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Beastie
28-05-2011, 12:43 AM
Which people are you friendly with but don't really like??

In real life!!

I would say I am friendly or more like civil to my siblings. Not a case of being 2 faced. I just hate having arguments!!

People I don't really know at work but may not like on first impressions I am still friendly with. I mean I am only nasty to people if they are nasty to me first. Not worth getting on your "high horse" if someone hasn't really done anything bad to you! *Such as giving me the "dead eye".* lol

Novo
28-05-2011, 12:47 AM
Don't think i am friendly to anyone who i dislike i just don't speak to them at all

Jords
28-05-2011, 12:47 AM
With people I dont like I wont make an effort in talking but if they talk to me Ill be civil back as they probably dont that I dont :laugh:

Locke.
28-05-2011, 12:47 AM
Only speak to people I like

Niamh.
28-05-2011, 12:48 AM
my brothers g/f - for peaces sake

Kerry
28-05-2011, 12:52 AM
As a parent, other parents of young kids can be wearing. So glad I'm past the school gate crap

Shaun
28-05-2011, 12:53 AM
I find at school you form groups with people rather than solid one-on-one friendships... from the group I had at school/college (roughly 12 of us) I only still talk to about 6 of them regularly.

There's then 3 who I like but don't really have anything in common with, and then 3 who annoy me a bit :p

Niamh.
28-05-2011, 12:53 AM
As a parent, other parents of young kids can be wearing. So glad I'm past the school gate crap

oh, my sons teacher..........what a bitch:devil:

Novo
28-05-2011, 12:55 AM
Everyone at our school just talked to each other apart from the odd floaters here and there, the Girls always formed groups though.. all the boys got along really

Kerry
28-05-2011, 12:56 AM
oh, my sons teacher..........what a bitch:devil:

I bet you sit with a fixed grin on parents evening :joker: I think I got off lightly with my daughters teachers. There was one bitch-ass nursery teacher but luckily she wasn't there at the time my bub was!

Niamh.
28-05-2011, 01:00 AM
I bet you sit with a fixed grin on parents evening :joker: I think I got off lightly with my daughters teachers. There was one bitch-ass nursery teacher but luckily she wasn't there at the time my bub was!

lol, I was shocked when I went for his parent evening, she slated him for talking too much, he was only 6 at the time and he wasn't bold or anything:shocked: then we kept him off school for a couple of days when we went to Spain and she gave him all the days he missed homework on top of that nights when he went back, it's only his second year of primary school too

Kerry
28-05-2011, 01:03 AM
lol, I was shocked when I went for his parent evening, she slated him for talking too much, he was only 6 at the time and he wasn't bold or anything:shocked: then we kept him off school for a couple of days when we went to Spain and she gave him all the days he missed homework on top of that nights when he went back, it's only his second year of primary school too

Stupid bitch :mad: Thing is, get told off for talking too much and he'd be quiet and then he'll be told off for not contributing to discussions

hannah.
28-05-2011, 01:08 AM
i know this isn't exactly the same but I went to my youngest sister's parents' evening last year (she was year 5) and her teacher told me and my mum that my sister is very bad at maths, but she is constantly putting her hand up with wrong answers. I was INFURIATED by this, having been very shy at school myself; at least she tries! and my mum has told me that my sister has come home and cried due to her teacher making her feel stupid with maths. if you're going to be a bitch about people being slow to learn at least be a secondary teacher?!

Niamh.
28-05-2011, 01:09 AM
Stupid bitch :mad: Thing is, get told off for talking too much and he'd be quiet and then he'll be told off for not contributing to discussions

his teacher the year before was so nice too:( atleast he only has a month left with her anyway

King Gizzard
28-05-2011, 01:12 AM
Niamh

Niamh.
28-05-2011, 01:13 AM
Niamh

I appreciate the effort stud muffin:love:

hannah.
28-05-2011, 01:14 AM
oh also the same sister had a head teacher who died when she was in year 2 (I met him, he was only 40, a lovely guy), all of the children were invited to the funeral, they made paper mâché butterflies. my sister was crying as the funeral ended, and a year 4 teacher who left soon after (thank god) muttered 'oh for goodness sake, she's only been here a year' (sis had just changed schools obv) to the school receptionist. my sister both saw and heard this. where the hell do they find these people?!

Niamh.
28-05-2011, 01:15 AM
oh also the same sister had a head teacher who died when she was in year 2 (I met him, he was only 40, a lovely guy), all of the children were invited to the funeral, they made paper mâché butterflies. my sister was crying as the funeral ended, and a year 4 teacher who left soon after (thank god) muttered 'oh for goodness sake, she's only been here a year' (sis had just changed schools obv) to the school receptionist. my sister both saw and heard this. where the hell do they find these people?!

OMG what a bitch:shocked:

Kerry
28-05-2011, 01:17 AM
oh also the same sister had a head teacher who died when she was in year 2 (I met him, he was only 40, a lovely guy), all of the children were invited to the funeral, they made paper mâché butterflies. my sister was crying as the funeral ended, and a year 4 teacher who left soon after (thank god) muttered 'oh for goodness sake, she's only been here a year' (sis had just changed schools obv) to the school receptionist. my sister both saw and heard this. where the hell do they find these people?!

Thats where you need 'the glare' showing you've heard every word.

hannah.
28-05-2011, 01:18 AM
OMG what a bitch:shocked:

I know! especially seeing as the reason my sister was so upset was because my mum knew the head through friends so as far as she was concerned he was basically a family friend who also happened to be her head teacher

King Gizzard
28-05-2011, 01:20 AM
I appreciate the effort stud muffin:love:

Is your father a thief? Because someone stole the stars from the sky and put them in your eyes

Jords
28-05-2011, 01:21 AM
Thats where you need 'the glare' showing you've heard every word.

with the raise of the eyebrows :worship:

Niamh.
28-05-2011, 01:21 AM
Is your father a thief? Because someone stole the stars from the sky and put them in your eyes

:blush: yes........yes.........he is.........

Braden
28-05-2011, 12:35 PM
i know this isn't exactly the same but I went to my youngest sister's parents' evening last year (she was year 5) and her teacher told me and my mum that my sister is very bad at maths, but she is constantly putting her hand up with wrong answers. I was INFURIATED by this, having been very shy at school myself; at least she tries! and my mum has told me that my sister has come home and cried due to her teacher making her feel stupid with maths. if you're going to be a bitch about people being slow to learn at least be a secondary teacher?!

That's terrible. The teachers at my school are like that, they expect the best from you but when you want help they just say ' You should know this' and get angry if you get it wrong. Did you say anything to the teachers face?

Doogle
28-05-2011, 12:43 PM
Most of my year group.

Rude, obnoxious, up themselves, arrogant & very discriminative.

Yet they're (mostly) all nice to me. :joker:

Vicky.
28-05-2011, 12:45 PM
I'm not 'friendly' with people I dont like. I will be civil, if they speak to me I wont ignore them, but I will never be friendly.

CharlieO
28-05-2011, 12:47 PM
I used to be nice to everyone but now Im fed up with their 2 facedness at school so if someone I dont like speaks to me I literally act mute and like I cant hear them.

People think I'm weird for it but I don't care because at least I'm not being 'fake'. Oh but the people I really dislike for big reasons I tell them and beat them because im actually really good at arguing.

Z
28-05-2011, 07:03 PM
I was in a huge group of friends at school and over the past two years I've just made it clear to the ones I've never liked that as far as I'm concerned, I don't have a problem with them, I just don't want them to have anything more to do with my life as I no longer have to spend five days a week in their company. It's harsh I guess but I really hate those fake friendships that people maintain with school friends; I have lots of good friends from school because I like them as people, not because I went to school with them, there's a difference.

Lee.
28-05-2011, 07:39 PM
I tend to like most people but if I do get bad vibes from someone, I'd tend to avoid them rather than be nice to them.

joeysteele
28-05-2011, 08:51 PM
At Uni, we regularly have to work with others who we don't get on at all with,clearly on joint assignments etc you have to interact a lot to be successful,I do that very well but I would pull back from socialising with them anywhere else.

Thankfully, there are very few people I would say I didn't care for, I try not to hate anyone,I try to be reasonable,no one of course is perfect but some people think their humour and attitude is acceptable to everyone even when told they are being insulting and annoying, some people take a joke too far.
Those people I would set out to avoid like the plague.

Mr XcX
28-05-2011, 09:19 PM
Many people.

Like my "Best Friend"