People who say it wasnt bullying

[shauny007]

I think you will find your wrong, watching it again today, and it is..

As for Sezar, if he grabbed my cereal bowl for a 2nd time and poured it all out the smug little sh*t would have been on the floor :laugh: Then all the others go mental accusing Shahbaz of wasting food and milk !!! Umm sorry you will find its the asshole whos pouring someones breakfast out twice who is the waster...

[hass]

but did lisa actually see this happening? no she never, she stormed over and had a go at him and within about 5 seconds she was called to the diary room without anyone actually telling her what had happened. all she seen was shabhaz pouring a load of milk onto a heap of cereal, and in her eyes it was being wasteful.

Also, didnt shahbaz say that sezer didnt have the right to touch his food, when the other night he crept into the kitchen and put all the food into the garden?

He was a joke!

[shauny007]

Ok if Lisa did not see what exactly went on she shoudnt have opened her vulgar mouth..

As for what Sezar did that was just pure wrong, what Shahbaz did with the food hiding was no big deal.. For someone to insult you and pour your cereal out not once but twice in front of a group is bullying. How can you stand up for a bunch of wan*ers and say what they did was right, you would be one of the followers not a individual.

[hass]

no i would of been an individual and stand up for myself against shabhaz.

it was all about him in the house. Lisa should have opened her mouth because the food has to feed all of the housemates and not just him, and he was eating all the food because he was in a big strop!

[NateJ]

Shahbaz was not bullied. The HMs reacted to his terrible behaviour and inability to respect them. Starting with invading people's personal space...

He had every oportunity to help himself, but instead he chose to make things worse. He wasn't bullied, he was stupid and behaved like a 7 year old boy (rather than a 37 year old man). He was treated with the complete contempt he deserved. I am surprised it took as long as it did for the HMs to finally flip out on him.

[shauny007]

Sorry if I missed something here, but Shahbaz was eating all the food !! Where did you see or hear this, from what I saw some a$$hole poured his cereal out twice, thats a waste for a start, he was eating 1 pkt of crisps, and the idiots later on teased him with crisps through the patio doors.

Out of everyone I think Shahbaz ate the least in the house.

[hass]

no u dont get it. what lisa seen was shabhaz using most of the milk and loads of cereal so she flipped on him. end of. i would of done the same!

who cares anyway, hes gone. dont cry over spilt milk :joker:

[Chrizzle]

I wouldnt call it bullying
He gave as good as he got

It wasnt nice, but bullying is to far

[Chrizzle]

*he got as good as he gav

[Wellsita]

Originally posted by hass
he was eating all the food because he was in a big strop!

There isn't a time I look at Nikki that she is not eating!
Shabaz was serving a third bowl of cereal because Sezar kept on throwing his food away! Sezar was being disrespectful and a bully! But I don't expect someone that has Maxwell as his/hers avatar to understand the meaning of respecting your fellow housemates! Sezar is Maxwell all over again!
As for Lisa, she is vulgar and horrible!

[hass]

yer i liked maxwell and how didnt he repsect his housemates?

sezer was disrepectful because shahbaz disrepected all of the housemates by acting like a complete tw*t and hiding the food. he deserved what happened to him. i dont care what anyone says.

[shauny007]

Hass that is because you are probaly a bully yourself, if by the way you explain things to try and make the situation look like it was self justified....

I am not crying by the way :laugh: far from it, just having my say, like you are.

if you think throwing someones cereal away is not bullying thats fine, wait until something like that happens to yourself in a group and you would soon know how it feels.

If you think all walking out a room when you walk in is not child'ish for adults to do, thankfully George realised he was a individual and didnt feel the need to follow the pack of morons.

If you think locking someone out a house, and taking away his clothes, is ok, that is your opinion.

[hass]

yer it is my opinion the same way that what you have said is your opinion. and the situation was self justified, sezer threw away the cerial because he didnt think it was anyones, but it turned out to be shahbaz'. and i dont think i would add insult to injury and say "who do you think you are to touch my things" when he hid all the food in the garden.

an no i am not a bully. i will stick to my beliefs and would not let myself get bullied by anyone.

[InTheHood]

Bullying comes in many forms, not just the obvious ones.

Shahbaz was annoying to some housemates, and some were rather unkind to him, and others joined the bandwagon.

He didn't help himself, but then, he doesn't know that, as he has serious issues, and Shahbaz saw his way as the right way.

To laugh at his manhood and his obvious disability, the way Richard, Nikki and others did, was a sign of ignorance on their parts. It's not as if they are anything special.

[hass]

i didnt know he was disabled?

[InTheHood]

Originally posted by hass
i didnt know he was disabled?

Mentally.

Physically he is fine ( as far as I am aware)

I would diagnose him as Aspergers or High Functioning Autism, although it's not my field to diagnose, i'll leave that to my peers.

He clearly isn't right, he hasn't worked for how many years?

[InTheHood]

Also, not on this thread, but on another, calling him Shah**** is bang out of order.

I saw it earlier, can't find it again, or who said it.

[hass]

never seen that. he hasnt worked for about 25 years and is claiming off the dole. so its people like me and you paying for him to go into the house and for him to sit at home watching DVD's!!

[InTheHood]

I'd say he was very unstable, and is probably on some kind of higher scale Incapacity Benefit. I don't think he could work, and if he could, it would have to be a very specific job.

I think the system has let him down, it doesn't appear to be that he's had much encouragement to find work, or gets much support, when clearly, he needs alot of it.

Not that i'd know what he does get, but I get the feeling, he's left to his own devices, when really, he needs keeping an eye on.

[texbex]

well I think it wasnt bullying but then again I still wouldnt tolerate that sort of abuse happening to me I am surpised bb didnt punish every hm about that.I am glad Shabaz has left becuase I dont think I could take him going thru anymore of the abuse it was awful to watch!

By the way whoever called him Sha**** or summit wants to get a life!:mad:

[Tanser_Man]

What pissed me off the most about Sezer was the talking in bed issue.

Sezer had only just got back into his bed, and raised his voice louder then Shahbaz's to tell him to shut up, sayin he is trying to get some sleep. I thought that was sly and you could see his eyes moving waiting to instigate yet another arguement.

Sezer is scum in my eyes and i can't wait untill he's up for the vote.

[texbex]

yeah I seen that 2 he sed he was trying to get bk to sleep unless he sleeps with his eyes open I think he has a serious problem :rolleyes:

[Wellsita]

Originally posted by Tanser_Man
What p****d me off the most about Sezer was the talking in bed issue.

I saw that and it p***** me off as well! He is a w*****, just like Maxwell! They think because they come from London they are better than anyone else! My husband is a londoner and hates the likes of both of them because of that! They give London boys a bad name!
As for you, Hass, I rest my case...I am not here to discuss with people that think they are right and whoever don't agree with them is wrong! Grow up!

[missposh]

at first i quite liked sezer but after last night i cant stand the ****er
he walks round like he is sumthing special get him out all he ever thinks bout is sex n pulling all the girls in the house

[bridget]

Ipersonally think that sezer was out of order but shaz would have wound me up big time but he was entertaining ! I think it's a case of 6 of 1 and half a dozen of the other gonna miss shaz tho he was good to watch if not a little irritating!

Richard to win!!!!!

[Chrizzle]

Originally posted by Wellsita
Originally posted by Tanser_Man
What p****d me off the most about Sezer was the talking in bed issue.

I saw that and it p***** me off as well! He is a w*****, just like Maxwell! They think because they come from London they are better than anyone else! My husband is a londoner and hates the likes of both of them because of that! They give London boys a bad name!
As for you, Hass, I rest my case...I am not here to discuss with people that think they are right and whoever don't agree with them is wrong! Grow up!

It has nothing to do with london
Whats Maxwell got to do with it?
A lot of housemates come from London

[kemal]

in my opinion they bullied shabaz!!! I felt so bad for him...how bad must he have felt when they all ganged up on him?? i dont know how shabaz didnt put that cereal bowl through sezars head!!!