'Hypothetical' dilemma!

[Kate!]

I have a friend (no it's not me obv, and yes I do have friends before some smartarse comments :p)

My friend works in an office and had a short involvement with one of the bosses a while back. It fizzled out, and all seemed well for a while, but recently he has begun to touch her inappropriately, patting her on the bottom mainly.

She is reluctant to speak out, because he is her boss, but it makes her very uncomfortable, and she wants it to stop.

Advice please chaps :pipe: I'll pass it on.

[Jake.]

She has to say something, without a doubt.

[Jake.]

And you have friends?

[Kate!]

And you have friends?

yes, two. :hugesmile:

[Kizzy]

Ooh... thats a toughie.
Well he may be trying to rekindle something?
If she doesn't want it to carry on then she should have a word with him to explain that.
It needn't involve anyone else, or ruin their working relationship.

[Doogle]

This is like that episode of Friends when Chandler's boss keeps slapping him on the arse and he asks him to stop and he doesn't

[Vanessa]

How about kick him where the sun don't shine? ;)

[Kazanne]

Tell her to tell him (In private of course)that in no uncertain terms will she put up with it,if he continues she will take the matter further,she would like to remain friends but what they had is over,hopefully he will get the message

[Kate!]

Tell her to tell him (In private of course)that in no uncertain terms will she put up with it,if he continues she will take the matter further,she would like to remain friends but what they had is over,hopefully he will get the message

she's not bolshy like us Kazanne :laugh: but I'll tell her.

[Vanessa]

How about getting a transfer to another office?

[Petershaw1984]

He probs feels he has the righr to do what he wants cos 1 he is her boss and 2 he has "had" her

[Vanessa]

He probs feels he has the righr to do what he wants cos 1 he is her boss and 2 he has "had" her

It's still wrong though. No means no.

[Kazanne]

she's not bolshy like us Kazanne :laugh: but I'll tell her.

aw Kate is she a bit quiet and the type that doesn't want to hurt his feelings?If so it's more difficult,She could always make sure she is with other people,it might put him off a bit,other that that,Can she not tell him she is in another relationship:conf:

[AnnieK]

From an employment point of view, she needs to make it clear that this behaviour Is unacceptable and it needs to stop. It can be initially off the record but she needs to make it clear that if it doesn't stop she will take it further. She can be nice about it but needs to be firm..

[Mystic Mock]

Hire a Bouncer lol.

[Ramsay]

If i were you i would tell the dude that is not acceptable :)

[Kate!]

Hire a Bouncer lol.

I'll offer her your services Mock.

[Mystic Mock]

I'll offer her your services Mock.

Lol she will probably be scared of two guys if she ended up seeing me.:joker:

[Jords]

Does she have a nice arse?

[Ammi]

Does she have a nice arse?

....Jords..:love::love::love:

[Jords]

....Jords..:love::love::love:

Heya Ammi :lovedup:

[thesheriff443]

the company wont be too pleased that staff have got together,where they buming on the companies time.

[Mystic Mock]

Does she have a nice arse?

:joker:

[armand.kay]

Get her one of these! :) http://cdn.urbanislandz.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/nicki-minaj-barbed-wire-butt.jpg

[GypsyGoth]

Get her one of these! :) http://cdn.urbanislandz.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/nicki-minaj-barbed-wire-butt.jpg

:laugh2:

[Vanessa]

Get her one of these! :) http://cdn.urbanislandz.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/nicki-minaj-barbed-wire-butt.jpg

:laugh2: