Are you looking forward to having children

[Christmas Dynasnow]

and being married with a house, dogs and a garden?

[ChristmasNeeve]

I'm already there

[Ninastar]

yes

[Christmas Dynasnow]

I'm already there

maybe you could look forward to the change - you know flushes, night sweats, that type of thing?

[ChristmasNeeve]

maybe you could look forward to the change - you know flushes, night sweats, that type of thing?

lol, yeah that or getting some freedom back again..........

[Kerry]

Am there and love it and yes, looked forward to it hugely

[Stacey.]

Yes :amazed::love:

[Harry!]

Yes :amazed::love:

With Jack?

[Chuck]

There's already one person who cries in my bedroom every night, I don't need another one.

[Maia]

Nooo lol, I prefer being independent.

[In the Drunk Tank]

Sometimes the thought of being a family man appeals to me but most of time I just hate the idea tbh

[Stacey.]

With Jack?

Yes. :D

[Niall]

I'm not sure. One side of me would really love having a couple of kids and bringing them up but another side of me just screams how annoying kids can be. D:

[Ninastar]

I'm not sure. One side of me would really love having a couple of kids and bringing them up but another side of me just screams how annoying kids can be. D:

im sure that you wouldn't mind how annoying your own were, just don't let them have friends round, ever! :p

[GypsyGoth]

Don't want kids or to be married.

[Stu]

Eventually. But not for a long time.

[Enid]

Don't want kids, nor do I want to be married.

[Beastie]

Maybe in my 30s I might have kids and marriage. Too early yet though. Might just have 1 kid and a cat. Less hassle to look after them than 2 kids I reckon! :hugesmile: but who knows.

[Ramsay]

cant wait

[LemonJam]

I'd love to but at the same time I think I'm too self-centered to be a successful father.

[CharlieO]

i feel as if i do but im scared. because my father and my relationship is horrible, id be scared that they would hate me as much as i do him. i guess im too young to know anyway.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

I'd love to but at the same time I think I'm too self-centered to be a successful father.

having children will teach you that self is not all its made up to be.

[Shasown]

Are you looking forward to having children

and being married with a house, dogs and a garden?

Been there, done that, got the tee shirt and the grey hair thanks.

[Livia]

and being married with a house, dogs and a garden?

I'd be really excited about getting a dog.

[Lee.]

having children will teach you that self is not all its made up to be.

That is very true actually

[Lee.]

I've got the kids, the house and the garden.. just not the dog :)

LT, have you got kids?

[Locke.]

Not for about another 12 + years

[Enid]

I'd love to but at the same time I think I'm too self-centered to be a successful father.
Heh, same here.

I have a Peter Pan complex. Can barely look after myself and I just want to enjoy my youth as much as I can till I keel over from exhaustion.

[Claymores]

I had in my life two miscarriages and a still birth to me (0 children) - I'm 45 - best wishes to folks here.

Effing buy condoms sprogs

[Pyramid*]

Done the marriage, got the house, got the animal, got the nice garden, didnt want the kids, (ie;didnt have any!!), and life is good. :)

[Lee.]

I sometimes look at my friends and think they're all terribly grown up and sensible with their houses/mortgages/kids/PTA meetings etc and thenI realise that I must appear the same as them, but inside I still feel the same as I did at 18 but just with a bit more responsibility.

You can still have fun and youth with kids..

[Christmas Dynasnow]

I sometimes look at my friends and think they're all terribly grown up and sensible with their houses/mortgages/kids/PTA meetings etc and thenI realise that I must appear the same as them, but inside I still feel the same as I did at 18 but just with a bit more responsibility.

You can still have fun and youth with kids..

Children are what make adults young. :spin:

[Pyramid*]

Children are what make adults young. :spin:

What utter bolloks.

I know parents who are in their 30's who act like they are in their 60's.

I know singletons who are in their 40's and 50's who act decades younger.

It depends on the person.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

What utter bolloks.

I know parents who are in their 30's who act like they are in their 60's.

I know singletons who are in their 40's and 50's who act decades younger.

It depends on the person.


I would suggest you get a better yardstick

[Pyramid*]

I would suggest you get a better yardstick
No thanks...... I think my yardstick is more than fine.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

No thanks...... I think my yardstick is more than fine.

it seems a touch bitter?

[Smithy]

from the ages of 2 onwards, I aint the shitty nappy sorta person

[Merry Mockmas]

as much as i love my niece,i could never look after a child 24/7 everyday.:joker:

and no way am i having a girlfriend let alone a wife.

[Angus]

I never yearned to get married, and never craved children. I was engaged four times before finally getting married. I had two children, and four miscarriages, was married to a controlling, domineering abuser who caused me much misery, but I never regretted the fact that he gave me my children, and now a grandson. Something wonderful came out of something terrible.

Everyone has to find their own purpose and meaning in life and I never knew what mine was till I had my children. They made sense of my life, and are the only reason I am still here. I don't judge those who don't want or need children - better not to have them if they are not wanted. We only get to make the journey once, and there is no turning back, so you have to be sure you've taken the right road.

[Pyramid*]

it seems a touch bitter?

What's to be bitter... I had a choice!!! .... and going by some of the other comments on here,I'm not alone in not wanting to have children one of the best decisions I personally made. But feel free to keep harassing me and picking up on my posts only....... ;)

[ChristmasNeeve]

from the ages of 2 onwards, I aint the shitty nappy sorta person

:joker: you could always adopt an older child:eureka: