View Full Version : Would you marry a smoker?
karezza
09-03-2010, 09:56 AM
Would you marry a smelly, filthy smoker & inflict stinking cigarette smoke on your children?
Crimson Dynamo
09-03-2010, 09:57 AM
Would you marry a smelly, filthy smoker & inflict stinking cigarette smoke on your children?
no
the same way I would not marry someone who stunk of BO or watched EastEnders.
WOMBAI
09-03-2010, 10:03 AM
Personally - no. It would be a big no, no for me!
If they smoked 20 a day, then no, but if it was a lot less than that, then I could probably accept that as long as I didn't have to breathe it in.
Claymores
09-03-2010, 11:01 AM
I'm giving up cigarettes at the moment - if you like partner, do not underestimate the addiction which is more pernicious than herion Presumably you never got together with a smelly smoker?
Niamh.
09-03-2010, 11:01 AM
Yes but then I am a smoker. Miraculously, I managed to find a man to marry me!
Claymores
09-03-2010, 11:06 AM
Yes but then I am a smoker. Miraculously, I managed to find a man to marry me!
I'm gasping at the mo - divorce him and geez a cig pal!
xDramatick
09-03-2010, 11:07 AM
If they smoked 20 a day, then no, but if it was a lot less than that, then I could probably accept that as long as I didn't have to breathe it in.
this.
my current bf used to smoke, especially when drunk. he gave up over a year ago and now only has the odd cigar or cigarette when drunk.
i'm fairly anti-smoking if i'm honest, i can't stand it.
i find it a huge turn off, so i couldn't get with anyone who smoked like a train, let alone marry one.
It depends,if there love smoking so much it stops you doing things then they will be married to the habbit and not you.
this.
my current bf used to smoke, especially when drunk. he gave up over a year ago and now only has the odd cigar or cigarette when drunk.
i'm fairly anti-smoking if i'm honest, i can't stand it.
i find it a huge turn off, so i couldn't get with anyone who smoked like a train, let alone marry one.
It's a weird one for me. I'm anti-smoking too. Hate the smell, hate the taste, but it turns me on, lol. I love seeing a sexy man or woman smoke.
Niamh.
09-03-2010, 11:10 AM
I'm gasping at the mo - divorce him and geez a cig pal!
haha, how long are you off them?
Claymores
09-03-2010, 11:11 AM
haha, how long are you off them?
4 weeks - not using patches but e-cig to come down off the nicotice
King Gizzard
09-03-2010, 11:11 AM
Its been the stumbling block with potential GF's before
Niamh.
09-03-2010, 11:15 AM
4 weeks - not using patches but e-cig to come down off the nicotice
e-cig? like the inhaler thingys? 4 weeks is about the longest I ever managed, It just seemed to get harder rather than easier!
Claymores
09-03-2010, 11:43 AM
e-cig? like the inhaler thingys? 4 weeks is about the longest I ever managed, It just seemed to get harder rather than easier!
E-cig is better than inhaler thing.......it looks like cig with something to play with in hand, but when inhale, the battery ignites the vaporiser, which gives a water vapour (not smoke) to lungs with nicotine hit.
It has no smell unlike cigs so used to use this when I went to non-smokers' houses instead of standing outside for one. Now I trying to quit using this full time instead of silly nicotice elastoplasts
Tom4784
09-03-2010, 11:44 AM
If I liked someone enough to marry them then I doubt smoking would impact that really.
Niamh.
09-03-2010, 11:45 AM
E-cig is better than inhaler thing.......it looks like cig with something to play with in hand, but when inhale, the battery ignites the vaporiser, which gives a vapour (not smoke) to lungs with nicotine hit.
It has no smell unlike cigs so used to use this when I went to non-smokers' houses instead of standing outside for one. Now I trying to quit using this full time instead of silly nicotice elastoplasts
I never heard of them, but the inhalers were the only thing that kept me going when I did try to give up. That sounds like the thing to try for me so the next time I give it a shot
Claymores
09-03-2010, 11:45 AM
If I liked someone enough to marry them then I doubt smoking would impact that really.
good answer
Claymores
09-03-2010, 11:48 AM
I never heard of them, but the inhalers were the only thing that kept me going when I did try to give up. That sounds like the thing to try for me so the next time I give it a shot
I'm doing fine Niam - except when out on the booze @ weekends and have taken 1 or 2 real fags outside pub from pals.
Niamh.
09-03-2010, 11:49 AM
I'm doing fine Niam - except when out on the booze @ weekends and have taken 1 or 2 real fags outside pub from pals.
Oh yeah, Will power almost disappears when you have a drink! They go together so well! Best of luck with it anyway, I know it's so hard
Claymores
09-03-2010, 11:50 AM
I never heard of them, but the inhalers were the only thing that kept me going when I did try to give up. That sounds like the thing to try for me so the next time I give it a shot
Divorce him and marry me - I'll nick yer cigs!:elephant::devil:
Niamh.
09-03-2010, 11:51 AM
Divorce him and marry me - I'll nick yer cigs!:elephant::devil:
haha, Stay Strong Claymores!!! I would only make you weak with my dirty ciggies!!!
InOne
09-03-2010, 11:54 AM
My Ex used to smoke, and I used to ask her for a cig when drunk and she'd say no :(
teamandre
09-03-2010, 11:56 AM
no i would never all thought i really like some who smokes so i gess i woulod have to put up with it
Claymores
09-03-2010, 12:00 PM
My Ex used to smoke, and I used to ask her for a cig when drunk and she'd say no :(
Good girl - I didn't have cig until 19 (many moons ago!) - at time in 1980s I was about one of the blokes who didn't smoke. My ex and her pals all did and we'd go out in 4-some to night out and she'd make me smoke with the other couple!!!!!
Plan was only to ever do this at weekends but here I am many years later trying to give-up!
InOne
09-03-2010, 12:02 PM
Good girl - I didn't have cig until 19 (many moons ago!) - at time in 1980s I was about one of the blokes who didn't smoke. My ex and her pals we'd go out in 4-some to night out and she'd make me smoke with the other couple!!!!!
Plan was only to ever do this at weekends but here I am many years later trying to give-up!
Yeah I know what you mean, she only knew I was asking cos I was drunk and people do that. She didn't really like it herself. I was never one to give into the peer pressure of smoking and that. It does not really agree with me tbh, just makes me feel sick and want to gip, especially with weed. I'm more of a drinker lol
karezza
09-03-2010, 12:12 PM
How could anyone marry someone who coughs and spits constantly, who would deprive their children of food in order to buy cigarettes.
Niamh.
09-03-2010, 12:25 PM
How could anyone marry someone who coughs and spits constantly, who would deprive their children of food in order to buy cigarettes.
Oh Christ give me strength.................
How could anyone marry someone who coughs and spits constantly, who would deprive their children of food in order to buy cigarettes.
Well I don't want children so I guess that wouldn't matter to me. :)
Crimson Dynamo
09-03-2010, 12:48 PM
Oh Christ give me strength.................
hang on
you were just calling him a mass murderer in the other thread. I cant see this request being granted.
Niamh.
09-03-2010, 12:51 PM
hang on
you were just calling him a mass murderer in the other thread. I cant see this request being granted.
lol, he'll forgive I just know it! alright then how about I change it to "Oh, LT give me strength!!"
Claymores
09-03-2010, 12:59 PM
How could anyone marry someone who coughs and spits constantly, who would deprive their children of food in order to buy cigarettes.
Geez a smokey kiss twotface
Claymores
09-03-2010, 01:02 PM
hang on
you were just calling him a mass murderer in the other thread. I cant see this request being granted.
G
o spot some more Jumbos or defrost us an Iceland pizza - what would the Church Committee have to say Gavin?
Iceman
09-03-2010, 01:04 PM
ye of course i would, in fact i reckon i might just blow smoke in the kids faces all day long.......this is a joke to be honest.......
Ramsay
09-03-2010, 01:08 PM
Yeah
if i like them enough why would if they smoke make a difference
WOMBAI
09-03-2010, 01:16 PM
Because for a non-smoker - the stink of an old ashtray is very unpleasant! To put up with that 24/7 would be too much! Not to mention any associated health risks - if that person is going to want to be smoking around you!
arista
09-03-2010, 01:21 PM
Would you marry a smelly, filthy smoker & inflict stinking cigarette smoke on your children?
No.
arista
09-03-2010, 01:22 PM
Because for a non-smoker - the stink of an old ashtray is very unpleasant! To put up with that 24/7 would be too much! Not to mention any associated health risks - if that person is going to want to be smoking around you!
Yes and Smoke even stains CD cases.
Smokers are wrong to smoke near non smokers.
Vicky.
09-03-2010, 01:24 PM
I smoke, so yeah...no problem.
And I would never deprive my kids of food so I could buy cigarettes :rolleyes:
Crimson Dynamo
09-03-2010, 01:42 PM
Yes and Smoke even stains CD cases.
Smokers are wrong to smoke near non smokers.
I deal on occassions with items that have spent many years in the homes of smokers and they have a thick layer of yellow tar on them that is hard to clean off (clocks, paintings). One can only imagine what the lungs looked like if this was smoke that had been inhaled, blown out into a much larger area and then settled on a surface.
Smokers live in a fantasy world
Claymores
09-03-2010, 01:52 PM
I deal on occassions with items that have spent many years in the homes of smokers and they have a thick layer of yellow tar on them that is hard to clean off (clocks, paintings). One can only imagine what the lungs looked like if this was smoke that had been inhaled, blown out into a much larger area and then settled on a surface.
Smokers live in a fantasy world
That is a wow in the deep deep deep Highlands - what would the Church say of that Gavin? How do you IP thinggs again president?
Claymores
09-03-2010, 01:56 PM
I smoke, so yeah...no problem.
And I would never deprive my kids of food so I could buy cigarettes :rolleyes:
Stop smoking Vicks - get e-cig to help - I'm trying
Vicky.
09-03-2010, 01:57 PM
Stop smoking Vicks - get e-cig to help - I'm trying
Ive stopped before, and put on like 2 stone.
Started again and lost it.
If I dont smoke, I feel like murdering people...
Niamh.
09-03-2010, 01:59 PM
Ive stopped before, and put on like 2 stone.
Started again and lost it.
If I dont smoke, I feel like murdering people...
I know that feeling
Crimson Dynamo
09-03-2010, 02:09 PM
Ive stopped before, and put on like 2 stone.
Started again and lost it.
If I dont smoke, I feel like murdering people...
have you considered religion?
Vicky.
09-03-2010, 02:11 PM
have you considered religion?
Why? So I could justify murdering people? No.
Crimson Dynamo
09-03-2010, 02:18 PM
Why? So I could justify murdering people? No.
That and free wine
Claymores
09-03-2010, 02:27 PM
Ive stopped before, and put on like 2 stone.
Started again and lost it.
If I dont smoke, I feel like murdering people...
Try murdering Leather or Gavin if still like Presisent.
More seriously- I hove done 4 weeks and still 11 stone - when go out for a drink is hard
Yry ecig instead of patches or gum
Claymores
09-03-2010, 02:31 PM
That and free wine
Anda jumbos over Highlands President? Go to Iceland to see Kerry?
bbfan1991
09-03-2010, 02:32 PM
Never ever!:joker:.
Stacey.
09-03-2010, 04:53 PM
yeah i would. i would prefer not, but if you love someone, is smoking a serious matter?
things like that dont bother me all that much. :)
Crimson Dynamo
09-03-2010, 04:58 PM
yeah i would. i would prefer not, but if you love someone, is smoking a serious matter?
things like that dont bother me all that much. :)
it would after a short while. your olfactory glands have a pretty big union presence
Captain.Remy
09-03-2010, 04:58 PM
I'm a smoker so it wouldn't bother me to marry a girl who smokes. Not in front of the children tho because that is disgusting. If we have children, we'd smoke outside, just like I do at home. I'm a "nice" smoker, not a selfish one.
Ninastar
09-03-2010, 05:03 PM
Yeah but aslong as the smoked outside. Esp if there was kids around.
If you love someone why would you stop loving them for something so trivial when compared to actual love?
A : Because the question aims to discredit smokers as being unmarriable beings.
Don't worry, if you don't like smokers I doubt your going to go all the way and start questioning it the day of the marriage. So in that respect the question is a bit ...
... yeah. You get the idea.
Patrick
09-03-2010, 05:04 PM
I just found out a girl I love in school, smokes.
Im so annoyed and shocked at it so marry? Hell no.
Crimson Dynamo
09-03-2010, 05:07 PM
Women who continue to smoke into their 30s have a horrid grey pallor to their skin so sexually it would be a no no so you have to think on when you decide to marry someone.
Also it ruins your ability to conceive
it is a no on many levels
Claymores
09-03-2010, 05:15 PM
Women who continue to smoke into their 30s have a horrid grey pallor to their skin so sexually it would be a no no so you have to think on when you decide to marry someone.
Also it ruins your ability to conceive
it is a no on many levels
Do they have visions over the Highlands of white milatary jumbos too going to see Kerry?
Harry!
09-03-2010, 05:16 PM
No smoking is a big turn off for me. I even dont like my dad much because he smokes.
Firewire
09-03-2010, 05:17 PM
Depends how much they smoked.
If they smoked a few a day and smoked outside then I'd be fine.
But I couldn't stand my house smelling like smoke.
Claymores
09-03-2010, 05:17 PM
Going for frozen pizzas 9/11 in Inverness or what ?
Barbie
09-03-2010, 05:17 PM
No, there's no consideration, i wouldnt even date someone if i knew they smoked
arista
09-03-2010, 05:18 PM
Ive stopped before, and put on like 2 stone.
Started again and lost it.
If I dont smoke, I feel like murdering people...
Stop Smoking Again
Have more Sex to keep the Body Firm.
Princess
09-03-2010, 05:19 PM
You can't just not marry someone cos they smoke. What if they're like The One,you can't choose who you fall in love with.
Callum
09-03-2010, 05:19 PM
I know it's ignorant but I probably wouldn't no, I can't stand the smell of it and I hate what it does to your body.
Claymores
09-03-2010, 05:20 PM
No smoking is a big turn off for me. I even dont like my dad much because he smokes.
Super - and you just pinch the lecki/gas bills too and pay them - good kid
Shaun
09-03-2010, 05:21 PM
Yes, I would.
Not that big a deal.
Claymores
09-03-2010, 05:22 PM
No, there's no consideration, i wouldnt even date someone if i knew they smoked
guess a shag is out of the question honey?
Harry!
09-03-2010, 05:22 PM
Super - and you just pinch the lecki/gas bills too and pay them - good kid
My mum/dad pays the bills too! I am 15 years old btw.
Claymores
09-03-2010, 05:24 PM
My mum/dad pays the bills too! I am 15 years old btw.
Super:thumbs: all is free - allow adults to do what they do
Jayson
09-03-2010, 05:25 PM
Yeah, I don't see it as a big deal.
Claymores
09-03-2010, 05:33 PM
I'm a smoker so it wouldn't bother me to marry a girl who smokes. Not in front of the children tho because that is disgusting. If we have children, we'd smoke outside, just like I do at home. I'm a "nice" smoker, not a selfish one.
Top class - I tried never to smoke in other people's company even in my own house - now I'm trying to stop completely
Jords
09-03-2010, 05:36 PM
Why not?
Love is not about what they put in their mouth.
Jack_
09-03-2010, 05:39 PM
Love is not about what they put in their mouth.
Erm...
To answer the question, yes. It doesn't bother me.
Captain.Remy
09-03-2010, 05:47 PM
Top class - I tried never to smoke in other people's company even in my own house - now I'm trying to stop completely
Only my dad and I are smokers so we smoke outside not to annoy my mum and sister (yet she smokes but my parents don't know that). I don't smoke around my nephew and my niece. I can't, it doesn't feel right.
Barbie
09-03-2010, 05:57 PM
guess a shag is out of the question honey?
Even thought you put it so beautifully its still a no. :nono:
GypsyGoth
09-03-2010, 06:32 PM
Well I can't see myself marrying, but I would have a partner who smoked.
Captain.Remy
09-03-2010, 06:49 PM
Even thought you put it so beautifully its still a no. :nono:
Not even a blow job ? Hand job at least ?
Jords
09-03-2010, 06:59 PM
Lmao Jack.
But saying that I much rather they didnt smoke.
Chels
09-03-2010, 07:01 PM
Erm...
To answer the question, yes. It doesn't bother me.
:joker:
Barbie
09-03-2010, 07:01 PM
Not even a blow job ? Hand job at least ?
:shocked: i cant believe you said that,
use your own hand if you are a smoker ;)
Smithy
09-03-2010, 07:01 PM
I'd probably be able to make them change ;)
So it'd all be good.
InOne
09-03-2010, 07:59 PM
Well I can't see myself marrying, but I would have a partner who smoked.
Awwwww, i'll marry you ;)
GypsyGoth
09-03-2010, 08:43 PM
Awwwww, i'll marry you ;)
WooooHooooo! :dance:
Claymores
09-03-2010, 10:03 PM
:joker:
Oh puke - that pig chels has come along - where is vomit bucket for the pic?
Claymores
09-03-2010, 10:06 PM
:joker:
Bowlcut chels R Us is Welshieland?
Claymores
09-03-2010, 10:10 PM
Even thought you put it so beautifully its still a no. :nono:
Even though you spell it wrongly kiddo?
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