question for the ladies of the forum

[fruit_cake]

would you go out to a night club on your own? what are you opinions on this!

as long as people know where you are, and you make sure you aren't walking home or anything stupid like that, it's ok isn't it? what do people think??

[Novo]

Yeah x

[Pyramid*]

Never in a million years would I go to a nightclub on my own.

Don't mind going to a restaurant on holiday alone - but never ever would I go clubbing alone. (even in my youthful hay day)

[Vicky.]

It depends. If I thought there might be some people I knew there who I knew

I wouldnt, for example, go out to a club alone if I was on a business trip down manchester or something.

[InOne]

Don't do it fruit_cake!!!!!

[Locke.]

The only reason you would go by yourself is if you planned on leaving with someone

So most the girls on here will say yes

[fruit_cake]

Don't do it fruit_cake!!!!!

lol it has already been done!

[fruit_cake]

It depends. If I thought there might be some people I knew there who I knew

I wouldnt, for example, go out to a club alone if I was on a business trip down manchester or something.

outside of town would be pushing it definitely!!

[Pyramid*]

It depends. If I thought there might be some people I knew there who I knew

I wouldnt, for example, go out to a club alone if I was on a business trip down manchester or something.

Given by the way it's worded - it sounds as though Fruit_cake means 'go alone' - rather than enter alone to meet with friends who are already there. :conf:

[fruit_cake]

Yeah x

lol, Lady Novo :worship:

[Maia]

I wouldn't go to a night club even with a group of friends. They aren't my kind of thing.

[fruit_cake]

Given by the way it's worded - it sounds as though Fruit_cake means 'go alone' - rather than enter alone to meet with friends who are already there. :conf:

yes, like completely alone..albeit in a place you know well P

[Vicky.]

Given by the way it's worded - it sounds as though Fruit_cake means 'go alone' - rather than enter alone to meet with friends who are already there. :conf:

I wouldnt be going to meet up with friends though.

I would go out on the offchance of someone I know being there.

I would go out clubbing round newcastle on my own even if I didnt know others were going out as I am familiar with the place and all the clubs...and the bouncers know me too which is always a good thing.

I would not go out somewhere I didnt know.

[Pyramid*]

yes, like completely alone..albeit in a place you know well P


Years ago, I knew someone who used to go up to the local nightclub on here own.

Males regarded her as an easy lay

Females regarded her as a weirdo.

Very sad that she had no friends (at all / or who would go with her?) but I've got to say, I agreed that it was a weird thing to do.

Now I am not at all inferring that towards any females on this forum - but that's how this woman was regarded.

[fruit_cake]

well obviously it's a weird thing to do but if you take a phone and everyone knows where you are it should be ok I'd have thought

[Pyramid*]

well obviously it's a weird thing to do but if you take a phone and everyone knows where you are it should be ok I'd have thought

From a being safe pov yes, but I was speaking more how of the 'single woman' out on the tiles herself was regarded by males and females in the situation you asked about.

[MTVN]

I wouldn't think most guys would either really tbh, although one of my friends does it quite regularly thinking he'll pull but he rarely does :laugh:

[fruit_cake]

From a being safe pov yes, but I was speaking more how of the 'single woman' out on the tiles herself was regarded by males and females in the situation you asked about.

yes interesting thanks pyramid

[Josy]

Nope

[Ninastar]

no I wouldn't

One of my friends has though. He makes friends easily though, so he has nothing to worry about

[Tom]

I'm pretty confident when it comes to new people/pulling in clubs but even I wouldn't go alone (I know I'm not female but still :p)

I don't really see the point in going if you're not with other people

[GypsyGoth]

I wouldn't go to a night club even with a group of friends. They aren't my kind of thing.

Same.

[Lee.]

No I definitely would not... and I don't think its something we should encourage either; I have a hard enough time dealing with people who go to the cinema in their own as I really want to sit beside them, so I certainly don't want to feel obliged to go and dance with some strange lass!

Actually, to those who have done this, or would do it, would you actually go and dance in your own? Or wills you just stand at the nae and watch people? ... oh dear I feel uncomfortable just thinking about it!

[Kerry]

No.

[Vicky.]

Actually, to those who have done this, or would do it, would you actually go and dance in your own? Or wills you just stand at the nae and watch people? ... oh dear I feel uncomfortable just thinking about it!

Nah. I would wander round a bit and see if I could see anyone I recognised, have a few drinks...and if I didnt see anyone I knew or anything...probably go home :p

[Chuck]

I wonder why exactly wouldnt you girls go clubbing alone?

[MTVN]

No I definitely would not... and I don't think its something we should encourage either; I have a hard enough time dealing with people who go to the cinema in their own as I really want to sit beside them, so I certainly don't want to feel obliged to go and dance with some strange lass!

Actually, to those who have done this, or would do it, would you actually go and dance in your own? Or wills you just stand at the nae and watch people? ... oh dear I feel uncomfortable just thinking about it!

I don't really see the problem with going to the cinema on your own tbh, not like it's a really social thing and with the lights out you won't even be able to tell who's with who or whatever

[InOne]

Only time is happened to me was when my mate let me down when I arranged to meet him in the club :bored: Had one drink and left.

Hardly hear of girls doing it though

[Chuck]

I go clubbing alone probably 20% of the times. It's just great because I know no one is gonna call me the day after complaining about my embarrassing behaviour, I can drink as much as I want, do drugs as much as I want and go home whenever I want.

My best friends aren't nearly as excited and party animals as I am, so whenever I wanna go wild, I choose to do so on my own.

[MTVN]

I was clubbing on my own tonight for a bit but only cos I wandered off, ended up in the karaoke bar :hello:

[Chuck]

karaoke bars :love:

[Locke.]

Yeah I got lost tonight, had a couple of drinks and then came home early.

This thread really has jynxed everyone.

[Ramsay]

I've done it loads
Well like ya see all my friends get too drunk before we even get to a club and want to stay in the leitrim 60% of the time so i usually tell them to **** off and i go on my own
its always better on my own anyway thats what i do on nights out..having to worry about where everyone is is such a trek plus i meet loads of randomers easier when im on my own
but sorry you asked the girls so i dunno why i went mad into an answer there
IM SO BORED:bawling:

[Lee.]

I don't really see the problem with going to the cinema on your own tbh, not like it's a really social thing and with the lights out you won't even be able to tell who's with who or whatever

I know there's nothing wrong with it...I just always feel terrible when I see people sitting on their own in the cinema, I honestly want to go and sit next to them, and i know that they're very likely as happy as Larry but then I also worry that they maybe haven't got any friends.

The last time I was at the cinema there was a wee old man sitting on his own with his crisps and juice,I got it into my head that he was there on his own because his wife had died and he didn't have anybody else to go with... I couldn't enjoy myself for thinking about it! :laugh: In reality he was probably there to escape a nagging old bat if a wife and was having a great time to himself.

[Lee.]

I wonder why exactly wouldnt you girls go clubbing alone?

I would just find it really awkward.

[MTVN]

I know there's nothing wrong with it...I just always feel terrible when I see people sitting on their own in the cinema, I honestly want to go and sit next to them, and i know that they're very likely as happy as Larry but then I also worry that they maybe haven't got any friends.

The last time I was at the cinema there was a wee old man sitting on his own with his crisps and juice,I got it into my head that he was there on his own because his wife had died and he didn't have anybody else to go with... I couldn't enjoy myself for thinking about it! :laugh: In reality he was probably there to escape a nagging old bat if a wife and was having a great time to himself.

Haha nah I know what you mean, I remember going to watch a film with some of my friends and there was an old bloke just sitting on the end of a row on his ow, felt really sorry for him for some reason even though I bet he was much happier on his own then when I went and sat down next to him :laugh:

[King Gizzard]

I go cinema on my own

FOREVER ALONE

[Chuck]

I would just find it really awkward.

You would feel like people are feeling sorry for you or something?

[Chuck]

Going to the cinema on my own is the only way I can possibly pay attention to the film.

If I'm interested in watching a cool and unknown Swedish film or something I'll go on my own but if I'm just bored and wanna watch a Jennifer Aniston kind ofd movie then I don't mind having company.

[MTVN]

Yeah I think I'd probably prefer the cinema on my own or at least with only a couple of people, whenever I go with a big group there's always some who just get bored and start pissing about and I hate those kind of people at cinema's :bored:

[King Gizzard]

When I went to see HP DH P1 (on my own :bawling:) kids everywhere..so I decided to wait for the second one

[Locke.]

I would never go the pictures on my own even though I always want to

[Lee.]

You would feel like people are feeling sorry for you or something?

No.. just the whole thing would make me feel uncomfortable and like a big billy-nae-mates.

I honestly can't even think what I'd do with myself. Hang about the bar area and get pissed would encourage a multitude of slimeballs, I can't even contemplate getting on a dancefloor on my own, so I'd probably end up crying in the toilets, on the phone, begging some friends to come and rescue me.

[Chuck]

Cinemas are so single unfriendly actually. :bored:

[Chuck]

No.. just the whole thing would make me feel uncomfortable and like a big billy-nae-mates.

I honestly can't even think what I'd do with myself. Hang about the bar area and get pissed would encourage a multitude of slimeballs, I can't even contemplate getting on a dancefloor on my own, so I'd probably end up crying in the toilets, on the phone, begging some friends to come and rescue me.

:laugh:

I used to be like that but then I realised my best friends aren't into the same kind of music I am and I don't feel very comfortable going out with random mates, so weirdly I'd rather go out on my own and just enjoy the night instead of begging my friends to go to a place they don't want to.

[Tom]

Nah. I would wander round a bit and see if I could see anyone I recognised, have a few drinks...and if I didnt see anyone I knew or anything...probably go home :p

If you find people you know do you pretend you're out with other people and got lost or do you just say you're out on your own?

I couldn't go cinema on my own either, but then I'm one of those annoying people who doesn't shut up through the film (and then gets annoyed when other people won't shut up)

[Visage]

I wouldn't go on my own and I'm a bloke. Hell I wouldn't go to the pictures on my own, not because I would be scared, more that I wouldn't want to look a 'Billy no mates' in there.

I have a female friend who regularly goes abroad on her holidays alone. She loves her 'alone' time.

I'd go to ASDA on my own.

[Vicky.]

If you find people you know do you pretend you're out with other people and got lost or do you just say you're out on your own?

I couldn't go cinema on my own either, but then I'm one of those annoying people who doesn't shut up through the film (and then gets annoyed when other people won't shut up)

I dunno because I have never done it, not round clubs anyway. I would though, which was my answer to the thread :p

I would probably just say I had fancied a look out to see if anyone was about.

[Jords]

-is a guy-

-wouldnt go on his own-

I would feel lame.

[Vicky.]

Used to go out round pubs all the time on my own. But I lived above a pub on the highstreet so pretty much knew EVERYONE who drank round there...was very rare for me not to have met someone within the first 5 mins of being out :laugh: