Who is it easier for?

[Jessica.]

Is growing up and life in general easier for men or women?

[Marc]

Men probably have less hang ups about image, but not as less these days. Um women have more bodily issues that cause discomfort (nice way of saying periods).

[Jessica.]

Men probably have less hang ups about image, but not as less these days. Um women have more bodily issues that cause discomfort (nice way of saying periods).

True. :joker:

[Kate!]

Us women have more bodily issues that cause discomfort (nice way of saying periods).

:shocked::shocked::shocked:

[Locke.]

Women have it much easier

[Jayson]

Women

[Jessica.]

Women have it much easier

Women

Why? :shocked:

[Roy Mars III]

women

[MTVN]

Men, would hate to have to sit down everytime you go to the toilet

[MeMyselfAndI]

Women have it so much easier, all the teachers are stuck up their ass tbh lol

[Locke.]

Why? :shocked:

Well for a start you can never go through something as painful as being kicked in that very sacred area

[Jessica.]

Well for a start you can never go through something as painful as being kicked in that very sacred area

Childbirth! :nono:

[Marc]

Men, would hate to have to sit down everytime you go to the toilet

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_wNJtF1XNe8Y/TDtK7i783cI/AAAAAAAACI8/ElsTTnf1wV4/s1600/she+pee.jpg

[Kate!]

Well for a start you can never go through something as painful as being kicked in that very sacred area

childbirth.

[Mystic Mock]

Life can be tough for both genders in different ways but I think men have it harder as we get told to get a job quicker than girls do, in our younger years there are some shallow girls out there judging your looks, and people are just generally harsher on guys than girls I feel when we do anything wrong.

[Marc]

Childbirth! :nono:

You'd never know which is worse.

[lostalex]

Obviously easier for men.

As a man of course i've seen how women are talked down to and patronized every single day of my life i've seen it. It's undeniable.

that being said, life is not "easy" for anyone. But there is certainly more discrimination against women than towards men. I don't think anyone can deny that.

[Mystic Mock]

You'd never know which is worse.

Tbf I wouldn't want to find out about childbirth.:joker:

[Marcus.]

both

[lostalex]

Life can be tough for both genders in different ways but I think men have it harder as we get told to get a job quicker than girls do, in our younger years there are some shallow girls out there judging your looks, and people are just generally harsher on guys than girls I feel when we do anything wrong.

are you joking? All of my male friends lived with their parents after college far longer than my female friends.

[Locke.]

childbirth.

Childbirth! :nono:

Don't be silly, that is nowhere near as bad

[Me. I Am Salman]

Woops picked the wrong option
I think in today's society it's more difficult for women but 70 odd years ago the answer would probably be men because of war etc

[Shaun]

Cons for men:
- Don't get bought drinks by flirts :idc:
- kicks in the nads
- Expectations to be "manly"
- Messy wanks

Cons for women:
- Inequality in a lot of countries
- Childbirth
- Peer pressure and the demands of fashion (although this is seeping into manhood now) and body image
- Patronising men :idc:
- Menstrual cycle

Men have it slightly easier tbf

[lostalex]

it's just a silly question. When you see all of the VAST evidence of discrimination and abuse rates, rape rates, murder rates, it's quite clear who are the victims and who are the victimizers.

Let's get real now.

[Mystic Mock]

are you joking? All of my male friends lived with their parents after college far longer than my female friends.

Well it depends on your own experiences and you've experienced differently to me.

[lostalex]

Well it depends on your own experiences and you've experienced differently to me.

well, i know far more male friends from high school that still live in our home town, and actually i don't know any female friends that still live there. I can't think of any of them that are still there. Also the male friends i have have definitely milked off of their parents more than my female friends.

But yur right, that's just my experience. it would be interesting to see a study on that. Who actually does milk off their parents more, men or women.

[Mystic Mock]

I could be wrong here but another thing that seems to be easier for women over men is homosexuality, I think people are kinder to lesbians than they are of gay people.

I know it's gonna be controversial but that's just how I feel about it, what do you guys think?

[MeMyselfAndI]

We're allowed our opinion, I think it's easier for women in general.

[GypsyGoth]

It's a patriarchal society, so I think men have it easier.

[Mystic Mock]

well, i know far more male friends from high school that still live in our home town, and actually i don't know any female friends that still live there. I can't think of any of them that are still there. Also the male friends i have have definitely milked off of their parents more than my female friends.

But yur right, that's just my experience. it would be interesting to see a study on that. Who actually does milk off their parents more, men or women.

I would like to see this happen aswell.

[Marc]

I could be wrong here but another thing that seems to be easier for women over men is homosexuality, I think people are kinder to lesbians than they are of gay people.

I know it's gonna be controversial but that's just how I feel about it, what do you guys think?

I don't think oh can even have an opinion in that, you don't know what it's like either way. Well unless you are gay

[Mystic Mock]

I don't think oh can even have an opinion in that, you don't know what it's like either way. Well unless you are gay

It's what i've saw at School that makes me think this, the guys got excited at the thought of lesbian sex and then the guys would then be repulsed at the thought of gay guys.

[Marc]

But other girls probably don't like lesbians. And what if the girl isn't attractive.. Guys don't want ugly lesbian sex. It's all extremely subjective tbh

[Mystic Mock]

But other girls probably don't like lesbians. And what if the girl isn't attractive.. Guys don't want ugly lesbian sex. It's all extremely subjective tbh

I suppose your right, it's just that the girl that was a lesbian was probably the best looking girl at my School.:joker:

[Roy Mars III]

women get doors held open for them

[Shaun]

women get doors held open for them

so do men if they play their cards right :evilgrin:

(why am i making a vagina joke i don't even have one)

[Mystic Mock]

women get doors held open for them

Well us guys have to start somewhere don't we?:joker: may aswell start with the traditional open the doors for them and ladies first statement.

[Jords]

Dont think either gender get it significantly easier.

Very bored of the childbirth arguement also. Yes its painful but the mother-baby bond doesnt come close to any other and mothers get maternity leave whilst men get something like 2 weeks off.

[lostalex]

i hold doors open for both guys and girls.

[lostalex]

Dont think either gender get it significantly easier.

Very bored of the childbirth arguement also. Yes its painful but the mother-baby bond doesnt come close to any other and mothers get maternity leave whilst men get something like 2 weeks off.

wait, so maternity leave, and "the mother /child bond" (which is an illusion, fathers have just as much a bond with their children) makes up for every woman being paid less and getting raped more? i don't think so.

[Gillian-73]

Men have it easier no doubt in my mind!

[thesheriff443]

more men are killing them selfes than women so for that reason men are finding it harder.
but in general it depend on the indivigual.

[AnnieK]

more men are killing them selfes than women so for that reason men are finding it harder.
but in general it depend on the indivigual.

Women do seem to have better coping mechanisms. Think it's to do with maternal instincts that are inbred.....

Men do have it slightly easier but not so much now as they used to with equal rights for all... Do agree though that a lot depends on the individual..

[Kazanne]

After reading through these,I have to say I agree with lostalex,women/girls do seem to be the victims of most crimes and are more prone to bodily issues.

[fruit_cake]

men have it easier

[Legend killer]

Let's be real here in terms of getting jobs etc it is MUCH EASIER FOR LADIES if they show a bit of leg etc they are roughly 98% more likely to get the job then a male counterpart. This is mainly due to male weakness in putting the pussy on a pedestal

[Legend killer]

In terms of just general growing up defo men

[Niamh.]

I don't think you can generalise something like that on sex alone, not in this part of the world anyway. I think in some places though where women are still considered second class citizens then men have it easier

[Kizzy]

I agree with niamh, its a socialisation thing,
Western girls are encouraged to talk about their feeling and boys not so much, it is only recently that men are being encouraged to seek help and advice if they are not coping, not being able to talk to friends for fear of being percieved as weak.
Things are changing but slowly I think.

[GiRTh]

LOL@This thread. Even the supposed sensible answers are hilarious.

[Jessica.]

Interesting results, the poll was even last night and now, men are a clear winner. :shocked:

[Benjamin]

Depends on your stance. Women have it easier in the fact they can get away with a lot more, and have sexuality on their side against many men to get things they want (I don't mean this in a sexist way).


But men have it easier in areas like jobs and rising the ranks because it is still (unfortunately) a male dominated world.

[Kizzy]

I am the only woman to choose women as having it easier..

[Roy Mars III]

you are the only one brave enough to admit ti

[Kazanne]

Let's be real here in terms of getting jobs etc it is MUCH EASIER FOR LADIES if they show a bit of leg etc they are roughly 98% more likely to get the job then a male counterpart. This is mainly due to male weakness in putting the pussy on a pedestal

Which depends entirely on how that female looks,it doesn't work for all.

[Mystic Mock]

Tbf Kazanne some guys really are desperate though, look who Luke S ended up with.:joker:

[Jords]

wait, so maternity leave, and "the mother /child bond" (which is an illusion, fathers have just as much a bond with their children) makes up for every woman being paid less and getting raped more? i don't think so.

Its not an illusion at all, and rape is not something most women undergo.

[Brother Leon]

wait, so maternity leave, and "the mother /child bond" (which is an illusion, fathers have just as much a bond with their children) makes up for every woman being paid less and getting raped more? i don't think so.

Please tell me how every woman has been raped in this world and how every woman is paid less than men...I'll wait.

[Mystic Mock]

Please tell me how every woman has been raped in this world and how every woman is paid less than men...I'll wait.

Tbf his right on women having this happening to them more than men have to, but crimes like rape don't just happen to women which Lostalex does have to realise.

[Brother Leon]

Tbf his right on women having this happening to them more than men have to, but crimes like rape don't just happen to women which Lostalex does have to realise.

It's not even that. He's talking like every single woman has been raped in this world and every single woman gets paid less than a man doing the same thing. It's exaggerated to the extreme.

[Mystic Mock]

It's not even that. He's talking like every single woman has been raped in this world and every single woman gets paid less than a man doing the same thing. It's exaggerated to the extreme.

Oh I agree his took that to far aswell, I just didn't want to make my first post on this thread tonight to long.:joker: