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Kerry
04-06-2011, 11:39 PM
As we'll soon be getting an influx of new members I sometimes wonder if they feel excluded when people chat to others using real names instead of usernames. Also, if you're not particularly 'matey' with someone, would you mind if they said, for example, "oh Hi Greg" instead of Zee?

Obviously many have their own names as usernames now anyway. But I know when I was a newbie I'd be thinking either "Who the feck is Alice?" or "am I a cheeky bugger if I just start chatting like we're best mates?" Though that might be more one of my confidence hang ups than anything else!

So, discuss. Feel free to post your name too if you're happy for people to use it. Might stop some confuddlation too :D


And yep, I'm Kerry. Origionally joined as Jaye. Got to know people on here and felt comfortable and it was kindly changed last October for me :)

MTVN
04-06-2011, 11:42 PM
I used to get a bit confused by this but not anymore, I often dont like to use a members real name if they havent told me it though, even if the whole forum's using it, but I also find it weird addressing some people by their username :laugh:

Vicky.
04-06-2011, 11:42 PM
I hate people calling me my real name :bored:

Locke.
04-06-2011, 11:43 PM
Yes. Sir/King Locke are the only acceptable names.

Smithy
04-06-2011, 11:43 PM
I hate people calling me my real name :bored:

I shall call you titty mcgee from now on

Josy
04-06-2011, 11:44 PM
I prefer people calling me Josy but not my full name.

KG.
04-06-2011, 11:44 PM
I wouldn't mind at all, but I think only a few people here actually know my real name :hugesmile:

Josy
04-06-2011, 11:44 PM
I shall call you titty mcgee from now on

:laugh:

Kerry
04-06-2011, 11:45 PM
I shall call you titty mcgee from now on

LOL :laugh:

Vicky.
04-06-2011, 11:45 PM
I shall call you titty mcgee from now on
:D

Beastie
04-06-2011, 11:46 PM
I rather just be called Beastie or thebeast. I think everyone else is happy calling me either of these 2 names as well! :hugesmile:

But yeah obviously when new members come on you will just know them by their username and will take a bit of time to know their "real name" if they want to share it!

Sometimes I call UkTurtle, turtle or Ben. Zee, Zee or Greg. GypsyGoth, GyspyGoth or Claudia, Claude! I kind of call people by their name and username.. ummmm.

Beastie
04-06-2011, 11:46 PM
I hate people calling me my real name :bored:

Victoria?

Patrick
04-06-2011, 11:46 PM
LOL I did at the start.

I signed up under the chavy name of 'pmccaff2009!' and I imagine people probably looked at me and thought of me the way I think of people like Jedward-Fever and that.
Just like 'Ew, who are they? They'll be gone soon.'


I thought I was really cool sometimes, I'd say my real name in a post and be like 'Hehe I'm giving them a cheeky teaser of my real name.'
Not that anyone gave a ****** :laugh:


And then at some point during BB10 I changed into the fantastic man I am today, I often wonder if I'd still be as well known/liked/hated etc on here if I had kept my chavy original username.

Stu
04-06-2011, 11:47 PM
I've never understood why people would feel 'left out'. Just make decent posts and you'll have nothing to worry about. I don't get involved with the off site fluff that often annoyingly spreads out onto the forum to the delight of nobody and wouldn't consider myself to have any friends here, just a dude whose posts people enjoy.

/lonewolf

Patrick
04-06-2011, 11:47 PM
I rather just be called Beastie or thebeast. I think everyone else is happy calling me either of these 2 names as well! :hugesmile:

But yeah obviously when new members come on you will just know them by their username and will take a bit of time to know their "real name" if they want to share it!

Sometimes I call UkTurtle, turtle or Ben. Zee, Zee or Greg. GypsyGoth, GyspyGoth or Claudia, Claude! I kind of call people by their name and username.. ummmm.

I hate calling you by this stupid new username 'Beastie' it's silly and it makes me think I'm searching up Animal Porn.

That's why I call you Beasty instead. :D

Stu
04-06-2011, 11:48 PM
It's sticking about as well as all the other nicknames she's made up for people.

Princess
04-06-2011, 11:48 PM
I prefer people calling me by my real name, I find it weird when someone calls me Princess. Probably just because I've been here for ages.

Kerry
04-06-2011, 11:52 PM
I've never understood why people would feel 'left out'. Just make decent posts and you'll have nothing to worry about. I don't get involved with the off site fluff that often annoyingly spreads out onto the forum to the delight of nobody and wouldn't consider myself to have any friends here, just a dude whose posts people enjoy.

/lonewolf

It's more, for me, that if they reply to a post and just say a name I'd be "who the feck was that aimed at?" sorta thing. Well was. Maybe as I don't do 'offsite' either. I still get muddled with which mods which when actual names are used :laugh:

michael21
04-06-2011, 11:53 PM
no one will guss my real name :joker:

Stu
04-06-2011, 11:54 PM
It's more, for me, that if they reply to a post and just say a name I'd be "who the feck was that aimed at?" sorta thing. Well was. Maybe as I don't do 'offsite' either. I still get muddled with which mods which when actual names are used :laugh:
I'm starting to point InOne out as 'the good Joe'.

Kerry
04-06-2011, 11:54 PM
no one will guss my real name :joker:

Shut it, Bert

joeysteele
04-06-2011, 11:55 PM
I use my real name so no don't mind, but really, until this last most loved poll that Zee did, I never latched on that Zee was Greg and ukturtle was Ben and I have been on here nearly a year now.

Beastie
04-06-2011, 11:55 PM
I hate calling you by this stupid new username 'Beastie' it's silly and it makes me think I'm searching up Animal Porn.

That's why I call you Beasty instead. :D

Lol okay then. Beasty is fine too!

I just thought Beastie seems more feminine? Or do I have to change my username to "Beasty". Jeeeeeeez. lol

Kerry
04-06-2011, 11:56 PM
I use my real name so no don't mind, but really, until this last most loved poll that Zee did, I never latched on that Zee was Greg and ukturtle was Ben and I have been on here nearly a year now.

Thing is, I think theres another mod thats Ben too

Beastie
04-06-2011, 11:56 PM
Thing is, I think theres another mod thats Ben too

Yeah. That's 30stone.

Where is he nowadays? Did he get his girlfriend pregnant?

James
04-06-2011, 11:57 PM
I literally have no imagination for picking usernames. I wonder if anyone could pick one for me haha. ;)

Patrick
04-06-2011, 11:57 PM
I'm starting to point InOne out as 'the good Joe'.

:joker::joker::joker:

Locke.
04-06-2011, 11:58 PM
I literally have no imagination for picking usernames. I wonder if anyone could pick one for me haha. ;)

GiveLockeHisAward would be a good one

Kerry
04-06-2011, 11:58 PM
I'm starting to point InOne out as 'the good Joe'.

Oh yeah, there's another Joe. Seen the name but I don't think spoken to

Vicky.
04-06-2011, 11:59 PM
GiveLockeHisAward would be a good one

:laugh:

Kerry
04-06-2011, 11:59 PM
I literally have no imagination for picking usernames. I wonder if anyone could pick one for me haha. ;)

TiBBJimmeh

Vicky.
04-06-2011, 11:59 PM
I literally have no imagination for picking usernames. I wonder if anyone could pick one for me haha. ;)

The best one I can think of for you is a single full stop. Tis what you are most known for I think

I think that might be too short though :p

Maia
04-06-2011, 11:59 PM
I used to get a bit confused by this but not anymore, I often dont like to use a members real name if they havent told me it though, even if the whole forum's using it, but I also find it weird addressing some people by their username :laugh:

Agree with this. I feel weird about calling them their real name, but at the same time feel weird calling them their username if no one else is :p

James
05-06-2011, 12:00 AM
GiveLockeHisAward would be a good one

Nowinnoaward.

;)

joeysteele
05-06-2011, 12:00 AM
Thing is, I think theres another mod thats Ben too

:joker::joker::joker:That's me well confused then Kerry,I just call people what they have as their name on here.

Beastie
05-06-2011, 12:01 AM
I literally have no imagination for picking usernames. I wonder if anyone could pick one for me haha. ;)

TheSexGod!

Beastie
05-06-2011, 12:01 AM
The best one I can think of for you is a single full stop. Tis what you are most known for I think

I think that might be too short though :p

James closing threads :love:

Kerry
05-06-2011, 12:02 AM
:joker::joker::joker:That's me well confused then Kerry,I just call people what they have as their name on here.

30Stone. Though as Beastie pointed out, not really active atm :)

Josy
05-06-2011, 12:04 AM
Nowinnoaward.

;)

:joker:

Stu
05-06-2011, 12:04 AM
I literally have no imagination for picking usernames. I wonder if anyone could pick one for me haha. ;)
WishMarkWouldDieTBH.

Stu
05-06-2011, 12:06 AM
Schitt Spreadsauce.

Boss Handler.

I can't claim originality for any of those :

http://www.thewrestlingfan.com/twfnamegenerator.html

Use the generic wrestler name generator.

Kerry
05-06-2011, 12:18 AM
*Uses Generator*

Horn Major


Sounds more like a chat up line in a porno

Marsh.
05-06-2011, 12:20 AM
Zee's name is Greg????? http://bestsmileys.com/fainting/1.gif

Jords
05-06-2011, 12:22 AM
Nope but I quite like Jords :D

King Gizzard
05-06-2011, 12:25 AM
No one really calls me Nathan

I think Smithy does

I absolutely hate the name Nate. I'm stupid.

Patrick
05-06-2011, 12:25 AM
I literally have no imagination for picking usernames. I wonder if anyone could pick one for me haha. ;)

Purple Rain 2K11.

King Gizzard
05-06-2011, 12:27 AM
It's funny how people sign up to forums and get names like 'yorkshirelad2009' when 'kevin' is probably availible lol

Smithy
05-06-2011, 12:28 AM
No one really calls me Nathan

I think Smithy does

I absolutely hate the name Nate. I'm stupid.

I call you nathan coz i'd hate to say nate irl http://i.imgur.com/XvGkx.gif

and lmfao

Stu
05-06-2011, 12:29 AM
Purple Rain 2K11.
:joker:

Where the hell did that come from. Are you a Prince fan?

Vicky.
05-06-2011, 12:29 AM
-Has an urge to start calling smithy chris-

Patrick
05-06-2011, 12:30 AM
Yes. Sir/King Locke are the only acceptable names.

I actually was like 'Er wtf' when someone called you David earlier.

I actually know you by Locke now, If we were to all ever meet up - I would feel really...really weird calling you David. :bored:

-Think you might aswell change your name by de-poll-

King Gizzard
05-06-2011, 12:30 AM
Yeah, nate is so corny and american..

Nathan is too happy and nice damn parents!

Kerry
05-06-2011, 12:32 AM
What about Nicknames too? Or is that getting too familiar? :D Like Vicks or JoJo or Paddy? (Seen those used)

Vicky.
05-06-2011, 12:33 AM
I think only claymores calls me vicks

Pretty sure everyone else says vicky(or bitch/other random insult)

Not bothered about any really

Patrick
05-06-2011, 12:35 AM
Yeah, nate is so corny and american..

Nathan is too happy and nice damn parents!

'Hey Nate, you're peanut butter and jelly sandwiches are ready!
Eat up and later we can go and watch Mike's soccer match - alright!' http://www.dcrepairs.co.uk/images/american_flag_small.gif


:bored:

Kerry
05-06-2011, 12:35 AM
I think only claymores calls me vicks

Pretty sure everyone else says vicky(or bitch/other random insult)

Not bothered about any really

Think I have a list that Claymores calls me. Ker, Kerster, Ker Ker being three lol

I don't mind nicknames though as I recall theres only Nate/Nathan/The Nate-ster that changes mine :D

Patrick
05-06-2011, 12:37 AM
What about Nicknames too? Or is that getting too familiar? :D Like Vicks or JoJo or Paddy? (Seen those used)

I get called Paddy alot on here and sometimes in school.

But like in 2007; online I got called 'Paco' by these American Teens I use to talk to; they were like my best mates back in the days :love: and then someone IRL found out and it caught on and now I get called Paco all the ******ing time IRL.

It's only here I get called Paddy. :love:

LOL Who get's called JoJo on here btw?
'Cus it sure as ****** isn't Joe - and I'm not sure if Jordy gets called it; does he? o_O

King Gizzard
05-06-2011, 12:38 AM
Kez :evilgrin:

y u no vote for me kez :evilgrin:

King Gizzard
05-06-2011, 12:39 AM
I iz called Hew or Hewey in real life

Kerry
05-06-2011, 12:41 AM
I get called Paddy alot on here and sometimes in school.

But like in 2007; online I got called 'Paco' by these American Teens I use to talk to; they were like my best mates back in the days :love: and then someone IRL found out and it caught on and now I get called Paco all the ******ing time IRL.

It's only here I get called Paddy. :love:

LOL Who get's called JoJo on here btw?
'Cus it sure as ****** isn't Joe - and I'm not sure if Jordy gets called it; does he? o_O


:D

InOne. Though I think I spelt it wrong. JoeJoe

michael21
05-06-2011, 12:41 AM
I think only claymores calls me vicks

Pretty sure everyone else says vicky(or bitch/other random insult)

Not bothered about any really

Geordie girl with a VIP edge

Cm8vDlj7jaU

Kerry
05-06-2011, 12:41 AM
Kez :evilgrin:

y u no vote for me kez :evilgrin:

I did. Then fecked up :bawling:

Stu
05-06-2011, 12:41 AM
I iz called Hew or Hewey in real life
As in Huey Lewis and The News?

Or is it crap and has nothing to do with that whatsoever?

King Gizzard
05-06-2011, 12:42 AM
As in Huey Lewis and The News?

Or is it crap and has nothing to do with that whatsoever?

my surname :elephant:

Chuck
05-06-2011, 12:44 AM
Geordie girl with a VIP edge

Cm8vDlj7jaU

:laugh3:

Locke.
05-06-2011, 12:46 AM
Get called Purdy in real life, only people that call me David are my family.

King Gizzard
05-06-2011, 12:47 AM
The Purd

Patrick
05-06-2011, 12:48 AM
Get called Purdy in real life, only people that call me David are my family.

Can I just ask something... how do you actually pronounce Locke?

Is it:

Lock-ee?

I'm so worried that I've been pronouncing it wrong all this time, my mind will be blown.

King Gizzard
05-06-2011, 12:49 AM
I saw Lock

Benjamin
05-06-2011, 12:50 AM
N7-d_O8sp7E

Kerry
05-06-2011, 12:50 AM
Lock

Patrick
05-06-2011, 12:53 AM
:shocked:

Oh My God.

Patrick
05-06-2011, 12:54 AM
N7-d_O8sp7E

http://blogs.orange.co.uk/.a/6a00d8345192e469e2011570bfdc82970b-800wi

Smithy
05-06-2011, 12:55 AM
-Has an urge to start calling smithy chris-

Pls don't http://i.imgur.com/XvGkx.gif

Patrick
05-06-2011, 12:55 AM
-realizes your hat isn't actually that similar to freddy's and regrets posting. :bored:-

Stu
05-06-2011, 12:56 AM
http://blogs.orange.co.uk/.a/6a00d8345192e469e2011570bfdc82970b-800wi
:laugh2:

*thinks Ben is hot*

Locke.
05-06-2011, 12:56 AM
:shocked:

Oh My God.

It is said at the start of the video

OtFqfX4qpWQ

michael21
05-06-2011, 12:56 AM
:shocked:

Oh My God.

how do you no my real name

Claymores
05-06-2011, 01:21 AM
LOL - I like being called Ian by the people who remember it - I also giggle when people as Stu or so call me a twonk. I know somw people's real names but who wish to remain anonymous.

It is a trust thing both ways - sooty can call me Ian - I can call her soots

Benjamin
05-06-2011, 01:34 AM
http://blogs.orange.co.uk/.a/6a00d8345192e469e2011570bfdc82970b-800wi

Yinscot-EBw

Smithy
05-06-2011, 01:35 AM
*BB10 :tongue:

Stu
05-06-2011, 01:36 AM
I think I've fallen for him.

Smithy
05-06-2011, 01:37 AM
He has a nipple ring stu :evilgrin:

Patrick
05-06-2011, 01:39 AM
I think I've fallen for him.

-Doesn't know if you are being serious or not-

*BB10 :tongue:

LOL This.

And Aw Thanks Ben for voting :love:.

Benjamin
05-06-2011, 01:42 AM
-Doesn't know if you are being serious or not-



LOL This.

And Aw Thanks Ben for voting :love:.

oh yeah, BB10, but now worries about the vote, I was the onw who metioned your turnaround and the rants. They do make me chuckle now that you seldom go into them. :)

Stu
05-06-2011, 01:43 AM
He has a nipple ring stu :evilgrin:
:amazed:

Locke.
05-06-2011, 01:43 AM
I have finally realized who Ben has reminded me of for so long :shocked:

http://images4.fanpop.com/image/photos/15000000/Eric-Balfour-as-Milo-Pressman-24-15078451-440-600.jpg

King Gizzard
05-06-2011, 01:44 AM
I have thought this for a while, dead ringer of Ben

http://www.heyuguys.co.uk/images/2010/07/Joaquin-Phoenix.jpg

Stu
05-06-2011, 01:46 AM
His like a trendy Derren Brown I think.

InOne
05-06-2011, 02:51 AM
No I don't mind. But it's a shame I share my name on here with some ginger twat

LemonJam
05-06-2011, 03:02 AM
Call me by my normal name, I call you shetface.

CharlieO
05-06-2011, 07:45 AM
If you can work out my real name I'd be delighted to be called it.

Pyramid*
05-06-2011, 08:16 AM
I like my username and I'm quite happy with that being used (obviously, otherwise you'd all know me as Connie - not my real name !!)

Pyramid*
05-06-2011, 08:16 AM
If you can work out my real name I'd be delighted to be called it.

Jeff? :spin:

Lee.
05-06-2011, 09:26 AM
Seeing as Happyland is one of the most ridiculous usernames on here, I'd much rather be called Lee.

Redway
05-06-2011, 09:39 AM
I certainly do. If it was my first name, I wouldn't be too fussed - but my full name would be a complete invasion of privacy. :)

Jarrod
05-06-2011, 09:44 AM
I'm signed up as my Real Name so.. :L

Harry!
05-06-2011, 07:46 PM
Yes

Kerry
05-06-2011, 08:15 PM
I certainly do. If it was my first name, I wouldn't be too fussed - but my full name would be a complete invasion of privacy. :)

I meant just first name. Or the one you use IRL

Doogle
05-06-2011, 08:31 PM
My real name is Dylan and only Niall calls me that.

I'm fine with Doogle because more people call me that irl than Dylan. :joker:

I also accept "Doogs".

Ithinkiloveyoutoo
06-06-2011, 12:44 AM
yes I do cause i like to act the fool in forums sometimes and just in case there's any chance someone i know and act serious around drops by I dont want them to see me act the fool :D

Zippy
06-06-2011, 01:04 AM
I don't mind in PMs but not in posts. Not for any great reasons but it would just seem weird now.