R.I.P Mum!

[?]

I know its not really Big Brother related, but my mum: Samantha, who was only 41, she's watched Big Brother since series 1 and it was one of her favourite programmes - and she really did love it. It'd be a topic of convosation alot of time with us, watching Live Feed and all that! My mum had Breast Cancer in 2008, and she said Big Brother was a factor to help her get through it, keeping her occupied but sadly the cancer had spread, but stayed in a sort of 'remission' for a year. She was re-diagnoised this January, and she's been very ill for the past couple of days, the last programme she really acknolwedged would of been Big Brother/Misfits (she had fallen asleep to Misfits though!) but today, at around 25 to 12, 4th August 2010 my mum passed away. The last person she wanted to win was Josie aswell.

I know a few of you might be anti-this topic or whatever, but don't say anything insulting.

R.I.P Samantha, i'll always love you. x

[fizzy]

Hugs

[seanraff07]

If Josie wins, your mum will spring to mind.

RIP.

[Thotmas]

I'm so sorry babe.
Losing a loved one is never easy.

May she rest in peace.

[GypsyGoth]

:hug:

[Colbert-Bump]

Sorry to hear about her passing.

[Ramsay]

:(
rip

[Jords]

R.I.P x

[FaLaLaLand]

So sorry to hear that OP. Be strong xx

I know how it feels losing a loved one to cancer, may she R.I.P.

[flamingGalah!]

I know exactly what you are going through :( Here's a big cyber hug :hug: x

[setanta]

Very sorry to hear that. Tough time to get through when a parent goes. I've been there and wish you all the best.

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[?]

Thankyou everyone. xx

[Visage]

I'm so very sorry to read this, I wish you all the best as you grieve for your Mum.

RIP

[Stevep]

Sorry for your loss.

r.i.p

[Stacey.]

Sorry to hear this.

R.I.P :(

[_Seth]

Aw, rest in peace. I'm sorry to hear this.

x

:hug:

[Jordan.]

Sorry for your loss,

RIP Samantha x :bawling:

[jaq7uk]

I'm very sad to hear of your loss.

RIP

xxx

[Stacey.]

So sorry about that ^ It was the wrong thread!

[Jordan.]

So sorry about that ^ It was the wrong thread!

LMAO. :joker:

[eviled2010]

Sorry for your loss, it is hard, I know.
All the best.

[Callum]

That is so sad to hear, R.I.P. to your mum.

[skkc16]

aww bless you, i know how you must be feeling right now, its so sad. R.I.P. Samantha

[rosebay11]

http://i642.photobucket.com/albums/uu141/niffynoodles/Sympathy/1652185jhyflfzwu7.gif

So sorry! You are in my thoughts and prayers.

[fizzy]

stacy, I think you should edit the post to delete the silly picture

[Christa]

Oh my :( SO young.

http://dl6.glitter-graphics.net/pub/461/461556nh6byec4kn.jpg

[Claymores]

Comdolences

[JHB]

(((Hugs)))

[housemate]

So very sorry for your loss. I hope you will continue to be strong and that all good things come your way.

[Miss Ivy Balls]

That is sad news.

I didn't know your Mum, but it must be hard.

You'll be OK. PM me if you need any support. There is a Crisis thread somewhere in General Discussion if you ever need to put anything down in there.

Are you coping OK?

:hug:

[Peter Plunker]

Sorry to hear of your loss, I went through it just over two years ago and still miss my Mam every day.

[Claymores]

Go Samantha, I hope you can hear us . So sad you're gone

[Kazanne]

So sorry for your loss,stay strong,big hugs from me.oxoxoxo

[Angus]

So very sorry to hear about your loss. My mum died 30 years ago and I still miss her every day, but believe me when I say that over time you will forget the bad stuff, and just have all the happy, warm memories of her to keep with you for always. Don't be afraid to feel the pain of grief, it is a testament to how much you loved her. I wish you all the best:hug:

[Stacey.]

stacy, I think you should edit the post to delete the silly picture

Stop insulting :nono: That's another member's picture you know!

Also it seems it's been deleted now.

[CaraRawr]

So sorry to hear that O.P. Will think of your mum if Josie wins. R.I.P. :hug: x

[Jamietwo]

that is sad news, i am sorry for your loss. i also lost my mum 2 1/2 years ago and miss her every day....hugs

[wilful_woodpecker]

sorry to hear that

[RosieRed xxx]

Sorry for your loss....big hug to you xxxxxxxxxx

[watchinittoomuch]

:hug:

[MissKittyFantastico]

I'm so sorry for your loss, R.I.P Samantha x

[BJ]

I'm very sorry for your sad loss. Mums are really special. Sending you big hugs

[moghirl]

Losing your Mum is just about the worst thing that can happen to any of us in life .. it's very painful .. I empathize with you as you grieve the loss of your lovely Mum .. try to remember all the good times and things you did together .. those happy memories will help see you through this hard time ..

Rest in Peace Samantha !

[charmingmissc]

so sorry for your loss.
xxx

[Kore]

So sorry to hear this :(. I hope you are okay!

[Kaaarenn!]

I'm really sorry to hear about your mum :( Good to know she was such a dedicated fan to the show and that it helped her through her bad times.
Throw some votes Josie's way to win for your mum :)
Hope everything will be okay and that you are okay :)
R.I.P Samantha! xxx

[Stacey.]

I hate to be the one to say this, but how do we know this member didn't just make all of it up to get attention? Things like this happen a lot here it seems.

[JayManUnleashed]

:bawling: I could cry because I feel so sorry for you! :bawling:

Here's a hug to keep you going :hug:

:sad: R.I.P. :sad:

[Alpertinator]

That's very sad news. I'm very sorry for your loss. I could not bare it if my mother died. Very sorry.

[6*Alives]

Sorry for your loss.

[InOne]

I know its not really Big Brother related, but my mum: Samantha, who was only 41, she's watched Big Brother since series 1 and it was one of her favourite programmes - and she really did love it. It'd be a topic of convosation alot of time with us, watching Live Feed and all that! My mum had Breast Cancer in 2008, and she said Big Brother was a factor to help her get through it, keeping her occupied but sadly the cancer had spread, but stayed in a sort of 'remission' for a year. She was re-diagnoised this January, and she's been very ill for the past couple of days, the last programme she really acknolwedged would of been Big Brother/Misfits (she had fallen asleep to Misfits though!) but today, at around 25 to 12, 4th August 2010 my mum passed away. The last person she wanted to win was Josie aswell.

I know a few of you might be anti-this topic or whatever, but don't say anything insulting.

R.I.P Samantha, i'll always love you. x

And you thought you'd come and tell us all on this forum? It's not even like you're even a very active poster.

[WOMBAI]

And you thought you'd come and tell us all on this forum? It's not even like you're even a very active poster.

I agree - thought it was rather strange myself!

If genuine - poor girl is going through a very hard time - that I wouldn't wish that on anyone!

But you can't help but wonder if it is an attempt to encourage people to vote for Josie!

[InOne]

I agree - thought it was rather strange myself!

If genuine - poor girl is going through a very hard time - that I wouldn't wish that on anyone!

But you can't help but wonder if it is an attempt to encourage people to vote for Josie!

Doesn't seem very genuine, who a day after losing their mum would post on a forum lol

[Claymores]

And you thought you'd come and tell us all on this forum? It's not even like you're even a very active poster.

Better to deal with it as face-read Joe. ~ We know someone who was getting some sort of cancer about March and upset a lot of people with lying antics

[WOMBAI]

Doesn't seem very genuine, who a day after losing their mum would post on a forum lol

Exactly!

[?]

Feel free to add me on facebook, and read through my wallposts from my friends/family.

P/M for the link.

[Firewire]

So sorry to hear this.

RIP.

[Claymores]

I agree - thought it was rather strange myself!

If genuine - poor girl is going through a very hard time - that I wouldn't wish that on anyone!

But you can't help but wonder if it is an attempt to encourage people to vote for Josie!

What I said to Joe

[InOne]

Feel free to add me on facebook, and read through my wallposts from my friends/family.

P/M for the link.

I'm not bothered either way. Just wondering why you felt the need to tell a forum.

[InOne]

Better to deal with it as face-read Joe. ~ We know someone who was getting some sort of cancer about March and upset a lot of people with lying antics

Yeah indeed, it's easy to get people to go 'awwww' with something like Cancer though.

[Chels]

Doesn't seem very genuine, who a day after losing their mum would post on a forum lol

Exactly what I thought as well, I lost my granddad to leukeimia a few years ago and I couldn't think straight for months on end.

[InOne]

Exactly what I thought as well, I lost my granddad to leukeimia a few years ago and I couldn't think straight for months on end.

Indeed, I mean I could understand if she was an established poster, but don't have a clue who she is anyway.

[?]

Guys, i'm a boy by the way.

Right, InOne i'm going to P/M you my facebook and I want you to add me, ok?

And I thought i'd post it up because my mum used to sit with me time to time and look on the forums mainly pre-BB and I thought it'd be a nice little topic.

[InOne]

I don't want your FB.

[Angus]

True enough it crossed my mind that it's a scam, but you'd have to be one very sick and twisted individual to lie about your own mother dying of cancer, which is why I have given this poster the benefit of the doubt. I hope the FMs' sympathies are not misplaced.:sad:

[?]

I understand where you guys are coming from, its upto you what you believe but can someone just add me on FB for proof?

[InOne]

I just want to know why a day after your mother died, you're telling random people about it on a forum?

[ChristmasNeeve]

Well It's a nice tribute for your mother, sorry for your loss.

[?]

I just want to know why a day after your mother died, you're telling random people about it on a forum?

Dude, everyone re-acts differently I want people to know about her and stuff. But whatever, its your opinion. You have my FB.

I'm going now, i'll be back later - thanks guys bye. x

[Starinab]

deepest sympathy

[InOne]

Dude, everyone re-acts differently I want people to know about her and stuff. But whatever, its your opinion. You have my FB.

I'm going now, i'll be back later - thanks guys bye. x

Ok dude.

[Sunday]

Indeed, I mean I could understand if she was an established poster, but don't have a clue who she is anyway.

Benefit of the doubt would be nice thing to do I think.

[Forever_Young]

Cant believe some of the people on here that felt the need to question this.

Sorry for your loss OP, very sad news :hug:

[InOne]

Benefit of the doubt would be nice thing to do I think.

No.

[WOMBAI]

Benefit of the doubt would be nice thing to do I think.

Agreed!

[WOMBAI]

Cant believe some of the people on here that felt the need to question this.

Sorry for your loss OP, very sad news :hug:

It had to be questioned - that was obvious! Lots of people having their doubts - just reluctant to say so!

[Livia]

Condolences. Aleha ha-shalom.

[lime]

OP you & family are in my thoughts.
Take care

[ChristmasNeeve]

I think you two need to agree to dis agree on this one!

[joeysteele]

InOne,how amazingly insensitive, as for not being a regular poster, I thinkwith their MUM being so ill,their time has been needed in far more important ways than to be commenting here on BB. Also people react in very different ways to a loss like this, and maybe JUST maybe they came on here first to occupy their mind,occupy it with an interest their beloved Mum had as in likelg BB, feeloing they mat be doinf something for her. Secondly and in your case clearly not, possibly even hoping for support and encouragement from epople with a like minded interest

I don't know ? poster, if you are religious in any way, but I went out after I read this and lit a candle in Church for your Mum. I won't presume to know how you must be feeling but please look after yourself. alsop please talk about it too,most people are decent and often it is easier to talk to strangers than close ones when this happens.

Your Mum sounded a brave lady,make sure her hopes and all she stood for carry on in life through you.
My sincere and deepeast sadness at your loss.Please take care of yourself.

[MissKittyFantastico]

If you don't believe the OP for whatever reason how about just not post in the thread? Not very nice to question the validity of what he/she is saying about their mum really, and everyone deals with things like this differently, who is anyone here to question them?

[ChristmasNeeve]

I'm going to close this if you don't stop arguing in here which would be a shame for the op, so please leave it be now or continue through PM

[joeysteele]

Unbelievable response InOne,I feel sorry for you being so sceptical,but thats not the poster's problem, Kinder to say nothing than what and the way you have reacted.

Of course its your right to do so, but I am glad I don't think like you.

[joeysteele]

My apologies Niamhxo.

[Claymores]

Unbelievable response InOne,I feel sorry for you being so sceptical,but thats not the poster's problem, Kinder to say nothing than what and the way you have reacted.

Of course its your right to do so, but I am glad I don't think like you.
Great answer and what I tried to say

[InOne]

Good god. Stop making me out to be some kind of villain. Get a grip people.

[Rob!]

:hug::hug:

And sometimes sounding off at a complete stranger can help, so if you need to - pm me!

[Forever_Young]

It had to be questioned - that was obvious! Lots of people having their doubts - just reluctant to say so!

You may have your doubts but if thats all the are, doubts and not fact then why not just think it to yourself and stay clear of the thread incase you are wrong.. this poster is telling us thier mum has passed away and I feel it deserves some respect.

[WOMBAI]

You may have your doubts but if thats all the are, doubts and not fact then why not just think it to yourself and stay clear of the thread incase you are wrong.. this poster is telling us thier mum has passed away and I feel it deserves some respect.

I have steered clear of the thread - just popped in now and again, like you!

But no doubt it sounded a bit odd - but nevertheless people have given the poster the benefit of the doubt!

[SocietyIsRuined]

Sad news, my condolences to you. :(

[Petershaw1984]

Sorry to hear your news. Hopefully josie will win for you mum

[serensilver]

Heaven has gained an Angel:angel: R.I.P so sorry

[Sticks]

? PM me your facebook details and I will do the friend adding and veracity checking since some have raised that issue here and have indicated they will not take up this offer.

Can I remind others about what happened with Angie a while back when she died and others accused her daughter of lying?

I do realise that there are individuals who are trolls and like to yank people's change, but when proof is offered and not taken that seems disingenuous.

[EzzaB]

rip

[iRyan]

I'm so sorry! May your mum rest in peace :(

She is watching over you!

[BristolRovers]

So sorry to hear.

RIP x

[marmaris4ever]

hi firstly so sorry for your loss hope she at peace xxx also for all those saying we will think of your mum if josie win have you not read thread properley
he said THE LAST PERSON she wanted to win was josie !!!!!!!!!!!!

[nic19]

hi my first post on here
am sorry to hear of your mother,
there is a website called gonetoosoon.
when your feeling stronger you could put your mum's story
on there,
i did with mine and its very comforting.
may she r/i/p

[Jarvio]

My Dad died 2 months ago (on the 4th June) exactly 2 months before the OPs mum, and I made a topic about it on another forum, only to get slated and people telling me that posting something like that on a forum is 'weird'. Just saying. Sorry for your loss OP, may your mum, and my Dad rest in peace

[Livia]

My Dad died 2 months ago (on the 4th June) so exactly 2 months before the OPs mum, and I made a topic about it on another forum, only to get slated and people telling me that posting something like that on a forum is 'weird'. Just saying. Sorry for your loss OP, may your mum, and my Dad rest in peace

Many people would sympathise with your loss I think. Condolences to you too.

[Lex]

Goodbye Samantha and Jarvio's dad ...:hug::angel:

I know that words cannot mend a broken heart.....But they are all that I have...and they are sincere when I say that I am truly sorry for your loss.

[Boothy]

Sorry to hear this.

R.I.P xx

[mikeuk22]

R.I.P.

My thoughts are with you!

[mrlimbo]

So young , so sorry , God bless

[buckfast67uk]

I know its not really Big Brother related, but my mum: Samantha, who was only 41, she's watched Big Brother since series 1 and it was one of her favourite programmes - and she really did love it. It'd be a topic of convosation alot of time with us, watching Live Feed and all that! My mum had Breast Cancer in 2008, and she said Big Brother was a factor to help her get through it, keeping her occupied but sadly the cancer had spread, but stayed in a sort of 'remission' for a year. She was re-diagnoised this January, and she's been very ill for the past couple of days, the last programme she really acknolwedged would of been Big Brother/Misfits (she had fallen asleep to Misfits though!) but today, at around 25 to 12, 4th August 2010 my mum passed away. The last person she wanted to win was Josie aswell.

I know a few of you might be anti-this topic or whatever, but don't say anything insulting.

R.I.P Samantha, i'll always love you. x

Very sorry to hear that i sincerely hope you get over your grieving soon.

As a mark of respect i will lay off Josie on the boards, since she was your mums favourite housemate

[?]

Thankyou for your support and stuff guys, much appreciated and rest in peace/paradise Jarvio's father. x

(I've also sent my facebook to Sticks in a P/M.)

[Angus]

Very sorry to hear that i sincerely hope you get over your grieving soon.

As a mark of respect i will lay off Josie on the boards, since she was your mums favourite housemate

I think the OP said that the very LAST person his mum wanted to win was Josie.

[buckfast67uk]

oh sorry i took that as meaning the last person she wanted to win was Josie i.e. that was who she'd finally decided she wanted to win. I realise now that it was the opposite, don't know why i read it that way.

[Sticks]

(I've also sent my facebook to Sticks in a P/M.)

And if it needed confirming to sceptics out there, from his facebook page this news is confirmed.

This is exactly what happened with Angie when her daughter reported her death to the forum :nono:

Anyone who is genuine does submit to authentication, which is what happened here - That is how you can weed out the wind up merchants and the trolls.

For this thread, this is not the case.

Therefore my condolences and we are thinking of you
:angel:

Do Not Stand
Bombardier Stephen Cummings
32 Heavy Regiment Royal Artillery

Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there.
I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there.
I did not die.

[MeMyselfAndI]

has inone got an infraction?
only fair

so sorry for your loss x rip x

[InOne]

has inone got an infraction?
only fair

so sorry for your loss x rip x

Nope

[MeMyselfAndI]

my nan died in augest i told no one none of my friends and i started coming on tibb more and i basically hid away from everyone for a month. its upsetting but youve got to be happy :D

during the funeral your feel even more upset and its normal i couldnt stop crying in my nans

[Zippy]

R.I.P

xx

[MeMyselfAndI]

also listen to alot of music i listened to leona and taylor swift loads it will make you feel better :D

[Zippy]

also listen to alot of music i listened to leona and taylor swift loads it will make you feel better :D

some would feel much worse though.

[diva-jim]

Life is such a bitch
That is so sad to hear, R.I.P. to your mum.

[Miss Ivy Balls]

Someone in this thread has truly disgusted me with their comments. :yuk:

She doesn't need to be an active member. Maybe she is just struggling at the minute and had nowhere else to turn than a forum.

The fact she was willing to give proof and yet z person was unwilling to take it shows it all.

Anyway, I hope you're coping OK.

xxx

[Miss Ivy Balls]

some would feel much worse though.

I agree. Emotional music would probably just make you want to cry even more. Especially if you're listening to the likes of Leona Lewis.

[Mr XcX]

I know its not really Big Brother related, but my mum: Samantha, who was only 41, she's watched Big Brother since series 1 and it was one of her favourite programmes - and she really did love it. It'd be a topic of convosation alot of time with us, watching Live Feed and all that! My mum had Breast Cancer in 2008, and she said Big Brother was a factor to help her get through it, keeping her occupied but sadly the cancer had spread, but stayed in a sort of 'remission' for a year. She was re-diagnoised this January, and she's been very ill for the past couple of days, the last programme she really acknolwedged would of been Big Brother/Misfits (she had fallen asleep to Misfits though!) but today, at around 25 to 12, 4th August 2010 my mum passed away. The last person she wanted to win was Josie aswell.

I know a few of you might be anti-this topic or whatever, but don't say anything insulting.

R.I.P Samantha, i'll always love you. x

Stop attention seeking. This has no relevance to TIBB and you have just made my day even more depressing!!!!!!!!!!

[Merry Mockmas]

im sorry for your loss.

[InOne]

Someone in this thread has truly disgusted me with their comments. :yuk:

She doesn't need to be an active member. Maybe she is just struggling at the minute and had nowhere else to turn than a forum.

The fact she was willing to give proof and yet z person was unwilling to take it shows it all.

Anyway, I hope you're coping OK.

xxx

It's a dude.

[joeysteele]

It has every relevance to TIBB if the poster is a fan of BB and a member here,they are entitled to post on here anyway they wish that is not offensive.
If the posters Mum was a fan of Bb too it then has even more relevance.
Its just a pity that some who can only be sceptical or think nasty thoughts on the post don't just keep their cold hearted attitudes at least on this topic to themselves and say nothing, thereby allowing the decent other members to try to offer the kind of compassion and support the poster needs.

[red]

so sorry for your loss :( I lost my aunt just last month
R.I.P

[BigBrotherHost]

Haven't experienced it myself, but sorry to hear it. You'll pull through it!

[emptynest]

so sorry (((((hugs)))))

[ChristmasNeeve]

can ye stop arguing in here please. Joe let it go or I'll have to close this thread and I really dont want to do that.

[Danielle1232]

Aww that's so sad.

[InOne]

can ye stop arguing in here please. Joe let it go or I'll have to close this thread and I really dont want to do that.

I did let it go, people got at me.

[ChristmasNeeve]

I did let it go, people got at me.

ok:hugesmile:

[Melanie20]

RIP to your mum.:)