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iRyan
18-06-2010, 02:02 AM
Every guy except Steve and Nathan is constantly laying on each other and kissing each other goodnight, it's getting really weird.....DAVE is doing it the most.

vesavius
18-06-2010, 02:03 AM
whys it weird?

arsenalforever
18-06-2010, 02:04 AM
they want man love brokeback style

headaball
18-06-2010, 02:04 AM
They're just comfortable around each other. I think it makes a nice change tbh.

arsenalforever
18-06-2010, 02:05 AM
They're just comfortable around each other. I think it makes a nice change tbh.

yep sadly its forbidden on these forums

chauncey
18-06-2010, 02:06 AM
Every guy except Steve and Nathan is constantly laying on each other and kissing each other goodnight, it's getting really weird.....DAVE is doing it the most.

Let me just say I love your *stunning* artwork,haha


I think they do it to let out sexual frustration,they need some kind of outlet since the girls are off limits because some of the boys might not fancy any of the girls in there(unlikely),Dave is married,(remember him nominating Rach cause she shows flesh),some of the girls are in relationships,and they are pretending to hate the other girls in there because their little egos have been dented by them.

No girl love = increased manlove

paper-cut-exit
18-06-2010, 02:27 AM
Because they all want to bum each other.

arsenalforever
18-06-2010, 02:28 AM
Because they all want to bum each other.

get out the vaseline

chauncey
18-06-2010, 02:33 AM
Because they all want to bum each other.

yeah and that.
:elephant:

paper-cut-exit
18-06-2010, 02:41 AM
Seriously tho, i'd be mortified if my dad went on live TV and sat with his arm around the gay guy while holding his hand... then cuddled up with him in bed etc. (like dave does)

There's a certain line you don't cross if you don't wanna be perceived to have gay/bi tendencies.

Laying in bed cuddling and stroking each others hair etc. crosses that line imo.

arsenalforever
18-06-2010, 02:43 AM
Seriously tho, i'd be mortified if my dad went on live TV and sat with his arm around the gay guy while holding his hand... then cuddled up with him in bed etc. (like dave does)

There's a certain line you don't cross if you don't wanna be perceived to have gay/bi tendencies.

Laying in bed cuddling and stroking each others hair etc. crosses that line imo.

:joker: daddy likes his little boys

Jessica.
18-06-2010, 02:47 AM
Seriously tho, i'd be mortified if my dad went on live TV and sat with his arm around the gay guy while holding his hand... then cuddled up with him in bed etc. (like dave does)

There's a certain line you don't cross if you don't wanna be perceived to have gay/bi tendencies.

Laying in bed cuddling and stroking each others hair etc. crosses that line imo.

:joker::joker:

Bigbrofan25
18-06-2010, 03:34 AM
Every guy except Steve and Nathan is constantly laying on each other and kissing each other goodnight, it's getting really weird.....DAVE is doing it the most.

You are such an homophobic pr*k coming out with language like that

Can you please explain to me why You have a problem with guys showing each other some kind of affection with one another

Is it because You don`t think its normal? well my advise is this get with the 21st century its no longer against the law for guys to show affection its legal they are not hurting anyone else and if you find it strange or if you personally don`t like it thats just your problem

As far as I am concerned being homophobic is just has bad as being racist against black people and sexist against the other gender

And before you call me part of the PC brigade May I remind you that its not just a Politically correct requirement either its also becoming very anti social and offensive

Yes you are allowed to air your views and state you don`t like gay people or men touching etc but what you are not allowed to do is force outdated views on the rest

I am glad to see guys finally both straight and Gay show affection in public its now normal

eye sea
18-06-2010, 03:58 AM
Every guy except Steve and Nathan is constantly laying on each other and kissing each other goodnight, it's getting really weird.....DAVE is doing it the most.

I agree. That would be far too gay for me to handle. Especially when they lie back on each other and the one above drapes his 'loving' arms over the shoulders below.:nono:

LiquidGold
18-06-2010, 04:00 AM
Every guy except Steve and Nathan is constantly laying on each other and kissing each other goodnight, it's getting really weird.....DAVE is doing it the most.

whats weird is t wat john is acting gay! him and govan are always layed super close to eachother like lovers!!!!!!! :laugh3:

LiquidGold
18-06-2010, 04:02 AM
You are such an homophobic pr*k coming out with language like that

Can you please explain to me why You have a problem with guys showing each other some kind of affection with one another

Is it because You don`t think its normal? well my advise is this get with the 21st century its no longer against the law for guys to show affection its legal they are not hurting anyone else and if you find it strange or if you personally don`t like it thats just your problem

As far as I am concerned being homophobic is just has bad as being racist against black people and sexist against the other gender

And before you call me part of the PC brigade May I remind you that its not just a Politically correct requirement either its also becoming very anti social and offensive

Yes you are allowed to air your views and state you don`t like gay people or men touching etc but what you are not allowed to do is force outdated views on the rest

I am glad to see guys finally both straight and Gay show affection in public its now normal

i was wondering when homophobia would be accused :sleep::joker:

iRyan
18-06-2010, 04:26 AM
You are such an homophobic pr*k coming out with language like that

Can you please explain to me why You have a problem with guys showing each other some kind of affection with one another

Is it because You don`t think its normal? well my advise is this get with the 21st century its no longer against the law for guys to show affection its legal they are not hurting anyone else and if you find it strange or if you personally don`t like it thats just your problem

As far as I am concerned being homophobic is just has bad as being racist against black people and sexist against the other gender

And before you call me part of the PC brigade May I remind you that its not just a Politically correct requirement either its also becoming very anti social and offensive

Yes you are allowed to air your views and state you don`t like gay people or men touching etc but what you are not allowed to do is force outdated views on the rest

I am glad to see guys finally both straight and Gay show affection in public its now normal

I'm not homophobic at all, so don't even make that assumption about me when you don't know me. I just think it's weird seeing gay and straight guys practically cudding each other. How is that being homophobic? I'm not saying it's bad, it's just a little odd.

iRyan
18-06-2010, 04:28 AM
whats weird is t wat john is acting gay! him and govan are always layed super close to eachother like lovers!!!!!!! :laugh3:

JJ is really affectionate with the other guys.

billy123
18-06-2010, 04:41 AM
You are such an homophobic pr*k coming out with language like that

Can you please explain to me why You have a problem with guys showing each other some kind of affection with one another

Is it because You don`t think its normal? well my advise is this get with the 21st century its no longer against the law for guys to show affection its legal they are not hurting anyone else and if you find it strange or if you personally don`t like it thats just your problem

As far as I am concerned being homophobic is just has bad as being racist against black people and sexist against the other gender

And before you call me part of the PC brigade May I remind you that its not just a Politically correct requirement either its also becoming very anti social and offensive

Yes you are allowed to air your views and state you don`t like gay people or men touching etc but what you are not allowed to do is force outdated views on the rest

I am glad to see guys finally both straight and Gay show affection in public its now normali think your over reacting with this post you know im a live n let live kind of guy but you are infringing other peoples rights to air their views you even admit yourself in this post " Yes you are allowed to air your views" but you then in your very next sentence say " what you are not allowed to do is force outdated views on the rest"
that doesnt make sense nor is it correct.
im as liberal as people come and being liberal means i can see when the hunted becomes the hunter dont attack other peoples views unnecessarily there is a balance to be found as much as you have a right to your opinion so do other people.

not having a go at you bigbrofan25 its just how i am il defend anybodys right to do what they want and believe what they want. :thumbs:

Captain.Remy
18-06-2010, 05:07 AM
Well, 3 of them are gay (Mario, Ben and Govan), Dave is bi-bi, John James thinks he's hot for women but also men so he's playing on it.

Tenantry
18-06-2010, 06:14 AM
Ben is gay, I thought he said to Mario he was straight.

Angus
18-06-2010, 06:20 AM
I'm not homophobic at all, so don't even make that assumption about me when you don't know me. I just think it's weird seeing gay and straight guys practically cudding each other. How is that being homophobic? I'm not saying it's bad, it's just a little odd.

I would say its enlightened - its refreshing to see guys in touch with their feelings and not afraid to show affection for fear of being labelled weird, odd or gay.

discotheque
18-06-2010, 06:21 AM
Steve will be snuggling up with them next. :eek:

Angus
18-06-2010, 06:24 AM
Well, 3 of them are gay (Mario, Ben and Govan), Dave is bi-bi, John James thinks he's hot for women but also men so he's playing on it.

Ben is NOT gay, although I know that he has had threesomes in the past, so perhaps he could be up to experiment. If so, so what? However, what I take issue with is the assumption by many that any kind of physical contact between males HAS to be seen as sexual instead of just genuine affection.

Julie10
18-06-2010, 07:13 AM
If the girls were snuggling up with each other no one would probably think anything about it but for some reason when guys get affectionate people are very uncomfortable with it.
I am glad the guys in the house aren't bothered about doing what they want and about being labelled gay.

hels.a
18-06-2010, 07:59 AM
Isn't it cute tho.A bunch of big softies this year.

Crimson Dynamo
18-06-2010, 08:07 AM
it is not nice to watch. agreed

KMD
18-06-2010, 08:26 AM
Ben and Mario is cute but Dave doing does not seem genuine like he's jumping on the band wagon to try and imbed himself better in a group

AngelChair
18-06-2010, 08:47 AM
Women are naturally more affectionate, so its not that strange to see them all over each other. Men however are conventionally more aloof.

Saying that, i like the fact that they are comfortable and snuggling up to one another, its refreshing!

eye sea
18-06-2010, 09:02 AM
If the girls were snuggling up with each other no one would probably think anything about it...

I would!!!!:joker:

*mazedsalv**
18-06-2010, 09:16 AM
These man hugs and kisses always happen on italian BB but didnt expect it to happen here, because i had a general feeling that all men on BBUK would want to be seen as Macho, but I'm quite suprised how close they have all become.

camertone
18-06-2010, 09:32 AM
because ben, govan, dave are gay!

ben and govan are super gay, a lot gayer than mario!

Captain.Remy
18-06-2010, 05:14 PM
These man hugs and kisses always happen on italian BB but didnt expect it to happen here, because i had a general feeling that all men on BBUK would want to be seen as Macho, but I'm quite suprised how close they have all become.

That's in the Italian culture you and I know quite perfectly. I don't think you can compare the two of them.

Anyway, I'm not judging them, they're doing what they want but it's obvious they want to jump on each other. Ben and Govan aren't very convincing when they're saying they're straight. Gimme a break.

Shasown
18-06-2010, 05:36 PM
Think about it, when rachel tried to score Brownie points off Dave she mentioned gay marriages, so to prove its simply a church ruling and not his own personal homophobia Dave is overcompensating by being affectionate and close with the other men.

There is also the possibility that its the excuse for the others too, you would have to decide that after considering when the closeness came into being. It could also be a reaction to seeing the girls close ranks and bathing together etc.

Fetch The Bolt Cutters
18-06-2010, 05:38 PM
last night on the hl show govan had his head resting on JJs lap (jealous!) and i swear if he got any closer JJs cock would have been in his ear

*mazedsalv**
18-06-2010, 06:20 PM
That's in the Italian culture you and I know quite perfectly. I don't think you can compare the two of them.

Anyway, I'm not judging them, they're doing what they want but it's obvious they want to jump on each other. Ben and Govan aren't very convincing when they're saying they're straight. Gimme a break.

Thats what I mean, no one would make any notice if males do it over there as its normal male bonding, here people are like "WTF is going on here?"

Alpertinator
18-06-2010, 06:24 PM
It freaks me out to be honest. I mean Ben seems like a great guy and I reckon I'd get on with him really well, but I can't be havin' guys lying with their arm around me or anythin'. Also I don't do man hugs. So yeah, it's the kind of thing I never do with my friends.

Bigbrofan25
18-06-2010, 06:28 PM
It freaks me out to be honest. I mean Ben seems like a great guy and I reckon I'd get on with him really well, but I can't be havin' guys lying with their arm around me or anythin'. Also I don't do man hugs. So yeah, it's the kind of thing I never do with my friends.

so you are saying its wrong then you are an homophobe

Bigbrofan25
18-06-2010, 06:30 PM
I'm not homophobic at all, so don't even make that assumption about me when you don't know me. I just think it's weird seeing gay and straight guys practically cudding each other. How is that being homophobic? I'm not saying it's bad, it's just a little odd.

It is homophobic pure and simple you are saying that straight men shouldn`t mix with gay men

Its like saying black people shouldn`t mix with white people that would be racism

Lostie!
18-06-2010, 06:35 PM
It's refreshing to see that instead of the clichéd "We're MEN, we don't show affection!".

And anyway, it's especially refreshing for a bisexual guy :eek: :D

paper-cut-exit
18-06-2010, 06:37 PM
It is homophobic pure and simple you are saying that straight men shouldn`t mix with gay men

Its like saying black people shouldn`t mix with white people that would be racism

Where did he say that straight men shouldn't mix with gay men lol, you need to stop putting words in peoples mouths dude.

Lostie!
18-06-2010, 06:39 PM
it is not nice to watch. agreed

It's not nice to watch? Wow, you need to come to the 21st Century, the cavemen aren't around anymore ;)

Bigbrofan25
18-06-2010, 06:43 PM
Where did he say that straight men shouldn't mix with gay men lol, you need to stop putting words in peoples mouths dude.

I am not putting words in anyones mouth Its how this post comes across and how it was put

And don`t come moaning at me just because I am standing against bigots

paper-cut-exit
18-06-2010, 06:47 PM
I am not putting words in anyones mouth Its how this post comes across and how it was put

And don`t come moaning at me just because I am standing against bigots

Your misinterpreting his posts dude

And your the one that's moaning... and dying to pin the homophobic badge on someone.

Bigbrofan25
18-06-2010, 06:50 PM
This is post should be removed full stop

Bigbrofan25
18-06-2010, 06:52 PM
Your misinterpreting his posts dude

And your the one that's moaning... and dying to pin the homophobic badge on someone.

Just get with the 21st century I have nothing else to say to you sorry

paper-cut-exit
18-06-2010, 06:53 PM
i live in the 21st century, but whatever dude :sleep:

BB_Eye
18-06-2010, 06:53 PM
Seriously tho, i'd be mortified if my dad went on live TV and sat with his arm around the gay guy while holding his hand... then cuddled up with him in bed etc. (like dave does)

There's a certain line you don't cross if you don't wanna be perceived to have gay/bi tendencies.

Laying in bed cuddling and stroking each others hair etc. crosses that line imo.

Lol, people's reactions to this are so British. It's not exactly conventional, but it's harmless and lets face it, the women do it too.

paper-cut-exit
18-06-2010, 06:55 PM
Maybe not so harmless to his kids tho huh, that's the point i was trying to make.

Beastie
18-06-2010, 06:57 PM
I find it adorable watching Dave, Ben and Mario snuggling up <3

Bigbrofan25
18-06-2010, 06:57 PM
i live in the 21st century, but whatever dude :sleep:

sure you do:sleep::sleep::sleep::sleep:

paper-cut-exit
18-06-2010, 07:04 PM
Why don't you go make a thread about it troll. Oh wait........ lol

doive1231
18-06-2010, 09:15 PM
I've noticed the tendancy for guys in the house to paint their nails etc. It must be a very isolating environment that allows guys to act gay!

pixee
18-06-2010, 09:18 PM
It isn't about being called gay it isn't a ****ing commune. At one point Ben was rubbing daves arm on LF, wtf man, petting each other like weirdos.

If you want to **** **** but come on

Alpertinator
18-06-2010, 09:19 PM
What the hech Bigbrofan25 you state that I am homophobic because I feel uncomfortable with intense brotherly love? Sometimes at college a few of my male friends would come up and put there hand/hands on my shoulders that's all right I'm cool with that, but I was simply being honest about how I couldn't be like Dave is and like Ben is like with each other and Mario. I actually like gay guys when they're not like stereo-typical Alan Carr gay which is insufferable. Regular gay guys like Mario. They tend to be calm and laid back, warm. Nice guys. I can't stan Alan Carr though he's insufferable and he's vulgar.