View Full Version : What has ben actually done?
Noots
24-06-2010, 08:48 PM
I'm not following this conversation much.
They all seem to be bullying ben abit but what's he actually done to deserve it?
Not alot I think.
King Gizzard
24-06-2010, 08:49 PM
Not alot indeed
He's just a scapegoat, they all do the same as him but because he's posh it makes him sound more malicious
pixee
24-06-2010, 08:50 PM
Come on they saw he was weak and sunshine quite innocently felt reet offended cause she is that type that does and SOMEHOW they have managed to turn it round to be Ben to blame???
Wtf? It was the first week, when it all kicked off i thought he must have done this last week and i'd forgot.
Quite unfair, was starting to like JJ a little and even put up with shabby's clan but this is unfair tbh.
SocietyIsRuined
24-06-2010, 08:54 PM
I think John James tries to get out the person he wants out each week. He did it with Rachel and now he's doing it with Ben. Great gameplaying from the Aussie and he's very camera aware in there.
Noots
24-06-2010, 08:54 PM
and now BB is about to make it worse by punishing him for talking about noms.
Shiner
24-06-2010, 08:59 PM
I hope BB give Ben plenty additional mental support in the diary room, as some house mates are simply trying to break him.
pixee
24-06-2010, 09:00 PM
I hope BB give Ben plenty additional mental support in the diary room, as some house mates are simply trying to break him.
I don't like it tbh he needs to stop letting people speak and shout over them because he is getting setup for nom here by been too diplomatic.
JAJ1942
24-06-2010, 09:02 PM
A lot of double standards going on in that house this year, they all talk about nominations but somehow manage to blame that poor idiot everytime and he always seems to accept responsibility instead of throwing it back at them. I really hope Govan goes this week at least one of the nasties will be out.
teeeny
24-06-2010, 09:02 PM
he shouldt have had to explain his nominations to anyone. He has a right to vote for anyone he wants just like the rest of them as long as he can give a valid reason, so what if it was tatical or he's playing a game his choice
Jords
24-06-2010, 09:04 PM
He is a bit of a stirrer tbh, I did really like him but now not so much.
And they kicked off because he nominated Sunshine because she is his friend and even though it was only the first week he did openly admit he didnt like others so was 2 faced to nominate her.. And he hammers on about being loyal when he wasnt himself.
fingers
24-06-2010, 09:05 PM
That HL show was cut to ratSh!t they showed hardly any of the Ben bashing by his socalled friends, and Scabby and co. get away with losing the £500 food budget while they pile ALL of the blame on Ben and his (1 of 9) nomination of Scumshine
Braden
24-06-2010, 09:05 PM
The housemates target him way to much :|
King Gizzard
24-06-2010, 09:07 PM
Don't forget his nomination came right after they had a pathetic argument on Sunshines part. He was right to nominate her
pixee
24-06-2010, 09:08 PM
He is weak. IT WAS FIRST WEEK you have to vote someone, yeah such good friends after a few days everyone picks stupid reasons.
They lose the task and still no one can explain to me why Shabby, Ify, JJ and Caoimhe got completely away with it.
They were outraged as BB was telling the house like how dare BB and that BB had got it wrong yet BB quoted them.
I'm not an uber ben fan just this is a nice idiot been taken apart.
bansheewails
24-06-2010, 09:09 PM
i feel that Ben brings a lot of it on himself. He just doesn't know when to shut up, unfortunately he likes the sounds of his own voice so much that he shoots himself in the foot. He needs to start thinking before he opens his mouth and being more careful to whom he says it to.
fingers
24-06-2010, 09:10 PM
And he STILL regards that illiterate Aussie Turd as his friend after the absolute bastard he was on the LF (cut from HL)
Jords
24-06-2010, 09:10 PM
i feel that Ben brings a lot of it on himself. He just doesn't know when to shut up, unfortunately he likes the sounds of his own voice so much that he shoots himself in the foot. He needs to start thinking before he opens his mouth and being more careful to whom he says it to.
This, he is constantly gossiping now and people will (and indeed have) get tired of it.
starry
24-06-2010, 09:11 PM
I'm not following this conversation much.
They all seem to be bullying ben abit but what's he actually done to deserve it?
Not alot I think.
Ben has been bitching about HMs behind their backs (including even friends like Sunshine) throughout this series, they just haven't shown much of it on the HLs. He is quite conceited and is passive-aggressive and tries to make himself into a victim. He twists what people have said in his bitching as well and projects his own faults onto others (he interrupts people, he is over sensitive etc).
fingers
24-06-2010, 09:12 PM
This, he is constantly gossiping now and people will (and indeed have) get tired of it.
It is really confusing to put "This," at the start of every post.
sl3ptsolong
24-06-2010, 09:14 PM
I think John James tries to get out the person he wants out each week. He did it with Rachel and now he's doing it with Ben. Great gameplaying from the Aussie and he's very camera aware in there.
Camera aware? If he was camera aware he wouldnt be bullying people in the house.
Jords
24-06-2010, 09:14 PM
It is really confusing to put "This," at the start of every post.
Not really, and I dont.
fingers
24-06-2010, 09:14 PM
Ben has been bitching about HMs behind their backs (including even friends like Sunshine) throughout this series, they just haven't shown much of it on the HLs. He is quite conceited and is passive-aggressive and tries to make himself into a victim. He twists what people have said in his bitching as well and projects his own faults onto others (he interrupts people, he is over sensitive etc).
I guess you REALLY believe the crap that you have been posting about him?:wavey:
chuff me dizzy
24-06-2010, 09:16 PM
he was used as the "patsy/scapegoat" JJ was embarressed to have been caught out discussing nominations and diverted his guilt into Ben
fingers
24-06-2010, 09:16 PM
Not really, and I dont.
I must need new specs.:elephant:
sl3ptsolong
24-06-2010, 09:17 PM
i feel that Ben brings a lot of it on himself. He just doesn't know when to shut up, unfortunately he likes the sounds of his own voice so much that he shoots himself in the foot. He needs to start thinking before he opens his mouth and being more careful to whom he says it to.
You're kidding right? He's done NOTHING wrong. He's getting stick for nominating... everybody does it. How can you avoid attacks like that?
fingers
24-06-2010, 09:17 PM
he was used as the "patsy/scapegoat" JJ was embarressed to have been caught out discussing nominations and diverted his guilt into Ben
You'll never convince these haters of that!:joker:
Jords
24-06-2010, 09:18 PM
he was used as the "patsy/scapegoat" JJ was embarressed to have been caught out discussing nominations and diverted his guilt into Ben
But he didnt care that Ben also spoke about nominations, he was annoyed that he had nominated somebody he was closer to than half the house?
sl3ptsolong
24-06-2010, 09:19 PM
Ben has been bitching about HMs behind their backs (including even friends like Sunshine) throughout this series, they just haven't shown much of it on the HLs. He is quite conceited and is passive-aggressive and tries to make himself into a victim. He twists what people have said in his bitching as well and projects his own faults onto others (he interrupts people, he is over sensitive etc).
Ben is bitching? You are a bit lost arent you. And over sensitive? come on he's being pelted left right and centre for nothing. If you want to talk sensative look at John James crying because Josie said he had smelly breath.
chuff me dizzy
24-06-2010, 09:19 PM
But he didnt care that Ben also spoke about nominations, he was annoyed that he had nominated somebody he was closer to than half the house?
10/TEN people nominated the ugly bitch ,why single Ben out ?
bansheewails
24-06-2010, 09:21 PM
I am not saying that Ben is 'bad', what I am saying is, he needs to think before he speaks and watch who he speaking to. At the minute he offers his opinion on anything to anyone, I really do think he has speaking tourettes, he just can't stop himself. Even mario was getting pissed off with him last night.
Jords
24-06-2010, 09:22 PM
10/TEN people nominated the ugly bitch ,why single Ben out ?
Because Ben was closer to her than half the house, the others were not!
And because Ben bangs on about being loyal, JJ and even Dave got annoyed with him.
At the time I thought he nominated SS because he knew she would be up and he would feel less guilty contributing into putting another housemate up who didnt need to be, but he couldnt even explain why he did himself, which makes me wonder if he'll sh!t on anybody.
fingers
24-06-2010, 09:24 PM
10/TEN people nominated the ugly bitch ,why single Ben out ?
'cos he's an easy target and it was an easy way to deflect any animosity about the £500 that Scabby and co lost!
fingers
24-06-2010, 09:27 PM
At the time of the 1st Nomination Ben and Sunshine were NOT friends in any way shape or form they had just had a major argument. HMs AND certain members on here deliberately ignore this fact!
Jords
24-06-2010, 09:28 PM
It wasnt a major argument...
WOMBAI
24-06-2010, 09:28 PM
A lot of fuss about nothing!
Noots
24-06-2010, 09:29 PM
Why is everyone saying Ben is really close to Sunshine? He isn't and never really was either.
Kazanne
24-06-2010, 09:45 PM
Ben has been bitching about HMs behind their backs (including even friends like Sunshine) throughout this series, they just haven't shown much of it on the HLs. He is quite conceited and is passive-aggressive and tries to make himself into a victim. He twists what people have said in his bitching as well and projects his own faults onto others (he interrupts people, he is over sensitive etc).
You keep saying this on all the threads,I have asked you what he has said that was bitchy but funnily enough I still haven't seen your post listing his bitchy remarks.
starry
24-06-2010, 09:50 PM
lol, how am I supposed to have memorised all his bitchy remarks? He's made loads of them trying to undermine Sunshine in the house, projecting his own faults (over sensitivity, interrupting people, not listening, egotism) onto her.
rusticgal
24-06-2010, 09:55 PM
Why was Shabby telling JJ about Ben voting for Sunshine.... I will tell you why cos she is doing everything she can to get Ben out.Why should Ben have to justify his actions... Shabby got clear away on that one... she will get booed BIGTIME when she goes!!!
Dannyboii
24-06-2010, 09:55 PM
Why is everyone saying Ben is really close to Sunshine? He isn't and never really was either.
:joker: Another idiot who clearly hasn't watched the program. Do you remember what Ben said when he nominated her? ''Im voting for someone who I consider a close friend''.
smudgie
24-06-2010, 09:56 PM
Bless him, his biggest fault is he is far too polite to tell those gobby obnoxious overbearing beggars to do one.If I was in there I would help him out no end:devil:
bansheewails
24-06-2010, 09:58 PM
Bless him, his biggest fault is he is far too polite to tell those gobby obnoxious overbearing beggars to do one.If I was in there I would help him out no end:devil:
His biggest fault is his mouth. He just can't help himself, talks constantly without thinking and just digs a bigger hole. :hugesmile: I think thats why Mario sticks up for him.
pixee
24-06-2010, 10:00 PM
Ben never appears to be this great friend of sunshine to me? and after a few days..please
chuff me dizzy
24-06-2010, 10:06 PM
'cos he's an easy target and it was an easy way to deflect any animosity about the £500 that Scabby and co lost!
Dead right !!
Noots
24-06-2010, 10:22 PM
:joker: Another idiot who clearly hasn't watched the program. Do you remember what Ben said when he nominated her? ''Im voting for someone who I consider a close friend''.
I've only been watching the HL shows and regardless of him saying that he's never really been around her that much. In fact I would go as far as to say it looks like they have been avoiding each other since the start of the show.
Cristina
24-06-2010, 10:30 PM
remember this, when you start to believe other HMs when they attack Ben over "betraying" a "friend" Sunshine. In the first week all but 4 HMs nominated Sunshine. Same people who nominated her are now having a dig at him to hide their own deeds :)
Shasown
25-06-2010, 01:10 AM
Ben is an easy target, he has been a little naive and a bit too trusting.
When he is picked upon he always tries to defend himself instead of hitting back with what the other person has done. He is simply being used as a scapegoat.
LiquidGold
25-06-2010, 01:18 AM
I'm not following this conversation much.
They all seem to be bullying ben abit but what's he actually done to deserve it?
Not alot I think.
he's the scapegoat and john's target!!!!! :mad: . and it makes me sick! . how can you support john when he's a calculating bully! :shocked:
walter
25-06-2010, 08:15 AM
He's an easy target and i feel bad for him. Really pissed me off how they all got worked up about him voting sunshine in week ****ing 1!!! So ****ing what it was ages ago and when everyone was getting to know each other.
vesavius
25-06-2010, 08:17 AM
Bless him, his biggest fault is he is far too polite to tell those gobby obnoxious overbearing beggars to do one.If I was in there I would help him out no end:devil:
and he would probably nom you to say thanks!
KERRYJ
25-06-2010, 08:24 AM
That HL show was cut to ratSh!t they showed hardly any of the Ben bashing by his socalled friends, and Scabby and co. get away with losing the £500 food budget while they pile ALL of the blame on Ben and his (1 of 9) nomination of Scumshine
I was so annoyed that Scabby got away with murder, her name was mentioned twice as a rulebreaker yet they all rounded on Ben. Did like JJ but not any more he seriously has got a problem even Josie has seen what a game player he is.
vesavius
25-06-2010, 08:25 AM
remember this, when you start to believe other HMs when they attack Ben over "betraying" a "friend" Sunshine. In the first week all but 4 HMs nominated Sunshine. Same people who nominated her are now having a dig at him to hide their own deeds :)
Ben; ''Im voting for someone who I consider a close friend''
Even he agrees with my view on things, no idea why others here can't lol.
he is just a nasty back biting snake, but I don't blame you for being sucked in.. he plays the bumbling toff very well.
Kazanne
25-06-2010, 08:27 AM
I guess you REALLY believe the crap that you have been posting about him?:wavey:
Well said,it's like a stuck record ,the same thing over and over.
Kazanne
25-06-2010, 08:28 AM
Ben; ''Im voting for someone who I consider a close friend''
Even he agrees with my view on things, no idea why others here can't lol.
he is just a nasty back biting snake, but I don't blame you for being sucked in.. he plays the bumbling toff very well.
You need to look up the meaning of the word CONSIDER,it's in a book called a dictionary or maybe a search on the net!
vesavius
25-06-2010, 08:29 AM
Well said,it's like a stuck record ,the same thing over and over.
Pot meet kettle.
vesavius
25-06-2010, 08:33 AM
You need to look up the meaning of the word CONSIDER,it's in a book called a dictionary or maybe a search on the net!
lol is this what you are really reduced to as a defense? Semantics and sarcasm?
You really have no other ammunition?
Kazanne
25-06-2010, 08:40 AM
lol is this what you are really reduced to as a defense? Semantics and sarcasm?
You really have no other ammunition?
It's hard to get the big picture when you have such a small screen.
vesavius
25-06-2010, 08:43 AM
It's hard to get the big picture when you have such a small screen.
lmao, I'll take that as a no then. :joker:
calyman
25-06-2010, 08:53 AM
Come on they saw he was weak and sunshine quite innocently felt reet offended cause she is that type that does and SOMEHOW they have managed to turn it round to be Ben to blame???
Wtf? It was the first week, when it all kicked off i thought he must have done this last week and i'd forgot.
Quite unfair, was starting to like JJ a little and even put up with shabby's clan but this is unfair tbh.
At least it guaruntees that Ben remains inthe house, No decent person likes to see such mass bullying. Ben will be vindicated by the mass support reflected in the few amount of telephone votes he receives, though sadly he won't know this.
I think it's time for Go-van (which is the correct pronunciation not this "J" nonsense). Anyone who has watched Rab C Nesbit will know this.
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