Do women have the same sex drive as men?

[Zippy]

personally I think not. I know there are women with a very strong sex drive(insatiable even) but generally I think a mans sexual urges are far stronger and more urgent.

discuss

[Niamh.]

I think in general, a man will have a stronger sex drive but there is obviously exceptions to the rule.

[Vicky.]

I think its something to do with mens bits being outside their body and them getting a constant reminder of them :D

But yeah, in general I think blokes need sex more than women do. I could go years without it and not really care, while gav gets moody after a week or so :laugh:

[Zippy]

I think in general, a man will have a stronger sex drive but there is obviously exceptions to the rule.

Like you? :evilgrin:

[CharlieO]

i think they are probably the same its just a bit more obvious when a guy is horny. because guys feel different when they are hard, women must feel the same all the time until something is stimulating them.

[Niamh.]

Like you? :evilgrin:

That'd be telling :wink:

[Maia]

Definitely not. I'm a girl and I'm completely asexual and hate sex, whereas most guys my age are the complete opposite.

[Zippy]

I think its something to do with mens bits being outside their body and them getting a constant reminder of them :D

I think a mans sexual organs are more aggressive. Thats totally the wrong word but I mean its very obvious when theyre ready for action. And hard to ignore.

I also believe that men were originally designed to go around spreading their seeds as far and wide as possible. Especially the stronger more virile men. It all about procreating a strong healthy population. Now I know that sounds like a great excuse but thats how many species of animal operate and we're really not that different.

Nature certainly didnt intend man to be monogamous.

[MTVN]

Yeah I think men have more of a sex drive tbh, think there was axtually some research today saying that men watch 2 hours of porn a week and woman only 15 minutes or something

[Zippy]

Yeah I think men have more of a sex drive tbh, think there was axtually some research today saying that men watch 2 hours of porn a week and woman only 15 minutes or something

because men are so honest about how much porn they watch? :hugesmile:

99% of porn is aimed at men...gay, bi or straight. I think that speaks volumes about who is the more sex obsessed.

[arista]

personally I think not. I know there are women with a very strong sex drive(insatiable even) but generally I think a mans sexual urges are far stronger and more urgent.

discuss


No its a Sex Drive
that has many Gears

[arista]

Yeah I think men have more of a sex drive tbh, think there was axtually some research today saying that men watch 2 hours of porn a week and woman only 15 minutes or something


Some Women Watch Porn
at the same time

[Zippy]

Some Women Watch Porn
at the same time

or they pretend to.

I think a woman should feel insulted if a man needs to watch porn whilst giving her one. Hardly flattering.

[Smithy]

someone watched Loose Women today

[Shaun]

CAN WE PLEASE ACCEPT THAT GENDER IS NOT A DEFINITE CONTRIBUTOR TO IDENTITY.

one more "are boys better drivers xxx" or "are girls more emotional :(" thread and imma slap a bitch.

[Stacey.]

Guys want it more

[arista]

Guys want it more


No
Some Women want it More


Life In The City.

[Zippy]

someone watched Loose Women today

yep it was on at my sisters. :)

it was annoying when one was trying to imply that women do have the same sex drive. Like women always have to be equal to men in everything. Some things are just about nature and sex drive is one of them.

[Mystic Mock]

Women have more of a sex drive thats why tv shows with goodlooking Guys in it always do the best.

[Zippy]

Women have more of a sex drive thats why tv shows with goodlooking Guys in it always do the best.

:joker:

no. Thats not even about sex.

[CharlieO]

someone watched Loose Women today

whenever i see loose women on my tv guide i laugh because i think of loose women. nice fact for you there.

[Zippy]

Guys want it more

Is Jack pestering you?

[MTVN]

Women have more of a sex drive thats why tv shows with goodlooking Guys in it always do the best.

Cant fault that infallible logic

[Mystic Mock]

:joker:

no. Thats not even about sex.

They have dreams about having sex with them.;)

[Stacey.]

Is Jack pestering you?

:joker:

[Mystic Mock]

Cant fault that infallible logic

Thank you.:hugesmile:

But in all seriousness i do believe Men have the biggest sex drive but i think Women are more about romance.

[Zippy]

They have dreams about having sex with them.;)

I don't think women dream about sex. They dream about the less messy aspects of relationships with men.

[Niamh.]

I don't think women dream about sex. They dream about the less messy aspects of relationships with men.

Get a grip, women (in general) may have less of a sex drive, that doesn't mean we're asexual!

[Chuck]

No, and that's why gay men are generally promiscuous. Men dont have more sex because their partners are women. :''(

[Zippy]

Get a grip, women (in general) may have less of a sex drive, that doesn't mean we're asexual!

Im not saying they don't want sex. I just think they dont fixate and fantasize directly about the actual sex act but more about the all round nature of the relationship. Maybe more romanticized.

For example, regards porn, most men can get off just by watching any random sex as long as the participants are hot. Whereas I think women prefer a scenario with some kind of story that slowly builds up to the actual sex. I remember having this discussion with a group of my sisters mates once and they all said this.

[Niamh.]

Im not saying they don't want sex. I just think they dont fixate and fantasize directly about the actual sex act but more about the all round nature of the relationship. Maybe more romanticized.

For example, regards porn, most men can get off just by watching any random sex as long as the participants are hot. Whereas I think women prefer a scenario with some kind of story that slowly builds up to the actual sex. I remember having this discussion with a group of my sisters mates once and they all said this.

I agree with your sisters mates to a point but I think both the build up and the act are important. I mean did they actually say that they only like the build up? I'm guessing not. And, you're crazy if you think we only think about the romantic side of things:joker:

[joeysteele]

I thought at first that men had the higher sex drive but maybe women cover up their thinking and needs more so I can take on board what Jedward fever said, because watching things like X factor etc with student friends the women always make sexual innuendoes as to the male acts on.
After jedward made his point,I recalled that fact and so think there's something in what he says.Good logic.

[Zippy]

I agree with your sisters mates to a point but I think both the build up and the act are important. I mean did they actually say that they only like the build up? I'm guessing not. And, you're crazy if you think we only think about the romantic side of things:joker:

No but my point originally goes back to JF saying that TV shows with good looking guys are popular because women dream about sex with them. But I don't think its the sex they dream about but more the fantasy of maybe having a relationship with these hot guys. Whereas a man will view a hot woman on TV and instantly fantasize about her being naked....and the sex.

This is very simplistic but I do think women have a more romantic mind whereas men have a more porno mind.

[Niamh.]

No but my point originally goes back to JF saying that TV shows with good looking guys are popular because women dream about sex with them. But I don't think its the sex they dream about but more the fantasy of maybe having a relationship with these hot guys. Whereas a man will view a hot woman on TV and instantly fantasize about her being naked....and the sex.

This is very simplistic but I do think women have a more romantic mind whereas men have a more porno mind.

wrong, wrong, wrong...........do you think I've ever once dreamt of being in a relationship with Gerard Butler? I can tell you now, I haven't:evilgrin: I think maybe the mistake you're making is that you're taking the word of younger girls. Can I ask what age your sisters mates are?

[Smithy]

Niamh you trollop

[Niamh.]

Niamh you trollop

:laugh:

[Zippy]

Niamh you trollop

exactly

she's not normal. I bet she's on some sex offenders register for harassing men on buses. :laugh3:

[Niamh.]

exactly

she's not normal. I bet she's on some sex offenders register for harassing men on buses. :laugh3:

Lmao, I'm a married woman:nono:

[Twilight]

I guess so, but you never be sure really.

[Real]

Depends on what they have had to drink.
Who gives a toss anyway - get it when you can and dont moan if you dont. :hugesmile:

[Zippy]

....do you think I've ever once dreamt of being in a relationship with Gerard Butler?

yes

[Niamh.]

yes

lol, I haven't.........ever. Fantasising about being in relationships with celebrities is for teenage girls.

[Smithy]

LMAO

You liar niamh!!!

[Niamh.]

LMAO

You liar niamh!!!

Don't be silly, what a waste of a fantasy:nono:

[Zippy]

Don't be silly, what a waste of a fantasy:nono:

I suspect you fantasize about him wooing you, looking into your eyes, kissing you....holding you in his arms. Serenading you with his bagpipes. That kinda stuff.

If you just fantasize about him humping you then you're definitely not normal!

[Jessica.]

wrong, wrong, wrong...........do you think I've ever once dreamt of being in a relationship with Gerard Butler? I can tell you now, I haven't:evilgrin: I think maybe the mistake you're making is that you're taking the word of younger girls. Can I ask what age your sisters mates are?

tmi

[Novo]

About the same i reckon, Girls just don't like to admit it but when they are with each other they talk about it all the time.

[Niamh.]

I suspect you fantasize about him wooing you, looking into your eyes, kissing you....holding you in his arms. Serenading you with his bagpipes. That kinda stuff.

If you just fantasize about him humping you then you're definitely not normal!

I just vomited a bit in my mouth:shocked:

[patsylimerick]

:joker: I think some of the male fms are very young and innocent. Women think about sex quite a bit. I do think, however, that males have a higher sex drive; and that it's innate. But while I'd love a conversation over dinner with Liam Neeson, I'd much prefer to do something else with him.:dance:

[bananarama]

Definitely not. I'm a girl and I'm completely asexual and hate sex, whereas most guys my age are the complete opposite.


Oh. Mollie. Hate is a strong emotion when it comes to sex. I do hope my darling you meet the right partner that will at least take the word hate from your asexual sexuality....

[Beastie]

Depends if the man is good in bed or not. If not then the woman prefers masturbation.

[Zippy]

I just vomited a bit in my mouth:shocked:

Ughh I give up trying to bring out your romantic side

[letmein]

Every person is different. Society has different rules for each gender anyway.

Only people who are female should be commenting on women's sexuality, because let's face it, men have no ****ing clue. lol.

[lostalex]

If every time a women had sex, she was guerunteed to have an orgasm, then women would have the same sex drive as men, but since it seems men are still allowed to get away with having an orgasm every time, but women are expected to just accept not getting off, then it's no wonder they don';t enjoy sex as much.

IF when i had sex, i was just expected to lay there and get someone else off, i wouldn't be very excited about sex eigther.

[Livia]

If every time a women had sex, she was guerunteed to have an orgasm, then women would have the same sex drive as men, but since it seems men are still allowed to get away with having an orgasm every time, but women are expected to just accept not getting off, then it's no wonder they don';t enjoy sex as much.

IF when i had sex, i was just expected to lay there and get someone else off, i wouldn't be very excited about sex eigther.



If a woman just lays there, surely she won't be "getting off" and shouldn't be expecting an orgasm. And although men might orgasm every time they have sex, women are blessed with the multiple orgasm. I'd say we come out on top... so to speak.

[Benjamin]

If a woman just lays there, surely she won't be "getting off" and shouldn't be expecting an orgasm. And although men might orgasm every time they have sex, women are blessed with the multiple orgasm. I'd say we come out on top... so to speak.

:laugh:


And yes if a woman just lies there like a sack of spuds then she shouldn't expect to get an orgasm.

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

ew

[Josy]

I think most women do have the same sex drive as men, they just don't admit it :laugh:

[Patrick]

Agree with Josy.

It's like Men can be talking about Sex and that and Women act as if we're all Josef Fritzl's minions, but at the end of the day we aren't the ones who buy Dildos and Rabbits so be quiet.

[Pyramid*]

Agree with Josy.

It's like Men can be talking about Sex and that and Women act as if we're all Josef Fritzl's minions, but at the end of the day we aren't the ones who buy Dildos and Rabbits so be quiet.

Your reference is Josef Fritzel is abhorrent and telling people 'so be quiet' is unbelievably rude.

If you had any real sexual experience with women, you'd understand the reason for toys such as rabbits etc.... quick biology / sex education lesson for you - men can come far too quickly, long before the woman, they can sometimes not get erections, they sometimes cannot hold their erections. Once they have come they can't just stand to attention again, when the woman is still sexually aroused - the woman can still climax again and again, some men simply cannot satisfy a woman enough soley with penetrative sex , and many toys are used for clitoral stimulation which men often aren't able to perform effectively themselves. apart from all that, many men actually are turned on by watching women use toys.

I'd say the average sexually active man and woman tend to have the same sex drives. Women I think are able to suppress it more.

[sexyb4ck]

i think they can be the same as each other youve just got to find your sexual match i know i havent its like finding a fore skin on a jew

[Niall]

Your reference is Josef Fritzel is abhorrent and telling people 'so be quiet' is unbelievably rude.

If you had any real sexual experience with women, you'd understand the reason for toys such as rabbits etc.... quick biology / sex education lesson for you - men can come far too quickly, long before the woman, they can sometimes not get erections, they sometimes cannot hold their erections. Once they have come they can't just stand to attention again, when the woman is still sexually aroused - the woman can still climax again and again, some men simply cannot satisfy a woman enough soley with penetrative sex , and many toys are used for clitoral stimulation which men often aren't able to perform effectively themselves. apart from all that, many men actually are turned on by watching women use toys.

I'd say the average sexually active man and woman tend to have the same sex drives. Women I think are able to suppress it more.

This post makes me happy that I'm gay. :joker:

[Pyramid*]

This post makes me happy that I'm gay. :joker:

Yep, some men really aren't 'all that' when it comes down to the nitty gritty. (but like to think they are stallions in bed). :joker:

[Niall]

Yep, some men really aren't 'all that' when it comes down to the nitty gritty. (but like to think they are stallions in bed). :joker:

:laugh:

[Benjamin]

Yep, some men really aren't 'all that' when it comes down to the nitty gritty. (but like to think they are stallions in bed). :joker:

It's the same with gay men. The amount of guys who have big cocks who think because they have a big wang they instantly satisfy needs and just hammer it home. :bored:


I'd rather be with an average size guy who knows how to use it.

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

tmi ben gurl

[Locke.]

Women are worse.

[CharlieO]

the thing is it just depends on the person, you cant categorise because of gender because everyone is different.

[Zippy]

No, I think men have a much higher sex drive. Men are obsessed with sex. Who is porn aimed at? Quite.

apart from Niamh. She's a law unto herself.

[Mr XcX]

I think they have the same.