Going Out Or Staying In?

[CharlieO]

Which do you prefer, a quiet night in with some nice food or something, or a big night out on the town?

[Niamh.]

Depends on my mood really but I've gotten quite lazy so my night out usually consists of a few glasses of wine infront of the telly!

[Chuck]

Staying in when you wish you were partying hard feels awful and vice-versa.

But most of the times I'd rather go out to my favourite clubs/bars, have a very wild night then go to an after hours party and dance until 11:00/12:00. :laugh:

I also really like inviting friends to spend the weekend at my house too. There's plenty of space, my family isn't too bothered about the mess and noise and we usually go out on friday then we all go back to my house to rest for a bit and on saturday, my sister and her friends usually have some barbecue with loud music etc so we just stay there eating trying to get rid of the headache :laugh: at night we go out again and on sunday afternoon we watch football together at an outdoor bar near my house.

[Maia]

Quiet night in. I don't like going out at night, going out in the daytime is much more preferable.

[Josy]

Staying in with my oh, pjs on, cuddling up and watching tv with some munchies.

[Niamh.]

Staying in with my oh, pjs on, cuddling up and watching tv with some munchies.

lol, we'd get on well in r/l Josy :laugh:

[Josy]

lol, we'd get on well in r/l Josy :laugh:

:laugh:

[Tom]

When its hot its all about going out and getting smashed to the point you pass out or wake up in a wheelie bin

When its in the darkest depths of winter its all about takeaway & DVD nights with the gf

Curbing going out atm though (even though I'm out tonight, with a broken arm in this heat, gonna have to wear a shirt :bored:), not fair on the pregnant and hormonal one if I'm always falling through the door at 6am and shes just waking up :joker:

[Chuck]

When its hot its all about going out and getting smashed to the point you pass out or wake up in a wheelie bin


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[Ramsay]

Im heading out tonight so...yeah...heading out

[Tom]

^ yeah thats pretty much what happens when I go out. Fell asleep in Piccadilly Gardens in Manchester once, was with my mates and as soon as a paper shop opened at 7am we went in and bought more beer

Worse still, I was in college that day at 12pm and I still went armed with my bottle of "water" :blush2: that was interesting

[Iceman]

Staying in when you wish you were partying hard feels awful and vice-versa.

But most of the times I'd rather go out to my favourite clubs/bars, have a very wild night then go to an after hours party and dance until 11:00/12:00. :laugh:

I also really like inviting friends to spend the weekend at my house too. There's plenty of space, my family isn't too bothered about the mess and noise and we usually go out on friday then we all go back to my house to rest for a bit and on saturday, my sister and her friends usually have some barbecue with loud music etc so we just stay there eating trying to get rid of the headache :laugh: at night we go out again and on sunday afternoon we watch football together at an outdoor bar near my house.

Adopt me :love:

[Locke.]

Depends where it is. I'm bored of town now and prefer going other places.. always end up in town when we go out though

[Iceman]

Yeah I used to always go out about 4-5 nights a week, now I prefer to stay in then go out for an hour or two then go to a party or session.....

[Chuck]

Adopt me :love:

Sure :love:

In your case we'd also go to Interlagos to watch F1. :evilgrin:

[Iceman]

Sure :love:

In your case we'd also go to Interlagos to watch F1. :evilgrin:

:amazed: and we could boo Massa and cheer Bruno Senna:dance:

[Jords]

Depends, I like doing both but Chuck's right its so frustrating when youre stuck in and wanna go out and vice-versa.

[Doogle]

Staying in. Everyone I know goes out and gets pissed though.

[Chuck]

:amazed: and we could boo Massa and cheer Bruno Senna:dance:

We wouldn't be the only ones :joker:

[InOne]

Bit of both. If there is something going on I'll go out. But don't mind either way, I'm past the age that I feel I'm missing out on something if I don't go out every weekend

[Chuck]

Bit of both. If there is something going on I'll go out. But don't mind either way, I'm past the age that I feel I'm missing out on something if I don't go out every weekend

That's me most of the times.

[InOne]

That's me most of the times.

Well where you live there's probs lots going on so it's better lo

[Tom]

That's me most of the times.

Nothing worse than going on Facebook on a Sunday morning when you've not been out :(

[Sam:)]

I like going out but only do it 1/2 weeks a month (money by the time I pay in and get drinks and that)

[MTVN]

I probably like both equally, I don't like to be going on nights out all the time, one or two a week is normally fine tbh

[Vicky.]

Night in.

[Marsh.]

Lately and especially months leading up to Christmas there's nothing better than getting in from work when it's already dark, getting my PJs on, chilling infront of the fire with a book, TV, laptop or something. And if I do go out it's usually in a small group to the pub for a few hours or to watch a game or play pool.

Don't do clubs or getting pissed to the point where I can't remember who I am. Think I grew out of that when I left school.

[Chuck]

Nothing worse than going on Facebook on a Sunday morning when you've not been out :(

I know :bored: Happy people having fun without us is just :nono:

[Ramsay]

**** my life ...was meant to head out tonight to japanese popstars but im too sick urgggggggggh

[Chuck]

**** my life ...was meant to head out tonight to japanese popstars but im too sick urgggggggggh

2LajAPE7ESY

:dance2: :dance2: :dance2:

[InOne]

Depends on my mood really but I've gotten quite lazy so my night out usually consists of a few glasses of wine infront of the telly!

More like a few bottles :idc:

Just sayin' :tongue:

[Kerry]

In. Few drinks. Takeaway

[Patrick]

Because I'm not legal to get served in bars or clubs at the moment - have to wait until like next year :idc: I basically have to just walk around town when drinking [unlucky].

But It's good banter really.

Although I do love it when your house is free for the weekend and you can get loads of people up, feels alot better than walking around town with drinks.

Alot more chilled out, yet Immense when you're in the house having a party.

But yes, as soon as I can get served in a good club - I'll be there.

[Patrick]

In. Few drinks. Takeaway

Also in regards to this and to what Niamh said, I really don't understand how middle aged women can sit infront of the telly with a take away - drinking wine?

My Mum has now got to the point of doing it, I miss the days when she used to have her fit friends into the house drinking until Sunday.

I just don't get it though?

I mean surely when you're drinking wine infront of the TV by yourself or whatever - your main goal isn't to get completely smashed is it?

And even if you got 'Abit Tipsy' what is the point? When you're going to bed straight afterwards. :idc:

It just seems like a dull, boring waste to me.

I can understand - a couple of drinks of beer in the house and then going out clubbing, but I don't get this whole 'Let's drink wine with a lovely Chinese Take Out ladies! :)' thing that women seem to do.

[reece(:]

I like nights out round friends houses, and a local pub serves us which is a big plus :D

[Smithy]

Because I'm not legal to get served in bars or clubs at the moment - have to wait until like next year :idc: .

...still not legal

[Patrick]

...still not legal

They honestly don't care here, because people - well kids, in the year above me get served in any club in town.

[GypsyGoth]

Quiet night in :lovedup:

[Ramsay]

Once ya hit 15/16 around here anywhere will let ya in with any sort of dodgy ID its pretty sad really

[InOne]

Also in regards to this and to what Niamh said, I really don't understand how middle aged women can sit infront of the telly with a take away - drinking wine?

My Mum has now got to the point of doing it, I miss the days when she used to have her fit friends into the house drinking until Sunday.

I just don't get it though?

I mean surely when you're drinking wine infront of the TV by yourself or whatever - your main goal isn't to get completely smashed is it?

And even if you got 'Abit Tipsy' what is the point? When you're going to bed straight afterwards. :idc:

It just seems like a dull, boring waste to me.

I can understand - a couple of drinks of beer in the house and then going out clubbing, but I don't get this whole 'Let's drink wine with a lovely Chinese Take Out ladies! :)' thing that women seem to do.

:shocked: :joker:

They'll slaughter you for that

[Chuck]

I still have my fake ID that I bought when I was 13. :idc:

[Kerry]

Also in regards to this and to what Niamh said, I really don't understand how middle aged women can sit infront of the telly with a take away - drinking wine?

My Mum has now got to the point of doing it, I miss the days when she used to have her fit friends into the house drinking until Sunday.

I just don't get it though?

I mean surely when you're drinking wine infront of the TV by yourself or whatever - your main goal isn't to get completely smashed is it?

And even if you got 'Abit Tipsy' what is the point? When you're going to bed straight afterwards. :idc:

It just seems like a dull, boring waste to me.

I can understand - a couple of drinks of beer in the house and then going out clubbing, but I don't get this whole 'Let's drink wine with a lovely Chinese Take Out ladies! :)' thing that women seem to do.

Cheeky tit :p

I've done all the clubbing stuff. I don't particularly like waiting an hour to buy a drink that costs 15 times more than in a shop while nestled in some strangers sweaty armpit. Then wait three hours for a cab and pay a fortune for that too. Fun? Where?

And just cos people drink at home doesn't mean they are single/alone ;)

Enough of the middle aged crap too, tweenie

[Locke.]

Because I'm not legal to get served in bars or clubs at the moment - have to wait until like next year :idc: I basically have to just walk around town when drinking [unlucky].


The good old nights of being a drunk 15 year old going to see what drunk girls you can pick up in town without even getting into a club :worship:

Can remember one time when we done that my poor mate went over all confident to some like fit 20 year old, tried one of his always failing lines, and the reply was "**** off you dickhead, who do you think you are Stevie Wonder or something".

I look quite young for my age so didn't get in anywhere til I was 17 :bored:

[joeysteele]

Definately staying in, having a good meal and chatting with someone.
I go to functions/parties but am not a party animal and I hate the noise in pubs where you have to shout to be heard.

If friends/family are going out to a country pub or for a meal I enjoy those evenings though.

[Lee.]

Hmm.. I like both. I like getting dolled up and having a good old fashioned night on the town, but I like the casualness of a night in. I do find that nights in end up sillier and funnier than nights out.

[Niamh.]

More like a few bottles :idc:

Just sayin' :tongue:

Hush down you :idc:

[Niamh.]

Also in regards to this and to what Niamh said, I really don't understand how middle aged women can sit infront of the telly with a take away - drinking wine?

My Mum has now got to the point of doing it, I miss the days when she used to have her fit friends into the house drinking until Sunday.

I just don't get it though?

I mean surely when you're drinking wine infront of the TV by yourself or whatever - your main goal isn't to get completely smashed is it?

And even if you got 'Abit Tipsy' what is the point? When you're going to bed straight afterwards. :idc:

It just seems like a dull, boring waste to me.

I can understand - a couple of drinks of beer in the house and then going out clubbing, but I don't get this whole 'Let's drink wine with a lovely Chinese Take Out ladies! :)' thing that women seem to do.

I'm not middle aged, excuse your cheek :nono: And I'm not there on my own, I'm married so I don't have to go out prowling the streets for snog and a quick grope down an alley way like a spotty teenager :idc:

[Locke.]

Yet you still do exactly that every friday night :idc:

[CharlieO]

I don't mind myself, as long as I can be happy my surroundings do not matter. :D

[Niamh.]

Yet you still do exactly that every friday night :idc:

:suspect:

[Tom]

They honestly don't care here, because people - well kids, in the year above me get served in any club in town.

They probably have a fake ID

I first went out when I was 14, but I'm one of the youngest out of my group of friends so I could just get away with looking younger even though I looked older than I was when I was in my early teens. i could grow a full beard by the time I was 14/15 (and some of my mates still can't :joker:) so I just didnt have a shave before I went out and I looked older anyway :idc:

[Chuck]

They so have a fake ID, who has never had one? :idc:

[CharlieO]

They so have a fake ID, who has never had one? :idc:

Lot's of people :)

[fruit_cake]

going out..staying in is rubbish

[Chuck]

Lot's of people :)

Boring people I'd imagine. :idc:

[CharlieO]

Boring people I'd imagine. :idc:

Or nice genuine people who have their head in the right place :)

[Tom]

The right place is in a nightclub :amazed: well when you're under 18 anyway

Going out lost all its novelty when I hit 18

[Chuck]

The right place is in a nightclub :amazed: well when you're under 18 anyway

Going out lost all its novelty when I hit 18

:worship:

[InOne]

I got my make ID from phatism.com when I was like 15 lol

[Marsh.]

I mean surely when you're drinking wine infront of the TV by yourself or whatever - your main goal isn't to get completely smashed is it?

And even if you got 'Abit Tipsy' what is the point? When you're going to bed straight afterwards. :idc:

It just seems like a dull, boring waste to me.

I can understand - a couple of drinks of beer in the house and then going out clubbing, but I don't get this whole 'Let's drink wine with a lovely Chinese Take Out ladies! :)' thing that women seem to do.

This has got to be the most ridiculous thing to post ever.

The whole post is presuming that people only drink alcohol in order to get sloshed.

1) You can drink and enjoy beer and wine without the need to get absolutely pissed.

2) You can have fun without getting pissed aswell.

That's the main problem I had with a lot of school kids who would spend a good half hour downing whatever they could get their hands on trying to get as bladdered as possible in the shortest amount of time possible and then spend the rest of the night laughing about how they can't walk in a straight line, throw up in the road, lose their knickers, go to bed and then end up losing 3 days of their life in some deep depression/hangover.

Sitting at home or in a nice pub/bar actually enjoying what you're drinking whilst actually indulging in conversation with family and friends is a much more fun way to spend an evening.

[Josy]

^^^^ Well said :idc:

[Ramsay]

Going out lost all its novelty when I hit 18

Truth

[LemonJam]

rofl @ the tags

I much prefer going out, but I hate doing the same thing over and over.

[Marsh.]

rofl @ the tags

I much prefer going out, but I hate doing the same thing over and over.

:conf:

[Josy]

:conf:

The tags at the bottom of the thread.

[Jords]

Ive been invited to 3 parties but I dont talk to majority going and dislike several :bawling:

Its a bit wierd Ive been invited to them as I dont even talk much to the throwers as well :joker:

I wanna go but itll be like... awkard turtle.

[Ramsay]

The best parties are the ones where you dont know 90% of the people

[Jords]

I do know them but dont talk to them :joker:

[Kerry]

Ive been invited to 3 parties but I dont talk to majority going and dislike several :bawling:

Its a bit wierd Ive been invited to them as I dont even talk much to the throwers as well :joker:

I wanna go but itll be like... awkard turtle.

Go, see how you feel. If you're not comfy just leave. :) More often than not it's the apprehension of thinking it will be dire thats worse than the actual thing

[Jords]

Go, see how you feel. If you're not comfy just leave. :) More often than not it's the apprehension of thinking it will be dire thats worse than the actual thing

I spose but then Id feel like a social tard and get depressed >.<

[Ramsay]

You should be fine after the first awkward hour that every party has:joker:

[Jords]

Thing is theyre all really good friends then there me just like hai ~

Im really worried I wouldnt get approached and I find it difficult approaching :o

[Kerry]

I spose but then Id feel like a social tard and get depressed >.<

And by not going you'll feel great I suppose?? Or just the same?

Sorry, don't mean to lecture you. Just know you'll probably beat yourself up if you DON'T go just as much as if you do and hate it.

Ugh, ignore me. I'm going all physcology head :D

[Jords]

Yeah I always do :(

Have a real issue avoiding awkard situations as best I can. But I think its because everybody 'knows' each other and has a pre-conceived idea of what theyre like and yeah I shouldnt care but hmph.

[Marsh.]

Kerry speaks wise words.

[Kerry]

Yeah I always do :(

Have a real issue avoiding awkard situations as best I can. But I think its because everybody 'knows' each other and has a pre-conceived idea of what theyre like and yeah I shouldnt care but hmph.

But what's the worse that can happen? Go on, think, what IS the worst thing that will happen? You stand drinking alone? You blush if approached? Worst case scenario, what is it? Then reverse it. What would you think of another person if you approached them and THEY blushed or was stood alone?

[Marsh.]

Just get bladdered, that'll lighten the mood. If you end up stood alone, who cares just soak up the alcohol. lol

[Kerry]

Just get bladdered, that'll lighten the mood. If you end up stood alone, who cares just soak up the alcohol. lol

And no bugger will remember the next day. Even better :D

[Jords]

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm :tongue:

[Redway]

Depends on my mood, really.

[Smithy]

FAO Everyone
1) You can drink and enjoy beer and wine without the need to get absolutely pissed.

2) You can have fun without getting pissed aswell.

:idc:

[Gillian-73]

Which do you prefer, a quiet night in with some nice food or something, or a big night out on the town?

It used to be the big night out i used to be a mad party girl but now it's the quiet night in :)

[Beastie]

When its hot its all about going out and getting smashed to the point you pass out or wake up in a wheelie bin

When its in the darkest depths of winter its all about takeaway & DVD nights with the gf

Curbing going out atm though (even though I'm out tonight, with a broken arm in this heat, gonna have to wear a shirt :bored:), not fair on the pregnant and hormonal one if I'm always falling through the door at 6am and shes just waking up :joker:

Oh my god. Is your girlfriend pregnant again? Congratulations! How far along is she? Bet you are wanting a boy ;)

[Beastie]

I would rather stay in. I am a bit tight in terms of money! lol.

But now and again it would be nice to have a "good" night round town or something.

But yeah I get 2 days off work so I rather go out in the day time. Then in the evening watch TV/DVDS or something! Maybe pictures/bowling now and again.

I work 1:30pm until 10pm at night so I have no life really when I am working. lol

[Chuck]

it better be a boy and not ginger or else i'm disowning it



I wonder if it's a ginger girl. :laugh:

[Beastie]

The best parties are the ones where you dont know 90% of the people

Arrive at a party late. Most of them will be drunk and this will send people "less awkward".

[Beastie]

I wonder if it's a ginger girl. :laugh:

Haha! Yes. Sadly last year Tom's girlfriend lost their baby boy :( Hopefully it will all run smoothly for Tom this time!

[Tom]

I wonder if it's a ginger girl. :laugh:

Knowing my luck it probably will be. Due Dec, boy apparently (again), so far so good.

Arrive at a party late. Most of them will be drunk and this will send people "less awkward".

But if you turn up drunk noone cares anyway. Just think of all the new mates you make in the toilets in a club who you've never met before. its kinda the same thing

[Mac Hiavellian]

Depends who your with really.

I could settle down for a quiet night in if I'm with a mate, watching a movie, a couple of drinks, a pizza or Chinese and a good long talk.

But generally I live to go out, have a laugh, listen to a bit of cheese music, go fancy dress, get absolutely rat arsed and view the picture evidence the next morning.

[Beastie]

Knowing my luck it probably will be. Due Dec, boy apparently (again), so far so good.



But if you turn up drunk noone cares anyway. Just think of all the new mates you make in the toilets in a club who you've never met before. its kinda the same thing

True. If you are invited to a party. Just go for it. Do it. Haha yes you tend to make random friends in town. Or I went to a popular pub not long ago. And eww people were more desperate in there than town. A man coming onto me. Then I see these 40 year old women who obviously want a toy boy to shag! lol

Congratulations on the baby!! Also where is 30stone nowadays? (Ben). I wonder if he knocked up his girlfriend? He always posted pics of himself or a few of his girlfriend then one day he kind of stopped coming online..