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InOne
23-04-2012, 01:32 AM
Is this a term that applies to you? Do you put your family over everything? Would would you forgive them for anything?


Discuss.

Benjamin
23-04-2012, 01:33 AM
Yes.

Josy
23-04-2012, 01:36 AM
Yeah I put my family before anyone else, I don't know about forgiving them anything though it depends what they had done.

Jords
23-04-2012, 01:37 AM
Yeah I would unless something happened that forced me not to.

MTVN
23-04-2012, 01:39 AM
Not really, aside from my parents I value my friends more than my family

Mystic Mock
23-04-2012, 01:39 AM
I would risk my life for my friends and family, well at least I think I would anyway.

Erm... I think I would forgive my family for anything unless they did an horrendous crime.

Shaun
23-04-2012, 03:21 AM
It has its limits, obviously. If my mother went on a genocidal rampage around ASDA with a flamethrower, like she keeps threatening, I'd hardly help her carry the shopping home.

Kate!
23-04-2012, 08:11 AM
My lovely son I would lay down my life for. My mum is very precious to me also. My brother and his wife can ****.

Marc
23-04-2012, 08:17 AM
I think I'd help Shaun's mum carry the shopping home, smh Shaun. Youth today, so lazy and disrespectful :rolleyes:

Kazanne
23-04-2012, 08:34 AM
Family above everything for me BUT not sure I would forgive them for anything,depends what they did,some crimes are unforgivable even if commited by family.

joeysteele
23-04-2012, 09:02 AM
I will answer Yes, maybe not to forgiving anything they do, it would really depend on what they did,especially as to crimes like a murder for instance.

Marc
23-04-2012, 09:05 AM
Blood is thicker than water. Yes

I would never forgive anybody in my family for murder in any case other than accidential or in defence. Lying about something serious maybe, illness could probably tear a family apart of at least shaken the foundations.

Black Dagger
23-04-2012, 12:04 PM
Despite the fact I have the most disfunctional family ever.

I would have put my life on the line for any of them, I love them all.

chathappyforum
23-04-2012, 12:14 PM
My family are my world but i do think you can have sometimes in familys where you wonder do family really matter ? :conf::conf:

Niamh.
23-04-2012, 12:22 PM
Is this a term that applies to you? - Yes
Do you put your family over everything? - Yes
Would would you forgive them for anything? - Probably not anything, would depend really

Vicky.
23-04-2012, 12:30 PM
Definitely, to all except forgive them for everything. I could forgive pretty much any crime though, as long as it did not involve children.

Smithy
23-04-2012, 12:31 PM
Is this a term that applies to you? - Yes
Do you put your family over everything? - Yes
Would would you forgive them for anything? - No

/niamh

Ammi
23-04-2012, 01:01 PM
I would put my children's lives before my own..I think most mothers. I can't imagine how I would feel if one of them were to say commit a heinous crime...it would be torturous emotionally..but I can't imagine ever not loving them..and I can't say that about anyone else. I don't think I could ever walk away from them..no matter what they did

Jack_
23-04-2012, 01:06 PM
Yes. Not too sure on the forgiving side though...especially if it was something done to me, or that would seriously affect me.

Serious crimes I would of course not at all be happy about, but I think I'd try and forget, rather than forgive. I honestly don't think, no matter what, I could ever end contact with my family.

Legend killer
23-04-2012, 02:34 PM
In terms of My Parents Yes other than that it depends really

Mrluvaluva
23-04-2012, 03:46 PM
In most cases they would be forgiven. Depends if they were sorry for their actions or not. I don't think I could ever forgive them in such cases of crimes like cold blooded murder etc, no matter how repentant they were. When they **** other peoples lives up is pretty unforgivable in my book.

InOne
23-04-2012, 10:31 PM
I've never been close to any of my relatives. I can't say I care about many apart from my mum and dad. I've never grown up with the family unit so think I could care what the rest of my family did.

Blood isn't thicker than water for me, my friends have stuck by me a lot more than my family have

Patrick
23-04-2012, 10:57 PM
No.

Brother Leon
23-04-2012, 11:00 PM
Yeah. Fam comes first. Especially Mum and Lil sis.


There is one cousin I will never speak to again though. I would probably want to stab him up If I saw him.

joeysteele
23-04-2012, 11:19 PM
I've never been close to any of my relatives. I can't say I care about many apart from my mum and dad. I've never grown up with the family unit so think I could care what the rest of my family did.

Blood isn't thicker than water for me, my friends have stuck by me a lot more than my family have

I can relate to that a bit InOne, some of my family as I have said on here before, I wish I was out when they came visiting.

The other valid point is that we are given a family whereas we 'choose' our friends, they as friends are people we choose to share often a lot more with than some members of family so what you say is a good point.

Redway
23-04-2012, 11:58 PM
It has its restrictions but generally yes. Doesn't mean I won't argue back if they piss me off.