terrible bullying, not good.

[stoatshady]

He was a complete arse but what i saw last night was bullying. No one should be singledout and picked on to the point of suicide! Lea Sezerand Lisa should all recieve official warnings for their behaviour.

[JakeyBoy]

I felt so bad for him... I actually was starting to warm to him and when he tried to explain about the mint thing they just laughed at him which I can relate to

Bad Richard! :nono:

[Razmataz]

Bullying is a sick and now somewhat natural part of the human life, everyone is a bully at some point whether it's physical or mental.

Shahbaz isn't one hundred percent clean really.

His efforts at touching up the housemates and making them feel really uncomfortable can be seen as a ploy of physical bullying to get him friends.

To the true word they all turned on him for what he had done, and most likely most of us would've done the same.

If your that angry about someones actions you tend to rip them apart piece by piece till there is nothing left, it happens day in day out...it's nothing new and because it happened on TV you share your opinion on it.

But if you see it out on the street or in your local school you walk on by and ignore it.

Its hypocritcal. Were all bullies and were all bullied at some point in our life, Shahbaz will move on.

And now so must we. Whether we liked him or disliked him, his road is over.

[JakeyBoy]

Originally posted by Gladders
But if you see it out on the street or in your local school you walk on by and ignore it.


Speak for yourself there Gladders!

I'm always off defending people who get bullied and stuff

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by JakeyBoy
Originally posted by Gladders
But if you see it out on the street or in your local school you walk on by and ignore it.


Speak for yourself there Gladders!

I'm always off defending people who get bullied and stuff

There is only a certain amount of stopping that can be done! and nobody can single handedly change this horrible and quite vicious part of human life.

Everyone probably tries to help the bullied....but nobody makes such a deal of it because it's low key.

But when it gets broadcast to over 6 million people, people soon realise there is a problem.

[Wellsita]

Shabaz will definitely move on, but that does not mean it makes it right to bully someone, especially in such a coward way! The worst was Sezar throwing his food in the bin, twice, and Lisa calling Shabaz a food waster! Then silly Nikki trying to throw his juice in the sink and Lea coming to her rescue when she was in the wrong! They were out of order! Shabaz was very annoying and selfish and kept shooting himself in the foot, like Pete said. But he did not deserve to be treated like an animal, locked outside and Sezar saying that they should give him the smoked bacon crisps! Even Richard, who started all that, was feeling it was a bit too much! But now, Shabaz is in the limelight and probably will get more opportunities, if he plays his cards right, than most of the people in the house!

[Razmataz]

Originally posted by Wellsita
Shabaz will definitely move on, but that does not mean it makes it right to bully someone, especially in such a coward way! The worst was Sezar throwing his food in the bin, twice, and Lisa calling Shabaz a food waster! Then silly Nikki trying to throw his juice in the sink and Lea coming to her rescue when she was in the wrong! They were out of order! Shabaz was very annoying and selfish and kept shooting himself in the foot, like Pete said. But he did not deserve to be treated like an animal, locked outside and Sezar saying that they should give him the smoked bacon crisps! Even Richard, who started all that, was feeling it was a bit too much! But now, Shabaz is in the limelight and probably will get more opportunities, if he plays his cards right, than most of the people in the house!


Shahbaz was being bullied in a complete tosspot of a way! but it's like he said "don't bite the hand that feeds you" and he was biting it a hell of a lot on last night highlights show....so in a way he provoked his own demise.

But that doesn't mean i agree with what happened the slightest.

[Ruth]

I thought the other housemates behaved badly towards him - taking his clothes and locking him out of the house. Their behaviour was no better than the sort you see in primary school playgrounds. Sezer seemed to be the main ringleader - I liked him when he went in the house, but have gone off him now.

The only one who seemed at all bothered about Shahbaz was Pete - I felt for pete in the diary room when he said that he didn't know how to stick up for Shahbaz...he obviously felt caught in the middle, and we've all been there.

Incidentally, how edited was Shahbaz's diary room talk when he left the house? One minute he was saying how happy he was, the next he was being gently persuaded to leave! It all felt a bit disjointed.

[Lance]

I have a similar view as you, Gladders.

As much as bullying is inacceptable, it is a huge part of human life now and that is really highlighted every year in Big Brother.

If dealt with properly in the BB house it could be a positive thing. People who watch should get the feeling that bullying will not be tolerated.

However, in this case, the bullies won and Shahbaz caved in. I think the highlight shows were edited extremely unfairly on some people. Shahbaz really brought a lot of the grief on himself but a lot of that was cut on the highlights. Like you said Ruth, everything seemed a bit disjointed.

[saj]

whether or not you liked shahbaz, nobody can make excuses for the bullying yesterday and im glad to see nobody has.at the end of the day lookat Jade goody, she was hated by her hms, whose laughing now

[hass]

you cant compare jade goody to shabhaz. he should not have been allowed on big brother if he was unstable as he made out he was. he brought it on himself, he went around touching people, annoying people, causing arguments, hiding food etc but oh no, when someone bullies him thers about 10 topics on it. he bullied himself, good ridance.

[saj]

nobody is saying he wasnt annoying hass but they were also nasty!

[Lance]

Originally posted by hass
you cant compare jade goody to shabhaz. he should not have been allowed on big brother if he was unstable as he made out he was. he brought it on himself, he went around touching people, annoying people, causing arguments, hiding food etc but oh no, when someone bullies him thers about 10 topics on it. he bullied himself, good ridance.

I have to agree, Hass. There's no comparison to Jade at all and Shahbaz did bring most of it, if not all of it, on himself.

[Jay]

I think they did go abit to far, but look at all the times Shahbaz went to far.

[hass]

they were nasty yes but they had a good reason to. he hid their food in the bin outside all night because he was in a strop. what a tw*t. And the he had the audacity to say "dont bit the hand that feeds you" like he had been out and worked for the food, which is a bit funny because he aint worked in his entire life! there was no excuse for his behaviour and the other housemates retaliated to his behaviour. he got what he deserved.

[albie]

Large Sister should give him the money, and not tell the winkers in the house. That'll learn 'em.

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