Masturbating Message

[Mrluvaluva]

It's not just him getting off, it's a message to the youth of today that it's ok to do so and they should feel comfortable with it. :laugh2:

[karezza]

Ejaculation is death.

:nono:

[Ramsay]

he's right it's nothing to be ashamed of

[Doogle]

He has a point but it was so over the top

[MaratSafinForever]

He has a point but it was so over the top

It's only being taken this far because people couldn't deal with the fact that he admitted he masturbated in the shower.

He explained himself in an honest and articulate and pleasant manner.

He got nothing but ignorance in return, however.

[Mrluvaluva]

I know there's nothing wrong with it, it's just that having a wank in the shower to spread the word on National TV that masturbating is normal and healthy just seems a bit ott, and he was taking things so seriously.

[Jords]

Its always gonna be something some people are comfortable with and others not, just like sex in general. All depends on personality and what people want to keep private etc.

Hes just gonna be know for masturbation, LOL.

[MrWong]

He's correct in what he's saying.

The people of the Netherlands have the right attitude.

Open, honest and coincidently one of the lowest rates of STI's in Europe.

[Doogle]

It's only being taken this far because people couldn't deal with the fact that he admitted he masturbated in the shower.

He explained himself in an honest and articulate and pleasant manner.

He got nothing but ignorance in return, however.

They didn't feel comfortable and found it weird and he wouldn't shut up about it though, he went a bit too far when going on about it.

[paper-cut-exit]

The house wanker! what an ass!

[Scream]

Lmfaoooooooooooooooooooooooooo

[Marc]

Definitely should keep doing it. Every single day.

[MaratSafinForever]

They didn't feel comfortable and found it weird and he wouldn't shut up about it though, he went a bit too far when going on about it.

Don't give me that. They have no problem talking about sex in a profane way but they certainly do have a problem about talking about it in a sensible way. That's what you call immaturity.

[MrWong]

Don't give me that. They have no problem talking about sex in a profane way but they certainly do have a problem about talking about it in a sensible way. That's what you call immaturity.

Absolutely!

[smudgie]

Big pratt, by the time you reach the age to watch BB after the watershed, you have probably been pleasuring yourself for years.:joker:

[Doogle]

Don't give me that. They have no problem talking about sex in a profane way but they certainly do have a problem about talking about it in a sensible way. That's what you call immaturity.

What do you mean don't give me that? :joker: I'm not defending their actions, I'm just saying, they are immature and that's quite evident so why the hell would Benedict continue to keep going on about it when there was really no need.

[MaratSafinForever]

What do you mean don't give me that? :joker: I'm not defending their actions, I'm just saying, they are immature and that's quite evident so why the hell would Benedict continue to keep going on about it when there was really no need.

You seem to be as intelligent as Caroline herself. You seem to be forgetting that he's being watched by the public, I'm sure that he's aware that he's justifying his own actions not only to the house but to the viewers and there's nothing wrong with that.

There was absolutely nothing wrong with what he did. It took him the better part of a minute to explain himself, that's hardly "going on" and nobody told him to stop. If they were too immature to sit and listen to the man justify himself AFTER THEY COMPLAINED (thus virtually requesting as much from him) then they could have simply left the room.

[reece(:]

Just imagine if Nikki was in the house at the revelation:laugh:

[joeysteele]

We heard a lot worse in last years BB, I found his diary room mini lecture a bit of an odd thing to do but he wanted to get it said and did so.

[fitz2k2]

haha

[Doogle]

You seem to be as intelligent as Caroline herself. You seem to be forgetting that he's being watched by the public, I'm sure that he's aware that he's justifying his own actions not only to the house but to the viewers and there's nothing wrong with that.

There was absolutely nothing wrong with what he did. It took him the better part of a minute to explain himself, that's hardly "going on" and nobody told him to stop. If they were too immature to sit and listen to the man justify himself AFTER THEY COMPLAINED (thus virtually requesting as much from him) then they could have simply left the room.

Was there a reason you insulted my intelligence? I fail to see why you need to bring that up when having a discussion about Benedict's actions. Totally uncalled for.

Yes, I am fully aware that he's being watched. And yes, it was his decision to do so and the others are a bit silly for constantly discussing sex and then finding that weird, but regardless I personally think his little speech in the diary room seemed a bit pointless. I understand he is a porn "performer" and wishes people in the country were better educated on the subject but to me the whole thing felt a bit too exaggerated.

However, that could simply be down to the fact they chose to play inappropriate music while he was talking.

[Novo]

What an amazing speech

[mizzy25]

hes a wanker

[Cherry Christmas]

I liked him in the chick pea argument, thought he did well against Trampy. He should have known he is onto a loser with the wanking argument. You got to choose your battles in this life Im afraid, and this is neither the time or the place to be spreading the message....thought it was funny that he finished off with ....as long as you know where Im coming from....:joker:

[Johnnyuk123]

He's right about caroline though. Did you see her with the fish eye? lol She's just like that with a mans genitals. lol No wonder she's single!

[smeagol]

n honour of benedick speech i might have alittle tank in his honour lol now where's that sara photo.........

[sampvt]

Ejaculation is death.

:nono:

Ive died loads of times since leaving Killyleagh and moving to leeds. A amn after my own heart. Or in our speak, he is a freeki eejit. lol.

[Marsh.]

You seem to be as intelligent as Caroline herself. You seem to be forgetting that he's being watched by the public, I'm sure that he's aware that he's justifying his own actions not only to the house but to the viewers and there's nothing wrong with that.

There was absolutely nothing wrong with what he did. It took him the better part of a minute to explain himself, that's hardly "going on" and nobody told him to stop. If they were too immature to sit and listen to the man justify himself AFTER THEY COMPLAINED (thus virtually requesting as much from him) then they could have simply left the room.

What's with the insults? Why are you making it so personal? Have some respect.

[sampvt]

hes a wanker

He isnt a wanker, he is a tosser...:dance:

[Patrick]

The man is a hero.

[GypsyGoth]

Caroline was entitled to laugh at the wanker.

[Rustic bauble]

Caroline was entitled to laugh at the wanker.

He deserved to be laughed at...he made himself look like a complete prick. Who does he think he is.....he was preaching and he is so up himself and completely self absorbed.

[fruit_cake]

comedy gold

[saz2011]

he was right in what he said but his words were wasted on such a young immature crowd

[Legend killer]

Good stuff going to wack one out now to celebrate

[Carniala]

He deserved to be laughed at...he made himself look like a complete prick. Who does he think he is.....he was preaching and he is so up himself and completely self absorbed.

Why is it so laughable? He was honest and to the point conversation, If you are not comfortable in your own body, and think it is not correct to have a discussion about sex or masturbation, well, I guess life is going to be long and boring for you.

The fact Caroline Laughed about it only show her immaturity or the fact her parents have their head in the sand, and she will have to do the entire sex experience on her own or not at all it seams.

My niece and nephew knows how babies are made and most of everything about sex, and yet they are not sexually active, but they understand that it is natural and normal, when society insist on making something taboo, it only makes things worst.

Another good topic Benedict should talk to them about is Alcohol consumption, Scott already has a problem if he does not understand that what Benedict said to him was for his own good, but judging how the British view alcohol, he has a huge task in front of him! My parents taught me how to enjoy wine and I never had the need to be drunk to have fun. but I still know how to have a great evening and remember it the next day!

[MaratSafinForever]

Was there a reason you insulted my intelligence? I fail to see why you need to bring that up when having a discussion about Benedict's actions. Totally uncalled for.

Yes, I am fully aware that he's being watched. And yes, it was his decision to do so and the others are a bit silly for constantly discussing sex and then finding that weird, but regardless I personally think his little speech in the diary room seemed a bit pointless. I understand he is a porn "performer" and wishes people in the country were better educated on the subject but to me the whole thing felt a bit too exaggerated.

However, that could simply be down to the fact they chose to play inappropriate music while he was talking.

If you think that was a speech, then it speaks volumes in regards to your level of attention span. That was no speech, it was merely his opinion and statement of belief in a short paragraph.

[MaratSafinForever]

What's with the insults? Why are you making it so personal? Have some respect.

Nice to know that you think being compared to Caroline in regards to intelligence is an insult. Funny.

[Doogle]

If you think that was a speech, then it speaks volumes in regards to your level of attention span. That was no speech, it was merely his opinion and statement of belief in a short paragraph.

Again, why are you bring up things about me personally? You could've just said that without putting that in. I'm unsure why you feel the need to do so, it makes you look like you're trying to look above me or smarter than me, but just to remind you we are all equal.

I was not the first to refer to it as a speech, but the way BB built it up made it seem that way. My point was it still felt like a big deal over nothing.

[Mrluvaluva]

Nice to know that you think being compared to Caroline in regards to intelligence is an insult. Funny.

So your intention was not to make it sound condescending? I see..

[MaratSafinForever]

Again, why are you bring up things about me personally? You could've just said that without putting that in. I'm unsure why you feel the need to do so, it makes you look like you're trying to look above me or smarter than me, but just to remind you we are all equal.

I was not the first to refer to it as a speech, but the way BB built it up made it seem that way. My point was it still felt like a big deal over nothing.

What do you expect me to say? I've already explained to you why there was a deal made out of nothing. It was because the rest of the housemates were complaining, so Benedict decided to justify his actions to the main person who was complaining in a dignified way. What do you fail to understand? If Caroline is allowed to voice her opinion, so is he.

So your intention was not to make it sound condescending? I see..

No, it was indeed :)

[kistar]

You seem to be as intelligent as Caroline herself. You seem to be forgetting that he's being watched by the public, I'm sure that he's aware that he's justifying his own actions not only to the house but to the viewers and there's nothing wrong with that.

There was absolutely nothing wrong with what he did. It took him the better part of a minute to explain himself, that's hardly "going on" and nobody told him to stop. If they were too immature to sit and listen to the man justify himself AFTER THEY COMPLAINED (thus virtually requesting as much from him) then they could have simply left the room.

He left the room after making Caroline very uncomfortable and then returned to continue his tyrade of nonsense so yes he did go on and on and Caroline had little choice but to listen.

Masturbation isnt something every one needs to be able to talk about , you just need to know its ok to do if you want to, and there is a big difference.

Working in porn must at some level de sensitise you to sex and what it may represent to other people , it becomes the norm well not to every one it isnt and that should be accepted too.

He is in my opinion a complete and utter wanker in every sense of the word.

[Doogle]

What do you expect me to say? I've already explained to you why there was a deal made out of nothing. It was because the rest of the housemates were complaining, so Benedict decided to justify his actions to the main person who was complaining in a dignified way. What do you fail to understand? If Caroline is allowed to voice her opinion, so is he.

I expect you to reply to me without trying to be patronising or rude. I understand why he did it, all my original point was saying was that I just felt it was a bit exaggerated.

[MaratSafinForever]

He left the room after making Caroline very uncomfortable and then returned to continue his tyrade of nonsense so yes he did go on and on and Caroline had little choice but to listen.

Masturbation isnt something every one needs to be able to talk about , you just need to know its ok to do if you want to, and there is a big difference.

Working in porn must at some level de sensitise you to sex and what it may represent to other people , it becomes the norm well not to every one it isnt and that should be accepted too.

He is in my opinion a complete and utter wanker in every sense of the word.

http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=5218155&postcount=13

I expect you to reply to me without trying to be patronising or rude. I understand why he did it, all my original point was saying was that I just felt it was a bit exaggerated.

There was no exaggeration, it took him a minute to explain himself, longer than necessary due to the immaturity a certain person. I have no idea why you don't understand that. Well, I do, but I'll leave it at that :)

[MrWong]

He left the room after making Caroline very uncomfortable and then returned to continue his tyrade of nonsense so yes he did go on and on and Caroline had little choice but to listen.

Masturbation isnt something every one needs to be able to talk about , you just need to know its ok to do if you want to, and there is a big difference.

Working in porn must at some level de sensitise you to sex and what it may represent to other people , it becomes the norm well not to every one it isnt and that should be accepted too.

He is in my opinion a complete and utter wanker in every sense of the word.

Not true. He gave her a choice.

[Doogle]

There was no exaggeration, it took him a minute to explain himself, longer than necessary due to the immaturity a certain person. I have no idea why you don't understand that. Well, I do, but I'll leave it at that :)

You have fun with that "thinking you're superior" attitude you have going on, it'll get you far :)

[armand.kay]

Just imagine if Nikki was in the house at the revelation:laugh:
If her reaction to Dawns BO is anything to go by, I think she would of imploded :joker:

[Rustic bauble]

Why is it so laughable? He was honest and to the point conversation, If you are not comfortable in your own body, and think it is not correct to have a discussion about sex or masturbation, well, I guess life is going to be long and boring for you.

The fact Caroline Laughed about it only show her immaturity or the fact her parents have their head in the sand, and she will have to do the entire sex experience on her own or not at all it seams.

My niece and nephew knows how babies are made and most of everything about sex, and yet they are not sexually active, but they understand that it is natural and normal, when society insist on making something taboo, it only makes things worst.

Another good topic Benedict should talk to them about is Alcohol consumption, Scott already has a problem if he does not understand that what Benedict said to him was for his own good, but judging how the British view alcohol, he has a huge task in front of him! My parents taught me how to enjoy wine and I never had the need to be drunk to have fun. but I still know how to have a great evening and remember it the next day!

Oh god....lets spend the next few weeks being lectured by Benedict... He is a very irritating patronising person. Carolines giggles...however immature clearly showed her being uncomfortable with the situation. In fact Benedict made himself look a prat because trying to be 'mature' he didnt handle it well. He just decided to preach. Just because he finds it natural does not make it right for him to be so public about it and tell someone they shouldnt be embarrased about it.....imo he was being disrespectful especially doing it in the shower that is used by all. Some people feel that certain things should remain 'private' and he should respect that instead of telling them they are wrong.

[armand.kay]

It was a legendary speech. I was moved :bawling:

[InOne]

Maybe if he didn't come across as such a self-righteous prick then people would take him more seriously. He's on BB for god sake.

[Marsh.]

Nice to know that you think being compared to Caroline in regards to intelligence is an insult. Funny.

It's making assumptions on people's intelligence based on a post on a BB forum. So, instead of making personal comments stick to the topic.

[kistar]

Not true. He gave her a choice.

The choice was ,if you dont listen you are going to look a complete idiot in front off everyone for not being able to handle what I am saying. Yet what I am saying involves freedom of expression, That message should work both ways Caroline may not ever want to handle that kind of personal information regardless of how mature or immature she is.

Sex , masturbation etc is personal intimate part of who you are , get on with it do it to your hearts content , if I want to know about I will ask if not keep it to your self .

I went to an all girls boarding school from the age of 7 to 17 so I know alot about the subject I also know and knew what was appropriate conversation and what one kept to oneself and ones bed fellows.

[Shaun]

And it hasn't given one a complex at all, kistar

[thesheriff443]

if he wanted to teach young people to be open and sensible when it comes to sex he should of w*nked in a condom.

[paper-cut-exit]

Ben 'gets that most people don't want to do it' - I'd more tend to believe that most people do want to do it, and enjoy doing it on a regular basis, and have no probs with it at all... knowing very well that it's a perfectly natural thing.

This guy needs to get over himself. Patronising twat!
Who the hell is interested if he jerked off in the shower, or anywhere else anyway.

[Livia]

The choice was ,if you dont listen you are going to look a complete idiot in front off everyone for not being able to handle what I am saying. Yet what I am saying involves freedom of expression, That message should work both ways Caroline may not ever want to handle that kind of personal information regardless of how mature or immature she is.

Sex , masturbation etc is personal intimate part of who you are , get on with it do it to your hearts content , if I want to know about I will ask if not keep it to your self .

I went to an all girls boarding school from the age of 7 to 17 so I know alot about the subject I also know and knew what was appropriate conversation and what one kept to oneself and ones bed fellows.

So this school taught one what was appropriate conversation, but not how to use an apostrophe or that "a lot" is two words?

[flamingGalah!]

The point Benedict was trying to get across was taken in the complete wrong way by the housemates, it wasn't about him having a wank, it was their reactions to it he was trying to explain. People in this country are brought up believing that talking about sex/masturbation is wrong & is a taboo subject, because of this the UK has the highest rates of teenage pregnancy & STI's in the whole of Europe, that was the point Benedict was trying to get across but those silly immature twats in there thought he was simply trying to justify having a wank & that he wanted them to know about it because he is some sort of sexual deviant! :rolleyes:

[In the Drunk Tank]

I thought it was quite funny really, he was labouring to explain his point and getting more frustrated because they just couldn't comprehend what he was going on about

[Mrluvaluva]

To be fair, he has also said that he has to knock one out because he has a high sex drive and feels the need to. He's not just doing it for education purposes.

[lostalex]

If you've got roomates then you should keep yur cum to yourself. that's my message.

[lostalex]

The point Benedict was trying to get across was taken in the complete wrong way by the housemates, it wasn't about him having a wank, it was their reactions to it he was trying to explain. People in this country are brought up believing that talking about sex/masturbation is wrong & is a taboo subject, because of this the UK has the highest rates of teenage pregnancy & STI's in the whole of Europe, that was the point Benedict was trying to get across but those silly immature twats in there thought he was simply trying to justify having a wank & that he wanted them to know about it because he is some sort of sexual deviant! :rolleyes:


none of the housemates had a problem with him masterbating, they had a problem with him dropping a load on the floor that they all walk on barefoot. I don't think anyone would have had a problem with it if he had wanked in the bathroom into a wad of toilet paper and then flushed it down the loo, they had a problem with it because he left his DNA all over the shower floor.

They would have had the same reaction if he urinated in the shower. It's not about masterbation, it's about bodily fluids in a public space.

[Kizzy]

benedict you are too late Nancy Friday beat you to it haha!

[flamingGalah!]

none of the housemates had a problem with him masterbating, they had a problem with him dropping a load on the floor that they all walk on barefoot. I don't think anyone would have had a problem with it if he had wanked in the bathroom into a wad of toilet paper and then flushed it down the loo, they had a problem with it because he left his DNA all over the shower floor.

They would have had the same reaction if he urinated in the shower. It's not about masterbation, it's about bodily fluids in a public space.

Some of them clearly had a problem about the act itself though & didn't want to know he had done it (fair enough) so this kind of gets back to the point that they either find it disgusting or don't like to talk about such things...

It's not as if he jizzed all over the shower then left it there for someone to walk in! He cleaned the shower afterwards, so I really don't see what the problem is?? There was none left so it shouldn't really be an issue, just silly immature little girls who think it's gross & giggle at the mere mention of masturbation... Besides I think it is far more gross when people leave hair in a shower, pubic or otherwise :yuk:

[kistar]

And it hasn't given one a complex at all, kistar

I mastubate more than Benedict could keep up with and I am bi sexual the list goes on but it would be inappropriate to imagine you would be interested in my sexual orientations so unlike Benedict I will keep the juicy content ,as it were , to myself.

I am more uninhibited than most but would never imagine that is the only way to be , every one is different and I have great respect for that, in my opinion Benedict should respect that individuality too.

Anyway he is going Friday maybe I will book him and tell him myself :dance:

[kistar]

So this school taught one what was appropriate conversation, but not how to use an apostrophe or that "a lot" is two words?

Please see Waterhogs posts if you want to correct spelling :xyxwave: