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Adele Wigglesworthit
18-09-2012, 06:42 PM
Hey everyone some of you may have seen me posting on here during CBB. I've had a couple of weeks away from the site following a rather hostile welcome from a minority number of members who didn't like the fact that I support Miss Julie Goodyear.

Anyway that's over with now and I've decided to come back under the condition that members treat me the way they'd want to be treated themselves. If you can do that then I'll stay on this site.

Anyway my name is Adele Wiggleworthit, I'm 27 and engaged to Wayne. Waynes a little older than me but that doesn't bother us, age is just a number after all and we crazy in love. At lot of my friends call me Goose, don't axe me why they just do. And my hobbie include volleyball, partying and Wayne.

Can't wait to meet new friends on this site :dance:

Mystic Mock
18-09-2012, 06:44 PM
Hello Adele, some of the stuff that will be said to you is just jokes.

Anyway welcome back.

Jake.
18-09-2012, 06:44 PM
:worship:

Mrluvaluva
18-09-2012, 06:44 PM
Welcome back.

Marcus.
18-09-2012, 06:45 PM
welcome back

Josy
18-09-2012, 06:46 PM
Welcome back.

Theres an ignore feature you can use if you are unable to get on with some members.

Apple202
18-09-2012, 06:46 PM
Hey Adele :)

arista
18-09-2012, 06:47 PM
Its a Massive Site
with so many Great Sections

Great to have you Adele

Mystic Mock
18-09-2012, 06:48 PM
I also wanted to add that I wish nothing but the best for you Adele.

Benjamin
18-09-2012, 06:49 PM
Nice to meet you. :wavey:

Jake.
18-09-2012, 06:53 PM
I also wanted to add that I wish nothing but the best for you Adele.

oh ffs :joker:

Adele Wigglesworthit
18-09-2012, 06:55 PM
Thanks everyone

thesheriff443
18-09-2012, 06:58 PM
hello,see this site for what it is,
its forum land not real life and dont take things to heart
and you will enjoy it.

Vanessa
18-09-2012, 07:01 PM
Thanks everyone

You can put people you don't like on ignore. :blush:

Redway
18-09-2012, 07:21 PM
You shouldn't let people get to you, Adele. You'll always get members on here who don't like you for various reasons. I have my fair share of members on here - and probably far more than you do - who have it in for me. I just don't let them get to me. Water off a duck's back and all.

Lee.
18-09-2012, 07:35 PM
welcome back Adele :)

CharlieO
18-09-2012, 07:35 PM
http://i.imgur.com/53WGc.gif

CharlieO
18-09-2012, 07:36 PM
Kiddin ;) Hey sxc

Adele Wigglesworthit
18-09-2012, 07:37 PM
Just seen I've been voted the sexiest member, damn right!

CharlieO
18-09-2012, 07:37 PM
Or was I kidding? hmmm

Adele Wigglesworthit
18-09-2012, 07:40 PM
Or was I kidding? hmmm

http://i.imgur.com/53WGc.gif

CharlieO
18-09-2012, 07:41 PM
touché

waterhog
18-09-2012, 07:47 PM
welcome = adel maybe one day i do a happy poem for you ?

Adele Wigglesworthit
18-09-2012, 07:47 PM
welcome = adel maybe one day i do a happy poem for you ?

Can't wait waterhog

Me. I Am Salman
18-09-2012, 07:49 PM
:joker:
Please don't go again

Doogle
18-09-2012, 09:07 PM
:worship: Queen

joeysteele
18-09-2012, 09:46 PM
Welcome back Adele, I always get the same at times because I like Jedward, don't let that bother you.
I really liked Julie on CBB too.

Beso
19-09-2012, 07:20 PM
Hi.
If I do insult you don't take it personally, it would have been aimed at everyone else at the same time.

billy123
19-09-2012, 07:50 PM
Hi adele you are married why do you make threads about your husband being your fiance? we used to have another member that used to make strikingly similar threads. (proof on request)

Adele Wigglesworthit
19-09-2012, 07:56 PM
Hi adele you are married why do you make threads about your husband being your fiance? we used to have another member that used to make strikingly similar threads.

I'm engaged not married, and I wouldn't be surprised if other members on here have been engaged at some point too :rolleyes:

billy123
19-09-2012, 08:00 PM
I'm engaged not married, and I wouldn't be surprised if other members on here have been engaged at some point too :rolleyes:why have i seen a picture of "wayne" and you signing a marriage certificate then? (aka thomas c's dad) im not going to post it here but it is available on request.
fukk it im not playing nice guy anymore.
quit the lies thomas it bores me.

Jayson
19-09-2012, 08:04 PM
bobnot you beast

Adele Wigglesworthit
19-09-2012, 08:04 PM
why have i seen a picture of "wayne" and you signing a marriage certificate then? (aka thomas c's dad) im not going to post it here but it is available on request.
fukk it im not playing nice guy anymore.
quit the lies thomas.

?

billy123
19-09-2012, 08:12 PM
Just end it im so tempted to post the picture of "adele" and "wayne" signing the marriage certificate but i wont. enjoy your fail goodbye ;)

billy123
19-09-2012, 08:13 PM
bobnot you beast:joker: i dont like liars.

billy123
19-09-2012, 08:19 PM
omg the picture has just been removed from photobucket its a good job i know how to view my history :)

Adele Wigglesworthit
19-09-2012, 08:20 PM
:rolleyes:

billy123
19-09-2012, 08:25 PM
Adele does the rolleyes mean you still dont want to admit it? shall i just post it and expose you as a liar?

Mystic Mock
19-09-2012, 08:33 PM
Bobnot knows what it's like for us BB fans that say that the producers have favourites lol.

Redway
19-09-2012, 09:14 PM
You shouldn't let people get to you, Adele. You'll always get members on here who don't like you for various reasons. I have my fair share of members on here - and probably far more than you do - who have it in for me. I just don't let them get to me. Water off a duck's back and all.

I take this back.

reece(:
19-09-2012, 09:22 PM
can someone fill me in on the thomas c storyline?

AnnieK
19-09-2012, 09:29 PM
What is going on? I have been out to watch the match and got back to closed threads about wedding dresses and it all kicking off....gutted now the football was not that good

Redway
19-09-2012, 09:29 PM
can someone fill me in on the thomas c storyline?

I wasn't around during the days of Tommy C but every newbie who comes on here to troll gets it. I started off trolling on here and I got the Tommy C thing. :p

Livia
19-09-2012, 09:31 PM
What is going on? I have been out to watch the match and got back to closed threads about wedding dresses and it all kicking off....gutted now the football was not that good

I'm guessing there have been more yellow cards on here too.

reece(:
19-09-2012, 09:31 PM
I wasn't around during the days of Tommy C but every newbie who comes on here to troll gets it. I started off trolling on here and I got the Tommy C thing. :p
So some troll and everyone new is apparently this said troll because of their bat**** views :joker:

Livia
19-09-2012, 09:32 PM
can someone fill me in on the thomas c storyline?

Shhhhhhhhhhh... It's He Who Shall Not Be Named.

Redway
19-09-2012, 09:33 PM
So some troll and everyone new is apparently this said troll because of their bat**** views :joker:
Only the actual trolls.
I'm guessing there have been more yellow cards on here too.

:laugh2:

Mystic Mock
19-09-2012, 09:34 PM
I wasn't around during the days of Tommy C but every newbie who comes on here to troll gets it. I started off trolling on here and I got the Tommy C thing. :p

Well when I was first on here I was compared with a member called Dennis, I checked his posts though and he created an account called Ukturtleisgay.

AnnieK
19-09-2012, 09:36 PM
I'm guessing there have been more yellow cards on here too.

Looks like it :joker:
That the last time I'm going out on a school night ad missing all the fun :spin:

Redway
19-09-2012, 09:37 PM
Well when I was first on here I was compared with a member called Dennis, I checked his posts though and he created an account called Ukturtleisgay.

:laugh2:

Apple202
19-09-2012, 09:37 PM
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Livia
19-09-2012, 09:37 PM
Looks like it :joker:
That the last time I'm going out on a school night ad missing all the fun :spin:

Yeah, I'm afraid next time your absent I'm going to need to see a note.

Livia
19-09-2012, 09:38 PM
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I'll just make something up in my head and it'll be infinitely worse than whatever you wrote.

Adele Wigglesworthit
19-09-2012, 09:40 PM
People need to stop judging! Only me and Wayne know what we have together

Shaun
19-09-2012, 09:40 PM
Thomas C was an overly gratuitous member who posted countless threads about himself in the general chat section that usually involved embarrassing truths and awkward, or taboo, topics.

I guess it's testament to how much of a batshit crazy wankpot he was that we now attribute every new troll to a multi of him, but don't let that detract from the blindingly obvious fact that 'Adele' is either:

- A mentally unstable sad-act who just happens to possess all the qualities of a troll, or;
- A troll

AnnieK
19-09-2012, 09:41 PM
Yeah, I'm afraid next time your absent I'm going to need to see a note.

:joker: ok.... :joker:

Adele Wigglesworthit
19-09-2012, 09:42 PM
Thomas C was an overly gratuitous member who posted countless threads about himself in the general chat section that usually involved embarrassing truths and awkward, or taboo, topics.

I guess it's testament to how much of a batshit crazy wankpot he was that we now attribute every new troll to a multi of him, but don't let that detract from the blindingly obvious fact that 'Adele' is either:

- A mentally unstable sad-act who just happens to possess all the qualities of a troll, or;
- A troll

yesterday you anounced me the sexiest member now you're saying I look like a troll. I can't keep up with you

Adele Wigglesworthit
19-09-2012, 09:43 PM
and I haven't revealed any embarrassing truths about myself

reece(:
19-09-2012, 09:43 PM
yesterday you anounced me the sexiest member now you're saying I look like a troll. I can't keep up with you
Not look like a troll, do some research on internet trolls

Mrluvaluva
19-09-2012, 09:43 PM
Thomas C was an overly gratuitous member who posted countless threads about himself in the general chat section that usually involved embarrassing truths and awkward, or taboo, topics.

I guess it's testament to how much of a batshit crazy wankpot he was that we now attribute every new troll to a multi of him, but don't let that detract from the blindingly obvious fact that 'Adele' is either:

- A mentally unstable sad-act who just happens to possess all the qualities of a troll, or;
- A troll

He was hilariously entertaining though...

Shaun
19-09-2012, 09:44 PM
He was hilariously entertaining though...

In the beginning, slightly, but bought way too much into his own hype and just spammed and spammed and spammed.

Adele Wigglesworthit
19-09-2012, 09:45 PM
Not look like a troll, do some research on internet trolls

No thanks

Waynes awake I better go

Livia
19-09-2012, 09:47 PM
You were going ages ago when he passed out. I hope you put him in the recovery position.

thesheriff443
19-09-2012, 09:47 PM
No thanks

Waynes awake I better go

if you are for real you need to kick wayne out and get a life!

thesheriff443
19-09-2012, 09:48 PM
You were going ages ago when he passed out. I hope you put him in the recovery position.

why bother!

billy123
19-09-2012, 09:51 PM
Well when I was first on here I was compared with a member called Dennis, I checked his posts though and he created an account called Ukturtleisgay.Just shut up Dennis :joker:

Mystic Mock
19-09-2012, 09:52 PM
Just shut up Dennis :joker:

:joker:

thesheriff443
19-09-2012, 09:53 PM
Just shut up Dennis :joker:

dirty den:joker:

Redway
19-09-2012, 09:53 PM
No thanks

Waynes awake I better go

Still online, are we? I thought you were going. :idc:

Redway
19-09-2012, 10:06 PM
dirty den:joker:

No.

billy123
19-09-2012, 10:30 PM
was that real or was i imagining it?

http://dailypicksandflicks.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Is-it-just-fanta-sea.jpg

Jessica.
19-09-2012, 10:31 PM
was that real or was i imagining it?

http://dailypicksandflicks.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Is-it-just-fanta-sea.jpg
What?

Marc
19-09-2012, 10:33 PM
FGS That image has ruined my eyes

-there was an image of TC naked but it got quickly deleted, thank god-

Vicky.
19-09-2012, 10:33 PM
But marc just had to be nosy and look in the infractions thread, where it is still there in all its glory :laugh2:

Shaun
19-09-2012, 10:34 PM
what happened someone post on my wall (not the image if it's gross but just a description of what happened)

Jessica.
19-09-2012, 10:35 PM
FGS That image has ruined my eyes

-there was an image of TC naked but it got quickly deleted, thank god-
:bawling: Tommy told me about those pics of him once.

billy123
19-09-2012, 10:37 PM
But marc just had to be nosy and look in the infractions thread, where it is still there in all its glory :laugh2:Something dark inside my soul made me pause for a few seconds and try and work out if it was really him i feel a bit dirty inside :(

Marc
19-09-2012, 10:37 PM
Tommy should never take photographs of himself ever again.

Marc
19-09-2012, 10:38 PM
But marc just had to be nosy and look in the infractions thread, where it is still there in all its glory :laugh2:

It was for BigBro1991 I thought you had infracted Reggie. But no... :bawling: it wasn't.... I sort of wish it was Reggie now

Jessica.
19-09-2012, 10:38 PM
Tommy should never take photographs of himself ever again.
:joker: I hope you didn't think I called Thomas C Tommy, I meant bettiepage Tommy, told me about Thomas C's pics. But yeah, they sounded graphic.

Marc
19-09-2012, 10:39 PM
Oh right yeah I meant ThomasC, but you didn't.

billy123
19-09-2012, 10:39 PM
Im not playing in this thread anymore im already on the naughty step and now im going to hell for watching someone naked wee in the bath :bawling:

billy123
19-09-2012, 11:01 PM
The only bit that still bothers me in all this is who the hell took the picture :(

























(scott)

Marc
19-09-2012, 11:02 PM
I think he took them himself... which is worse. But ahh

Jessica.
19-09-2012, 11:14 PM
The only bit that still bothers me in all this is who the hell took the picture :(

Adele took it!

billy123
19-09-2012, 11:19 PM
Adele took it!:joker: no comment.

Livia
20-09-2012, 11:57 AM
Oh bloody hell. What have I missed? I always miss the weird stuff...

InOne
20-09-2012, 12:09 PM
So it's not even banned yet? :bored:

Kate!
20-09-2012, 12:18 PM
So it's not even banned yet? :bored:

:hugesmile: give it time ;)

Niamh.
20-09-2012, 12:18 PM
Oh bloody hell. What have I missed? I always miss the weird stuff...

You really didn't want to see that picture.........trust me :shocked:

Benjamin
20-09-2012, 12:26 PM
That photo, why did I look? :bawling:

Vicky.
20-09-2012, 12:38 PM
Yeah anyone who didnt see it, count yourselves lucky :p

I *think* only bobnot saw it before it got deleted.

Black Dagger
20-09-2012, 12:44 PM
OMG...

what have I missed. :sad:

Marcus.
20-09-2012, 12:50 PM
yeah

MTVN
20-09-2012, 01:06 PM
yeah

Niamh.
20-09-2012, 01:13 PM
yeah

fruit_cake
20-09-2012, 01:20 PM
Thomas was a tibb legend

Benjamin
20-09-2012, 01:29 PM
Fruity, no. Have a whiskey and go back to napping. :tongue:

fruit_cake
20-09-2012, 01:36 PM
Fruity, no. Have a whiskey and go back to napping. :tongue:

:idc:

Mrs I Balls is angry

Niamh.
20-09-2012, 01:38 PM
:idc:

Mrs I Balls is angry

Don't mention the Balls please, I'm scarred for life :bawling:

Vicky.
20-09-2012, 01:38 PM
Don't mention the Balls please, I'm scarred for life :bawling:

:joker:

GiRTh
20-09-2012, 01:40 PM
Something clearly not right about Adele. The other day I looked on her wall and saw I was listed as one of her friends. The account was created in late august of this year and I know for a fact that I have never tried to be-friend her - I didnt even know she was a member till last week - but I did be-friend Thomas C when he was on. Interesting. Could one of the mods please tell us whats going on? Has a banned members account been re-activated? Seems a bit pointless to let this member back but not others, dont you think?

Vicky.
20-09-2012, 01:45 PM
Something clearly not right about Adele. The other day I looked on her wall and saw I was listed as one of her friends. The account was created in late august of this year and I know for a fact that I have never tried to be-friend her - I didnt even know she was a member till last week - but I did be-friend Thomas C when he was on. Interesting. Could one of the mods please tell us whats going on? Has a banned members account been re-activated? Seems a bit pointless to let this member back but not others, dont you think?

Nope. I know for a fact this hasnt happened.

I'm really not sure about this friend thing though :S

Marc
20-09-2012, 01:57 PM
Don't mention the Balls please, I'm scarred for life :bawling:

:laugh2:

Adele Wigglesworthit
20-09-2012, 06:03 PM
Something clearly not right about Adele. The other day I looked on her wall and saw I was listed as one of her friends. The account was created in late august of this year and I know for a fact that I have never tried to be-friend her - I didnt even know she was a member till last week - but I did be-friend Thomas C when he was on. Interesting. Could one of the mods please tell us whats going on? Has a banned members account been re-activated? Seems a bit pointless to let this member back but not others, dont you think?

you sent me a friend request and as I was new I thought I'd better not upset other members by not accepting them, even though I didn't and still don't have a clue who you are.

As for this Thomson C b/s a couple of members have private messaged me saying that everytime a new member joins and posts in a non bb page they get accused of being some mental who got banned once. :rolleyes:

Well I read the rules and no where does it say that you have to be member for a certain amount of time before you can post on none bb pages. This site seems quiet enough as it is (since cbb finished) and if you all keep attacking and try drive away new members (like you've done with me) then I don't see the site getting any busier.

I'm leaving :xyxwave:

Vanessa
20-09-2012, 06:31 PM
you sent me a friend request and as I was new I thought I'd better not upset other members by not accepting them, even though I didn't and still don't have a clue who you are.

As for this Thomson C b/s a couple of members have private messaged me saying that everytime a new member joins and posts in a non bb page they get accused of being some mental who got banned once. :rolleyes:

Well I read the rules and no where does it say that you have to be member for a certain amount of time before you can post on none bb pages. This site seems quiet enough as it is (since cbb finished) and if you all keep attacking and try drive away new members (like you've done with me) then I don't see the site getting any busier.

I'm leaving :xyxwave:

You don't need to leave. Just put the people you don't get on with on ignore. :blush:

Doogle
20-09-2012, 06:39 PM
New members are usually crap, the little community is better

Adele Wigglesworthit
20-09-2012, 06:49 PM
You don't need to leave. Just put the people you don't get on with on ignore. :blush:

I wish it was that easy, but yesterday I had one member post private photos of me on here without my permission! The mods deleted it (after I complained and about 5 other members reposted it) but obviously did nothing to punish the member cause they were posting afterwards about how funny it was!

I don't feel safe ignoring people

Pyramid*
20-09-2012, 06:51 PM
I wish it was that easy, but yesterday I had one member post private photos of me on here without my permission! The mods deleted it (after I complained and about 5 other members reposted it) but obviously did nothing to punish the member cause they were posting afterwards about how funny it was!

I don't feel safe ignoring people


meant to be instant ban stuff that......

Vanessa
20-09-2012, 06:57 PM
I wish it was that easy, but yesterday I had one member post private photos of me on here without my permission! The mods deleted it (after I complained and about 5 other members reposted it) but obviously did nothing to punish the member cause they were posting afterwards about how funny it was!

I don't feel safe ignoring people

You can always just talk to the people you get on with. You seem like a nice lady. Don't let a few morons put you off. This is a great site and most of us are happy to see new faces. :hug:

Vanessa
20-09-2012, 06:57 PM
meant to be instant ban stuff that......

Yeah, that sounds bad. I'd be very angry if that happened to me. :shocked:

Josy
20-09-2012, 06:59 PM
New members are usually crap, the little community is better

What a stupid thing to say, you were a new member once, how would you have felt if everyone had took that attitude with you?

AnnieK
20-09-2012, 07:00 PM
What a stupid thing to say, you were a new member once, how would you have felt if everyone had took that attitude with you?

That's what I was thinking...was a bit offended but being a newbie didn't want to say anything :conf:

MTVN
20-09-2012, 07:02 PM
New members breathe a bit of life into the place, the more the better

Doogle
20-09-2012, 07:02 PM
What a stupid thing to say, you were a new member once, how would you have felt if everyone had took that attitude with you?

Not really, I think it's true. I'm pretty sure plenty of members took that attitude when I was new and it didn't bother me. I stayed on the forum after all. There's members like Munchkins that have remained and made a great impact because they're likeable but there's tons of new members that just troll and post absolute rubbish.

Vanessa
20-09-2012, 07:02 PM
That's what I was thinking...was a bit offended but being a newbie didn't want to say anything :conf:

Don't let that put you off! Most people in here are very friendly. :p

Vanessa
20-09-2012, 07:03 PM
New members breathe a bit of life into the place, the more the better

Yes! I love new members! I think Adele is so nice! :hugesmile:

Josy
20-09-2012, 07:04 PM
Not really, I think it's true. I'm pretty sure plenty of members took that attitude when I was new and it didn't bother me. I stayed on the forum after all. There's members like Munchkins that have remained and made a great impact because they're likeable but there's tons of new members that just troll and post absolute rubbish.

Some take a while to settle in, and some continue being trolls until they are banned, I can think of a few members that where complete trolls when they joined that now fit into the forum well.

Livia
20-09-2012, 07:05 PM
That's what I was thinking...was a bit offended but being a newbie didn't want to say anything :conf:

Don't feel like that. It's nice to have you. And on time tonight, I notice...

Josy
20-09-2012, 07:06 PM
That's what I was thinking...was a bit offended but being a newbie didn't want to say anything :conf:

Sorry I missed this post, yeah don't let posts like that put you off the forum, most of us enjoy having new members.

AnnieK
20-09-2012, 07:06 PM
Don't feel like that. It's nice to have you. And on time tonight, I notice...

Thanks :blush: Yep on time...missed too much fun on here last night by going out :joker:

Doogle
20-09-2012, 07:07 PM
Fine, I worded it too harshly and exaggerated and I'm all for new members at the end of the day, but it's just a few that are so god awful that it puts me off the thought of new members joining.

Mystic Mock
20-09-2012, 07:08 PM
Some take a while to settle in, and some continue being trolls until they are banned, I can think of a few members that where complete trolls when they joined that now fit into the forum well.

I think i've calmed down alot from when I first joined.

Yes guys I was crazier back then.:shocked::joker:

AnnieK
20-09-2012, 07:08 PM
Don't let that put you off! Most people in here are very friendly. :p

Thanks...tbf I have found that so far :spin:

Vanessa
20-09-2012, 07:09 PM
I think i've calmed down alot from when I first joined.

Yes guys I was crazier back then.:shocked::joker:

I think most people take a while to settle in. But once you do you can have so much fun in here! I love this forum! :dance:

Livia
20-09-2012, 07:11 PM
I think i've calmed down alot from when I first joined.

Yes guys I was crazier back then.:shocked::joker:

Hard to imagine, I have to say....

Munchkins
20-09-2012, 07:12 PM
It can be hard to mix into the forum, but i think you should continue to give it a go on here, as it is lovely, once you find some good friends!

Vanessa
20-09-2012, 07:14 PM
It can be hard to mix into the forum, but i think you should continue to give it a go on here, as it is lovely, once you find some good friends!

Yes, i agree! Never give up. I found it hard in here before, but i'm happily settled now. I put people i don't like on ignore and just talk to the people i get on with. :hugesmile:

Munchkins
20-09-2012, 07:15 PM
Yes, i agree! Never give up. I found it hard in here before, but i'm happily settled now. I put people i don't like on ignore and just talk to the people i get on with. :hugesmile:

I didn't even know there was an ignore feature until a few weeks ago :laugh:
haven't used it either

Livia
20-09-2012, 07:16 PM
It can be hard to mix into the forum, but i think you should continue to give it a go on here, as it is lovely, once you find some good friends!

You, missy, have been nothing but trouble since you arrived.

Awww just kidding. It seems like you've always been here to be honest.

Vanessa
20-09-2012, 07:17 PM
I didn't even know there was an ignore feature until a few weeks ago :laugh:
haven't used it either

It's very useful. There are always people who you'll never get on with. It's normal. :tongue:

Munchkins
20-09-2012, 07:20 PM
You, missy, have been nothing but trouble since you arrived.

Awww just kidding. It seems like you've always been here to be honest.

Haha i try my best :laugh:
odd that i've only been on here 3 months tbh, feels like forever to me too!

Josy
20-09-2012, 07:24 PM
Something clearly not right about Adele. The other day I looked on her wall and saw I was listed as one of her friends. The account was created in late august of this year and I know for a fact that I have never tried to be-friend her - I didnt even know she was a member till last week - but I did be-friend Thomas C when he was on. Interesting. Could one of the mods please tell us whats going on? Has a banned members account been re-activated? Seems a bit pointless to let this member back but not others, dont you think?

You can add people to your friends list without asking them if that's what you mean?

When you click to befriend someone you get this message:

Are you sure you want to add 'member1' to your contacts?

Also send a friend request to 'member1'

You then untick the box if you don't want to ask them to add you and it just adds the member to your list, the member in question doesnt have to give permission.

Also, we havent let any members back/re-activated thier account, as far as we are aware atm Adele is not a multiple account.

AnnieK
20-09-2012, 07:24 PM
For my first hundred or so posts I was constantly checking to see if anyone had commented, or taken offence at what I had said and I re-typed loads of posts before I posted them. Hehe. Ther have been a few times I have wanted to disagree with members but thought I had better keep my mouth shut. I felt like a nervous little kid, not someone n their 30s...ha. I am so sad!!

InOne
20-09-2012, 07:26 PM
We're not always easy on n00bs but the ones who take it in good humour and don't get mortally offended are usually the ones that stick around.

thesheriff443
20-09-2012, 07:28 PM
dont bring your private life on a public forum!

GiRTh
20-09-2012, 07:31 PM
You can add people to your friends list without asking them if that's what you mean?

When you click to befriend someone you get this message:



You then untick the box if you don't want to ask them to add you and it just adds the member to your list, the member in question doesnt have to give permission.

Also, we havent let any members back/re-activated thier account, as far as we are aware atm Adele is not a multiple account.I didnt do anything like that. If its a genuine error then so be it but I thought it was a bit strange that this was done and I know for a fact I didnt do it.

Livia
20-09-2012, 07:33 PM
For my first hundred or so posts I was constantly checking to see if anyone had commented, or taken offence at what I had said and I re-typed loads of posts before I posted them. Hehe. Ther have been a few times I have wanted to disagree with members but thought I had better keep my mouth shut. I felt like a nervous little kid, not someone n their 30s...ha. I am so sad!!

I know what you mean. I was a bit the same. It's hard to find your feet anywhere new. Some of the people I clashed badly with, took huge offence to and ended up putting on ignore, I adore now. You'll be fine, I reckon.

We're not always easy on n00bs but the ones who take it in good humour and don't get mortally offended are usually the ones that stick around.

That's what it's all about I think. Some people just fit immediately. And some... don't.

Josy
20-09-2012, 07:34 PM
I didnt do anything like that. If its a genuine error then so be it but I thought it was a bit strange that this was done and I know for a fact I didnt do it.

Thats what I meant with my last post, you wouldnt have had to do anything, if you are on Adeles friends list she could have put you there without you having to give permission.

InOne
20-09-2012, 07:35 PM
I know what you mean. I was a bit the same. It's hard to find your feet anywhere new. Some of the people I clashed badly with, took huge offence to and ended up putting on ignore, I adore now. You'll be fine, I reckon.



That's what it's all about I think. Some people just fit immediately. And some... don't.

It sort of took me a bit to fit in here. I used to argue with the whole forum basically. Long threads of arguing that never seemed to get locked lol But then I started chatting in the den and met Niamh and Jess and them lot and sort of mellowed.

Cherie
20-09-2012, 08:24 PM
New members are usually crap, the little community is better

:joker:how very parochial of you!

reece(:
20-09-2012, 08:30 PM
I love new members, this forum needs some fresh meat drafted into it because some people seem to stick to their cliques here, would be nice to see some new members to converse with. All for it, but not for liars/trolls.

thesheriff443
20-09-2012, 08:32 PM
I love new members, this forum needs some fresh meat drafted into it because some people seem to stick to their cliques here, would be nice to see some new members to converse with. All for it, but not for liars/trolls.

but we also get members do that bull ****e of im new!
members welcome them and after about 5 post they p*ss off

reece(:
20-09-2012, 08:33 PM
but we also get members do that bull ****e of im new!
members welcome them and after about 5 post they p*ss off
Their loss then, cos there's some nice people on here :pipe:

Vanessa
20-09-2012, 08:35 PM
Their loss then, cos there's some nice people on here :pipe:

It's nice to have new members! Like Munchkins for example! :dance:

Doogle
20-09-2012, 08:35 PM
New members are so unreliable, it's like 1 in 100 of them actually stay and contribute, which is probably why I view them so negatively.

Kizzy
20-09-2012, 08:37 PM
Hey adele :)
I love new people they dilute an otherwise reduced gene pool of FM's
Hello!

Munchkins
20-09-2012, 08:37 PM
Good that i'm seen as a worthwhile new member :pipe:

InOne
20-09-2012, 08:41 PM
New members are so unreliable, it's like 1 in 100 of them actually stay and contribute, which is probably why I view them so negatively.

Theres also some good new ones put off by the idiocy of the forum too. Imagine a newbie joining and seeing this mess of a thread.

thesheriff443
20-09-2012, 08:44 PM
Hey adele :)
I love new people they dilute an otherwise reduced gene pool of FM's
Hello!

you have not been anywhere near my jeans:joker:

Kazanne
20-09-2012, 08:46 PM
Haha i try my best :laugh:
odd that i've only been on here 3 months tbh, feels like forever to me too!

Munchkins,you have fitted in here very well,I am envious,I have been here a while now and still feel a little like a stranger sometimes,but I like it and some of the people on here are great and make the time I spend on here worthwhile.:hugesmile:

Scarlett.
20-09-2012, 08:49 PM
You're (mostly) all n00bs

http://img130.imageshack.us/img130/6448/lolol.gif

Kizzy
20-09-2012, 08:51 PM
Everyone loves n00bs like me....

Redway
20-09-2012, 08:52 PM
I agree with Doogle. I welcome new members and all but hardly any of them amount to anything and it's like you have a few gems and the rest are crap.

The only members worth a mention who have signed up this year would be kizzy, Shanna, Munchkins and perhaps a few others. The rest or all trolls or maybe just genuinely retarded.

reece(:
20-09-2012, 08:54 PM
I agree Vanessa, good new members like Munchkins, Apple202, yourself, annie, Germyle, BigBrother3212, kizzy even sampvt have contributed a lot to the forum in the past year. The cycle must continue :) (sure I'll have missed other good new members too!)

reece(:
20-09-2012, 08:55 PM
Munchkins,you have fitted in here very well,I am envious,I have been here a while now and still feel a little like a stranger sometimes,but I like it and some of the people on here are great and make the time I spend on here worthwhile.:hugesmile:
Don't worry you're not the only one! It's nice to see you around the forums kazanne :)

Marcus.
20-09-2012, 08:55 PM
at the start i had touble here but all you are nice

Doogle
20-09-2012, 08:56 PM
at the start i had touble here but all you are nice

bless you

Black Dagger
20-09-2012, 08:57 PM
2011 was the year for best new posters imo. :pipe:

Scarlett.
20-09-2012, 08:57 PM
I like seeing new people arriving each year during off season, adds new discussions to the forum

Josy
20-09-2012, 08:58 PM
Right I'm closing this since it looks like it has turned into somewhere for certain members to be nasty about others.

Benjamin
21-09-2012, 07:03 AM
Not really, I think it's true. I'm pretty sure plenty of members took that attitude when I was new and it didn't bother me. I stayed on the forum after all. There's members like Munchkins that have remained and made a great impact because they're likeable but there's tons of new members that just troll and post absolute rubbish.

Sorry if this reply is late, but what an absolute ridiculous thing to say. If you feel like that then maybe yourself and your little crew should make your own site and set up you own little community, rather than have that absolute appalling attitude towards newer members. Yes, some members new and old troll, but we try and deal with them as best we can, however most members (new and old) actually contribute to the forum.