Why is Vanity a Bad Thing?

[ILoveTRW]

I just got called me "vain" with hate.
I know I'm vain but why is that a bad thing, its not as though im hurting anyone.

[Jordan.]

Nothing wrong with being vain, it's the arrogance that normally comes with it.

[Vicky.]

I wouldnt say vanity is a bad thing really...knowing you are goodlooking or whatever is fine

Its when it crosses to obvious arrogance where you think you are better than everyone else and it shows...that I dont like.

But everyones different I guess.

[ILoveTRW]

well im obviously not arrogant

[Patrick]

Get called it constantly too, some teacher the other day called me an Arrogant Prat.

Not sure what people's problem is with being vain, probably jealousy.

[Shaun]

It only becomes a problem when you become conceited. Expecting favourability because of your looks, thinking you're better than people, becoming narcissistic etc.

I suppose everyone is vain to some extent because of how we choose to dress, use makeup, hair products and toiletries.

[Mystic Mock]

Because people think vain people are arrogant and look down there noses of the same sex.

Well that's what i've came across anyway.

[Kizzy]

I got that a lot by an ex...Everytime I looked in a mirror, its a control thing and affects your self confidence... ignore it.

[Ammi]

..I'ts fine to take care of yourself..make an effort and be confident with your looks....but I don't think anything in life is a good thing if it's excessive

..narcissism for instance would then become a disorder

[Doogle]

I like to look in the mirror and see how I look...apparently that's being vain. I don't go around claiming I am perfect in every way and stuff so I'm not really arrogant about it. I don't see that as a problem.

[Niall]

I think its a bad thing when you get a good looking person who lets all the praise resulting from that go to their head. There are so many people in my school who act all superior because they're attractive. I hate it.

I like to look in the mirror and see how I look...apparently that's being vain. I don't go around claiming I am perfect in every way and stuff so I'm not really arrogant about it. I don't see that as a problem.

There's a difference between looking in the mirror to see how you look though imo. I look in the mirror to check my appearance because I'm a really self conscious person. I wouldn't call it vanity. Vanity would be checking yourself in the mirror just because you think you look good.

[Mystic Mock]

I only look in the mirror if I don't look psychotic enough lol.

[arista]

I just got called me "vain" with hate.
I know I'm vain but why is that a bad thing, its not as though im hurting anyone.


Maybe
you Over Do It
so much.


Then calling you Vain
is Fair.


Life In The City

[ILoveTRW]

When I walk past a mirror I usually check my face out, tell myself about how hot i am, and then i will usually take my top of and check my body out.

[Doogle]

When I walk past a mirror I usually check my face out, tell myself about how hot i am, and then i will usually take my top of and check my body out.
I thought people like you were only fictional. :/

[ILoveTRW]

I thought people like you were only fictional. :/

in my defense i am trying to build an athletic body so i need to make sure im going in the right direction

[Mystic Mock]

in my defense i am trying to build an athletic body so i need to make sure im going in the right direction

:joker:

Do you poo in the freezer like BB12's vile beast Jay Mckray by any chance?:joker:

[Benjamin]

I'm pretty vain tbh. I think mine stems more through insecurity as I used to be very fat, and only really took care of my looks once I lost weight and people commented on how good I looked. I try to be modest about my looks, but I'm definitely vain.

[Ramsay]

bitch make me some waffle fries cuz im so sexy

[Benjamin]

-kicks Karl in the face-


Not so sexy now, hey? :idc:

[Ramsay]

bitch dat a mistake

[Benjamin]

:pipe:

[Ramsay]

awwww hell no


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[Harry!]

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