Am I wrong to be slightly upset?

[Conzors]

My BEST friend, posted on facebook that she and a work colleague of mine (she also used to work at the same place, so we mutally know this work colleague)were going to a tattoo event this Friday, and let her know if anyone wanted to go.

I do like tattoo's, and i would like to get one when i know what i want, i think they look nice and i'm genuinely interested in them. I told her that I'd tag along, and she said 'but you dont like tattoo's haha' and i said, 'yes i do, i just dont rant a rave about them'. and she said 'oh okay, course you can come but i can 100% garuntee that you'd be bored, and i said 'i wont be bored blablabla.

She then said 'oh well, no offence but i was looking for someone tattooed who'd know all the people there and would maybe wanna get one lol, if you get me'

and i just replied with, 'i do wanna get one, but okay i wont come then x'

AM I WRONG TO BE UPSET? i dont wanna confront her about how i feel because that would just cause unnecessary drama.

please help

cheers
x

[Smithy]

She sounds like an ass

[InOne]

You've only been back for a day and we're already sorting out your problems? :idc:

:tongue:

[Conzors]

You've only been back for a day and we're already sorting out your problems? :idc:

:tongue:

Haha, i just can't talk to anyone irl about it because they all know my best friend haha.

[Ninastar]

punch her

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Hmm, this doesn't mean that she doesn't still adore you. There might be some things that you like to do that you feel other people you know might enjoy more then she would and it would be better if they go along rather than her. Doesn't mean she's starting to go off you or anything (I assume) but also at the same time.....the event space will be vast what the hell is her problem why can't you go? :shocked: Ask her directly what is going on i'm feeling left out? anything you wana tell me biatch?

[GypsyGoth]

punch her

:laugh3:

[Marcus.]

punch her

well that not going to solve noughting you should talk to them

[Conzors]

well that not going to solve noughting you should talk to them

whats noughting? x

[Ninastar]

well that not going to solve noughting you should talk to them

well i must say that you are right

violence never solves anything

[Jake.]

whats noughting? x

You have some stuff to learn about our new member here

[Redway]

whats noughting? x

He sometimes finds it difficult to spell things.

[Marcus.]

whats noughting? x

what you say the question oh bb12 and before i say sorry up front about my spelling grammer

well i must say that you are right

violence never solves anything

it never dose

[Conzors]

You have some stuff to learn about our new member here

He sometimes finds it difficult to spell things.

what you say the question oh bb12 and before i say sorry up front about my spelling grammer

OH! you meant nothing! Sorry!
Yeah spelling isn't for everyone! You must be very artistic, or have a photographic memory! Something much cooler than spelling :( haha.

And no, your right it never solves anything, i think im just gonna get over it and leave it.

x

[_Seth]

I'd be annoyed at her, too. She should have just told you straight that she wanted to go with someone who knew more about tattoos, like.

[Marcus.]

OH! you meant nothing! Sorry!
Yeah spelling isn't for everyone! You must be very artistic, or have a photographic memory! Something much cooler than spelling :( haha.

And no, your right it never solves anything, i think im just gonna get over it and leave it.

x

artist no
photographic memory no

you get used to it so sorry

[Conzors]

I'd be annoyed at her, too. She should have just told you straight that she wanted to go with someone who knew more about tattoos, like.
See, i wouldnt be feeling like this if she invited other people and not me, because i wouldn't be her first choice for a tattoo event, but its the fact she advertised it on facebook and then sorta said no to me. you get meh?

artist no
photographic memory no

you get used to it so sorry

Haha, no hun im used to it, dont worry! I bet you have some really cool talent.
x

[Marcus.]

See, i wouldnt be feeling like this if she invited other people and not me, because i wouldn't be her first choice for a tattoo event, but its the fact she advertised it on facebook and then sorta said no to me. you get meh?



Haha, no hun im used to it, dont worry! I bet you have some really cool talent.
x

ermm if i have like like to know

[Conzors]

ermm if i have like like to know

Don't be down on yourself! Everyone has their own subject(s) that their an expertee on.

[Marcus.]

Don't be down on yourself! Everyone has their own subject(s) that their an expertee on.

yeah have to go be back tomro

[Jake.]

artist no
photographic memory no

you get used to it so sorry

:joker: good old BB12 :)

[Conzors]

hahaha x

[_Seth]

See, i wouldnt be feeling like this if she invited other people and not me, because i wouldn't be her first choice for a tattoo event, but its the fact she advertised it on facebook and then sorta said no to me. you get meh?

Yeah she went about it in a proper idiotic way, man. =/

[Livia]

She sounds like a dork. I hope they spell her tattoo wrong. Blank her totally and concentrate on your decent friends.

[Marc]

Let it go, you're better than that

[Niamh.]

I'd be rightly pissed off if I were you

[CharlieO]

you shouldn't ask for advice on tibb

[Ammi]

..it's as good a place as any Charlie..at least he gets a few different opinions..and then I'm sure he'll go with what feels right...

[CharlieO]

..it's as good a place as any Charlie..at least he gets a few different opinions..and then I'm sure he'll go with what feels right...

Fair enough about the second part but it is not as good as any other place sorry. Us whom waste our lives posting on a forum like this, really aren't the ideal candidates to give advice on real social situations.

[Niamh.]

Fair enough about the second part but it is not as good as any other place sorry. Us whom waste our lives posting on a forum like this, really aren't the ideal candidates to give advice on real social situations.

Excuse me Charlie, don't lump everyone on this forum into one category. There's plenty of people on here who do just fine in "real social situations".

[Ammi]

Fair enough about the second part but it is not as good as any other place sorry. Us whom waste our lives posting on a forum like this, really aren't the ideal candidates to give advice on real social situations.

..I guess it depends on what you get out of the forum as to whether you feel it's a waste..and what you put into it....we all have experience of social situations, friendhips etc and our advice is as good as that of anyone else...whether the person takes any is up to them...

[CharlieO]

Excuse me Charlie, don't lump everyone on this forum into one category. There's plenty of people on here who do just fine in "real social situations".

Excuse me Niamh, I do just fine also, more than fine in fact. But anyone who will waste their life on a forum like this still can't really say they're normal and can give normal advice.

[CharlieO]

..I guess it depends on what you get out of the forum as to whether you feel it's a waste..and what you put into it....we all have experience of social situations, friendhips etc and our advice is as good as that of anyone else...whether the person takes any is up to them...

mmmm k

[Niamh.]

Excuse me Niamh, I do just fine also, more than fine in fact. But anyone who will waste their life on a forum like this still can't really say they're normal and can give normal advice.

That is so insulting. You don't know anything about other peoples lives, why is posting on a forum any different to reading a book or watching TV in their spare time? And why does posting on a forum mean that people don't have normal lives when they're not on here? I know I do.

[Marc]

Posting on a forum is pretty sociable, mote socialable than any other hobby or downtime

[Benjamin]

Fair enough about the second part but it is not as good as any other place sorry. Us whom waste our lives posting on a forum like this, really aren't the ideal candidates to give advice on real social situations.

Not true. We all come form different social backgrounds on TiBB and yes I spend time on here a lot, but I also have an amazing social life. I'm sure others also do Even if they don't they can still offer opinions on how they may feel in situations.


I like you Charlie, but you really need to get your head out of your arse sometimes.

[CharlieO]

Not true. We all come form different social backgrounds on TiBB and yes I spend time on here a lot, but I also have an amazing social life. I'm sure others also do Even if they don't they can still offer opinions on how they may feel in situations.


I like you Charlie, but you really need to get your head out of your arse sometimes.

I do not have to do anything thx

[CharlieO]

That is so insulting. You don't know anything about other peoples lives, why is posting on a forum any different to reading a book or watching TV in their spare time? And why does posting on a forum mean that people don't have normal lives when they're not on here? I know I do.

I never said people don't have normal lives when they're not on here. But posting on here takes up time of you life and therefore I don't believe its normal.

[Benjamin]

I do not have to do anything thx

Then pity you Charlie as you'll be the one left behind in the world, nobody else.

[Benjamin]

Now I'm closing this thread for a bit to avoid it turning into another drama on here and to get it back on topic.