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cheapbbfan
27-06-2012, 02:12 AM
Seriously she seems pissed off on every episode since the series started and doesnt seem to be enoying herself or her time in the house at all. She always has a complaint and always has something negative to point out and say. Genuine moments where she seems to be having fun and loving those around her seem to be quite rare. She comes across as too much of a sourpuss. With that said, I hope it doesnt work against her as Id rather keep her over Dull Deana

aman201
27-06-2012, 04:10 AM
i used to like her, but shes so fcukin serious and her gameplan flopped too.

she never laughs, and takes everything to heart.

awful hm tbh.

Urban Cragou
27-06-2012, 06:42 AM
She's most likely on her period.

armand.kay
27-06-2012, 06:49 AM
I don't know but its funny. :laugh:

Munchkins
27-06-2012, 06:52 AM
Probably because she has to live in a house full of w******, and idiots

Cherry Christmas
27-06-2012, 06:54 AM
I love Lyds, and saying she was going for the "sheep" in her gunge task is priceless, unfortunately due to all the Deana love it looks like she will go on Friday :bawling:

mcka
27-06-2012, 07:40 AM
She always makes me feel uneasy when she's talking. Her eyes are darting from side to side up and down omg she always looks shafty!

Santa's NaughtiNess
27-06-2012, 07:49 AM
I'm starting to like her again! She's a lot nicer now that she feel out with Deena! :tongue:

Marcus.
27-06-2012, 07:52 AM
I'm starting to like her again! She's a lot nicer now that she feel out with Deena! :tongue:

yeah

joeysteele
27-06-2012, 08:03 AM
She's paranoid, she thought she could near run the house by manipulating who was up each week for eviction. Now she cannot even talk about it and has found so many now who have had an issue with her, she not only has little influence in the house,she now cannot talk about nominations,so going around wondering who nominated who,who likes who,who says what,is driving her crazy.

She knows now she cannot trust Deana either really,the only ones who seem to listen to her are the totally boring Luke A and Adam who hasn't in any way lived up to the expectations I had of him as a housemate.
The problem there is those 2 listen but rarely say much back to her at all.

So she tries to create drama,in order to raise anger too in others as well as herself, to maybe try to see what others are thinking and feeling and who supports who as well as to disputes.Hence the frustration/anger for near all the time.

Santa's NaughtiNess
27-06-2012, 08:04 AM
She's paranoid, she thought she could near run the house by manipulating who was up each week for eviction. Now she cannot even talk about it and has found so many now who have had an issue with her, she not only has little influence in the house,she now cannot talk about nominations,so going around wondering who nominated who,who likes who,who says what,is driving her crazy.

She knows now she cannot trust Deana either really,the only ones who seem to listen to her are the totally boring Luke A and Adam who hasn't in any way lived up to the expectations I had of him as a housemate.
The problem there is those 2 listen but rarely say much back to her at all.

So she tries to create drama,in order to raise anger too in others as well as herself, to maybe try to see what others are thinking and feeling and who supports who as well as to disputes.Hence the frustration/anger for near all the time.

I still prefer her to boring Deena any day of the week! At least she's doing something. :tongue:

Marcus.
27-06-2012, 08:07 AM
I still prefer her to boring Deena any day of the week! At least she's doing something. :tongue:

yeah deana doing noughting put lydia as mush i do like her is doing somting

Santa's NaughtiNess
27-06-2012, 08:10 AM
yeah deana doing noughting put lydia as mush i do like her is doing somting

All Deena does is moan and complain. It's not entertaining to me. :)

Marcus.
27-06-2012, 08:12 AM
All Deena does is moan and complain. It's not entertaining to me. :)

nor me

Santa's NaughtiNess
27-06-2012, 08:14 AM
nor me

I'd like her more if she just relaxed and started enjoying herself. :)

sampvt
27-06-2012, 08:15 AM
Lydia is all about airtime regardless of the mood. She has watched the series and knows airtime gets results. She is more interesting than deana but at the same time she infuriates me but she must stay. No doubt our voters will oik her and make this a less watchable series but thats the norm.

Marcus.
27-06-2012, 08:15 AM
I'd like her more if she just relaxed and started enjoying herself. :)

yeah her to have fun

sampvt
27-06-2012, 08:16 AM
Deana is trying to play an Aaron of last year game. Keep in the public eye and play the sympathy card but keep airtime at a high. Dont loose your cool and make no alliances.

Santa's NaughtiNess
27-06-2012, 08:18 AM
Deana is trying to play an Aaron of last year game. Keep in the public eye and play the sympathy card but keep airtime at a high. Dont loose your cool and make no alliances.

She's playing the victim and everyone is falling for it! :bored:

Marcus.
27-06-2012, 08:19 AM
She's playing the victim and everyone is falling for it! :bored:

hopfull it well not work

joeysteele
27-06-2012, 08:20 AM
I still prefer her to boring Deena any day of the week! At least she's doing something. :tongue:

I think I do now too, Deana has not a bit of interest in the other housemates, she is cold and unapproachable in my view.
She also intensely dislikes Arron and she knows she can wind him up so does.
I am, (not many though), throwing some votes to Lydia this week.

I think to most of the other housemates Lydia is becoming a joke and although they listen to her,they have the measure of her now.I am not that bothered who stays and goes of these 2 as I would like both gone personally but for her total spite and hatred of Arron I would like Deana out this week so he gets some peace from her quiet muck stirring in there, often the quiet muck stirrers can be the most dangerous.

Santa's NaughtiNess
27-06-2012, 08:23 AM
I think I do now too, Deana has not a bit of interest in the other housemates, she is cold and unapproachable in my view.
She also intensely dislikes Arron and she knows she can wind him up so does.
I am, (not many though), throwing some votes to Lydia this week.

I think to most of the other housemates Lydia is becoming a joke and although they listen to her,they have the measure of her now.I am not that bothered who stays and goes of these 2 as I would like both gone personally but for her total spite and hatred of Arron I would like Deana out this week so he gets some peace from her quiet muck stirring in there, often the quiet muck stirrers can be the most dangerous.

Deena is a real nasty piece of work. I'm not surprised most of the housemates don't like her. She's indeed very cold and calculating. She needs to mix with the group more. She tends to isolate herself a lot. :)

jacksonb
27-06-2012, 08:54 AM
Deena is a real nasty piece of work. I'm not surprised most of the housemates don't like her. She's indeed very cold and calculating. She needs to mix with the group more. She tends to isolate herself a lot. :)

I'd isolate myself to, if the alternative was mixing with the crass idiots left in there.

If Lyds goes on Friday, which she probably will, then I doubt i'll be watching any more BB, at least Lydia has a brain cell or two.

Marc
27-06-2012, 08:57 AM
She seems to hate life, it must be the pressures of being with a famous fiance

Kazanne
27-06-2012, 08:59 AM
She thought having a very famous boyfriend would impress us so much that we'de adore her,unfortunately it's only worked on a few and most see Lydia as the conniving spiteful self obsessed ,two faced person in the house.

Kizzy
27-06-2012, 09:06 AM
She seems to be unravelling... its kind of unnerving to watch, the footate last night of her in the diary room complaining of being bullied?
She reminds me a little of shabby who walked, she could not deal with the fact she was not popular or influencial either.
Lydia would leave if it wasen't for the interview with bri, she needs that for her showreel.

Kazanne
27-06-2012, 09:08 AM
All Deena does is moan and complain. It's not entertaining to me. :)

This sounds more like Lydia

G1dds
27-06-2012, 09:16 AM
She thought having a very famous boyfriend would impress us so much that we'de adore her,unfortunately it's only worked on a few and most see Lydia as the conniving spiteful self obsessed ,two faced person in the house.



^ This ^

God, I hope she stays over Deana lol :devil:

whocares
27-06-2012, 10:16 AM
i think lydia has a non verbal communication problem. her voice is very harsh, so is the way she looks at people. the harsh haircut doesnt do her any favours nor does her rather aggressive make up. she should go for the romantic/more feminine look, not the rock chick "im so hard" one, maybe that would make her more approachable?

lydia also hardly ever smiles and her body language is rather aggressive. even when she asked arron about sitting at the table it seemed like an attack because of the way she said it. almost everything she says, even though she doesnt mean it like that, comes across as a reproach. and when the others feel attacked by that she goes into this condescending "im not bothered/i dont want to talk about it" mode but then you see her bitching about it in the garden. she needs to make up her mind whether she gives a damn or not, so far she obviously does care. as she said herself, shes surprised to find herself being the outsider, shes probably always the popular one. hence probably why shes always so miserable.

all in all i really think its the way she moves/sits there, looks at people and the way she talks that comes across as aggressive and unapproachable. instead of focusing on the "gang" and how to destroy them she should focus on her own little group and how to enjoy herself with them.

fruit_cake
27-06-2012, 10:19 AM
i think lydia has a non verbal communication problem. her voice is very harsh, so is the way she looks at people. the harsh haircut doesnt do her any favours nor does her rather aggressive make up. she should go for the romantic/more feminine look, not the rock chick "im so hard" one, maybe that would make her more approachable?

lydia also hardly ever smiles and her body language is rather aggressive. even when she asked arron about sitting at the table it seemed like an attack because of the way she said it. almost everything she says, even though she doesnt mean it like that, comes across as a reproach. and when the others feel attacked by that she goes into this condescending "im not bothered/i dont want to talk about it" mode but then you see her bitching about it in the garden. she needs to make up her mind whether she gives a damn or not, so far she obviously does care. as she said herself, shes surprised to find herself being the outsider, shes probably always the popular one. hence probably why shes always so miserable.

all in all i really think its the way she moves/sits there, looks at people and the way she talks that comes across as aggressive and unapproachable. instead of focusing on the "gang" and how to destroy them she should focus on her own little group and how to enjoy herself with them.

I do understand what you are saying but I disagree with the bolded bit, it seemed to me that Arron was looking to pick a fight with her. Lydia appeared to me to be just trying to make conversation as she said at the time.

whocares
27-06-2012, 10:25 AM
I do understand what you are saying but I disagree with the bolded bit, it seemed to me that Arron was looking to pick a fight with her. Lydia appeared to me to be just trying to make conversation as she said at the time.

fair enough, arron seems to have a temper, especially when he thinks somebody is attacking him. i think there are certain housemates in there that whatever they say, hes gonna see it as an attack.

however, if lydia had actually asked him that question (intonation going up at the end) it wouldnt have come across as harsh as it did (with the intonation staying the same).

arron has the same problem, especially when he talks to deana lol

G1dds
27-06-2012, 10:26 AM
i think lydia has a non verbal communication problem. her voice is very harsh, so is the way she looks at people. the harsh haircut doesnt do her any favours nor does her rather aggressive make up. she should go for the romantic/more feminine look, not the rock chick "im so hard" one, maybe that would make her more approachable?

lydia also hardly ever smiles and her body language is rather aggressive. even when she asked arron about sitting at the table it seemed like an attack because of the way she said it. almost everything she says, even though she doesnt mean it like that, comes across as a reproach. and when the others feel attacked by that she goes into this condescending "im not bothered/i dont want to talk about it" mode but then you see her bitching about it in the garden. she needs to make up her mind whether she gives a damn or not, so far she obviously does care. as she said herself, shes surprised to find herself being the outsider, shes probably always the popular one. hence probably why shes always so miserable.


all in all i really think its the way she moves/sits there, looks at people and the way she talks that comes across as aggressive and unapproachable. instead of focusing on the "gang" and how to destroy them she should focus on her own little group and how to enjoy herself with them.



^ I agree with this

Im also going to come across as unhinged BUT I also find she eats aggressively :conf: