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Liberty4eva
29-01-2012, 01:08 PM
Who are worse at holding a grudge: men or women?

Bollo
29-01-2012, 01:40 PM
Probably women, although having said that I'm crap at holding grudges 'cos I have the memory and attention span of a gnat

Smithy
29-01-2012, 01:42 PM
women

Ammi
29-01-2012, 01:56 PM
Both I think ...they just handle it differently
Men tend to act more and 'settle' it whereas more often women just 'simmer' and hold it in

Smithy
29-01-2012, 01:58 PM
women hold things against you forever :nono:

What about that time in 1973 when you left the toilet seat up

Ammi
29-01-2012, 02:25 PM
women hold things against you forever :nono:

What about that time in 1973 when you left the toilet seat up

..yeah ok, I can't argue with that.....fair enough

Pyramid*
29-01-2012, 02:43 PM
I doubt it's a gender thing - it's down to the individual and their personality.

InOne
29-01-2012, 02:55 PM
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

Pyramid*
29-01-2012, 02:58 PM
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.


A grudge does not relate only a scorned woman you know. :joker:

InOne
29-01-2012, 03:06 PM
A grudge does not relate only a scorned woman you know. :joker:

I know, but it means they hold it longer. It's a well known fact.

Scarlett.
29-01-2012, 03:16 PM
Women.

I'm pathetic at holding grudges, the longest I've held one is a day xD

Shaun
29-01-2012, 03:20 PM
gays. gays are formidable.

Pyramid*
29-01-2012, 03:30 PM
I know, but it means they hold it longer. It's a well known fact.

Really...well known fact.

Who, out of Aaron, Jay and Alex - has been holding a grudge about monies not being shared out...... JAY. Male.

InOne
29-01-2012, 03:37 PM
Really...well known fact.

Who, out of Aaron, Jay and Alex - has been holding a grudge about monies not being shared out...... JAY. Male.

I've not been following that debacle

Pyramid*
29-01-2012, 03:38 PM
I've not been following that debacle

You didn't have to follow it. I gave you the answer.

:tongue:

InOne
29-01-2012, 03:40 PM
You didn't have to follow it. I gave you the answer.

:tongue:

Big Brother fallouts aren't the greatest of examples, let's be honest lol

Pyramid*
29-01-2012, 03:43 PM
Big Brother fallouts aren't the greatest of examples, let's be honest lol

Oh... I didn't realise gender specific excluded Big Brother contestants..... they are human are they not?

InOne
29-01-2012, 03:45 PM
Oh... I didn't realise gender specific excluded Big Brother contestants..... they are human are they not?

Quite debatable with some of them.

Pyramid*
29-01-2012, 03:46 PM
Quite debatable with some of them.

Nope, they are all humans. The quality and type of human may be debatable, but they most certainly are human.

InOne
29-01-2012, 03:48 PM
Nope, they are all humans. The quality and type of human may be debatable, but they most certainly are human.

If you say so.

Ninastar
29-01-2012, 03:53 PM
Women

but like pyramid said, it's also down to the individual

Niamh.
29-01-2012, 07:18 PM
I doubt it's a gender thing - it's down to the individual and their personality.

I'll second that. I hate when people generalise based on sex, it's stupid, everyone is different.

MTVN
29-01-2012, 07:24 PM
Really...well known fact.

Who, out of Aaron, Jay and Alex - has been holding a grudge about monies not being shared out...... JAY. Male.

Don't see why Alex would hold a grudge about it, she was the one who was meant to be doing the sharing

Ammi
29-01-2012, 07:26 PM
gays. gays are formidable.

http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTamYzYUy2Df2FED46YpySJu02SPHSmZ XWRzYK1Tc_O5lI73Tkc

Shaun
29-01-2012, 07:27 PM
potatoes are this season's must-have accessory

nicole_burks
29-01-2012, 07:31 PM
I goodness, women are.

I hold grudges like crazy.
If you make me mad I will ignore you :bored:

Shaun
29-01-2012, 07:32 PM
got to say i haven't seen a male member brag about their 'ignore list' on here :laugh:

Ammi
29-01-2012, 07:37 PM
potatoes are this season's must-have accessory

..I think you're right
http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSMx75IecfYjSJIgr19XO_g_1ZELMS8p D63E-82WusutzDy2Ss7

Pyramid*
29-01-2012, 07:38 PM
Don't see why Alex would hold a grudge about it, she was the one who was meant to be doing the sharing


Jay. male still stands though.

Pyramid*
29-01-2012, 07:41 PM
got to say i haven't seen a male member brag about their 'ignore list' on here :laugh:

which females 'brag' about it - I've seen male and female posters on here make mention of their ignore list, or who they have on it.... but I've not seen anyone bragging about it.

Jords
29-01-2012, 07:43 PM
Women

Bollo
29-01-2012, 07:43 PM
potatoes are this season's must-have accessory

No it's potatinis actually, potatoes are so last season

Shaun
29-01-2012, 07:45 PM
:bawling:

-abandons my fashionista crown-

Shasown
29-01-2012, 07:51 PM
I bear grudges the best and I am a male.

Females are quite good at bearing grudges in a close relationships, male tend to let things ride. (Because we know how to swallow our pride and show respect to the person we love.)

However outside of intimate/famile/close relationships it depends on the personalities involved.

Me. I Am Salman
29-01-2012, 08:40 PM
Women; I sorely put it down to Kitchen stress

MeMyselfAndI
29-01-2012, 08:47 PM
I hold grudges for like ever, but in general women

Redway
30-01-2012, 07:28 PM
Men, if they're anything like me. The longest I've ever held a grudge for is about 3 hours. :bored:

I think women have more time to think about that ****, though. I'm sure there are more important things in the world to worry about than holding silly grudges. :idc:

nicole_burks
30-01-2012, 07:30 PM
Women tend to overthink things and then get mad about it.

Niamh.
30-01-2012, 07:32 PM
Men, if they're anything like me. The longest I've ever held a grudge for is about 3 hours. :bored:

I think women have more time to think about that ****, though. I'm sure there are more important things in the world to worry about than holding silly grudges. :idc:

Why do women have more time? Are the men too busy digging trenches and building things? :joker:

Roy Mars III
30-01-2012, 07:38 PM
Obviously women. I forgot my sister's birthday last week, and she is still upset about it.

Roy Mars III
30-01-2012, 07:38 PM
Why do women have more time? Are the men too busy digging trenches and building things? :joker:

you have to do something with all that time you spend in the kitchen

Niamh.
30-01-2012, 07:42 PM
you have to do something with all that time you spend in the kitchen

Indeed

Niall
30-01-2012, 07:43 PM
Women easily

Redway
30-01-2012, 07:45 PM
Why do women have more time? Are the men too busy digging trenches and building things? :joker:

Or maybe getting on with their lives, something women don't seem able to do. :idc:

Niamh.
30-01-2012, 07:48 PM
Or maybe getting on with their lives, something women don't seem able to do. :idc:

lol, what age are you 12? :joker:

King Gizzard
30-01-2012, 07:50 PM
Women

Women are horrible people

Really really horrible

Niamh.
30-01-2012, 07:52 PM
Women

Women are horrible people

Really really horrible

You're horrible :nono:

Redway
30-01-2012, 08:02 PM
lol, what age are you 12? :joker:

17. :hmph:

Niamh.
30-01-2012, 08:04 PM
17. :hmph:

I rest my case then :idc:

Ninastar
30-01-2012, 08:09 PM
Women

Women are horrible people

Really really horrible

they make me sick

Marc
30-01-2012, 08:13 PM
Women.

Niamh.
30-01-2012, 08:16 PM
Marc.