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Patrick
20-05-2010, 05:01 PM
I was talking to this girl today and all week I have been trying to ask her out but my friends and her friends kept interfering with that.

Today I just went for it, walked up to her and her sisters.. and well tried to ask her out but her sister kept talking over me and her, I spoke to her other sister for abit while the other one whispered somthing to the girl I like..

Then the girl I like was like 'Um no' and I said 'Okay then..' and she just said 'Right then..' and it was really awkward.

But the whole point was I wanted to get her away from her sisters and my friends who are annoying, Hasnt gone to plan though.

She use to like me, she would stand up for me when people were bullying me and she use to chat to me alot but lately I've been in a bad mood with everyone at school and have snapped alot and changed my personality towards others.

She has seen this and now judging by the look in her face, shes went off me.

The only reason I have an 'attitude' now is because of the way others have been with me, I have nothing against her though and I think she now thinks im a dick and she doesnt know how much I like her so my friend told me to like write her a note telling her how much I like her and apologize for the fact shes seen me being a bastard to everyone lately.

Question about this note guys..


If I write it and give her it, how will I do this in a non scary way?

We do not have lockers in our school, I dont walk home with her and shes always with other girls who dont really like me.

So how do I get this note to her?

I mean I was thinking of going up to her tomorrow afternoon and asking to speak to her alone for abit and just give her the note.

But most girls run back to her friends and read the note, and I dont want to go to personal in it incase she shows everyone or her sister sees it.

So do you reckon if I tell her like not to show anyone and to please read it when she gets home or go some place private, and then to tell me on Monday or later in school, what she thought of it..

Would that be a good idea?

I just need a little bit of advice now, This Note thing was the last thing I wanted it to come to but im running out of time now.

MrGaryy
20-05-2010, 05:09 PM
I'm telling you right now, she will show that note to her friends. I know teenage girls very well, I've been best friends with a million of them, and no doubt, she will show people that note. So don't go too personal.

as for giving it to her, just pass it to her in class, people pass notes all the time so nobody will think anything of it.

Shaun
20-05-2010, 05:11 PM
Poison her lunch and offer her the antidote only if she'll go out with you.

Enid
20-05-2010, 05:12 PM
Notes are for kids. It may seem "sweet" but a girl wants a guy with balls. Just tell her you need a word, pull her aside from her friends and tell her.

ILoveTRW
20-05-2010, 05:14 PM
Poison her lunch and offer her the antidote only if she'll go out with you.

or he could just slip some xanax into he lunch and rape her

Patrick
20-05-2010, 05:21 PM
Notes are for kids. It may seem "sweet" but a girl wants a guy with balls. Just tell her you need a word, pull her aside from her friends and tell her.

Yeah suppose, I mean I dont want to do this note thing I think its freaky but theres alot I want to say and I dont think I can get her away from her friends for more than like a minute LOL.


I'm telling you right now, she will show that note to her friends. I know teenage girls very well, I've been best friends with a million of them, and no doubt, she will show people that note. So don't go too personal.

as for giving it to her, just pass it to her in class, people pass notes all the time so nobody will think anything of it.

Ah Damn :(
Okay thanks for the tip then, I wont say too much.

xDramatick
20-05-2010, 05:47 PM
Notes are for kids. It may seem "sweet" but a girl wants a guy with balls. Just tell her you need a word, pull her aside from her friends and tell her.

this is what i'd do.

DigitalSid
20-05-2010, 06:15 PM
Wouldn't go down the note route, do you think she likes you back? Do you get on?

ChristmasNeeve
20-05-2010, 07:07 PM
Notes are for kids. It may seem "sweet" but a girl wants a guy with balls. Just tell her you need a word, pull her aside from her friends and tell her.

this ^^^ Dont write a note Paddy

Locke.
22-05-2010, 04:41 AM
Get some spray paint and spray paint what you want to say over the entrance to the school. You'll have her eating out the palms of your hands in no time.