How old is too old?

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

I'm sick to death of my family telling me that my fiance is too old for me and that we shouldn't be engaged.

Age is just a number and and it's love that counts, as long as we are both happy that's all that matters.

Do you guys agree with me?

[CharlieO]

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lpgklyTeJl1r00dcyo1_500.gif

[Smithy]

Whats the age difference?

[the truth]

I agree. people will judge you anyway. i dont theres such a thing as an age gap, although anna nicole smith took the mickey marrying a 90+ year old billionaire. older ladies with toy boys are cougars, old men with young brides are called anything from immature to perverted cradle snatchers. if its legal and both people are happy, then im happy for them.

[CharlieO]

The_truth please tell me you are a closeted gay male/female?

[joeysteele]

Yes, age to me is just a number, I have friends my age, 20 and juat a bit older that act more like 60.
I know people in their 70s and 80s who are far more young in their outlook than people under half their age too.
I love being with and talking to anyone regardless of age.

I just take people as they are, age has no relevance to me whatsoever,even when I see people young in relationships with much older people too.
If being with someone makes you happy or if someone makes you smile and is a good friend or is even just a really friendly interesting person to know then I don't think it matters one bit as to age.

[Lee.]

I think it totally depends on personalities.. I think I'm quite young and maybe a wee bit immature for my age so I cant see me having a lot in common with a man a lot older than me. I tend to get on with people my own age or even a bit younger.

What age is your fiance?

[Ninastar]

Id say for me, the oldest I'd go is 24/25

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

Wayne is a (young looking) 48 and I'm 27. I am very mature for my age though so I think it works

[CharlieO]

You can't be that mature for your age if you're asking for assurance about your imminent MARRIAGE on an internet forum

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lpgklyTeJl1r00dcyo1_500.gif

I am not a gold digger! Wayne is actually out of work at the moment and I support us both with my income

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

You can't be that mature for your age if you're asking for assurance about your imminent MARRIAGE on an internet forum


First and foremost I am mature for my age, and secondly I don't need your assurance or blessing!

[Lee.]

I actually don't think it'simportant as long as you love each other and trust each other... The only thing that does bother me in big age difference relationships is when kids come along.

I don't know your personal circumstances, you may not even want children, but just say you did? He's going to be about 70 when your kid is only 20....

[Jake.]

If you love eachother then there isn't a problem :pipe: and Charlie she was asking if we agree with her view, not asking for you to make her decisions.

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

I actually don't think it'simportant as long as you love each other and trust each other... The only thing that does bother me in big age difference relationships is when kids come along.

I don't know your personal circumstances, you may not even want children, but just say you did? He's going to be about 70 when your kid is only 20....

I already have 2 kids and Wayne has 4, not sure if we want anymore

[Lee.]

I already have 2 kids and Wayne has 4, not sure if we want anymore

That's different then... Ach, just go with the flow! There's not a lot you can do if you really love each other! Does he spend time with your family? Maybe if they grew to rather like him, they'd stop seeing age as an issue?

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

That's different then... Ach, just go with the flow! There's not a lot you can do if you really love each other! Does he spend time with your family? Maybe if they grew to rather like him, they'd stop seeing age as an issue?

Well he's out of work at the moment and spends time down the pub enjoying himself. My family all accuse him of being a lazy bum and there's been quite a few heated arguments about it but I don't care what my family say. Waynes been working all his life and he has a right to enjoy himself for once. It's not like he's going to be out of work forever and we can cope on my wage in the mean while

[GypsyGoth]

You could go on Jeremy Kyle, he seems to be a good judge of this sort of thing.

[InOne]

Ah great, you've found the other sections :bored:


It begins...

[Lee.]

You could go on Jeremy Kyle, he seems to be a good judge of this sort of thing.


:laugh:

You will never ever guess what happened to me yesterday?! (I was quite distraught)

Turned on Jezza Kyle and there was a typical JK guest with the same top on as me! :bawling:

Can you imagine the shame? Said top has been since binned :)

[Shaun]

so, so, so, so, so, so, so obvious

[Legend killer]

I can confirm this story i am the fiance

[CharlieO]

You should set up a blog adele

[Vicky.]

I agree. people will judge you anyway. i dont theres such a thing as an age gap, although anna nicole smith took the mickey marrying a 90+ year old billionaire. older ladies with toy boys are cougars, old men with young brides are called anything from immature to perverted cradle snatchers. if its legal and both people are happy, then im happy for them.

I think theres a LOT less stigma attached to an older bloke with a younger girl than the other way round.

I dont think age matters as such, though I would probably (rightly or wrongly) judge say...a 17 year old with a 70 year old.

[Lee.]

so, so, so, so, so, so, so obvious

What's obvious? :conf:

[InOne]

What's obvious? :conf:

trolololol

[GypsyGoth]

:laugh:

You will never ever guess what happened to me yesterday?! (I was quite distraught)

Turned on Jezza Kyle and there was a typical JK guest with the same top on as me! :bawling:

Can you imagine the shame? Said top has been since binned :)

:laugh2:

[Lee.]

trolololol

What does that mean?

[Black Dagger]

I'd pretty much have sex with anybody under the age of 40... well depending on if I found them attractive.

But I'd say 24 is my cut-off point for a relationship.

So 7 year difference is fine with me.

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

Alot of mine a Waynes friends say that we look great together as a couple and that they don't even notice the age difference.

I have some photos on my laptop but not sure how to add them to my post?

[CharlieO]

Adele you flippin love talking about yourself

[Lee.]

Alot of mine a Waynes friends say that we look great together as a couple and that they don't even notice the age difference.

I have some photos on my laptop but not sure how to add them to my post?


You need to add them to a photosharing thing like Photobucket or something then that allows you to copy the link and post it here..

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

Adele you flippin love talking about yourself

this is the general chat page

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

You need to add them to a photosharing thing like Photobucket or something then that allows you to copy the link and post it here..

Thanks Lee

[Lee.]

You're welcome :)

[Sam:)]

I dont think it matters, If yous planned on having children it might be because my personal opinion is over 45 is too old to be a new parent. If your happy and he is happy there is no problem

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

I think we look great together

http://i1268.photobucket.com/albums/jj562/Wigglesworthit/207381_10150169283379391_1728286_n_zps75d92f70.jpg

[Firewire]

he looks like he could be your dad omg

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

he looks like he could be your dad omg

puh-lease you are just jealous :rolleyes:

[Doogle]

puh-lease you are just jealous :rolleyes:

:lovedup:

[Firewire]

puh-lease you are just jealous :rolleyes:

no. no, i'm really not.

[Jake.]

he looks like he could be your dad omg

and that's needed because?

[Firewire]

and that's needed because?

because this thread is "how old is too old?" and by me saying he looks like he could be her dad, means I think he's too old.

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

and that's needed because?

ignore her, she's jealous

[Firewire]

ignore her, she's jealous

SHE?! wow, stupid and blind.

[Kazanne]

so, so, so, so, so, so, so obvious

isn't it just :evilgrin::joker:

[Jake.]

because this thread is "how old is too old?" and by me saying he looks like he could be her dad, means I think he's too old.

There are different ways of saying things, some are ruder than others

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

isn't it just :evilgrin::joker:

Must be getting late I see the drois has signed on :rolleyes:

[Doogle]

Since I never answered the question..

I'd say 10 years older/5 years younger is about the maximum I would go for (not now obviously LOL, when I'm older) but I think anything past 10 years more is perhaps too old.

[Roy Mars III]

my last girlfriend was 8 years older than me, age doesn't really matter at all

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

ignore her, she's jealous

:joker::joker::joker:

[Firewire]

There are different ways of saying things, some are ruder than others

but she needs to realise she needs a reality check

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

Oh look Fred and Rose (scott and doogle) are back :rolleyes:

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

one of my ex boyfriends was 23 years older than me (he didnt know he was my bf we just had sex)

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

but she needs to realise she needs a reality check

I don't need anything from you lady :rolleyes:

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

Oh look Fred and Rose (scott and doogle) are back :rolleyes:

oh my ****ing god :joker::joker::joker::joker::joker:

[Firewire]

one of my ex boyfriends was 23 years older than me (he didnt know he was my bf we just had sex)

omg scott you *****

[Firewire]

I don't need anything from you lady :rolleyes:

is that a dig because i'm gay? wow, reported.

[Roy Mars III]

unless underage*

*just so Brother Leon doesn't get any ideas

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

jonathan he was sexy as heck idc

[Doogle]

wtf adele i thought you liked me?

[Doogle]

I'm actually hurt go rot in a hole

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

is that a dig because i'm gay? wow, reported.

I didn't know you were gay I've never met you! I assumed you were a girl because you come across very jealous of me in all your posts.

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

wtf adele i thought you liked me?

Yesterday you ans Scott were talking about stabbing me!

[Doogle]

How long has it been? shall we get into it again?
Excuse our disgrace, we've had no time to paint the place
The dog is always barking at the mailman

I won't waste your time with my revelation
Hello my friend, I see you're back again
Hello mystery, don't bother to explain
How 'bout maybe, it's all been in my head
Hey world, I'm tired of this black and blue, black and blue

My dear, come again, your voice is fading out and in
Out of the laundry bin, I found my innocence again
The dog is always barking at the mainman

I won't waste your time with my revelation
Hello my friend, I see you're back again
Hello mystery, don't bother to explain
How 'bout maybe, it's all been in my head
Hey world, I'm tired of this black and blue, black and blue

Hello my friend, I see you're back again
Hello mystery, don't bother to explain
How 'bout maybe, it's all been in my head
Hey world, I'm tired of this black and blue, black and blue

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

Southern trees bear a strange fruit,
Blood on the leaves and blood at the root,
Black bodies swinging in the southern breeze,
Strange fruit hanging from the poplar trees.

Pastoral scene of the gallant south,
The bulging eyes and the twisted mouth,
Scent of magnolias, sweet and fresh,
Then the sudden smell of burning flesh.

Here is fruit for the crows to pluck,
For the rain to gather, for the wind to suck,
For the sun to rot, for the trees to drop,
Here is a strange and bitter crop.

[Doogle]

:sad:

[Firewire]

I didn't know you were gay I've never met you! I assumed you were a girl because you come across very jealous of me in all your posts.

trust me, honey. i'm not jealous of you.

[Adele Wigglesworthit]

I'm leaving now.

Love you all xxx

obviously this doesn't include Scott, Doogle and Firewire

[Doogle]

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[Adele Wigglesworthit]

trust me, honey. i'm not jealous of you.

You clearly are :rolleyes:

[Firewire]

You clearly are :rolleyes:

why would i be jealous of you?

stop flattering yourself. it's not a nice look. you're new here, you won't last.

[Vicky.]

Closing this, it is no longer constructive at all :S