View Full Version : If you survivied a serious accident...
Redway
29-06-2012, 07:11 PM
or something like that and you were left with permanent serious - and I mean serious - damage (e.g. facial disfigurement, having to be on a wheelchair for the rest of your life) would you feel lucky to have survived or unlucky and wish you were dead?
Jords
29-06-2012, 07:13 PM
Unlucky
I would want to be put down, Id never leave the house.
Jords
29-06-2012, 07:15 PM
Saying that though I have massive respect for those that are out in the public fighting for equality, such as Katie Piper.
I just, wouldnt be that strong-minded.
joeysteele
29-06-2012, 07:38 PM
I would feel fortunate to still be alive, to still see and learn of my family and friends successes and see my Nephews and Nieces grow up.
Obviously I would be sad to be so severely disabled but hopefully I would be able to help others in similar situations in some way.
I would also hope that I may be able to educate and inspire those with no disabilities to see that the disabled are still people with feelings and thoughts who had their thoughts,hopes and dreams once too just as so many disabled people have been able to inspire me and educate me as to that too.
Kazanne
29-06-2012, 07:40 PM
I would feel fortunate to still be alive, to still see and learn of my family and friends successes and see my Nephews and Nieces grow up.
Obviously I would be sad to be so severely disabled but hopefully I would be able to help others in similar situations in some way.
I would also hope that I may be able to educate and inspire those with no disabilities to see that the disabled are still people with feelings and thoughts who had their thoughts,hopes and dreams once too just as so many disabled people have been able to inspire me and educate me as to that too.
I agree with this:xyxwave:
rayheartbliss
29-06-2012, 07:41 PM
i wouldn't know tbh and i wouldn't want to think about it either
I would feel fortunate to still be alive, to still see and learn of my family and friends successes and see my Nephews and Nieces grow up.
Obviously I would be sad to be so severely disabled but hopefully I would be able to help others in similar situations in some way.
I would also hope that I may be able to educate and inspire those with no disabilities to see that the disabled are still people with feelings and thoughts who had their thoughts,hopes and dreams once too just as so many disabled people have been able to inspire me and educate me as to that too.
..very well said Joey..even with permanent scars or disabilities it's possible to live a fulfilled life and enjoy the people you love...I'm sure your loved ones would want this too
Mystic Mock
30-06-2012, 05:17 PM
I think i'd feel unlucky at first, but I think i'd be able to adapt to it after awhile so in the end I think I would be grateful to be alive.
I'd probably become a hermit and spend the rest of my life feeling sorry for myself
Marsh.
30-06-2012, 07:15 PM
I'd feel lucky to be alive. Unless I was in such a state that I couldn't feed myself, go to the toilet myself etc then I might not be.
But, if I had permanent scars, or was in a wheelchair but could still live a fulfilling life then I'd be grateful.
Redway
30-06-2012, 09:47 PM
I'm glad people chose life over being attractive. I'd definitely be thankful to be alive, unless it was all to a ridiculous cost, as Marsh says.
Mystic Mock
30-06-2012, 09:53 PM
Sometimes handicapped people or people that have had accidents can be more attractive than perfectly healthy people Redway, but I do understand what you mean and I agree with you for the most part away from the fact that I don't want to die.
Mrluvaluva
02-07-2012, 12:23 AM
I would feel lucky that I got to spend more time here.
Niall
02-07-2012, 12:45 AM
I'd feel lucky. I have such an abject fear of death that I wouldn't care how I looked. I'd be alive and that's all that would matter to me.
Jords
02-07-2012, 12:49 AM
I'd probably become a hermit and spend the rest of my life feeling sorry for myself
Indeed and thats something I hate doing and try to snap out quickly. I get so annoyed with myself if I do it.
Iceman
02-07-2012, 12:50 AM
This happened my brother and although it was tough he hung on in for 6 years and thats an extra 6 years his daughter got with him so id say Lucky.
Niamh.
02-07-2012, 09:09 AM
This happened my brother and although it was tough he hung on in for 6 years and thats an extra 6 years his daughter got with him so id say Lucky.
:hug:
And yeah I would feel lucky to get to spend more time with my kids
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