If you could change one feature of yourself, what would it be?

[Z]

With no consequences like scarring or people commenting on it, you just suddenly get to change one aspect of yourself, whether it be appearance, personality or whatever - what would it be?

[Smithy]

everything

[LemonJam]

My self-conciousness needs a loosening.

[Doogle]

Nothing, I'm perfect. :love:

(just kidding)

Um I'd probably change my nose. It's too big. :bored: Actually no, I'm not bothered about my appearance, if people have a problem with my appearance they're not worth my time tbh. Um okay I guess I'd change how bitchy I am. I hate that about me, but at the same time I kind of love it :laugh:

[Pyramid*]

Height.

I'm only 5'4".

I so envy very tall ladies - always wanted to be at least 5'8" / 5'9". Oh for the want of a good few inches!!!! :joker: Ahem.

[Novo]

Not really sure about my appearance but i would love to change the way i see some people though or groups of people.. i have a pretty stereotypical type view on everyone i see which is a pretty bad thing really

[Boothy]

I'd change the fact I get chronic back pain if I stay in one position for too long :bored:

[Benjamin]

My voice. :sad:

[Chuck]

I'm too judgemental. :bored: and I'm not happy about my stretch marks either :sad:

[LemonJam]

I'd change the fact I get chronic back pain if I stay in one position for too long :bored:

:evilgrin:

[Princess]

I'd like perfect skin.

[Ninastar]

I don't think I want to say what I would really change about myself, but I think i would change the fact that I'm a bit two faces. Im getting better though

[Locke.]

I've got a cows lick, would change that.

[Lewis.]

Would change the fact that I feel need to be nice to everyone all of the time and I need to start seeing the world for what it is and stop trying to block out all of the bad in people and only seeing the good. Some would say it's a nice quality but it can make me a bit of a pushover in certain situations and people take advantage a lot.

[Kerry]

I've got a cows lick, would change that.

Me too. Don't think I'd change it though

Think I'd like to gain confidence

[Jords]

Appearance:
- Fatness ~ makes me feel disgusting some days and makes me feel judged all the time, am dieting + exercising a bit to change this
- Stretch Marks ~ from losing weight, gaining it back, losing again etc. Theyll fade I hope
- My voice ~ I wish it was deeper it would probably make me more comfortable talking aloud
- Quite a few other things tbh, but them the main 3

Personality:
- Be more confident in social situations and in public speaking, I hold back a lot in case I offend, say something stupid etc.
- Bit like Lewis, get more of a backbone and be myself and dont feel the need to always be nice, some people deserve a bitching at or punch
- Hide my feelings more, I used to be expert at this but since last year I cant help showing if Im pissed or sad anymore and Im worried this puts people off talking to me now


Im really hating on myself over things tonight so Imma list everything I hate to see what I need to work on. Im generally a happy person but people at school can be such ****ers.

[joeysteele]

More confidence,I am okay in some situations but often even when I know I could I back down fron doing or saying something I really should.

[Kerry]

Appearance:
- Fatness ~ makes me feel disgusting some days and makes me feel judged all the time, am dieting + exercising a bit to change this
- Stretch Marks ~ from losing weight, gaining it back, losing again etc. Theyll fade I hope
- My voice ~ I wish it was deeper it would probably make me more comfortable talking aloud
- Quite a few other things tbh, but them the main 3

Personality:
- Be more confident in social situations and in public speaking, I hold back a lot in case I offend, say something stupid etc.
- Bit like Lewis, get more of a backbone and be myself and dont feel the need to always be nice, some people deserve a bitching at or punch
- Hide my feelings more, I used to be expert at this but since last year I cant help showing if Im pissed or sad anymore and Im worried this puts people off talking to me now


Im really hating on myself over things tonight so Imma list everything I hate to see what I need to work on. Im generally a happy person but people at school can be such ****ers.

:(

:hug:

Don't hate yourself. Certainly no need to!

[Chuck]

Appearance:
- Fatness ~ makes me feel disgusting some days and makes me feel judged all the time, am dieting + exercising a bit to change this
- Stretch Marks ~ from losing weight, gaining it back, losing again etc. Theyll fade I hope
- My voice ~ I wish it was deeper it would probably make me more comfortable talking aloud
- Quite a few other things tbh, but them the main 3

Personality:
- Be more confident in social situations and in public speaking, I hold back a lot in case I offend, say something stupid etc.
- Bit like Lewis, get more of a backbone and be myself and dont feel the need to always be nice, some people deserve a bitching at or punch
- Hide my feelings more, I used to be expert at this but since last year I cant help showing if Im pissed or sad anymore and Im worried this puts people off talking to me now


Im really hating on myself over things tonight so Imma list everything I hate to see what I need to work on. Im generally a happy person but people at school can be such ****ers.

:hug:

[Jordan.]

I hate my smile I wish I had really white straight teeth

+ being more open with people.

['Conor]

everything

awh :(

-hugs-

['Conor]

My voice. :sad:

:nono: you have a sexy voice

[Zippy]

More patience.

I can get quite snappy and aggressive with people.

[Jords]

:(

:hug:

Don't hate yourself. Certainly no need to!

:hug:

Ill be fine but thanks :hug:

[Benjamin]

Appearance:
- Fatness ~ makes me feel disgusting some days and makes me feel judged all the time, am dieting + exercising a bit to change this
- Stretch Marks ~ from losing weight, gaining it back, losing again etc. Theyll fade I hope
- My voice ~ I wish it was deeper it would probably make me more comfortable talking aloud
- Quite a few other things tbh, but them the main 3

Personality:
- Be more confident in social situations and in public speaking, I hold back a lot in case I offend, say something stupid etc.
- Bit like Lewis, get more of a backbone and be myself and dont feel the need to always be nice, some people deserve a bitching at or punch
- Hide my feelings more, I used to be expert at this but since last year I cant help showing if Im pissed or sad anymore and Im worried this puts people off talking to me now


Im really hating on myself over things tonight so Imma list everything I hate to see what I need to work on. Im generally a happy person but people at school can be such ****ers.

Dude all of those things you have listed are things that will change over the next few years. I used to be pretty much like that when I was younger, but as time goes on you find that you become more determined and confident with things. Your body will also change. You have pretty much described the feeling of most guys your age. :)

[Jords]

Dude all of those things you have listed are things that will change over the next few years. I used to be pretty much like that when I was younger, but as time goes on you find that you become more determined and confident with things. Your body will also change. You have pretty much described the feeling of most guys your age. :)

I really hope so but I cant see it right now. I find it really hard to be consistant, in April I lost 9 pounds and in May I put it all back on :(

And I hope so, some days I feel good about myself and find my voice and others I just wanna blend into the background (but then get down because of this).

[Benjamin]

I really hope so but I cant see it right now. I find it really hard to be consistant, in April I lost 9 pounds and in May I put it all back on :(

And I hope so, some days I feel good about myself and find my voice and others I just wanna blend into the background (but then get down because of this).

Trust me, they will change with time. Heck you're half way there already knowing and admitting things that you want to change and knowing you are not 100% perfect. That makes you human. You can't change everything about yourself of course, some things you just have to live with (like I have to live with my accent) but I try to focus on the good qualities I have (which I'm happy to admit I have, whereas at your age I wouldn't have the confidence or self- esteem to have done that).

Don't wish your life away, enjoy what you have while you have it. :)

[Jords]

Trust me, they will change with time. Heck you're half way there already knowing and admitting things that you want to change and knowing you are not 100% perfect. That makes you human. You can't change everything about yourself of course, some things you just have to live with (like I have to live with my accent) but I try to focus on the good qualities I have (which I'm happy to admit I have, whereas at your age I wouldn't have the confidence or self- esteem to have done that).

Don't wish your life away, enjoy what you have while you have it. :)

Your last sentence is so true! It annoys me that I dont always enjoy life as much as I could be doing -.-
Im literally 'starting a new leaf' every 3/4 weeks its quite silly. I wake up on Monday all ready for the new week and by Wednesday its life FML :laugh: But cheers for the reply Ben, its helpful :spin:

[Benjamin]

Your last sentence is so true! It annoys me that I dont always enjoy life as much as I could be doing -.-
Im literally 'starting a new leaf' every 3/4 weeks its quite silly. I wake up on Monday all ready for the new week and by Wednesday its life FML :laugh: But cheers for the reply Ben, its helpful :spin:

Set yourself goals, one thing at a time. That helps. And no worries buddy. :hugesmile:

[King Gizzard]

to be taller, 6''5 is in the middle of being just tall and being a giant..I wanna be a giant :sad:

Probably have smaller feet too cause it's a bastard trying to get shoes anywhere other then online

[Kerry]

Height.

I'm only 5'4".

I so envy very tall ladies - always wanted to be at least 5'8" / 5'9". Oh for the want of a good few inches!!!! :joker: Ahem.

I'm the opposite. I love being short (5ft 2)

[Zippy]

Jords, you have a great personality and always been one of the few people I really like here. The physical stuff will sort itself out in time. Not only will your body change but you'll become more comfortable in your own skin. :)