What is your sexuality?

[karezza]

What is your sexuality?

[Glenn.]

I didn't realize Paedophile was a sexuality?

I'm Bisexual:thumbs:

[cub]

Not sure if pomosexuality and mechaphile are true sexualities, but I know lttle about them so am willing to learn otherwise.

[karezza]

A pomophile is a person who avoids sexual orientation labels such as heterosexual and homosexual.

[cub]

A pomophile is a person who avoids sexual orientation labels such as heterosexual and homosexual.

I know what it is, but I'm not sure that a person who chooses a sexual identitty or label (or not) is a sexuality.

Surely by calling oneself a pomophile it is a label anyway. Confusing ...

[Niall]

I'm gay. :evilgrin:

http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lkyd4b2k1P1qc2e6a.gif

[Smithy]

A Paedophile isn't a sexuality it's a life choice

[KG.]

*Reads up on what some of these actually are*

Homosexual.

[ILoveTRW]

A Paedophile isn't a sexuality it's a life choice

thats what they used to say about homos

[Smithy]

TRW your sig is huge :o

[Jords]

A pomophile is a person who avoids sexual orientation labels such as heterosexual and homosexual.

Blatently gay/lesbian or bi then :laugh:

You forgot pansexual -remembers Jack telling me about it -

[Crimson Dynamo]

98.5% of the UK and USA, according to 2 huge studies are heterosexual. Which makes sense.

[Stu]

That 2% figure has been debunked time and time again now by popular science. Most worthwhile conclusions remain ambiguous and say it can be anywhere from 2 to 13 percent which leaves a massive margin for error.

Even if it were true 2% is still a massive proportion of the population.

[Crimson Dynamo]

That 2% figure has been debunked time and time again now by popular science. Most worthwhile conclusions remain ambiguous and say it can be anywhere from 2 to 13 percent which leaves a massive margin for error.

Even if it were true 2% is still a massive proportion of the population.

2 huge surveys. We rely on stats for everything we know about large numbers of people.

I know gays get pissed (too much time on entertainment forums makes them think there are more gays around) but thems the apples.

[Stu]

Obviously forums like this do not offer a proper reflection. I think everyone can admit to that.

I wouldn't even go much higher. 5 or 6% maybe ... and maybe even only with people my own age ... but 2%'s a load of muck I reckon.

[Ninastar]

heterosexual lol

[Jords]

That 2% figure has been debunked time and time again now by popular science. Most worthwhile conclusions remain ambiguous and say it can be anywhere from 2 to 13 percent which leaves a massive margin for error.

Even if it were true 2% is still a massive proportion of the population.

Not really, but still a massive amount of people :p

[Jords]

heterosexual lol

-thought you were bi-

[Ninastar]

-thought you were bi-

please, im as straight as they come

[Angus]

thats what they used to say about homos

So are you suggesting that some people are born paedophiles in the same way that some people are born homosexual? Therefore, paedophiles are only doing what comes naturally, and should not be condemned for their sexual behaviour against children?!

[CharlieO]

Heterosexual, but not in anyway against the idea of bisexuality or homosexuality if i felt that way, but as it stands i don't think im attracted to the same sex.

[Stu]

So are you suggesting that some people are born paedophiles in the same way that some people are born homosexual? Therefore, paedophiles are only doing what comes naturally, and should not be condemned for their sexual behaviour against children?!
'Consent' pops in to say hi.

Paedos act on their desires - strong as they may be - by choice and without consent.

[cub]

98.5% of the UK and USA, according to 2 huge studies are heterosexual. Which makes sense.

That figure is too flawed to take seriously. As we have discussed on here before.

[cub]

2 huge surveys. We rely on stats for everything we know about large numbers of people.


You cannot compare stats of people say, liking certain TV shows or what job they do or whether they own their own house or not, to something so complicated as not only defining but also willing to share and reveal your own sexuality in a survey.

Ticking a box is not always that simple. Therefore that % is seriously flawed.

There are many people who are married and closeted that would tick 'straight' for example.

[Crimson Dynamo]

You cannot compare stats of people say, liking certain TV shows or what job they do or whether they own their own house or not, to something so complicated as not only defining but also willing to share and reveal your own sexuality in a survey.

Ticking a box is not always that simple. Therefore that % is seriously flawed.

There are many people who are married and closeted that would tick 'straight' for example.

Hundreds of thousands of samples. If you have a better survey then lets see it.

[Niamh.]

hetrosexual

[Smithy]

Zoophile 1 6.25%
Paedophile 1 6.25%

:conf2:

[Crimson Dynamo]

I removed my sex organ and have replaced it with an extra ear.


On occasions I can be a little hard of hearing, but it soon passes.

[CharlieO]

I removed my sex organ and have replaced it with an extra ear.


On occasions I can be a little hard of hearing, but it soon passes.

:laugh2:

[Niamh.]

Zoophile 1 6.25%
Paedophile 1 6.25%

:conf2:

WTH is Zoophile, does it involve Lions and Giraffes? :shocked:

[cub]

Hundreds of thousands of samples. If you have a better survey then lets see it.

As I say, I think surveys on sexuality are flawed. Full stop.

Sexuality is such a personal issue that you cannot gauge a reading with any accuracy.

Here's a point: Say the figure is 1.5% - for arguments sake. Now survey any muslim community. Not only would you get a figure of 0% (probably) but you would also be risking your safety even to ask such a question.

There are many cases of closest gay and bisexual people that would not make a survey of this kind accurate. Even when done anonymously.

[Smithy]

WTH is Zoophile, does it involve Lions and Giraffes? :shocked:

And tigers and bears.

Oh my

[Stu]

I thought it was something to do with liking Babylon Zoo.

[Ninastar]

In all seriousness, I keep trying to convince myself that I will fall in love with a man. I just don't see it happening anymore. I need to get real, but I'm scared.

[Smithy]

oh ffs, I voted parasexual when I was copying the word to google :bored:

edit A phenomenon, involving a complex form of mitosis, whereby two cell nuclei merge without any sexual process and the chromosome count is doubled

Bitch wtf did you put that in there for, noone on here is a single cell

[Niall]

In all seriousness, I keep trying to convince myself that I will fall in love with a man. I just don't see it happening anymore. I need to get real, but I'm scared.

Y'all are a lesbian then?

[Doogle]

Heterosexual.

[Ninastar]

Y'all are a lesbian then?

idk, I think men are good looking but it doesn't really go further than that

[Niall]

oh ffs, I voted parasexual when I was copying the word to google :bored:

Parasexual: of reproduction in some fungi: describes a type of reproduction, seen in some fungi, in which the recombination of parental chromosomes takes place without the usual formation of sex cells by cell division meiosis.

:laugh3:

*Chants in childish voice* Smithy is a fungus! Smithy is a fungus! Smithy is a fungus!

[Niall]

idk, I think men are good looking but it doesn't really go further than that

So you aren't sexually or emotionally attracted to them?

[Smithy]

Parasexual: of reproduction in some fungi: describes a type of reproduction, seen in some fungi, in which the recombination of parental chromosomes takes place without the usual formation of sex cells by cell division meiosis.

:laugh3:

*Chants in childish voice* Smithy is a fungus! Smithy is a fungus! Smithy is a fungus!

A singular of fungus is Fungi, pronounced fun-guy :hee1

[Niall]

A singular of fungus is Fungi, pronounced fun-guy :hee1

http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lkj29z400x1qa6nci.gif

Har har har.

[Ninastar]

So you aren't sexually or emotionally attracted to them?

not really

[Stu]

And a crass Irish stoner wouldn't change you're opinion?

[Niall]

not really

Me thinks you is a lesbian then.

[Stu]

Or she could be one of them what ones like Cliff Richard who don't like sex whatsoever and just pollute the world with awful music.

[Ninastar]

well if you put it like that...

[Niall]

Or she could be one of them what ones like Cliff Richard who don't like sex whatsoever and just pollute the world with awful music.

Possibly. :joker:

[Stu]

Ninastar realizing she's a lesbian.

Another fine day on TiBB.

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

Heterosexual.


OH MGOD HAHAHA I screamed so loudly

.

[Ninastar]

Ninastar realizing she's a lesbian.

Another fine day on TiBB.

please dont make a big deal about it, seriously i can barley even say it out loud. I dont care about people on here knowing because its hardly the real me

[Niall]

please dont make a big deal about it, seriously i can barley even say it out loud. I dont care about people on here knowing because its hardly the real me

I used to be like that Caitlin. Once you admit to yourself that you're gay/lesbian/bi/whatever then you get used to it and it gets easier to talk about irl. :hug:

[Doogle]

.

http://www.greendaycommunity.org/Forum/public/style_emoticons/Dark/hmph.png

[Stu]

*dejectedly pulls down Happy Lesbianism! banners and cancels plans for party threads and promotional DVD's*

[Ninastar]

I used to be like that Caitlin. Once you admit to yourself that you're gay/lesbian/bi/whatever then you get used to it and it gets easier to talk about irl. :hug:

thanks, I can talk to my friends about it, but Im scared it goes round school and gets back home some how. Im also scared people gunna be like ewww when they see me. and what people think about me.

*dejectedly pulls down Happy Lesbianism! banners and cancels plans for party threads and promotional DVD's*

LOL

[CharlieO]

not really

To assume your lesbian because your not attracted to men is probably a snap reaction which isn't the case. In honesty, I know it sounds cheesy but you probably haven't found the right person. Have you been exposed to a feeling of love with any human being yet? If not then how can one assume because you haven't experienced something means its not there.

[Ninastar]

To assume your lesbian because your not attracted to men is probably a snap reaction which isn't the case. In honesty, I know it sounds cheesy but you probably haven't found the right person. Have you been exposed to a feeling of love with any human being yet? If not then how can one assume because you haven't experienced something means its not there.

i see what you mean and everything, but im pretty sure there is nothing there.

[Crimson Dynamo]

i see what you mean and everything, but im pretty sure there is nothing there.

Concentrate on studies and career and park your "sexuality" until you are a bit older.

Also go to the gym

[Niall]

thanks, I can talk to my friends about it, but Im scared it goes round school and gets back home some how. Im also scared people gunna be like ewww when they see me. and what people think about me.

Lmao well you're gonna have to come out to your parents sooner or later but I can see why you think that. The majority of parents are ok if their child is gay - mine were. :)

[Smithy]

thanks, I can talk to my friends about it, but Im scared it goes round school and gets back home some how. Im also scared people gunna be like ewww when they see me. and what people think about me.


If people change their opinion on you because of it, it says a lot more about them then it does about you

[Shaun]

bi, bi, mr. torquay guy.

[Ninastar]

Lmao well you're gonna have to come out to your parents sooner or later but I can see why you think that. The majority of parents are ok if their child is gay - mine were. :)
I don't wanna go into it too much but I know that one of my parents would be disappointed, they have told me before

If people change their opinion on you because of it, it says a lot more about them then it does about you
thanks :)

[KG.]

thanks, I can talk to my friends about it, but Im scared it goes round school and gets back home some how. Im also scared people gunna be like ewww when they see me. and what people think about me.


That's natural to feel that way, me and pretty much every other gay/bi person I know felt exactly the same way before coming out, building it up to be one of the worst things in the world, then finding it actually more.. normal than you could have ever imagined. Though I do know this probably won't help because you'll still be worried as I and everybody else was, but when/if you do eventually feel comfortable enough about it to be completely open about it, you'll be surprised at how many people really don't mind/care about what you are.

[Niall]

I don't wanna go into it too much but I know that one of my parents would be disappointed, they have told me before

Well disappointed doesn't necessarily mean they'll hate you for it or something. It might take them a little while to get used to it at first but its a big announcement to make right? If they are intolerant of who you are though then that isn't right and after all you were born this way. ;) (Couldn't resist making that Gaga reference :tongue:)

[Ninastar]

That's natural to feel that way, me and pretty much every other gay/bi person I know felt exactly the same way before coming out, building it up to be one of the worst things in the world, then finding it actually more.. normal than you could have ever imagined. Though I do know this probably won't help because you'll still be worried as I and everybody else was, but when/if you do eventually feel comfortable enough about it to be completely open about it, you'll be surprised at how many people really don't mind/care about what you are.

thank you, and honestly it does help. Earlier I was starting to regret saying anything but I think it will help me. I know that in the end it will all be okay, its just that i don't know where to start and how I will get there.

Well disappointed doesn't necessarily mean they'll hate you for it or something. It might take them a little while to get used to it at first but its a big announcement to make right? If they are intolerant of who you are though then that isn't right and after all you were born this way. ;) (Couldn't resist making that Gaga reference :tongue:)

thats true I guess. and trust you :nono:
thank you though

[Jords]

Caitlin :hug:

[Maia]

Asexual and proud.

http://www.chicagonow.com/blogs/milkin-it/assets_c/2010/12/200px-Asexual_flag-thumb-350x197-281066.png

[cub]

Ninastar, I wouldn't worry too much about labelling yourself anything other than 'You'.

At this stage don't worry about coming out and how to come out until you feel completely ready for it. Take your time - it's your time.

I waited until my parents more or less 'knew' I was gay before I mentioned it. I only sat them down because they were worrying about me as they didn't know another gay person and I had to explain that I was sensible, could look after myself and that there wasn't a problem.

[Jords]

Asexual and proud.

http://www.chicagonow.com/blogs/milkin-it/assets_c/2010/12/200px-Asexual_flag-thumb-350x197-281066.png

Have you never fancied anybody? :)

[InOne]

Asexual and proud.

http://www.chicagonow.com/blogs/milkin-it/assets_c/2010/12/200px-Asexual_flag-thumb-350x197-281066.png

Really? :shocked: How do you know? Never come across anyone who is asexual