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Crimson Dynamo
25-10-2011, 12:53 PM
Only 7. died in my arms. Buried him in the garden. :bawling:

If you have a dog, give them a big cuddle and a kiss tonight.

MeMyselfAndI
25-10-2011, 12:54 PM
Aww, sorry :bawling:
Thats really sad.

Crimson Dynamo
25-10-2011, 12:55 PM
Aww, sorry :bawling:
Thats really sad.

thanks

its heartbreaking. making the decision and then knowing it will be his last morning etc..

Niamh.
25-10-2011, 01:01 PM
awww that's so sad :hug: Was he sick? One of my dogs will have to be put down in the next few months too I think, she has a massive tumour in her chest :(

spitfire
25-10-2011, 01:04 PM
Sorry for your loss.:sad:

Callum
25-10-2011, 01:06 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that, I'm going to hug my dog now. :bawling:

Crimson Dynamo
25-10-2011, 01:18 PM
awww that's so sad :hug: Was he sick? One of my dogs will have to be put down in the next few months too I think, she has a massive tumour in her chest :(

Yes. He developed a liver problem that could not be cured (Staffy) and gradually went downhill. One month he was a great big strong dog and the next he could barely make it up the stairs. It happens. He had 7 great years - he was a rescue dog so 7 was a bonus I guess.

Niamh.
25-10-2011, 01:20 PM
Yes. He developed a liver problem that could not be cured (Staffy) and gradually went downhill. One month he was a great big strong dog and the next he could barely make it up the stairs. It happens. He had 7 great years - he was a rescue dog so 7 was a bonus I guess.

Yeah definitely, doesn't make it any easier though :(

Ammi
25-10-2011, 01:26 PM
I'm so very sorry..that sucks. My in laws always had staffie rescues and I know what lovely and loving family pets they are. It leaves such an empty hole..he was ill..but you rescued him and gave him a good life..that's all that dogs ask for

Kazanne
25-10-2011, 01:30 PM
Only 7. died in my arms. Buried him in the garden. :bawling:

If you have a dog, give them a big cuddle and a kiss tonight.

Aw,so sorry LT,it's so hard to lose a beloved pet,but I'm sure you gave him a wonderful life,I feel upset for you,I've had to do the same,I still grieve over one I lost 4 years ago,so here is a cuddle,be strong.xx

Crimson Dynamo
25-10-2011, 01:38 PM
Aw,so sorry LT,it's so hard to lose a beloved pet,but I'm sure you gave him a wonderful life,I feel upset for you,I've had to do the same,I still grieve over one I lost 4 years ago,so here is a cuddle,be strong.xx

thank you

i am such a big softie really and am v sad about it all:(

Vicky.
25-10-2011, 01:39 PM
Aww sorry to hear that :sad:

Its really awful when you lose a pet :hug:

Kazanne
25-10-2011, 01:40 PM
thank you

i am such a big softie really and am v sad about it all:(

You made me cry too LT,I do really know how you feel,I'm gutted for you,nothing with bring him back,but your happy memories will be forever.xx

Inkyfingers
25-10-2011, 01:43 PM
Only 7. died in my arms. Buried him in the garden. :bawling:

If you have a dog, give them a big cuddle and a kiss tonight.

Ahh bless you, I am so sorry to hear that. Our cat was put to sleep 2 years ago but we still talk as though she was here. That's the problem with pets, you get too attached to them and it's just like losing a member of the family. :sad:

Shaun
25-10-2011, 01:49 PM
I'm sorry to hear that, RIP :(

Josy
25-10-2011, 01:52 PM
Sorry to hear that LT :hug:

Crimson Dynamo
25-10-2011, 02:08 PM
I suppose its a practice run for when my parents go?



Always looking on the bright side, that's LT...

Ammi
25-10-2011, 02:33 PM
LOL LT..you certainly know how to post a conversaition stopper..

LaLaLand
25-10-2011, 04:25 PM
Very sorry for your loss, it's heartbreaking when your dog passes away. It upsets me more-so than a human passing in many ways, you just literally feel lost and out of place without them.

Stay strong.

P.s - good on your for getting a Staffy rescue dog, I've volunteered at dog shelters here and seen just how many Staffs are in those places and how so many are dismissed "incase they're violent" when in reality they're one of the nicest breeds of dog you can own. Good on you for giving that dog a great 7 years!

Adamw92
25-10-2011, 04:36 PM
Sorry for your loss :(

Crimson Dynamo
25-10-2011, 04:36 PM
The worst part is making the call to the vet and giving him the drugs. Looking into his eyes and knowing an hour later you will be digging a hole..

telling all the little LT's was not good either

Doogle
25-10-2011, 05:19 PM
I know the feeling, well my dog died naturally but we knew he only had days left. I remember hugging him and saying I loved him and he was gone an hour later.

I'm really sorry for your loss. :(

dwarling
25-10-2011, 05:50 PM
Really sorry for your loss, I had a Bearded collie for ten wonderful years, he was our very best friend,..we had to have him put to sleep last Dec. It's a truly awful feeling..still miss him dearly..god bless'.

Tom
25-10-2011, 06:27 PM
I suppose its a practice run for when my parents go?



Always looking on the bright side, that's LT...

Already lost one parent and it was easier than losing a dog...

Dogs don't realise their worth or how much you love them

Pyramid*
25-10-2011, 07:07 PM
Already lost one parent and it was easier than losing a dog...

Dogs don't realise their worth or how much you love them

Tom, I could not agree more with you in respect of your comments above.

LT: you and I fight like hell on here - but swords placed down on this one..... I'm so so sorry to read of this. :(

It's a sore one, even if we know it was the right thing to do etc - it's still one of the most horrible decisions to make, to deal with and sometimes, to get over.

I hope you get another rescue dog. I'm sure there's lots of love and affection you'll be able to give, that they will be desperate to receive - and love you to bits for it. :hug:

Saph
25-10-2011, 08:35 PM
Aww :( pet deaths are always so much sadder than human ones! Whenever one of my pets die I cry my eyes out D;

r.i.p. doggie :love:

joeysteele
25-10-2011, 08:38 PM
Only 7. died in my arms. Buried him in the garden. :bawling:

If you have a dog, give them a big cuddle and a kiss tonight.

This post really choked me up, we have a Staffie and he is 4 now, he is the most crazy but lovable dog we've had.

I cannot bear to even think of the day we may lose him.I am near tears typing this now thinking of your loss.

All my thoughts are with you LT, you were there with him to the end, what a beautiful but horribly sad scene that must have been for you.

Thinking of you.

GypsyGoth
25-10-2011, 08:48 PM
:sad:

:hug:

lily.
25-10-2011, 08:49 PM
Sorry for your loss LT..

I've never had dogs, but I've lost cats and other small pets.. it's never easy. :(

Z
25-10-2011, 09:58 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss LT, I'm going to be a wreck when my cat passes away, pets are such a huge part of your life.

Tom
25-10-2011, 10:06 PM
Sorry for your loss LT..

I've never had dogs, but I've lost cats and other small pets.. it's never easy. :(

Not saying its any easier with different kind of pets, but in my experience losing dogs is always worse than others. Its just because you tend to interact with dogs more and they seem able to show you their emotions. Theres also no better feeling than going home, whether its been an hour, overnight, a week or a month and your dog is always behind the door ready to jump on you and lick your face

Z
25-10-2011, 10:43 PM
Not saying its any easier with different kind of pets, but in my experience losing dogs is always worse than others. Its just because you tend to interact with dogs more and they seem able to show you their emotions. Theres also no better feeling than going home, whether its been an hour, overnight, a week or a month and your dog is always behind the door ready to jump on you and lick your face

I think dogs and cats show the most personality out of all types of pets, in my experience. I have a cat and, time to get soppy, there've been a few times where I've been crying quietly, alone in my room about things and she's slunk into the room, sat down on my lap and made me feel better - her personality is totally different to my brother's cat, etc...

Kerry
26-10-2011, 05:38 AM
So sorry to hear this. We lost our Staffie in April so can empathise. Such wonderful dogs

Take care. Know theres no pain now.

:hug: xx

Crimson Dynamo
26-10-2011, 09:25 AM
thank you for all your comments

much appreciated

Ammi
26-10-2011, 09:30 AM
I still feel quite emotional every time this thread pops up...I really have so very sorry LT...it's one of the worst things anyone ever has to do and go through

Crimson Dynamo
26-10-2011, 10:25 AM
Littleist LT asked this morning, through a veil of tears

"did his ball die too"?

as he loved to throw it for him...so i put it by his bed as a reminder. Its the seemingly inconsequential things that hurt the most.

Ammi
26-10-2011, 10:43 AM
..they're not inconsequental..they represent everything he meant to all of you....I know it's early days..but maybe in a few weeks think about another rescue...to go with that ball.....shame to have it sat there....and there's a lot of homeless pups out there looking for a ball...

Suze
26-10-2011, 11:01 AM
So sorry for your loss, LT :(

sooty
26-10-2011, 08:06 PM
:(

lily.
29-10-2011, 08:42 PM
Not saying its any easier with different kind of pets, but in my experience losing dogs is always worse than others. Its just because you tend to interact with dogs more and they seem able to show you their emotions. Theres also no better feeling than going home, whether its been an hour, overnight, a week or a month and your dog is always behind the door ready to jump on you and lick your face

I've never had a dog, so I can't really compare the experience. I interact loads with my cats. Not so much with the little pets though.. and although it's not nice losing the small pets, the advantage is that they don't tend to live long, so you don't have as strong a bond as you do when, for example, your 13 year old cat goes.. [as I had to unfortunately experience a few years ago]. Do you have both dogs and cats Tom?

I think dogs and cats show the most personality out of all types of pets, in my experience. I have a cat and, time to get soppy, there've been a few times where I've been crying quietly, alone in my room about things and she's slunk into the room, sat down on my lap and made me feel better - her personality is totally different to my brother's cat, etc...

My cats do that too. I've had my in-the-corner-crying moments and one of the cats always seems to show up and snuggle up purring.. weird little critters they are.. and, yeah, I agree about them having very different personalities.. we've had 4 cats in total [only have 2 now], and I had 2 cats at 2 different times when I lived at my parents house. None of them were the same - personality-wise.

Tom
29-10-2011, 08:57 PM
I've never had a dog, so I can't really compare the experience. I interact loads with my cats. Not so much with the little pets though.. and although it's not nice losing the small pets, the advantage is that they don't tend to live long, so you don't have as strong a bond as you do when, for example, your 13 year old cat goes.. [as I had to unfortunately experience a few years ago]. Do you have both dogs and cats Tom?

Not at the minute but had them in the past. don't get me wrong it is really sad when both go and I'm not devaluing cats in any way, but I tend to find losing a dog leaves a much bigger hole

lily.
29-10-2011, 09:33 PM
Yeah, I know you weren't saying it wasn't hard to lose a pet cat. And, since you've had both, you do have the experience to compare.

Having never had dogs, I really can't agree or disagree. I do love dogs, and the main reason I've never had one is because of the care they need. They need a lot more care than cats, and I have issues with picking up dog-poo.. [I realise that makes me sound really lame].. but at the same time, I wouldn't be the kind of dog-owner who doesn't pick up after their pet.. so not having a dog is my solution. :/

Pyramid*
30-10-2011, 09:24 AM
Littleist LT asked this morning, through a veil of tears

"did his ball die too"?

as he loved to throw it for him...so i put it by his bed as a reminder. Its the seemingly inconsequential things that hurt the most.

:(

Awwh.... poor Littliest LT.