They're picking on Deana because...

[Franko]

... Let's take a look at them all for a start. They're all young, decent looking lads who act very childishly, probably used to getting their way when it comes to most things, even with girls.

So when Deana - a good looking, intelligent , well-mannered and quiet girl comes in, their initial thought would be that they all "fancied" her.
But then once they find out that she isn't the type of girl to swoon over their "biceps" and isn't the type of girl who will fall at their feet and act a bit thick and naive, well, they took offence to this and their egos and male pride got a bruising. Oh dear, poor boys (yes, boys. Not men).

So Aaron can act as childish as he wants and Connor can say horrific things and Luke S can flex his pecks in agreement to make themselves feel better by putting her down, but at the end of the day they're 3 fully grown lads bullying a young woman who has done nothing to them at all. Even if she doesn't hear what they're saying it's not right.

Basically they're just a bunch of immature boys, probably with small peens and they'll never, ever "pull" a lady like Deana.

Stick to your Ashleigh's and other bimbo's. :dance:

[arista]

Great 1st Post


Valid Points.

[WCR1942]

Excellent analysis, are you a professional?

[LemonJam]

I think it's more because she's an overdramatic tit.

[In the Drunk Tank]

I think it's more because she's an overdramatic tit.

:laugh:

[chuff me dizzy]

They dont like her :idc:

[chuff me dizzy]

I think it's more because she's an overdramatic tit.

:kiss:

[PrincessIona]

Nicely put :)

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

I think it's more because she's an overdramatic tit.

:laugh3:

[g17m]

I think it's more because she's an overdramatic tit.

Are you serious? She isn't being overdramatic at all, she has done nothing to deserve the abuse she gets, just because she doesnt swoon over the boys, they dont like that and bully her as she is the most vulnerable and polite housemate and doesnt want to stoop to their levels, yet has to just to get by in that house, Lydia should be ashamed as well with how she is treating Deana, she has done nothing to Lydia, yet lydia has jumped on the hate deana bandwagon

[Franko]

I'm just a regular Joe Shmoe who hates to see someone get bullied and nobody step in and help. Where are all the real men in the house?

I HOPE that little gang puts Deana up every week and I hope she's saved every week.

Over Dramatic?????? I'm sorry but the "boys" have been far, far more over dramatic in tasks and daily life, while I'd say Deana was reserved for the most part.

What it boils down to really is that they are the dregs of society and Deana is a well brought up girl.

I bet they wouldn't act like this if it was a man twice the size of Luke S and tough as *****. They're picking on a girl. How many of them against 1 young woman? Really tough!!!!!!!!!

WOW I'm so amazing by their biceps, they must be so manly and rebellious. If only they could be tamed by one of the young female viewers... lol

[In the Drunk Tank]

I dunno, I can see why people dislike Arron, Conor etc. obviously but I don't see why Deana's being made out to be a saint and that it just defies belief that anyone could dislike her, there isn't really a need to try and seek some subconscious, psychological reason for it imo

[LemonJam]

Are you serious? She isn't being overdramatic at all, she has done nothing to deserve the abuse she gets, just because she doesnt swoon over the boys, they dont like that and bully her as she is the most vulnerable and polite housemate and doesnt want to stoop to their levels, yet has to just to get by in that house, Lydia should be ashamed as well with how she is treating Deana, she has done nothing to Lydia, yet lydia has jumped on the hate deana bandwagon

Her doing the task was the most hilariously poor attempt at anything I've ever seen. She clearly had no intent to eat the food as she bought it to her teeth (not even her tongue) and just leant to the side and let it drop out. Over the top for no reason.

I wouldn't say the boys don't like her because she doesn't swoon over them because almost everybody has been pissed off with her at some point.

[LemonJam]

I dunno, I can see why people dislike Arron, Conor etc. obviously but I don't see why Deana's being made out to be a saint and that it just defies belief that anyone could dislike her, there isn't really a need to try and seek some subconscious, psychological need for it imo

10 points to Gryffindor.

[g17m]

Her doing the task was the most hilariously poor attempt at anything I've ever seen. She clearly had no intent to eat the food as she bought it to her teeth (not even her tongue) and just leant to the side and let it drop out. Over the top for no reason.

I wouldn't say the boys don't like her because she doesn't swoon over them because almost everybody has been pissed off with her at some point.

And what exactly is it she has done to those housemates to piss them off??? please, an example for each would be great, maybe she has pissed off one or two, but everyone else has jumped on the bandwagon

[Doogle]

I agree completely.

On an unrelated note can we permanently ban anyone who uses 1218982 laughing emoticons at something that isn't funny

[Petershaw1984]

Exactly right op

[smeagol]

thugs dont need a reason to have a reason would mean having to think.

[Ammi]

..I think it's ridiculous to assume that they wouldn't like a girl because she didn't fancy them or because she may be intelligent..it's like saying she must be a lesbian
..Conor has never liked her and it's become a bit of a pack mentality

[In the Drunk Tank]

Conor has a girlfriend anyway, Arron has never shown much interest in Deana (or any of the girls really), and Luke S has Ashleigh, doubt they care whether Deana is "swooning" over them or not, not enough to solely base their dislike of her on it anyway

[LemonJam]

And what exactly is it she has done to those housemates to piss them off??? please, an example for each would be great, maybe she has pissed off one or two, but everyone else has jumped on the bandwagon

well there's the food task, the whole Becky friendship thing where she basically ruined a potential friendship, the amount that she moans. Of course, without live feed it's hard to tell, but clearly she's not as innocent as she's being made out to be if every single person in there has noticed cracks.

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

well there's the food task, the whole Becky friendship thing where she basically ruined a potential friendship, the amount that she moans. Of course, without live feed it's hard to tell, but clearly she's not as innocent as she's being made out to be if every single person in there has noticed cracks.

:worship:

[g17m]

well there's the food task, the whole Becky friendship thing where she basically ruined a potential friendship, the amount that she moans. Of course, without live feed it's hard to tell, but clearly she's not as innocent as she's being made out to be if every single person in there has noticed cracks.

I agree with you, LF is needed for these situations, I just think that she is being bullied way too much, she can't have done anything that bad for people to hate her as much as they do, just like Lauren, she did nothing wrong, but they just dont like her

[Franko]

That's exactly what it is. A pack mentality. They aren't thinking for themselves. They're all following the orders of the Irish caveman, the Justin Beiber spoilt little boy and the ginger scouser.. Just to save their own skin.

How long have they been in the house? 4 weeks? And look how long it's taken for the great uneducated to descend into (jokingly) threatening rape and violence. If they were on an island with no Big Brother, how long would it be before they all stood and watch as the main 3 take it in turns attacking her? haha

[Livia]

They're picking on Deana because it seems they can get away with it. If it wasn't her, I dare say it would be someone else.

[Petershaw1984]

Ginger scouser ? Is that luke s? Amazing if it is, he will hate being a ginger

[smeagol]

well there's the food task, the whole Becky friendship thing where she basically ruined a potential friendship, the amount that she moans. Of course, without live feed it's hard to tell, but clearly she's not as innocent as she's being made out to be if every single person in there has noticed cracks.

becky tricked her to stay in the house then didn't speak to her.hows that deanas fault.
moaning what moaning. is that all she has done
food task lol no one moaned at caroline cause she's in the gang

thats clutching at reasons that dont exist

she wont join the cool gang cause they are tossers. nor would some people here if they were there r so they hate her for it. its schoolyard stuff

[Franko]

well there's the food task, the whole Becky friendship thing where she basically ruined a potential friendship, the amount that she moans.

The whole Becky thing??? Are you serious? She only did what any normal person would've done in that situation and thought "so the friend I've just made in here was doing it just so she got saved from noms". Are you 100% seriously telling me that if you were Deana in that situation you would of been completely fine about it???? Because I doubt you would be.

[rayheartbliss]

its most likely.

[g17m]

becky tricked her to stay in the house then didn't speak to her.hows that deanas fault.
moaning what moaning. is that all she has done
food task lol no one moaned at caroline cause she's in the gang

thats clutching at reasons that dont exist

she wont join the cool gang cause they are tossers. nor would some people here if they were there r so they hate her for it. its schoolyard stuff

Couldnt agree with you more, The whole Caroline thing is starting to piss me off now, she has been more irritating, bitchy and nasty that Deana has, yet because more than half the Hm's like her, they dont turn on her!?

[Franko]

Let's say that all the people in the house right now where in a night club somewhere and didn't know each other. Here's how it would play out...

Luke S, Aaron and Conner would each in turn notice Deana, looking attractive and not taking any notice of them. They would then each in turn attempt to dance with her or chat her up or offer to buy her a drink and each one of them would get the cold shoulder from her as she seems too classy to have some chav chat her up.

So then each one of them would go back to their mates with their tail between their legs and call her a b i t c h or a s l a g to make themselves feel better and then everyone would go on with their lives.

That's just life. Those types of lads are like that. I see it all the time and I'm sure I've probably done it myself too. But I don't take offence, I just laugh it off.

[smeagol]

Let's say that all the people in the house right now where in a night club somewhere and didn't know each other. Here's how it would play out...

Luke S, Aaron and Conner would each in turn notice Deana, looking attractive and not taking any notice of them. They would then each in turn attempt to dance with her or chat her up or offer to buy her a drink and each one of them would get the cold shoulder from her as she seems too classy to have some chav chat her up.

So then each one of them would go back to their mates with their tail between their legs and call her a b i t c h or a s l a g to make themselves feel better and then everyone would go on with their lives.

That's just life. Those types of lads are like that. I see it all the time and I'm sure I've probably done it myself too. But I don't take offence, I just laugh it off.

thats exactly what would happen and does happen except they'd call her a lesbian stuck up etc. then they'd spot ashleigh and try it on with her and all 4 of them would be outside the club having a gangbang lol

[LemonJam]

becky tricked her to stay in the house then didn't speak to her.hows that deanas fault.
moaning what moaning. is that all she has done
food task lol no one moaned at caroline cause she's in the gang

thats clutching at reasons that dont exist

she wont join the cool gang cause they are tossers. nor would some people here if they were there r so they hate her for it. its schoolyard stuff

Deana made a drama when Beckys task was revealed and didn't really make any ammends even when Becky apologized. She pretty much alienated herself from her.
It's pretty well known that Deana moans.
Nobody moaned at Caroline but she's already eaten a fish eye, I'm sure she could've done tinned ham.

They're all fairly valid reasons but as stated before: with no live feed we can't be sure, but when the whole house has had something to say about her we can't assume she's as innocent as everyone makes out

[Franko]

thats exactly what would happen and does happen except they'd call her a lesbian stuck up etc. then they'd spot ashleigh and try it on with her and all 4 of them would be outside the club having a gangbang lol

Lol! I was going to say that too!

And then Ashleigh would be text stalking them all and after a week they'd all be ignoring her and move on to the next girl lol

[Ammi]

..several have said she 'acts for the camera' which is something we never see

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

Deana made a drama when Beckys task was revealed and didn't really make any ammends even when Becky apologized. She pretty much alienated herself from her.
It's pretty well known that Deana moans.
Nobody moaned at Caroline but she's already eaten a fish eye, I'm sure she could've done tinned ham.

They're all fairly valid reasons but as stated before: with no live feed we can't be sure, but when the whole house has had something to say about her we can't assume she's as innocent as everyone makes out

Well said! Personally i find her quite sly and manipulative. :blush:

[LemonJam]

The whole Becky thing??? Are you serious? She only did what any normal person would've done in that situation and thought "so the friend I've just made in here was doing it just so she got saved from noms". Are you 100% seriously telling me that if you were Deana in that situation you would of been completely fine about it???? Because I doubt you would be.

I'd put myself in Becky's shoes. Becky was actually in tears at the time because she felt so bad. The task was basically created for the fact it had a villainous element to it all of using people and Big Brother succeeded. Maybe it's just more in my nature to forgive and put myself in others shoes.

[smeagol]

Lol! I was going to say that too!

And then Ashleigh would be text stalking them all and after a week they'd all be ignoring her and move on to the next girl lol

lol yea we joke but its oh so true lol

[smeagol]

Deana made a drama when Beckys task was revealed and didn't really make any ammends even when Becky apologized. She pretty much alienated herself from her.
It's pretty well known that Deana moans.
Nobody moaned at Caroline but she's already eaten a fish eye, I'm sure she could've done tinned ham.

They're all fairly valid reasons but as stated before: with no live feed we can't be sure, but when the whole house has had something to say about her we can't assume she's as innocent as everyone makes out

i dont blame deana for being annoyed she was very happy to have a friend and found out it was fake. that was crushing plus the task she was set things started badly.
lauren is the moaner of the house deana only moans in bed lol

[Franko]

Deana isn't sly or manipulative at all. I think she's just reserved and a lot more quiet than the rest of them, and they just see her as being boring and ruining their fun. FUN? They all need to come back to reality and get real jobs. Model? Night club promoter. Eff off lol

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

Deana isn't sly or manipulative at all. I think she's just reserved and a lot more quiet than the rest of them, and they just see her as being boring and ruining their fun. FUN? They all need to come back to reality and get real jobs. Model? Night club promoter. Eff off lol

I just can't stand her, but i know she has her fans. :blush:

[HBB1508]

I think the OP has got it spot on and especially the analogy to the club scenario - sadly it happens all too ofter with lads of this type - the difference is in the outside world they can walk away and lick their wounds and blame the girl but in the house they are locked in together and can't get away so they have to justify the brush off and that's why it's turning nasty.

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

I think the OP has got it spot on and especially the analogy to the club scenario - sadly it happens all too ofter with lads of this type - the difference is in the outside world they can walk away and lick their wounds and blame the girl but in the house they are locked in together and can't get away so they have to justify the brush off and that's why it's turning nasty.

But Arron fancies Sara. He made it quite obvious! :conf:

[MatthewS]

I think the major problem with Deana is she doesn't have an outgoing personality, she's more introverted than extroverted, and that's what sets her apart from some of the others. Same can be said for Luke A.

It's not to say that shes not a lovely person who has great qualities, but in a situation like Big Brother, its the outgoing, confident ones that are able to hold their own. When you're quiet and keep to yourself, you don't develop the same social connections and position that you would if you're quite interpersonal from the very start.

[Franko]

I think the OP has got it spot on and especially the analogy to the club scenario - sadly it happens all too ofter with lads of this type - the difference is in the outside world they can walk away and lick their wounds and blame the girl but in the house they are locked in together and can't get away so they have to justify the brush off and that's why it's turning nasty.

:thumbs:

[HBB1508]

But Arron fancies Sara. He made it quite obvious! :conf:

Sloppy seconds ??? :joker:

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

Sloppy seconds ??? :joker:

I think Arron should go for Lauren! She really likes him and she's so nice! :hugesmile:

[chuff me dizzy]

I dunno, I can see why people dislike Arron, Conor etc. obviously but I don't see why Deana's being made out to be a saint and that it just defies belief that anyone could dislike her, there isn't really a need to try and seek some subconscious, psychological reason for it imo

:worship: