Give me an example of how Denise is a people pleaser

[True Whorror]

Go on, do it!

She's no people pleaser. She's a manipulator. Pure and simple.

The only thing she could do to please me would be to drown in her own self-pity.

[Jake.]

Who did you support again? The twins? Sour grapes much?

[True Whorror]

Who did you support again? The twins? Sour grapes much?

I actually wanted Michael to win.

I see you aren't able to give an example of how Denise is a people pleaser!

[Jake.]

She pleased me by winning. Knock yourself out.

[Ammi]

I can't think of one positive quality in Denise but......all of these anti threads are pointless....really, it's over..move on

[Ammi]

Try harder, you twat.

You're a supporter of the drunk slag, so tell me, how is she a people pleaser?

SEE - YOU CAN'T!!!!!!!

Oh dear.....that was an intelligent post...I admire people who can put their point across well

[Jake.]

Let's hope they see the one you said to me: 'Knock yourself out'.

Nice to think you support a cocaine snorting, alcoholic tramp! You must be as much of a **** as 'it' is!

...and still you can't explain how 'it' is a people pleaser!

If you don't understand the phrase knock yourself out then thats no issue of mine... you cant excuse yourself from calling me what you called me. And why would I wish to answer your question? When you stop acting like a spoiled 5 year old, then maybe I will. And 100% agree Ammi.

[lostalex]

i doin't understand the question... yu mean besides the obvious turning on the water works for the cameras? or did you mean in more subtle ways??

[True Whorror]

If you don't understand the phrase knock yourself out then thats no issue of mine... you cant excuse yourself from calling me what you called me. And why would I wish to answer your question? When you stop acting like a spoiled 5 year old, then maybe I will. And 100% agree Ammi.

Well, I'm not sure why you come in this thread when you have nothing to contribute. You have no opinion on the actual post I made!

If you support someone, at least have the balls to be able to back it up - but you can't!

[lostalex]

wait, so Denise constantly needing tending to and reassurance and approval from EVERy single housemate... that doesn't count as "people pleasing"?

i'm so lost in this thread...

[True Whorror]

I have to say, I loved watching Denise cry.

[Ammi]

Troll lol lol lol lol......I have a sneaky feeling you won't be around long so.......cheerio

[Jake.]

Well, I'm not sure why you come in this thread when you have nothing to contribute. You have no opinion on the actual post I made!

If you support someone, at least have the balls to be able to back it up - but you can't!

So, after you have just made numerous verbal attacks on me, you want me to contribute? Denise was entertaining, made good viewing and made me laugh on quite a few occasions. Now, there was no point in posting ANY of them, because we both know that you will just disagree. When you learn how to have an adult conversation, then I will delve into more reasons why she is a people pleaser. But you wouldn't find her to be a people pleaser, as there is no way of pleasing you.

[True Whorror]

So, after you have just made numerous verbal attacks on me, you want me to contribute? Denise was entertaining, made good viewing and made me laugh on quite a few occasions. Now, there was no point in posting ANY of them, because we both know that you will just disagree. When you learn how to have an adult conversation, then I will delve into more reasons why she is a people pleaser. But you wouldn't find her to be a people pleaser, as there is no way of pleasing you.

Now, if you'd have answered with a proper answer in your first post than just asking "Who did you support? The Twins? Sour grapes?' then the 'attacks' needn't have started. You can hardly say that your first post in the thread was a relevant answer to my question - it was in fact you who started with the 'attacks'.

How can I disagree with something that's not even written? I'd respect you far more if you made an effort to show me how Denise is a people pleaser, because I just can't see it. All that craving attention, 'me, me, me' stuff isn't something people pleasers do! Being self-centred and self-obsessed and wanting attention and approval 24/7, how is that pleasing others or making others like you????

[Jake.]

Trying to excuse your insults to me again are we? Its quite clear that you do have a bitter taste in your mouth, because otherwise you wouldn't be spewing out anti-denise threads at every turn. I think its clear that apart from Michael and the twins, she pleased everyone in there.

[True Whorror]

I'm delusional? :joker: nothing gives you the right to call me a t*at. I didn't swaer at you, you shouldn't swear at me. So what ypur saying is is that anyone who EVER was an argument is therefore never a people pleaser. We live in a world in which we argue, everyone does. Michael argued... is he not a people pleaser?

You clearly have no idea what a people pleaser is or how they behave!

Denise has NO traits of being a people pleaser! She is on constant 'defensive' mode ready to attack anyone who disagrees with her or won't fall for the person she wants us to believe that she is. She behaves in a manner which is despicable - bullying Michael with her constant, pointless rants, pulling down the pyjama bottoms of the twin, drunk nightly, flashing her breasts, etc etc etc.

..still you fail to provide any evidence to show that she is (as you say she is). Why not just answer the question than going around in circles with your tail between your legs?

[Ammi]

Wow, you don't give up, eh? Like I said, if you originally responded with a post that was relevant then this wouldn't have kicked off as it has. You started it. You can't see that. Delusional much?

And STILL you have no proof of Denise being a people pleaser!!!!!

Here's a definition of a people pleaser:

"Do you think you need to be liked by everyone? Do you try to be nice to others to avoid being rejected? Do you tend to put the needs of others before your own needs? Do you find yourself saying yes to requests when you really want to say no? Do you suppress your anger and avoid confrontation with others? If these situations sound like you, you could be a people-pleaser."

Please could you explain how the part in bold relates to Denise? Can you show me an example of how she put her housemates before her? Especially after the episode with Nicola when she confronted her about the letters from home, screaming and yelling that she herself wanted it?

Quote taken from:

http://www.westwind.mb.ca/newsletters/Newsletters/files/newsletter35.pdf

I think we get the message, you're obsessed with your dislike of Denise, you'll probably meet a lot of people in life who you dislike...you could try and work on a more constructive way of dealing with it...abuse never achieves anything

[True Whorror]

I think we get the message, you're obsessed with your dislike of Denise, you'll probably meet a lot of people in life who you dislike...you could try and work on a more constructive way of dealing with it...abuse never achieves anything

This is nothing to do with abuse! This is to do with fact! If you can't see that then more fool you! Time to get in the real world!

[True Whorror]

abuse never achieves anything

Try telling that to Denise who was out to destroy Michael for two weeks in the house!

[Ammi]

This is nothing to do with abuse! This is to do with fact! If you can't see that then more fool you! Time to get in the real world!

Is that your real world or....the rest of the world

Try telling that to Denise who was out to destroy Michael for two weeks in the house!

..don't worry about Michael..he's indestructable

[Jake.]

You clearly have no idea what a people pleaser is or how they behave!

Denise has NO traits of being a people pleaser! She is on constant 'defensive' mode ready to attack anyone who disagrees with her or won't fall for the person she wants us to believe that she is. She behaves in a manner which is despicable - bullying Michael with her constant, pointless rants, pulling down the pyjama bottoms of the twin, drunk nightly, flashing her breasts, etc etc etc.

..still you fail to provide any evidence to show that she is (as you say she is). Why not just answer the question than going around in circles with your tail between your legs?

But WHY does she need to be a 100% people pleaser? Because thats your idea of an ideal winner? The twins, Michael, Frankie and Denise are not always people pleasers. Now please, enough with your stupid rants.

[True Whorror]

But WHY does she need to be a 100% people pleaser? Because thats your idea of an ideal winner? The twins, Michael, Frankie and Denise are not always people pleasers. Now please, enough with your stupid rants.

It is HER that has been going on about being a people pleaser - in the diary room, on BOTS, to the housemates - what part of that don't you understand?

The others haven't mentioned about them being people pleasers, there's the difference.

You seem to have no idea what a people pleaser is, you seem to be in denial that Denise keeps touting herself as a people pleaser yet shows NO signs of being one. I'm not sure why you even bothered contributing to my thread.

[Jake.]

It is HER that has been going on about being a people pleaser - in the diary room, on BOTS, to the housemates - what part of that don't you understand?

The others haven't mentioned about them being people pleasers, there's the difference.

Stop with THE CAPS, I can read without having them pop up every 3 words. And so what? For the most part she was a people pleaser! Apart from the twins and Michael, the housemates would happily agree!

[Ammi]

It is HER that has been going on about being a people pleaser - in the diary room, on BOTS, to the housemates - what part of that don't you understand?

The others haven't mentioned about them being people pleasers, there's the difference.

Ok,Ok she's not Mother Teresa, she's flawed..there's definately room for improvement....
...so glad we cleared that up

[Jake.]

Ok,Ok she's not Mother Teresa, she's flawed..there's definately room for improvement....
...so glad we cleared that up

:love: And that is where the thread should end!

[Benjamin]

Less of the insulting and sour grapes in here please!

[True Whorror]

Stop with THE CAPS, I can read without having them pop up every 3 words. And so what? For the most part she was a people pleaser! Apart from the twins and Michael, the housemates would happily agree!

Haha! You are making me laugh! You can't even understand my whole view point, let alone have an opinion about it, or show any examples!

Just you keep on going around in circles, mis-understanding, not being able to voice an opinion - it's hilarious!

I'd be up for listening to your opinion, if you actually had one - but you don't.

I've used caps on like three words in the whole thread, to emphasise a point (you have used caps, too - hypocrite) - what is your problem? Have you taken your medication this morning?

[Benjamin]

I'm closing this thread. I suggest you calm down and let go of these sour grapes in which you seem to hold.

[Marc]

Guys enough of the personal insults.