We need to support Bonnie..

[Chrizzle]

Just been watching a video of Bonnie crying into Lea's shoulders, because somebody (not sure who) said they didnt like her and Sezer.

She said 'There judging me before they know me'
At this point I felt very sorry for her.

People were booing because of the way she was all hyper and active, and because of the way she spoke.

I dont think, so far, Bonnie has been given a fair chance.
I didnt like her, but I am now supporting her completely.

[Lauren]

I neither like her nor dislike her. I dont form a cement opinion of someone after just 3 days. However, bullying of ANY sort is a tarnish on (whoever said it)'s personality - and my view towards them.

Poor Bonnie.

[Kore]

sympathy vote? :rolleyes:

[Lauren]

I dont think people will actually VOTE for her just cos of this instance.

[Corkie]

it was lisa who said that and its a stupid cos there will be people who dont like her and shes crying over one

[Lance]

Hmm..

I don't dislike Bonnie. I love how she talks.:laugh:

I think if whatever she claims was said was actually said that it's only natural. I am sure there are people in there who she doesn't like either.

[Lauren]

Oh I got the impression the person who said they didn't like her and Sezer said it to someone else. :conf:

If they'd said it to her face then thats much better. But if they were talking behind her back about it - then thats low.

[Chrizzle]

Originally posted by corkie
it was lisa who said that and its a stupid cos there will be people who dont like her and shes crying over one

I think she knows people will dislike her.
But after 3 days of meeting her, its hardly fair

[shroko]

K O R E - your well fit. lol.

[texbex]

I think this happened when they were choosing who to join the big brotherhood and Lisa said she didnt want Sezer or Bonnie because she didnt like them and it was all being shown on the plasma screen which I think was unfair plus Lisa said she would be upfront and herself and tell people what she thinks if shes telling big brother that she doesnt like them why doesnt she just say it tho their face!!

[Lauren]

Originally posted by texbex
why doesnt she just say it tho their face!!

I completely agree.
It's two different things.
1) Not liking someone and telling the others = not good.
2) Not liking someone and telling them first = acceptable.

To me anyway :spin2:

[bonnie43uk]

everybody speaks about people behind thier backs though, it's human nature .. i've already done it today 6 times!! .. its called CHATTING. lol

[Lauren]

There's a difference between chatting and being two-faced.
You can chat to your friend about someone. Thats fine, obviously. But when someone says "Im going to be honest with the people I dont like in the house" - why not tell them AND chat with your friends?
If she knew she wasnt going to stick to being fully honest, she shouldnt have said it.

[bonnie43uk]

would you like to Jim Carrey's character in Liar Liar, where you just say whatever is in your mind to people??
i dont consider myself to be a backstbber, but i do like talking about people behind thier backs, if i said it to thier face they'd be devestated!!! I would'nt want to hear what people think of me, reality hurts! This is why BB is so watchable, insignificant conversations turn into bloodbaths!! .. i would'nt go in that house for all the money in China! i read in today's Lorraine Kelly column in the Sun that Makosi said it has ruined her life. She went in that house a really strong woman, and now she is a wreck.
Big Brother is car crash telly. and i love it !!!!

[Lauren]

Thats completely different.
1) This is NOT a real life situation. It'd me more hurtful to me in THAT house for people to be talking to others about me, and not identifying the true problem. Especially with all those camera's in the house.
2) Lisa said that she would be honest with all the member of the house is she didnt like them. As far as I've seen - she's done the exact opposite.

[stella]

Bonnies from leicester isnt she? I live in derby and i hope to god i dont sound like her lol im goin to record my voice and if so im havin a voice box transplant lmao:laugh:

[texbex]

aww a like bonnie and supporting her 100%

[GlitterEyes]

I think Bonnie is been pretty quiet since she heard that. I would love to know who said it. Bonnie seems reluctant to chat with certain people now and she seems to stick with the older ladies rather than young. Bonnehhh looks like she can be quite fun but she needs to stick up for herself, she should confront whoever said it.

[Pipergun]

I think it was Lisa and Shahbaz, when discussing who they wanted to invite into the Brotherhood! :thumbs:

Correct me if I'm wrong, though! :spin:

[Lauren]

Yeah you're right Pipergun. :spin2:

[steve_o]

I support Bonnie so far, she's a Care Assistant which is a worthy Job, she's quiet and is having a hard time getting herself across with some of the big mouths in there. As long as she doesn't start bitching like Vanessa last year she'll get my support :wink:

[Juelz]

shes not a good housemate...prolly an ok person but shes just not a good housemate

[Tanser_Man]

Originally posted by Blanket&Crib
I neither like her nor dislike her. I dont form a cement opinion of someone after just 3 days. However, bullying of ANY sort is a tarnish on (whoever said it)'s personality - and my view towards them.

Poor Bonnie.

Lol, i knew it wouldn't be long before people started saying the word bully.

On a serious note, i think Bonnie, with the magic 'e' at the end of her name, was looking for a sympathy vote.

So early on you can never know her motives, she could be doing it to form an allience against stronger members, you never know.

I just wouldn't look into it yet.

[Dudie]

i fear that bonnie will be put in the eviction firing line soon. hope not.

[Legend]

Lisa said it in the diary room yesterday, less than 24 hours of knowing her so i can understand why she's upset about that. Not in the house 24 hours and someone saying they don't like you, wouldn't you be upset about it?

[THE_JUNK_MAN]

I think shes cool a bit quiet but a nice girl and really down to earth....

[Tanser_Man]

Sorted, she's crying because someone doesn't like her....

Boo bloody hooo.

[Legend]

Originally posted by Tanser_Man
Sorted, she's crying because someone doesn't like her....

Boo bl***y hooo.

People will deal with not being liked by someone not even after 24 hours differently.

Some will shout. Some will cry. Some will laugh etc.

At least she said she might of been a bit over sensitive about it.

[Fangz]

Originally posted by Tanser_Man
Sorted, she's crying because someone doesn't like her....

Boo bl***y hooo.
It's ridiculous. If I burst into tears every time someone decided they didn't like me, I'd die of dehydration.

[jrc]

It's slightly sad to burst into tears because someone you barely know doesn't like you. She should shake it off, far toguher things happen in life.

[Mike]

Bonnie seems like a nice enough girl, she just needs to chill out a bit because some of the housemates were bound to judge her straight away and it can't be nice hearing your name along with one other person.

[THE_JUNK_MAN]

Originally posted by Mike
Bonnie seems like a nice enough girl, she just needs to chill out a bit because some of the housemates were bound to judge her straight away and it can't be nice hearing your name along with one other person.

I think your right Mike she needs to toughen up.....Sezer handled the situation the best :thumbs:

[Dudie]

it's looking more and more like she will be in the mix for eviction next week, if she is up against sezer or glyn or any of the lads she will be toast i think which would be a shame.

[Tanser_Man]

To be honest, when i first saw her audition video before she went in the house, i thought she was full of herself and wasn't even that attractive flashing her tummy.

But that was only based on first impressions and my perception has changed since then, like many of the housemates.

She just needs to take everything with a pinch of salt because that was nothing compared to what COULD have been said about her.

[Dan_]

If it was me that Shabaz didn't like I'd be having a party because that odious little queen would not go near me.

[texbex]

aww I feel really sorry for bonnie her face is such a misery its all Lisas fault

[Legend]

Originally posted by BB fernzy
If it was me that Shabaz didn't like I'd be having a party because that odious little queen would not go near me.

It was Lisa who said she didn't like her. :laugh:

[Dudie]

there is no doubt that comment by lisa in the diary room has knocked the stuffing out of her.

[Tanser_Man]

Oooo, what a crime.

Lock Lisa up and throw away the key.

How dare she let her feelings be known.... :rolleyes:

Pfft.

[Dudie]

hope she is picked by the brotherhood or she will be gone if she is up for eviction.

[Sunny_01]

Bonnie is one of the HMs I have no real opinion about at this time - she did seem to enjoy the attention of being talked about though, it allowed her the opportunity to have a cry and get a bit attention.

I liked the way Lisa handled it - she did not try to get out of it she answered them and that took guts :xyxwave: