Why do some women hate Deana?

[JamesBond]

Jealousy has s big part to play in the negative response from some women.*

When was the last time any of them were won *a beauty pageant ? Chances are they never made a top five.*

And don't give me this BS about some old dude asking for your number down the bingo hall. Or someone telling you that you look like the pretty one out of the golden girls.*

If it wasn't Deana then they would target Sara. Bottom line they can't handle the sight of good looking women in the BB house. They want all the young men for themselves.*

Deana has been shown in a bad light in the last few day, but this has been going on a lot longer.*

BB will always have pretty young women, deal with it!!!

[sampvt]

History shows that girls that enter pageants are seriously in need of loves and cuddles. Good golfers dont brag, good footballers dont brag, pretty women dont need confirmation by parading themselves as objects. Women hate anyone they feel has gotten adoration and for no reason. Jealousy yes

[Kizzy]

Eh? sophie was bonny and she won, so did kate lawler and racheal rice....

[realitytvsux]

It's too simplistic to say that 'women are jealous of other women'. Some women are jealous of other women and some are not. Lots of (straight) women can appreciate other women's beauty without any problems.

[Vicky.]

I seriously hate this jealousy argument. No doubt there are a few sad old ugly munters sitting at home hating on every pretty young thing that appears on their TV screen, but those will be very much the minority. So much in the minority that its not even worth speaking about it...like theres probably 5, in the whole viewing figures.

[jet]

Jealousy has s big part to play in the negative response from some women.*

When was the last time any of them were won *a beauty pageant ? Chances are they never made a top five.*

And don't give me this BS about some old dude asking for your number down the bingo hall. Or someone telling you that you look like the pretty one out of the golden girls.*

If it wasn't Deana then they would target Sara. Bottom line they can't handle the sight of good looking women in the BB house. They want all the young men for themselves.*

Deana has been shown in a bad light in the last few day, but this has been going on a lot longer.*

BB will always have pretty young women, deal with it!!!

:sleep:

[Me. I Am Salman]

I understand if some don't like her personality as they're entitled to their opinion. But when people try to belittle someone because of their 'acne', there's no explanation other than jealousy.

[cassieparis]

Jealousy is as old as time and an emotion that we all feel. Those of us who can admit it and acknowledge we have it are less likely to be controlled by it. Or likely to display the insanity associated with it.
It isn't necessarily about what someone looks like or what someone has or does.
Jealousy always involves 3 parties. The object of a person's jealousy the one feeling the jealousy and object's imagined or supposed audience.
I think Jealousy is a very apt description of what is often displayed on the forum.
I think partners are looking ..... on the sly :wink: and lovers get jealous
Yes yes I am a full paid up member of the British Association of Armchair Psychiatry :laugh:

[Livia]

Ahhh, if only it was only women who were jealous. Deana has a lot of female fans, perhaps those who don't like her just don't like her.

[Kazanne]

Jealousy has s big part to play in the negative response from some women.*

When was the last time any of them were won *a beauty pageant ? Chances are they never made a top five.*

And don't give me this BS about some old dude asking for your number down the bingo hall. Or someone telling you that you look like the pretty one out of the golden girls.*

If it wasn't Deana then they would target Sara. Bottom line they can't handle the sight of good looking women in the BB house. They want all the young men for themselves.*

Deana has been shown in a bad light in the last few day, but this has been going on a lot longer.*

BB will always have pretty young women, deal with it!!!

or it could just be adolescent boys who think with their todgers and think its love,lol so think the object of their affection should win,lol

[Vanessa]

or it could just be adolescent boys who think with their todgers and think its love,lol so think the object of their affection should win,lol

I adore Sara. So this blows that theory out of the water! :hugesmile:

[Cherie]

or it could just be adolescent boys who think with their todgers and think its love,lol so think the object of their affection should win,lol

ouch...:joker:

[Kazanne]

ouch...:joker:

Sorry but they really annoy me when they think we are all jealous of good looking females,just because THEY like them,I like Sara too btw,lol,

[Cherie]

Sorry but they really annoy me when they think we are all jealous of good looking females,just because THEY like them,I like Sara too btw,lol,

I agree. What makes me laugh is men can make snide comments about the male fitties...Arron etc, but thats fine...no body thinks they are jealous...its a age old myth that women are jealous of other women.... yet another boring stereotype.

[Josy]

I seriously hate this jealousy argument. No doubt there are a few sad old ugly munters sitting at home hating on every pretty young thing that appears on their TV screen, but those will be very much the minority. So much in the minority that its not even worth speaking about it...like theres probably 5, in the whole viewing figures.

This.

The jealousy argument is so pathetic it's laughable.

[rusticgal]

Jealousy has s big part to play in the negative response from some women.*

When was the last time any of them were won *a beauty pageant ? Chances are they never made a top five.*

And don't give me this BS about some old dude asking for your number down the bingo hall. Or someone telling you that you look like the pretty one out of the golden girls.*

If it wasn't Deana then they would target Sara. Bottom line they can't handle the sight of good looking women in the BB house. They want all the young men for themselves.*

Deana has been shown in a bad light in the last few day, but this has been going on a lot longer.*

BB will always have pretty young women, deal with it!!!


Get a life.....you must hang around with too many shallow women....:joker:

[Locke.]

Deana is nothing special, no more than a 6/10 at best to be honest.

If they were gonna be jealous it would be over Sara.

[AshesonMars]

Jealousy has s big part to play in the negative response from some women.*

When was the last time any of them were won *a beauty pageant ? Chances are they never made a top five.*

And don't give me this BS about some old dude asking for your number down the bingo hall. Or someone telling you that you look like the pretty one out of the golden girls.*

If it wasn't Deana then they would target Sara. Bottom line they can't handle the sight of good looking women in the BB house. They want all the young men for themselves.*

Deana has been shown in a bad light in the last few day, but this has been going on a lot longer.*

BB will always have pretty young women, deal with it!!!

Could you be any more sexist, patronising and moronic? Believe it or not, women like and dislike each other not based on looks.

I'm female. I like her and have defended her on here and elsewhere quite often.

Pointless thread.

[lostalex]

to be fair she only won miss India UK, it's not exactly a wide pool and not a very prestigious pageant. so i don't think it's jealousy over her very minor beauty pageant title. I wonder how many girls even enter that pageant. not many i'm guessing. Miss UK would be impressive.

That being said, is there any evidence that women dislike her any more than men dislike her? I think some people just dislike the outsiders in general, and she's seen to be the leader of them.

[InOne]

I'd say women dislike her more for her attitude towards men and money. Doesn't exactly make them look great does it? Not saying ALL women are like that but you know what I mean.

[TIGHAMADAN]

How silly, what did jealousy ever achieve. it wont make you slimmer , prettier or younger just bitter and twisted. Its a waste of energy.
Deana is attractive but she wears too much makeup , the eyelashes are comedy, she does not need it. I think Indian women are generally very attractive and Deana has a great sense of style.
Some just don't like her.You are speaking as if she has no faults , and it must be jealousy.When she is brutally, unkindly honest, has little social skills, and is rude and condescending at times.
She is also stubborn , tactless and very anti male.The girl has dis-likable qualities as well likable ones.

[Indy]

Let me guess, that's why so many women dislike Becky, too, right? :conf:

[lostalex]

Women want to be her, and men want to be with her. and lesbians want to be with her too. and gay men want her to be their fag hag.

[JTM45]

I think it's the same reason as women usually dislike any physically attractive, intelligent female housemate.............JEALOUSY (sadly!)

Luckily though i think more women each year are starting to support female housemates like Deana because they greatly admire the very same qualities that the sad, bitchy, jealous women are intimidated by! :thumbs:

Lauren did have a few slightly annoying traits but the majority of the ridiculous level of hatred for her and spite towards her within the house stemmed from the insecurities and bitter jealousy of several of the other female housemates.
Ashleigh was the leader of the flock closely followed by Shievonne, Caroline, Becky, Lydia and even "oh so sweet" Sara to a certain degree!

[AnnieK]

What a complete generalisation of all the female members of this forum. It is also very patronising. The majority of posters on here are adults and therefore fully capable of forming opinions based on many factors.

[sampvt]

What a complete generalisation of all the female members of this forum. It is also very patronising. The majority of posters on here are adults and therefore fully capable of forming opinions based on many factors.

Well said, spot on. Too many people pidgeon hole others. We all are capable of making our own minds up. My wife dosent like her because she is a trouble maker and way too cocky. My daughter likes her because she is a stand up girl and although she isnt going to spend money voting for her anymore, she still supports her. I dont like her because she is coming accross as a player and not a nice one either. 3 adults, 3 different views, one result, vote Adam.

[joeysteele]

My Mum and most of my female Cousins, don't like Deana not because of her looks but because she is not to be trusted in their view.

I also find a lot of Women don't like Deana but it's for what she says and does, not how she looks, which in all honesty it cannot be justifiably said she that she is not really nice looking.
It's just a shame her personality is far less nice though.

[Vanessa]

I much prefer Sara. A stunning girl, intelligent, polite and respectful. I wouldn't mind if she won at all! :lovedup:

[lostalex]

I much prefer Sara. A stunning girl, intelligent, polite and respectful. I wouldn't mind if she won at all! :lovedup:

umm... intelligent? wait... what?

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-n6YiSXbIMiM/TdZwzFMzyyI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/OFQyHECwJbI/s1600/Confused+Kid.jpg

[HBB1508]

What a complete generalisation of all the female members of this forum. It is also very patronising. The majority of posters on here are adults and therefore fully capable of forming opinions based on many factors.

Well said!!! I find it quite insulting that all women that don't like darling Deana are lumped into the "jealous" category her fans must be getting desperate :joker:

[Vanessa]

umm... intelligent? wait... what?

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-n6YiSXbIMiM/TdZwzFMzyyI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/OFQyHECwJbI/s1600/Confused+Kid.jpg

I think she is. That's my opinion. But feel free to disagree! :pipe:

[Vanessa]

Well said!!! I find it quite insulting that all women that don't like darling Deana are lumped into the "jealous" category her fans must be getting desperate :joker:

If anything, we should be jealous of stunning Sara! :joker:

[flamingGalah!]

Being jealous of someone isn't just about looks you know...

[Vanessa]

Yeah, I think a lot (not most0 of Deana's female haters are jealous. Nobody actually thinks "Grrr, I hate her because I'm jealous". When I was younger I disliked David Beckham because I thought he was vain, but I was actually just jealous of the attention he was getting.

I'm not jealous of her! She's average looking and not very nice.

[lostalex]

Yeah, I think a lot (not most0 of Deana's female haters are jealous. Nobody actually thinks "Grrr, I hate her because I'm jealous". When I was younger I disliked David Beckham because I thought he was vain, but I was actually just jealous of the attention he was getting.


really? lol. and how did you get over that jealousy for david beckham?? did it take therapy??

:joker:

wtf

i really hope yur not being serious.

[Niamh.]

I'm a female fan of Deana but I'm going to put that aside in this topic to say, I HATE when people generalise based on sex and also accuse people of not liking a HM because they're jealous of them. Why would anybody be jealous of someone they haven't even met? It's ridiculous.

[JTM45]

I'm a female fan of Deana but I'm going to put that aside in this topic to say, I HATE when people generalise based on sex and also accuse people of not liking a HM because they're jealous of them. Why would anybody be jealous of someone they haven't even met? It's ridiculous.

I completely agree, it is ridiculous that someone would be jealous of someone they have never even met but in reality it's very common amongst men and women.
In the same way it's ridiculous that anyone could claim to 'hate' someone they don't actually know but some people do get extremely hateful about people they've only seen on TV.

And sadly the generalisation based on sex thing is all too common! Women do it about men, Men do it about women and they always will.
A lot of people do it as a bit of a wind-up, leg-pull type thing (i'll hold my hand up to this one :hugesmile:).

All sad but all realities, whether we like it or not.:shrug:

[Kazanne]

why do people find it so hard to believe that some people are not liked due to their personalities?

[Niamh.]

I completely agree, it is ridiculous that someone would be jealous of someone they have never even met but in reality it's very common amongst men and women.
In the same way it's ridiculous that anyone could claim to 'hate' someone they don't actually know but some people do get extremely hateful about people they've only seen on TV.

And sadly the generalisation based on sex thing is all too common! Women do it about men, Men do it about women and they always will.
A lot of people do it as a bit of a wind-up, leg-pull type thing (i'll hold my hand up to this one :hugesmile:).

All sad but all realities, whether we like it or not.:shrug:

I have to disagree with you on this. I really don't believe that anyone who dislikes Deana is jealous of her. Jealous of what? and I'm asking this as a fan of hers. Because she's pretty? most people who disliked her, liked equally pretty girls in there. Because she's had all the men chasing her? Well, she hasn't really. So what exactly are you saying people are jealous of?

[JTM45]

I didn't mention Deana once in my post. I'm just referring to people in general Niamh. You were asking "Why would anybody be jealous of someone they haven't even met?"
People get jealous of people on tv or in the public eye for many reasons Niamh and looks can and often is one of them.
People also get jealous of people's success or the way they carry themselves or how clever they might be. They don't have to know someone to get jealous of them.

I'm not saying it's right or a good way to be but it is a fact that people DO get jealous of people that they know and that they don't know.........fact of life (sadly!).

[Niamh.]

I didn't mention Deana once in my post. I'm just referring to people in general Niamh. You were asking "Why would anybody be jealous of someone they haven't even met?"
People get jealous of people on tv or in the public eye for many reasons Niamh and looks can and often is one of them.
People also get jealous of people's success or the way they carry themselves or how clever they might be. They don't have to know someone to get jealous of them.

I'm not saying it's right or a good way to be but it is a fact that people DO get jealous of people that they know and that they don't know.........fact of life (sadly!).

Well this thread is about women being jealous of Deana, hence why I'm referring to her......

[JTM45]

Well this thread is about women being jealous of Deana, hence why I'm referring to her......

Basically i'm not jealous of Deana, i like her so i don't know why people might be jealous of her but people do get jealous of people they don't even know so it's not impossible that someone might be jealous of Deana for whatever reason.

[Kate!]

I too get annoyed by this generalisation, the majority of housemates I have supported throughout BB have been female, they have all been great, jealousy my arse. The only one I really couldn't stand was Noirin and I can remember other posters at the time saying ah, you don't like her cos she's gorgeous!!! No, I didn't like her cos imo ahe was a player.

Helen Adams, Kate Lawler, Tania do Nascimento, Shell Jubin, Orlaith McAllistair, Aisleyne, Chanelle Hayes, Sophie Reade, Faye and Maisy from last year, Deana and Lauren from the current crop. All female hms I have supported strongly and think they are great people, also happen to be stunners, and highly supported by male fans too. So jealousy, no.

[Vicky.]

I too gety annoyed by this generalisation, the majority of housemates I have supported throughout BB have been female, they have all been great, jealousy my arse. The only one I really couldn't stand was Noirin and I can remember other posters at the time saying ah, you don't like her cos she's gorgeous!!! No, I didn't like her cos imo ahe was a player.

Helen Adams, Kate Lawler, Tania do Nascimento, Shell Jubin, Orlaith McAllistair, Aisleyne, Chanelle Hayes, Sophie Reade, Faye and Maisy from last year, Deana and Lauren from the current crop. All female hms I have supported strongly and think they are great people, also happen to be stunners, and highly supported by male fans too. So jealousy, no.

Ahhh yeah..I remember that so well. Every female who disliked her was jealous, every male that disliked her was peed off that she wouldnt want them and they fancied her.

I even made a thread called 'every male who dislikes marcus is jealous of him' to take the piss a bit and show people how ridiculous their argument was. However since then we have still had the 'jealousy' thing thrown about each year :D

edit. http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showthread.php?t=103072&highlight=jealous there. Didnt go down very well at all :joker:

[JTM45]

Yeah, it is an accusation that is banded about without substance far too often.

[sampvt]

I completely agree, it is ridiculous that someone would be jealous of someone they have never even met but in reality it's very common amongst men and women.
In the same way it's ridiculous that anyone could claim to 'hate' someone they don't actually know but some people do get extremely hateful about people they've only seen on TV.

And sadly the generalisation based on sex thing is all too common! Women do it about men, Men do it about women and they always will.
A lot of people do it as a bit of a wind-up, leg-pull type thing (i'll hold my hand up to this one :hugesmile:).

All sad but all realities, whether we like it or not.:shrug:

I dont get this post,its all over the place. Firstly you agree with Niamh then you go all out to explain your disagreance. Twaddle in my book.

[Vanessa]

No offence, but i could never be jealous of Deana. I just don't like her. :)

[HBB1508]

Imo if you are jealous of someone it's because they have something you want and don't have. If you are comfortable with your lot in life you are hardly likely to be jealous. Why would anyone be jealous of a bunch of wannabees on a tv gameshow on a z list channel - the mind boggles!!!

[sampvt]

Well this thread is about women being jealous of Deana, hence why I'm referring to her......

I am glad you cleared that up Niamh. Some deana suporters just see the word deana and straight away they jump on that poster and try to be clever or pressure them into going away. On the other side we have posters that spout so much phyco babble that it reads like a jumble of words that mean little.

[JTM45]

I am glad you cleared that up Niamh. Some deana suporters just see the word deana and straight away they jump on that poster and try to be clever or pressure them into going away. On the other side we have posters that spout so much phyco babble that it reads like a jumble of words that mean little.

Niamh is a fellow supporter of Deana Sampvt and we were just having a discussion.

And it's 'psycho' babble by the way! :hugesmile:

[Bojangles]

why do people find it so hard to believe that some people are not liked due to their personalities?

Correct Kazanne.I hardly think anyone hates Deana as hate is a very strong word,and really shouldn't have any place on this forum.

[Niamh.]

Yeah, it is an accusation that is banded about without substance far too often.

Definitely in regards to Big Brother it is, it's just another put down used by people alot of times.

[JTM45]

Definitely in regards to Big Brother it is, it's just another put down used by people alot of times.

Agreed :hug:

[Withano]

I think its a very British thing to support the underdog, I think thats where it lies and where Conor support comes from. I doubt anybody is a fan of both Conor and Deana, I think people perhaps like to pick an underdog because they get some sort of thrill from being controversial.

[MeMyselfAndI]

I seriously hate this jealousy argument. No doubt there are a few sad old ugly munters sitting at home hating on every pretty young thing that appears on their TV screen, but those will be very much the minority. So much in the minority that its not even worth speaking about it...like theres probably 5, in the whole viewing figures.

Why did Maisy get horrifically booed last year, when Aden/Jay got tonnes of cheers?
Arron/Conor got amazing reactions for their behaviour in the house, Lydia/Shiv/Heaven/Maisy/Faye got worse receptions, when their behaviour was way better
Obviously Rebeckah & Becky deserved they're reactions, but I think jealousy can play a part tbh.

[Vanessa]

Why did Maisy get horrifically booed last year, when Aden/Jay got tonnes of cheers?
Arron/Conor got amazing reactions for their behaviour in the house, Lydia/Shiv/Heaven/Maisy/Faye got worse receptions, when their behaviour was way better
Obviously Rebeckah & Becky deserved they're reactions, but I think jealousy can play a part tbh.

I think Maisie was very two faced. She said she was Faye's friend, but tried to put her off him. All because she liked him herself. :bored:

[kefln]

Why did Maisy get horrifically booed last year, when Aden/Jay got tonnes of cheers?
Arron/Conor got amazing reactions for their behaviour in the house, Lydia/Shiv/Heaven/Maisy/Faye got worse receptions, when their behaviour was way better
Obviously Rebeckah & Becky deserved they're reactions, but I think jealousy can play a part tbh.
Great point!