Relationships

[hannah.]

are so hard. please help. when do you know it's time to give up?

[InOne]

When there is no trust and you hate eachother?

[hannah.]

oh. probably time then. I think im too stubborn to even end it.

[hannah.]

trust is a big deal. he knows i don't trust him and although he claims to trust me, I've done things recently that make me wish he didn't. aarghhhhh. I wish I could start again

[Kerry]

I wouldn't think about it if you've had a drink though if ending it is even crossing your mind it speaks volumes....

[InOne]

Is it one of those "I hate you don't leave me" type things?

[hannah.]

the thing is i want to be with him so much. and I love him so much. and we only ever discuss splitting up whilst in the middle if an argument. we still want to be together most of the time, and things are amazing, but we have the WORST rows about stupid things. and they're brutal and incredibly unhealthy.

[ILoveTRW]

if the sex aint good then cut it

[hannah.]

if the sex aint good then cut it

the sex is so good I have proposed that if we were to split up it should continue. he said this wouldn't be possible as he'd miss me and it's be weird. pussy.

[InOne]

the sex is so good I have proposed that if we were to split up it should continue. he said this wouldn't be possible as he'd miss me and it's be weird. pussy.

For some reason that reminded of this song


wSzyKO_kW_s


Not that you are one :tongue:

[ILoveTRW]

the sex is so good I have proposed that if we were to split up it should continue. he said this wouldn't be possible as he'd miss me and it's be weird. pussy.

Strange, most men would jump at no strings attached sex.

[hannah.]

I know.

[hannah.]

For some reason that reminded of this song


wSzyKO_kW_s


Not that you are one :tongue:

not showing up. what song is it?

[InOne]

Buckcherry - Crazy Bitch

[Pyramid*]

Simple answer. When the good times are incredibly good - the pros, when the bad times are incredibly bad -the cons and on balance: when the cons outweight the pros....... when you spend more time not being happy......it's time to call it a day.

[arista]

are so hard. please help. when do you know it's time to give up?

You get a buzz
a feeling like no other,
that goes and the feeling is no longer there

It could be time to me on
babe

[Beastie]

Simple answer. When the good times are incredibly good - the pros, when the bad times are incredibly bad -the cons and on balance: when the cons outweight the pros....... when you spend more time not being happy......it's time to call it a day.

Time to call it a day??

TIME TO CALL IT A DAY???????

Noooooooooooo! :bawling:

[joeysteele]

Simple answer. When the good times are incredibly good - the pros, when the bad times are incredibly bad -the cons and on balance: when the cons outweight the pros....... when you spend more time not being happy......it's time to call it a day.

I've not yet had a serious relationship but I believe if I do, I will work as hard as I can to make it work,there needs to be less of what about me and what about us in relationships,however you still need to have your own little space too.
Trust, support and knowing you are there totally for each other needs to be the basis for a good relationship I think, whether that relationship is family, friendship or a love/married one.

AS you say Pyramid weigh up the pros and cons, I also am someone who believes in the plus and minus plan of relationships, if one outnumbers the other on the important issues then an answer may be clearer.
If the plus figure is greater there is much to build on then, if the minus figure is greater then its likely to get worse because some vital elements needed to make a relationship work will have gone.

I wish the OP the very best if they are having a bad time as to a relationship at present.I would never advise anyone on anything as all situations have different aspects to them but often once the rot does set in then it's likely to get far worse and become even more lonely and painful in such a relationship.

[Jords]

Simple answer. When the good times are incredibly good - the pros, when the bad times are incredibly bad -the cons and on balance: when the cons outweight the pros....... when you spend more time not being happy......it's time to call it a day.

This.

[Livia]

are so hard. please help. when do you know it's time to give up?

If you're asking the question, you already know the answer.

[Pyramid*]

If you're asking the question, you already know the answer.

Agree on this: but sometimes you just need another opinion - ie: you know in your head what the right thing to do is: but the heart is ruling the head.

Sometimes we just need that bit of affirmation from others that we 'are' thinking the right way (if that makes sense).

It's hard to break up especially when you do love the person. Thing is: being in love, or loving someone does not automatically make the relationship work, not does it mean it's a healthy relationship.

Life is indeed a real bummer at time.

Be strong Hannah, and give yourself time to lick your wounds if you make the decision I think you probably already have.

[CharlieO]

Go on a break. See if you can find anything better.

But if you have doubts then its clearly not good enough, always strive for perfection there is no harm in having high standards.

[Ninastar]

Honestly like others said, if its on your mind a lot then I think you know the answer. and this may sound really patronizing, but you probably love him, you just don't know if your in love with him. I don't think thats a reason for you to break up, but then at least you know he probably isn't 'the one'

[Sawyer]

Excuse me for being forward, but judging but your avatar, is this guy a prat?

If it doesn't work out, I can be your plan b. No joke.

[Pyramid*]

Excuse me for being forward, but judging but your avatar, is this guy a prat?

If it doesn't work out, I can be your plan b. No joke.

Get your coat Hannah...you've pulled !!

[Novo]

I have a song that will help you make up your mind listen to it once and then you will know the answer

Y8raabzZNqw

[hannah.]

Excuse me for being forward, but judging but your avatar, is this guy a prat?

If it doesn't work out, I can be your plan b. No joke.

hahaha