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\PJ/
04-03-2010, 11:22 AM
When do you think is the right age to have sex?

Niamh.
04-03-2010, 11:26 AM
I suppose it differs from person to person but I would say 16 is too young maybe 18 or 19

Crimson Dynamo
04-03-2010, 11:30 AM
21

Sexual intercourse has many serious repercussions and should be treated as serious.

Tom
04-03-2010, 12:07 PM
Upon reflection about 18

I started waaaaaay too early

Stu
04-03-2010, 12:14 PM
Depends entirely on the person. Plenty of people in their 20's are having children faster than they can handle. What's the average age of a couple on Jeremy Kyle?

Meanwhile plenty of 16 and 17 year olds have sex every weekend without any serious concequences. Good for them.

Works both ways, but that's sort of the point. No right answer to this question.

Dr.Gonzo
04-03-2010, 12:16 PM
It'll depend. Whenever said person is emotionally stable enough to handle it.

Ramsay
04-03-2010, 01:17 PM
16

Niamh.
04-03-2010, 01:23 PM
It'll depend. Whenever said person is emotionally stable enough to handle it.

But I'm sure if you asked a group of 13 year olds they would think that they were emotionally stable enough to have sex but they're not really

Beastie
04-03-2010, 01:29 PM
The right age is when.. well you are AT LEAST the age of consent.. eventhough 16 is quite a vulnerable age for most. If two people have been going out for at least a while and trust and love each other and want to do it then do it! but use protection!

However maybe more kissing, cuddling, foreplay and a bit of fun before going all the way should be encouraged before wanting full on sex!

Crimson Dynamo
04-03-2010, 01:29 PM
Unfortunately whilst it is all well and good to say "depends on the individual" etc in politics, and this is where questions like this end up, you have to make a ruling and stick with it.

I would suggest that the current rate of teenage pregnancy/abortion/single parenthood indicates that what we have now is not working - and neither is the "lets give them lots of information and contraceptives"

all sounds great but in practice its bollocks

indeed the above statement could be the Labour party slogan for the election

Princess
04-03-2010, 01:32 PM
It depends on the person. Age of consent in Ireland is 17 which seems about right. But it all depends.

Twilight
04-03-2010, 01:37 PM
16 but use protection, no matter what age you are:P

Crimson Dynamo
04-03-2010, 02:03 PM
The middle ages seemed a good time to me, what with all them voluptuous wenches and the like.

Dr.Gonzo
04-03-2010, 03:28 PM
But I'm sure if you asked a group of 13 year olds they would think that they were emotionally stable enough to have sex but they're not really

I know, that's the problem. That's ideally when a person should begin to have a sex life, but in reality it isn't going to happen... just like all of the other suggestions :(

Niamh.
04-03-2010, 03:30 PM
I know, that's the problem. That's ideally when a person should begin to have a sex life, but in reality it isn't going to happen... just like all of the other suggestions :(

yeah, there's feck all people can do really to stop people having sex, you just have to hope that your own kids won't do it too young!

MrGaryy
04-03-2010, 03:32 PM
well it depends on the person but I'd say on average 17 is a good age.

ILoveTRW
04-03-2010, 03:34 PM
depends on the person

Jack_
04-03-2010, 03:42 PM
When they're ready. What needs improving is sex education. I think oral sex should be encouraged from a couple of years before a person reaches the age of consent, but this of course would probably just lead to them having sex anyway. Either way, teenagers have and will continue to have sex before the age of consent. Not only are they curious, but for some people, because there's a law, it makes them want to do it earlier. Not to mention the fact that some just don't give a ****, and sure, if they are protected, feel ready and have basic knowledge of precautions they should take, then who cares?

As I said though, sex ed is what needs to be improved.

Enid
04-03-2010, 03:43 PM
Whenever they feel ready and are responsible enough to use contraception.

Dr.Gonzo
04-03-2010, 03:48 PM
The boobs on your avatar are making me feel ready.

rapunza1977
04-03-2010, 03:49 PM
45

Enid
04-03-2010, 03:51 PM
The boobs on your avatar are making me feel ready.
:wink:

Shasown
04-03-2010, 04:06 PM
When they are old enough to provide for and take full responsibility for the outcome of their actions. That is support any children they may bring into the world financially and emotionally as parents.

If you cant do the time dont do the crime!

Chels
04-03-2010, 04:18 PM
i'd say about 16/17 is about right, although i can't say nout as i was slightly younger.
jack has a very good point ^

Smithy
04-03-2010, 04:18 PM
Whenever the person is ready, there shouldnt be a specific age (but obv above 16 or somat)

Stephanie
04-03-2010, 04:27 PM
8

Braden
04-03-2010, 04:29 PM
16. Because it's the same age to get married, so having sex at that age is the right time.

rapunza1977
04-03-2010, 04:36 PM
no in other countries.....married at 13!

16 seems wrong to get married
tooooooo young

Stu
04-03-2010, 04:44 PM
Unfortunately whilst it is all well and good to say "depends on the individual" etc in politics, and this is where questions like this end up, you have to make a ruling and stick with it.

I would suggest that the current rate of teenage pregnancy/abortion/single parenthood indicates that what we have now is not working - and neither is the "lets give them lots of information and contraceptives"

all sounds great but in practice its bollocks

indeed the above statement could be the Labour party slogan for the election
Ruling aside, it still depends on the indivdual. Of course you have to make a ruling but there is no getting around the fact that it's down to the person.

And 21 is just ****ing insane. I'm sorry, but it really is. The thought of two consenting 20 year olds breaking the law by having sex disturbs me greatly.

Dr.Gonzo
04-03-2010, 04:49 PM
I heard this morning that in Switzerland they've just brought out an extra small condom for young boys...

Stu
04-03-2010, 05:01 PM
Sold at the local churches?

Dr.Gonzo
04-03-2010, 05:19 PM
No, the ice-cream man says, 'Anything for the weekend, lil lad?'

Firewire
04-03-2010, 05:21 PM
16.

It's the legal age.

Stu
04-03-2010, 05:22 PM
No, the ice-cream man says, 'Anything for the weekend, lil lad?'
Ah that's handy. If you need some practice you can wrap it around the cone with the white stuff sprouting out the top.

Jack_
04-03-2010, 05:24 PM
16.

It's the legal age.

That doesn't mean it's the right age.

I can't legally view '18' rated films, but I still do. Or should I not because it's the legal age?

Stacey.
04-03-2010, 05:34 PM
about 16.

Ross
04-03-2010, 05:35 PM
It's down to the individuals.

Stephanie
04-03-2010, 05:39 PM
40

WOMBAI
04-03-2010, 06:03 PM
It's down to the individuals.

Too simplistic!

Patrick
04-03-2010, 06:04 PM
14.

I love how in some countries they make it really old to have Sex, and drink and stuff.

I love how laid back the UK is about this like 'Do w/e you want..'

Oral - 14
Anal - 16

So I heard.

Dr.Gonzo
04-03-2010, 06:11 PM
Yeh and in Texas you can't stroke your cat after 7pm.

Shasown
04-03-2010, 06:17 PM
14.

I love how in some countries they make it really old to have Sex, and drink and stuff.

I love how laid back the UK is about this like 'Do w/e you want..'

Oral - 14
Anal - 16

So I heard.

Hope it wasnt your teacher you heard that from. :wink:

Patrick
04-03-2010, 06:32 PM
Hope it wasnt your teacher you heard that from. :wink:

I researched it, you know the way im ****ing told do 24/7 on here?

Shasown
04-03-2010, 06:42 PM
Good idea Patrick. However even though a government minister recently urged under 16's to go for oral sex as opposed to the real deal. UK law says it is illegal to have underage sex (including oral sex and mutual masturbation) if you are under the age of 16

bananarama
06-03-2010, 05:10 PM
The legal age and the legal age to wed should be raised to 18........

The problem is when its set at such a young age of 16 then those aproaching 16 will think ah well near enough lets do it........and it becomes acceptable among the under 16s.......

The law is an ass at the mo saying you can have sex at 16 but if you become a topless model at 16 you are breaking the law........You can marry at 16 but not see bog standard "X" rated films let alone R rated stuff.....A complete ass of a legal system and regulations......

Stephanie
06-03-2010, 05:12 PM
57

bananarama
06-03-2010, 05:18 PM
57


Oh dear how about 68 :hugesmile:

Stacey.
06-03-2010, 05:36 PM
Oh dear how about 68 :hugesmile:

:bored:

GypsyGoth
06-03-2010, 05:38 PM
Twenty One

30stone
06-03-2010, 05:48 PM
Different for everyone.

Its whenever your ready..
But doesnt mean that when your ready you should go out and look for it..

You should feel comfortable and be with someone you can trust.

bananarama
06-03-2010, 05:51 PM
:bored:

Time for bed then...........

InOne
06-03-2010, 06:46 PM
No matter what the age limit people are gonna do it whenever regardless

Raph
06-03-2010, 06:50 PM
After marriage :) x

InOne
06-03-2010, 07:11 PM
After marriage :) x

Kids get like engaged at 16 n that these days lol

Raph
06-03-2010, 07:13 PM
Kids get like engaged at 16 n that these days lol

ahahah, not for me though (:
I have to go on disney first, right Joe? ;)
x

InOne
06-03-2010, 07:15 PM
ahahah, not for me though (:
I have to go on disney first, right Joe? ;)
x

Haha yeah true ;)

Beastie
06-03-2010, 07:18 PM
ahahah, not for me though (:
I have to go on disney first, right Joe? ;)
x

That is what Jamie Lynn Spears did until she got preggers at 16 ;)

Chels
06-03-2010, 07:19 PM
Kids get like engaged at 16 n that these days lol

this girl in year 10 just got "engaged"
stupid cock

GypsyGoth
06-03-2010, 07:25 PM
this girl in year 10 just got "engaged"
stupid cock

:laugh:

Beastie
06-03-2010, 07:27 PM
11 is the right age to have sex. Just after you finish junior school.

InOne
06-03-2010, 07:30 PM
this girl in year 10 just got "engaged"
stupid cock

Stupid innit, people don't even want to live life anymore.

Chels
06-03-2010, 07:33 PM
That is what Jamie Lynn Spears did until she got preggers at 16 ;)

slut

Chels
06-03-2010, 07:33 PM
11 is the right age to have sex. Just after you finish junior school.

i do hope you're joking

Chels
06-03-2010, 07:33 PM
Stupid innit, people don't even want to live life anymore.

i know, saddos :D

InOne
06-03-2010, 07:35 PM
i know, saddos :D

I think you need to get that bitch told :tongue:

Raph
06-03-2010, 07:36 PM
That is what Jamie Lynn Spears did until she got preggers at 16 ;)

Jamie Lynn was Nickolodean! ;)

WOMBAI
06-03-2010, 07:38 PM
Never! Many should just stick to mags and videos - be a lot safer for them and the world in general!

Jack_
06-03-2010, 07:39 PM
Never! Many should just stick to mags and videos - be a lot safer for them and the world in general!

Eh? People should never have sex?

You realise by doing that we'd be killing off the entire population...? :conf:

Raph
06-03-2010, 07:41 PM
Eh? People should never have sex?

You realise by doing that we'd be killing off the entire population...? :conf:

she wrote that 'many' should just stick to mags and videos. by many I presume she's referring to the multiple accounts of the notorius, MMAI. :)

Niamh.
06-03-2010, 07:41 PM
Never! Many should just stick to mags and videos - be a lot safer for them and the world in general!

:laugh2:

LewisMarvel
06-03-2010, 07:42 PM
I would say whenever you are ready,plus the person you're going to is as well and if you are taking it serious with talking about contraception and making the decisions.

Beastie
06-03-2010, 07:43 PM
i do hope you're joking

Course I am joking lol

Beastie
06-03-2010, 07:43 PM
Jamie Lynn was Nickolodean! ;)

Oh my mistake ;)

WOMBAI
06-03-2010, 07:44 PM
Eh? People should never have sex?

You realise by doing that we'd be killing off the entire population...? :conf:

I didn't say all, just many! :hugesmile:

Too many irresponsible people having sex without caring about the potential consequences! The world would be a better place, not least for the poor children that result, if they kept it between them and their mag! Not to mention - prevent the spread of all those nasty diseases!

Jack_
06-03-2010, 07:46 PM
by many I presume she's referring to the multiple accounts of the notorius, MMAI. :)

:joker:

I didn't say all, just many! :hugesmile:

Too many irresponsible people having sex without caring about the potential consequences! The world would be a better place, not least for the poor children that result, if they kept it between them and their mag!

Oh, I misinterpreted what you said, my mistake :blush:

Chels
06-03-2010, 07:52 PM
I think you need to get that bitch told :tongue:

will do
*gets my dad's knuckledusters* LOL

InOne
06-03-2010, 07:59 PM
will do
*gets my dad's knuckledusters* LOL

I like your style ;)

BGT-FAN!
06-03-2010, 08:30 PM
16 but use protection, no matter what age you are:P

So you are saying that the earth should not be repopulated?