidence and trust them with a secret, make them promise not to tell anyone and the next day everyone knows. It's like WTF? :mad:

hannah.
21-02-2010, 02:44 AM
i'm very bad at keeping secrets. even my own

Princess
21-02-2010, 02:48 AM
McSteamy in your sig! Wooo. That never tends to happen with me,usually cos I don't tell secrets or I tell everyone.

Jords
21-02-2010, 02:55 AM
Keep your secrets to yourself Phlip, best thing if you want it kept quiet. :thumbs:

Patrick
21-02-2010, 03:05 AM
i'm very bad at keeping secrets. even my own

This.

I just have to tell everyone just when Im bored and theres nothing to talk about.

hannah.
21-02-2010, 03:09 AM
and if i manage to keep a secret (rare) as soon as i have one drink it all comes pouring out

_Seth
21-02-2010, 03:14 AM
^Why the hell can't you or Patrick keep secrets? Well ok fair enough, but if someone wanted to tell you a secret would you promise them you wouldn't tell anyone else? Or would say but I must warn you, if I get bored I'll blab?

Princess
21-02-2010, 03:19 AM
That's not very good Patrick,if you get bored! There is other things to do :p

I never tell anyone's secrets *goody-two shoes*

Jords
21-02-2010, 03:24 AM
I love being told secrets, makes me feel wanted which is nice tbh. :laugh:
I never blab either, wouldnt want somebody to do it to me if I told them a secret.

hannah.
21-02-2010, 03:38 AM
^Why the hell can't you or Patrick keep secrets? Well ok fair enough, but if someone wanted to tell you a secret would you promise them you wouldn't tell anyone else? Or would say but I must warn you, if I get bored I'll blab?

some people just can't. everyone who knows me knows i can't do it

Jords
21-02-2010, 03:39 AM
Do you feel pressured Hannah? Or just a gossip? :hugesmile:

Stacey.
21-02-2010, 07:52 AM
i'm very bad at keeping secrets. even my own

me too :blush:
I always want to tell just ONE person, then it gets around...

Captain.Remy
21-02-2010, 08:17 AM
That's exactly why I never tell my secrets. :) One thing life taught me is "Trust no one".

Jords
21-02-2010, 08:20 AM
That's exactly why I never tell my secrets. :) One thing life taught me is "Trust no one".

Very true Remy, though I trust a few, but tend to keep most things to myself, that way, I know who knows what!

teamandre
10-03-2010, 09:37 AM
yea but if yuo are close to some one and ask them not to tell any 1 then thay should keep it to them selfs its like when they ask me to keep somthing to my self i do so why carnt they do the same !

Niamh.
10-03-2010, 09:46 AM
because the person you tells goes to another person and says don't tell anyone but..........and so on and so on

30stone
10-03-2010, 10:36 AM
Easy to keep a secret :) tell my closest friend though and he dont tell no one.

Mrluvaluva
10-03-2010, 12:29 PM
You learn by your mistakes. I am sure you won't be telling that person any secrets again. It's nice to really trust someone, but unfortunately those people come few and far between in life, unless you are lucky.

Crimson Dynamo
10-03-2010, 12:31 PM
On average if you say that to someone they then tell 2 people. This is a fact.

Claymores
10-03-2010, 02:07 PM
On average if you say that to someone they then tell 2 people. This is a fact.

Fact 23 in the Gavin/President/Trumpet book of facts.

BB_Eye
10-03-2010, 02:32 PM
Don't you just hate that? You tell someone something in confidence and trust them with a secret, make them promise not to tell anyone and the next day everyone knows. It's like WTF? :mad:

It's only happened to me once thankfully. I had a habit of trusting the wrong people in my teens.

sooty
12-03-2010, 11:07 PM
"Do not tell anyone" or "Do not panick" people normally react opposite.


But if a friend told me her secret, I will keep it secret.
This is the key to having trust.


Also at work, for example, I know all staff's salaries how much they earn, so I am the right person for the job.

Smithy
12-03-2010, 11:15 PM
Im good at keeping secrets, its just people i tell who cant :(

Beastie
12-03-2010, 11:20 PM
Im good at keeping secrets. Phillip you need to learn just not to tell that person anything any more. I used to love knowing people's secrets but usually it can end in disaster or someone has said well so and so knew all along then people will say "why didnt you tell me" ahh I don't know lol

Stu
12-03-2010, 11:21 PM
I tend to get told a lot of secrets by my friends because generally I'm known as the guy who couldn't really give a crap about others problems so I am less likely to repeat them to anyone else. It's a role I enjoy, really. I was never one for discussing private things with mates so I never talk about it, so in turn everyone trusts me with their secrets and I never tell them back.

Stacey.
12-03-2010, 11:22 PM
i just love it - when you know something, youre not supposed to know :D
i get a kick!

Beastie
12-03-2010, 11:48 PM
i just love it - when you know something, youre not supposed to know :D
i get a kick!

A kick like a kick out of cocaine?

Stacey.
12-03-2010, 11:48 PM
A kick like a kick out of cocaine?

D:
would you know what thats like?!

_Seth
13-03-2010, 12:25 AM
Im good at keeping secrets. Phillip you need to learn just not to tell that person anything any more. I used to love knowing people's secrets but usually it can end in disaster or someone has said well so and so knew all along then people will say "why didnt you tell me" ahh I don't know lol

My name is spelled with one L btw. ;)

setanta
13-03-2010, 12:28 AM
I tend to get told a lot of secrets by my friends because generally I'm known as the guy who couldn't really give a crap about others problems so I am less likely to repeat them to anyone else. It's a role I enjoy, really. I was never one for discussing private things with mates so I never talk about it, so in turn everyone trusts me with their secrets and I never tell them back.

I'm the same as yourself really. I mean, obviously I care about their problems and am willing to listen and give advice if it's needed, but once the conversation is over my mind has this unerring capacity to just delete it all because, at the end of the day, it's really not my business.

Beastie
13-03-2010, 12:29 AM
D:
would you know what thats like?!

;)







Nah not really Stacey! lol

Beastie
13-03-2010, 12:29 AM
My name is spelled with one L btw. ;)

Sorry Phlip!

Beastie
13-03-2010, 12:30 AM
I'm the same as yourself really. I mean, obviously I care about their problems and am willing to listen and give advice if it's needed, but once the conversation is over my mind has this unerring capacity to just delete it all because, at the end of the day, it's really not my business.

Good man James. Good man. Keep to your own business man! Just keep to the drug business ;)

InOne
13-03-2010, 12:31 AM
;)







Nah not really Stacey! lol

Not as good as you'd expect lol

Stacey.
13-03-2010, 12:31 AM
;)







Nah not really Stacey! lol

:laugh:

setanta
13-03-2010, 12:40 AM
Good man James. Good man. Keep to your own business man! Just keep to the drug business ;)

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