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Jords
24-11-2011, 06:29 PM
How do you stand when it comes to trusting?
Most people let you down..but you have to trust anyway, there's nothing else to do
Smithy
24-11-2011, 06:34 PM
I am terrible at trusting people, like I trust noone :sad:
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King Gizzard
24-11-2011, 06:38 PM
Thought that said thrusting for a minute
I've never had a problem trusting people.
These threads always confuse me. They are full of young people whose lives sound incredibly over dramatic which I never got. People invariably end up sounding like one of those pocket sized books they line up along the tills at Waterstones for insecure women to buy.
'Most people let you down' or 'don't trust people too easily because they are out to thirst on your blood' or any of this bollocks was always lost on me. Maybe I've just had some miraculously uncomplicated life surrounded by decent people, I dunno.
Ninastar
24-11-2011, 06:40 PM
I trust people too easily
Doogle
24-11-2011, 06:42 PM
I trust people easily.
I also forgive easily so I then trust them again LOL.
Sarah.
24-11-2011, 06:43 PM
I don't trust anybody :D
Chuck
24-11-2011, 06:43 PM
It's easy to earn my trust and it's just as easy to lose it.
I am skeptical of most people :suspect:
[seriously I am]
I think there are a load of different levels of trust, but on the whole I can count the amount of people I fully 100% trust on one hand
Jack_
24-11-2011, 06:55 PM
I don't trust anyone with any of my secrets and the like, but people can and do trust me with their secrets. I don't and won't tell other people.
If it comes to general trust, then yeah, I'll give that to most people once I know them well enough, but if they ever break it that's pretty much it and I won't ever trust them again, there are very few exceptions. It always seems a bit stupid to trust someone again who has broken it once already, it's like you're asking for the same thing to happen again.
Tom4784
24-11-2011, 06:57 PM
I'm very trusting and forgiving to a worrying degree. People are destined to mess up so I find it easier trusting them and forgiving them when they do since I know it's inevitable. I suppose it's a postive outlook but for negative reasons.
I find it less draining to trust and forgive then to spend time and energy hating people.
Jords
24-11-2011, 07:06 PM
Im very much 'fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me' when it comes down to trust. Once I get to know somebody and like them I very easily trust them, I think it moves a friendship up a level in a way.
Its difficult when somebody breaks it though if serious, I tend to forgive and want to trust again but its never the same. However I tend to keep really personal things to myself until I get angry about it, then its choosing whose best to talk to.
Brother Leon
24-11-2011, 07:10 PM
I would trust just about anyone.
Considering that, not too many people have let me down.
Visage
24-11-2011, 07:11 PM
I treat people as I would like to be treated, which includes trusting them.
Niall
24-11-2011, 07:25 PM
I'm pretty trusting of most people so... yeah.
CharlieO
24-11-2011, 07:31 PM
I do not trust anyone. If you let people in they have the means to hurt you.
I trust no one. Not even myself sometimes.
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Shaun
24-11-2011, 07:57 PM
i find drink blurs the amount I trust people. Every time I've told someone some big secret it's bee because of drink. But I don't really have much to tell anyone... I'm pretty easygoing and open.
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i find drink blurs the amount I trust people. Every time I've told someone some big secret it's bee because of drink. But I don't really have much to tell anyone... I'm pretty easygoing and open.
I think drink is worse, because I blurt stuff out that people have told me. The amount of arguments I've caused is pretty unreal (but I always get away unscathed :joker:) and people continue to tell me stuff
A lot of my trust issues stem from myself. I expect people to be like me and if I was someone else I wouldn't trust me
InOne
24-11-2011, 10:39 PM
Hmmm, you have to trust people to a certain extent to get things in life. But there has to be levels of trust. You know need to know the right people to put your trust in and how much trust to give them
joeysteele
24-11-2011, 10:46 PM
I am usually a very private person so lot's of personal things I keep totally to myself, a strong wall of protection built to ensure I am not hurt in any way.
However you have to be able to trust in most things with other people and unless I do get let down by someone then I would trust others,I wouldn't not trust them just on anothers word.
My family, My Parents and Grandparents of course and very close firends I trust completely although even there some things I have been known to hold back on.
Kerry
24-11-2011, 11:08 PM
Depends on the person who's wanting my trust
Bollo
24-11-2011, 11:27 PM
I trust people about as far as I can throw them
Shaun
24-11-2011, 11:49 PM
Maybe if you stopped throwing people they'd be more trustworthy
I trust people about as far as I can throw them
What if its a really light person that you can throw pretty far?
Bollo
24-11-2011, 11:55 PM
What if its a really light person that you can throw pretty far?
You mean like babies or dwarfs? I might get arrested If I tested that theory
You mean like babies or dwarfs? I might get arrested If I tested that theory
That's not true, dwarf chucking is a great sport, just ask the England rugby team
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Bollo
25-11-2011, 12:32 AM
That's not true, dwarf chucking is a great sport, just ask the England rugby team
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Ok then I trust nobody but dwarves
Boothy
25-11-2011, 12:36 AM
Never had an issue with trust. I sometimes think I'm too trusting of others but I've never been properly ****ed over by anyone. Other people my age tend to be wary of trusting people though. I've never understood why.
Jords
25-11-2011, 12:38 AM
What if its a really light person that you can throw pretty far?
Like a baby?
Jessica.
25-11-2011, 05:40 AM
I think it depends on who the person is to me which decides if I trust them or not, there are lots of conditions, how long I've known them, my relationship to them etc.. There's probably only like five people who I trust completely and only one who I'd tell everything to.
arista
25-11-2011, 06:21 AM
I've never had a problem trusting people.
These threads always confuse me. They are full of young people whose lives sound incredibly over dramatic which I never got. People invariably end up sounding like one of those pocket sized books they line up along the tills at Waterstones for insecure women to buy.
'Most people let you down' or 'don't trust people too easily because they are out to thirst on your blood' or any of this bollocks was always lost on me. Maybe I've just had some miraculously uncomplicated life surrounded by decent people, I dunno.
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Beastie
25-11-2011, 10:59 AM
I've never had a problem trusting people.
These threads always confuse me. They are full of young people whose lives sound incredibly over dramatic which I never got. People invariably end up sounding like one of those pocket sized books they line up along the tills at Waterstones for insecure women to buy.
'Most people let you down' or 'don't trust people too easily because they are out to thirst on your blood' or any of this bollocks was always lost on me. Maybe I've just had some miraculously uncomplicated life surrounded by decent people, I dunno.
Nowdays people are so wrapped up in other people's lives. Mainly due to everyone being on social networking sites like Facebook to nosey what others are doing and your friends constantly being in your life 24 7.
I had an issue with trust in my teens. I think always being on msn and that probably didn't help and being too wrapped up in people's lives. Now I have taken a back seat from all that which helps matters and makes me a wiser person to know who I can trust.
Anyway I trust 2 people in my life. I am content and happy with the way things are.
People are more emotional nowadays when at times people need to try harder to move on and just brush things off them.
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