Loved loved loved ben

[Clare1996]

Sooo sad you're out ben, loved you xxxx

[GypsyGoth]

He had some great moments and he was one of the biggest characters. Yep he had a lot of flaws but he was wonderful entertainment.

I'll miss him too.

[cookiemonster]

it was Steve that should have gone this week. Ben deserved his place in the final *sigh* these things happen in BB though.

[Colbert-Bump]

The show is not the same without him.

[Marzy]

It's dull and morbid without Ben.

[as90]

He was getting nauseating.

[joeysteele]

We al have flaws, we are a mix of things in our persoanlities,its what parts come forward most that matters, Ben liked a gossip like any of us do,whether its at school, UNI, work or home,we will talk about other people and sometimes what we feel we need to say is not complimentary all the time, My older Brother, I love to bits, but sometimes I will take others side against him when he is wrong and I will say less than complimentary things about him.and many others.
That doesn't mean he and I fall out, we are always there for each other,BEN did that,he said what he saw and heard and it was all true

CONTRAST that with JJames who blew his top and got really nasty for no reason at all at times, not just with one housemate but at least 5 of them so far,foul mouthed verbal onslaughts, not listening to anone, shouting to drown out what the other person was asying and repeating himself over and over again.To come ob a show where the public see you, where you are taken into the viewing publics homes, sitting rooms, bedrooms on their TVs and also to hope those viewers will spend their money voting to support you and keep you in the house YOU wanted to go into,to then say in ANY context f.. the public,I don't give a f... for the public is a total disgrace and shows a very nasty deep rooted attitude withint his personality.

Old ground but facts, now the thing with Sunshine,he did threaten her that if she threw water at him he would throw her in the pool,she did throw the water on him.No physical contact though,now if I was to threaten to hit someone but don't do it, then I commit ony a mnor offence, If I do hit them then I am guilty of assault, he then grabbed her physically, then when she pulled back,kept hold of her, dragged her along the ground, even while she was yelling stop,don't,even when Mario came to help, JJames tightened his grip, and continued to try to force her against her will ni to the pool, THAT WAS ASSAULT.
He was extremely lucky she didn't take that further but I have used that to compare the 2 personalities of 2 main housemates, BEN and JJames.
Ben held his temper and remained dignified, JJames got very nasty, dangerous and totally lost contol.

I know who I would say was the better person and who I want to deal with and it would never be JJames with his attitude to women, and you can go ooh and aah all you like as to this romance but I think this is another way JJames degrades women.
He is using Josie, she has changed from the lively great girl she was, he has got her entwined in his charisma of sucking people in by sympathy and is using her not with temper but emotional influence to get what HE wants and at the end of it, when he sees no further mileage in it, he will turn on her the way he normally does, he has tried it once,and she will be dropped like a hot brick and likely very nastily too.

Josie has a lot of pain coming from her obsession with Jjames.BEN was a far better and loyal friend to her,if she'd only seen that.

[BJ]

The show is not the same without him.

Absolutely right:thumbs:

[BJ]

The show is not the same without him.

Absolutely right:thumbs:

[watchinittoomuch]

I really liked Ben too, it's real shame he didnt make it to the final.

I was rather concerned about the amount of make up he had on on Friday though :joker: