Conor feeling sorry for Deana?

[Calderyon]

Do you buy it?

If so, has your opinion of him changed?

[Saph]

I actually did ...still don't like him though :laugh:

[gigglish]

yeah at the time. Wipe away the tears and he'l be back to his old tricks. and will still nominate her tomorrow

[g17m]

Yeah i did, I think his letter softened him up a bit. He'll probably still nominate her this week though

[Amy Jade]

I think he did genuinly feel sorry for her, still think he's a horrible person though and it won't change his nasty personality.

[Beverley]

This isn't going to be popular but when Conor was called in over his nasty remarks, he showed he was utterly remorseful with what he had said and looked embarrased. Unfortunatley he is a hot bloodied Irish man and he's been blunt with her since then but she's given as good as she has got. However, I found him sincere tonight. Basic human compassion and he showed it with everyone else. He's not the monster people are making him out to be. I just wish he'd have gone up to Deana (perhaps he did and it wasn't shown) to tell her he felt sorry she'd not got her letter with everyone else.

[Jordan.]

I actually did ...still don't like him though :laugh:

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[Jords]

I think he did genuinly feel sorry for her, still think he's a horrible person though and it won't change his nasty personality.

Absolutely right.

[DigitalMethod]

I actually did ...still don't like him though :laugh:This. Queen Latrice Royal has spoken. :spin:

[Johnnyuk123]

This isn't going to be popular but when Conor was called in over his nasty remarks, he showed he was utterly remorseful with what he had said and looked embarrased. Unfortunatley he is a hot bloodied Irish man and he's been blunt with her since then but she's given as good as she has got. However, I found him sincere tonight. Basic human compassion and he showed it with everyone else. He's not the monster people are making him out to be. I just wish he'd have gone up to Deana (perhaps he did and it wasn't shown) to tell her he felt sorry she'd not got her letter with everyone else.

The guys a national moron of his OWN doing.

[smeagol]

knew this letter thing was bad news

he just see's his letter as a vaildation of his actions and that all is ok out side those doors. and he has a chance to win. your a winner it said. so straight away thinks i should be nice about deana as that was a shame. he said that cause of his letter/family as he thought what would they think and how would he feel.

[smeagol]

knew this letter thing was bad news

he just see's his letter as a vaildation of his actions and that all is ok out side those doors. and he has a chance to win. your a winner it said. so straight away thinks i should be nice about deana as that was a shame. he said that cause of his letter/family as he thought what would they think and how would he feel.

[erinp5]

Nope .PR in action to get him to the final .

[sarakss]

You guys may disagree, but I find Conor a much kinder/genuine person than Becky. Conor is one stubborn guy and his dislike for Deana makes very little sense, but I think if you compare Conor and Becky, you would find Becky more vicious than Conor.

I would pick Conor over Becky any day - if Conor dislikes me, I'll know that. No bones about it. Becky is the kind of person to take advantage of people, trash them behind their backs, go nuts for no reason, etc. She's just an insecure person and takes in out on people in a vicious way.

[Sophiee]

it shows he does have a heart and I believe he genuinely felt sorry for deana or else he'd have said nothing.

[Yayita]

nope, he is still ajerk and i dont believe a single tear of his. they were all overly emotional.

[Kazanne]

Yes i think it was genuine

[Beverley]

The guys a national moron of his OWN doing.

I find it's a case of people chomping at the same old worn bit. People on here say they are bored of Deana being called dull, sly, two faced but this topic seems endless.

I just wish some could remove the biased blinkers.

I'm sure there have been firm favourites then at the last hurdle to trip themselves up by saying something stupid and losing favour with the public. Alliances can and do change.

You guys may disagree, but I find Conor a much kinder/genuine person than Becky. Conor is one stubborn guy and his dislike for Deana makes very little sense, but I think if you compare Conor and Becky, you would find Becky more vicious than Conor.

I would pick Conor over Becky any day - if Conor dislikes me, I'll know that. No bones about it. Becky is the kind of person to take advantage of people, trash them behind their backs, go nuts for no reason, etc. She's just an insecure person and takes in out on people in a vicious way.

^This

it shows he does have a heart and I believe he genuinely felt sorry for deana or else he'd have said nothing.

^And this

[fitz2k2]

Yall are fools if yall believe that. Hes trying to be nice to the point that he thinks he can win the show.Which he won't.

[joeysteele]

Yes totally I believe it was genuine,also to be fair as to her, it would have been very hard for anyone 'not' to feel sorry for her in that situation.

[Patrick]

Was cute.

[In the Drunk Tank]

No reason why he would suddenly feign sympathy now for someone who he's made it clear throughout this whole series that he can't stand, he's not the psychopathic women beating monster that he's made out to be

[armand.kay]

I'm sure the producers were happy he said it. :hugesmile:

[Raph]

I bought it, I felt so sorry for him when he was crying over his letter. He won me over again :p

[MarcusLloydAK]

I believed he felt sorry for her, but as someone else said, his letter clearly softened him up. That would have been a large part of it.

[Brother Leon]

Good lad is Conor really. Shame he's misunderstood.

[DanielLuis]

He felt sorry for her but he is still a pr*ck.

[Black Dagger]

I thought it was genuine, then I realised he'll likely nominate her again tomorrow anyway, so my feelings towards him were negative again.

[ozzyshaggah]

the only thing he feels sorry for is that she is still there
no heart no soul no brain

[WozMan]

A small glimmer, brought on by the emotion of his own letter. Still massive progress as far as Conor goes.

Probably won't last but it was good to see a crack in his wall of hatred.

[Me. I Am Salman]

Nope
And even if it was, he still is and will always be a twat for threatening to rape & beat up a woman.

[Beverley]

Nope
And even if it was, he still is and will always be a twat for threatening to rape & beat up a woman.

DEFINE his actual actions please

[Me. I Am Salman]

Oh my god you're starting to type like Chuff
And what do you mean define his actions? He clearly said he will stick an epilator up her 'minge' and knock her out if she pranked him.
Being a woman how you can you just brush that off?

[jyunga]

I've only seen two situations where Conor was 'horrible'. His comments about the epilater and the time he flew into Deana when they ended up washing the clothes together. Aside from that he just doesn't like her for whatever reason, so yeah he's going to keep putting her up. She'll keep putting him up. I think he definitely felt bad. Maybe seeing everyone upset during their letters clued him in that they are real people not just 24/7 game players.

[Beverley]

Oh my god you're starting to type like Chuff
And what do you mean define his actions? He clearly said he will stick an epilator up her 'minge' and knock her out if she pranked him.
Being a woman how you can you just brush that off?

I don't infact I had my drink spiked in 2002 and went thru an 8 hour ordeal and was raped by two men, I couldnt be MORE against if if I tried. Still I think Conor has shown remorse.

[Jords]

Thats awful Bev :( Im surprised you let Conor off the hook so easily :o

[WozMan]

I don't infact I had my drink spiked in 2002 and went thru an 8 hour ordeal and was raped by two men, I couldnt be MORE against if if I tried. Still I think Conor has shown remorse.

You have my sympathies Beverley. No one should be made go through such an ordeal. I would not wish it on my worst enemy or most hated housemate.

I know Conor showed regret after he was called to the diary room. Still not sure whether it was over wishing such a thing on someone or messing up his chances of winning.

It really was a very stupid thing for him to get worked up over Deana failing her peice of the task when it was won overall. He should have been raging at BB for giving him a **** prize!!

[Beverley]

Thats awful Bev :( Im surprised you let Conor off the hook so easily :o

I don't seet the 'traits' in conor, he's a loudmouth, but he's NOT one of them, he's just angry from time to time.

[Beverley]

You have my sympathies Beverley. No one should be made go through such an ordeal. I would not wish it on my worst enemy or most hated housemate.

I know Conor showed regret after he was called to the diary room. Still not sure whether it was over wishing such a thing on someone or messing up his chances of winning.

It really was a very stupid thing for him to get worked up over Deana failing her peice of the task when it was won overall. He should have been raging at BB for giving him a **** prize!!

Life gave me lessions so I could teach others............... I'll stand by that until the day I die. I know you hate Conor for what he said ut trust me, he was disguststed with himself.

It was so so so so stupid of him to say that and now you all know, I wasn't a fan at all with regard to what he said, but in all I think deep down he's a good lad.

it isn't easy to come from where I have, but one thing I will always be is honest.

[Beverley]

Look, I don't want to kill a thread. There's some nasty bastards out there and unfortunately, I've met my share. They were arrested and charged. What I will give is the safety of anyone, life has to change. I want my children to be safe.........

[Jords]

You didnt kill the thread its just late dont worry. I think youre brave.

[joeysteele]

I've only seen two situations where Conor was 'horrible'. His comments about the epilater and the time he flew into Deana when they ended up washing the clothes together. Aside from that he just doesn't like her for whatever reason, so yeah he's going to keep putting her up. She'll keep putting him up. I think he definitely felt bad. Maybe seeing everyone upset during their letters clued him in that they are real people not just 24/7 game players.

Very good points,it always amazes me that Conor is hammered,although rightly for the main offensive comment, Deana though can lie about people and go behind their backs,not own up to ever doing anything wrong and be hailed a near Saint.

In my view,Conor has his faults and is rather full on as to attitude but Deana has a great many faults too and in different ways can be as offensive as any of the others are.
I would personally feel I could trust Conor over Deana most of the time.

She has also nominated him every week anyway and he knows that is likely the case so why shouldn't he return that favour as to her too.

[vortex]

I believe he was genuine but I dont think he likes her.

[joeysteele]

Life gave me lessions so I could teach others............... I'll stand by that until the day I die. I know you hate Conor for what he said ut trust me, he was disguststed with himself.

It was so so so so stupid of him to say that and now you all know, I wasn't a fan at all with regard to what he said, but in all I think deep down he's a good lad.

it isn't easy to come from where I have, but one thing I will always be is honest.

I love your line that Life gave you lessons so you could teach others,that is something I live by, I'm only 20 but already life has shown me how much I can learn from others and events.

I would like to thank you for sharing your story with us on here and was sad to read it too.

Your great balancing of the Conor situation is a really welcome one too and I can see that outside of the house and deep down he is likely a good person really too.

[sosadbbend]

Do you buy it?

If so, has your opinion of him changed?

I think people are making too much of this tbh, yes, he showed he could empathise but that doesn't make the rest of his behaviour towards Deana ok.

[Blue Cadillac]

Didn't buy it at all. The tears were likely to be connected to the receipt of his own letter. He'll still be putting Deana up for nomination.

[joeysteele]

I was far more impressed that he even said anything at all, he didn't lose the task after all, he did his and keeping quiet for 4 hours likely would not have been that easy for him to do.

I was less impressed,(from what was shown anyway),that she didn't even acknowledge him saying it though. I know 'sorry' is not a word in her vocabulary she likely recognises at all but a simple thank you for that gesture would have been equally gracious to see from her.

[Marc]

I think he was genuine.

[waterhog]

Do you buy it?

If so, has your opinion of him changed?

what ever you feel about this one incident - can not wipe away his vile attitude.

[daniel-lewis-1985]

Yeah he did genuinley mean it.

[Gaynor186]

No reason why he would suddenly feign sympathy now for someone who he's made it clear throughout this whole series that he can't stand, he's not the psychopathic women beating monster that he's made out to be

Not keen on him, but agree.....rather have him than those who sat 'egging' him on at 'the rant'.......Arron, Luke S, Ashleigh and Caroline. Add Becky to that mix now.....for turning into the two-faced ... she is today. Shame, as someone famous once said....."she coulda been a contender":spin:

[ChristmasNeeve]

Yes, I think he was sincere, it sounded so strange hearing him say something sympathetic towards Deana though :laugh:

[mirak_eel]

Think he did actually feel sorry for her, it'd take a cold person not to feel sorry for her in that situation, when you're already emotional due to hearing from your own family. My opinion hasn't changed though, he's still a horrible person, and has been horrible to my fave (Deana) all series, so still want him out.

[aj2463]

I don't know if it was genuine or not but it was one of the weirdest moments of this series for me, was quite shocked, in a kinda good way though :conf:

[Beverley]

I love your line that Life gave you lessons so you could teach others,that is something I live by, I'm only 20 but already life has shown me how much I can learn from others and events.

I would like to thank you for sharing your story with us on here and was sad to read it too.

Your great balancing of the Conor situation is a really welcome one too and I can see that outside of the house and deep down he is likely a good person really too.

I had to take some time out from the forums to regroup, I found the requoting of the epulator quite frustating, hence my outburst (I am utterly sorry to anyone who read my post that have experienced what I have, we are all at our own level).

I think he was genuine.

That's why I posted what I did and was blunt (sorry but had to), he was just being immature, and there's plenty in there guilty of that.

[blythe5050]

Did you see his face when her letter was read out. He didnt give a s.... okay it was all for show. Keep buyin his act. He still nommed her also.

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[Merry Mockmas]

Nah just clever gameplaying off The Wannabe Rapist, I don't trust him whatsoever.

[Beverley]

Nah just clever gameplaying off The Wannabe Rapist, I don't trust him whatsoever.

I pity people like you that JUST don't get EXACTLY what you are saying. You make Conor out to be bad, but you are worse than him with statments like this.

What does a 'Wannabe Rapist' look like, please tell me?

[Merry Mockmas]

I pity people like you that JUST don't get EXACTLY what you are saying. You make Conor out to be bad, but you are worse than him with statments like this.

What does a 'Wannabe Rapist' look like, please tell me?

Look im sorry about what happened to you but threatening to stick an Epilator up Deana's minge and then laughed at it afterwards means that he likes the idea but doesn't have the guts to go through with it himself.

And also he has threatened both Benedict and Scott in the house so it's not like it was a one off outburst.

[Beverley]

Look im sorry about what happened to you but threatening to stick an Epilator up Deana's minge and then laughed at it afterwards means that he likes the idea but doesn't have the guts to go through with it himself.

And also he has threatened both Benedict and Scott in the house so it's not like it was a one off outburst.

Ok, we have to look at this objectively, besides what I have experienced, I get that, ok, here we go:

I've met Irish guy's like Conor and also women (was very good friends) with ppl like Deana.

The Irish will put it to you in such a way you will recoil in horror,they are blunt,up front and don't pull any punches. Then in the next minute they will have your back thru thick and thin.

I also have been blessed with a very good friend, idential like Deana. We've been out drinking a few times and she's been met with (in her own lauguage) "look at her, out drinking with white trash and looking like a tramp", she replied (fluently in the same language) "I understood every word, you make me sick and your values are pre-historic".

What my Asian friend told me was that her OWN mother would make statements such as "I'll sew your fanny up so that sex hurts", "You make our family ashamed", "I'll punch your vagina", I was so shocked but apparently according to my very good friend of Deana standing, this is current and accepted. Believe me, Conor's rant's were nothing compared to what their own parents will and do tell them!

Conor's remarks HAVE to be answered but from my knowledge first hand, ALOT of you are far, VERY far off the mark.

[alex_front2]

I pity people like you that JUST don't get EXACTLY what you are saying. You make Conor out to be bad, but you are worse than him with statments like this.

What does a 'Wannabe Rapist' look like, please tell me?

If you dont realise - bet you do - Conor stated to Ash n Luke S his intent to rape and punch down an unsuspecting Deana. A Rape claim happened in BB Brazil THIS YEAR so please spare me all the horse sh*t about this cant happen as theres cameras in BB. Conor spooked deana by saying he wanted Siobhans old bed...next to deana. You're welcome.

[Beverley]

If you dont realise - bet you do - Conor stated to Ash n Luke S his intent to rape and punch down an unsuspecting Deana. A Rape claim happened in BB Brazil THIS YEAR so please spare me all the horse sh*t about this cant happen as theres cameras in BB. Conor spooked deana by saying he wanted Siobhans old bed...next to deana. You're welcome.

Oh I don't realise, I couldn't realise not being able to move a muscle in my body not even scream, but KNEW EXACTLY what was happening to me.. I would also wake up MONTHS down the line, PARALIZED in bed, willing a finger to move or an arm so I could wake up from my never ending nightmare.

The guys that raped me were arrested and charged.

One was married, a succesful archietect, another living with his gf and a self-employed builder.

DON'T EVER TELL ME TO SPARE YOU THE HORSE ****, NEXT TIME YOU COLLAPSE FULL VIEW OF THE PUBLIC ON A RAILWAY STATIONAND THE REST, UNTIL THEN, AND ONLY THEN, IF EVER YOU ARE EVER UNFORTUNATE TO GO THROUGH IT YOURSELF, DON'T ******ING TELL ME TO SPARE YOU THE HORSE SH*T, EVER......./. What a true arsehole you really are.........

[Jords]

Bev you have to remember not everybody knows your story and Im 100% sure they would not want to disrespect you for what happened.

[JTM45]

Ok, we have to look at this objectively, besides what I have experienced, I get that, ok, here we go:

I've met Irish guy's like Conor and also women (was very good friends) with ppl like Deana.

The Irish will put it to you in such a way you will recoil in horror,they are blunt,up front and don't pull any punches. Then in the next minute they will have your back thru thick and thin.

I also have been blessed with a very good friend, idential like Deana. We've been out drinking a few times and she's been met with (in her own lauguage) "look at her, out drinking with white trash and looking like a tramp", she replied (fluently in the same language) "I understood every word, you make me sick and your values are pre-historic".

What my Asian friend told me was that her OWN mother would make statements such as "I'll sew your fanny up so that sex hurts", "You make our family ashamed", "I'll punch your vagina", I was so shocked but apparently according to my very good friend of Deana standing, this is current and accepted. Believe me, Conor's rant's were nothing compared to what their own parents will and do tell them!

Conor's remarks HAVE to be answered but from my knowledge first hand, ALOT of you are far, VERY far off the mark.

I have many Irish friends and morally they aren't any different to anyone from anywhere else. If you're a decent person you're a decent person, regardless of your nationality!
None of my Irish friends or any other Irish people i have known through the years would ever talk about a woman in the way Conor did and would be disgusted by anyone, Irish or otherwise, that did.

And to try and say that because 'some' Indian people (certainly not Deana's mother judging by what we've seen of her) have views and beliefs that belong in the dark ages that Conor's vile rant somehow pale's into insignificance in comparison to 'their' parent's (i presume you were referring to the parents of Indian children when you used this generalization ?) current and 'accepted' (who exactly 'accepts' such behaviour other than those behaving in such a way ?) attitudes and behaviour is ridiculous!

Yes, some people are exaggerating the intent behind Conor's remarks but equally nobody should be down-playing the disgusting nature of what he did say which is undeniable!

[waterhog]

don't buy any of conors sorrow.

[Beverley]

Bev you have to remember not everybody knows your story and Im 100% sure they would not want to disrespect you for what happened.

I'm sorry to anyone that has unfortunately gone through the same and have seen what I have posted, you have all my heart and more. Thanks Jords, I just think the word is overused on the internet and ppl who spout it have no idea on the impact of those who have TRUELY gone thru it first hand.

I have many Irish friends and morally they aren't any different to anyone from anywhere else. If you're a decent person you're a decent person, regardless of your nationality!
None of my Irish friends or any other Irish people i have known through the years would ever talk about a woman in the way Conor did and would be disgusted by anyone, Irish or otherwise, that did.

And to try and say that because 'some' Indian people (certainly not Deana's mother judging by what we've seen of her) have views and beliefs that belong in the dark ages that Conor's vile rant somehow pale's into insignificance in comparison to 'their' parent's (i presume you were referring to the parents of Indian children when you used this generalization ?) current and 'accepted' (who exactly 'accepts' such behaviour other than those behaving in such a way ?) attitudes and behaviour is ridiculous!

Yes, some people are exaggerating the intent behind Conor's remarks but equally nobody should be down-playing the disgusting nature of what he did say which is undeniable!

You judge your view on what you have seen on tv, I judge mine on being best friends with several indian woman, all have said the same. How you judge that is up to you, I know they are pissed off with how they are treat and deamed in society. Just wonder what your sources are?