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Petershaw1984

15-01-2013, 07:28 PM

Fetch The Bolt Cutters

15-01-2013, 07:30 PM

yeah smithy

Vanessa

15-01-2013, 07:31 PM

Really gets my goat this, i think im pretty straight to the point woth people. If anyone trys to talk to me about anyone else or gossip i just say i either oant interested or tell them to bring it up with that person or people.

I today heard 2 people talking about me i not the nicest of ways, 1 of these people i have acted a bit like a mentor to and classed them as a friend the other person is just someone i work with (we get on for the sake of gettig the job done) i am really upset that the person i mentored would do this, they basically destroyed me from everythkng i do to how i look. (I iant that bad looking lol) . It wasnt easy to hear this, whilst theycwere talking i just walked into the office smiled and said its a bit unfortunate that ive just heard that, then i walked out.

Working with them again on friday. So dissapointed.

Whats it like at your work? Bitchy?

Sorry just needed to let off somewhere

Very bitchy. Everyone talks behind each other's back and takes the piss. But i i'm past caring now. I just answer them back. :nono:

Jesus.

15-01-2013, 07:32 PM

Set up a kill room.

http://images.buddytv.com/articles/t10_dexter_508_1263.jpg

thesheriff443

15-01-2013, 07:33 PM

Set up a kill room.

http://images.buddytv.com/articles/t10_dexter_508_1263.jpg

when are you comeing round:joker:

Marcus.

15-01-2013, 07:33 PM

my volunteering work there are all nice and sweet even my ex is ok with me now

Vanessa

15-01-2013, 07:33 PM

when are you comeing round:joker:

:laugh3::laugh3::laugh3:

Marcus.

15-01-2013, 07:34 PM

Very bitchy. Everyone talks behind each other's back and takes the piss. But i i'm past caring now. I just answer them back. :nono:

you go girl give them what for

KingBilly

15-01-2013, 07:34 PM

This is why I hate every contestant other than Speidi and Paula.
http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

thesheriff443

15-01-2013, 07:37 PM

This is why I hate every contestant other than Speidi and Paula.
http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

big brother promote's and constructs situation's for people to talk about each other!.

Kazanne

15-01-2013, 07:38 PM

Very bitchy. Everyone talks behind each other's back and takes the piss. But i i'm past caring now. I just answer them back. :nono:

LOL @ that cat and yes,I think most people bitch it's just some people seem to relish in adding little bits and are purposely nasty,I'm like you I really dont care as I know for a fact ,come face to face and on their own,you wouldn't see these peoples arses for dust.:xyxwave:

Vanessa

15-01-2013, 07:41 PM

LOL @ that cat and yes,I think most people bitch it's just some people seem to relish in adding little bits and are purposely nasty,I'm like you I really dont care as I know for a fact ,come face to face and on their own,you wouldn't see these peoples arses for dust.:xyxwave:

Exactly. I only work with them. I can't stand most of them. There are are very few nice people in there. The more i work there the less of them i like! :joker:

KingBilly

15-01-2013, 07:43 PM

big brother promote's and constructs situation's for people to talk about each other!.

promotes* situations* ~~ '!' is not followed with '.'

IDC. They all flop.

Ammi

15-01-2013, 07:44 PM

Really gets my goat this, i think im pretty straight to the point woth people. If anyone trys to talk to me about anyone else or gossip i just say i either oant interested or tell them to bring it up with that person or people.

I today heard 2 people talking about me i not the nicest of ways, 1 of these people i have acted a bit like a mentor to and classed them as a friend the other person is just someone i work with (we get on for the sake of gettig the job done) i am really upset that the person i mentored would do this, they basically destroyed me from everythkng i do to how i look. (I iant that bad looking lol) . It wasnt easy to hear this, whilst theycwere talking i just walked into the office smiled and said its a bit unfortunate that ive just heard that, then i walked out.

Working with them again on friday. So dissapointed.

Whats it like at your work? Bitchy?

Sorry just needed to let off somewhere

..you've mentored this person and it's a reflection on them and not you..you can't make people appreciate you or what you've done or how kind and patient you've been...if they don't then you have to know that it says nothing about you..you behaved well and they didn't...try not to take it personal and to realise that they're really just disrespecting themselves and not you....your character is completely intact Peter...

thesheriff443

15-01-2013, 07:45 PM

promotes* situations* ~~ '!' is not followed with '.'

IDC. They all flop.

you teach me grammer and i promise to teach you about bigbrother.

KingBilly

15-01-2013, 07:47 PM

you teach me grammer and i promise to teach you about bigbrother.

You should have gone to school.
I don't want to know about Big Brother. Once Speidi aren't endorsing it anymore, I'm out.
http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

Marcus.

15-01-2013, 07:49 PM

you teach me grammer and i promise to teach you about bigbrother.

oh he love me then grammar wise

Cherie

15-01-2013, 07:49 PM

..you've mentored this person and it's a reflection on them and not you..you can't make people appreciate you or what you've done or how kind and patient you've been...if they don't then you have to know that it says nothing about you..you behaved well and they didn't...try not to take it personal and to realise that they're really just disrespecting themselves and not you....your character is completely intact Peter...

well we don't really know that he has.

Seriously though it takes a strong character to say...I don't do this talking behind backs stuff, unfortunately it goes on in I would hazard a guess 100% of workplaces and most of us will have been spoken about at some time or other. You did the right thing bringing it to their attention that you had heard.

KingBilly

15-01-2013, 07:50 PM

Grammar is taught in primary school ffs.
http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

Livia

15-01-2013, 07:51 PM

You don't get extra marks for grammar, punctuation or spelling on here Billy. Everyone has different skills.

LemonJam

15-01-2013, 07:52 PM

If I'm honest I can be quite two faced, but only about friends if they're getting on me tits.

thesheriff443

15-01-2013, 07:53 PM

Grammar is taught in primary school ffs.
http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

so are fcuking manner's

Petershaw1984

15-01-2013, 07:53 PM

..you've mentored this person and it's a reflection on them and not you..you can't make people appreciate you or what you've done or how kind and patient you've been...if they don't then you have to know that it says nothing about you..you behaved well and they didn't...try not to take it personal and to realise that they're really just disrespecting themselves and not you....your character is completely intact Peter...

Thanks ammi. Its just hard hearing it, i dont mind people disliking me or talking about me really its just upsetting when you hear it.

Marcus.

15-01-2013, 07:53 PM

You don't get extra marks for grammar, punctuation or spelling on here Billy. Everyone has different skills.

yep livia
i am rubbish at spelling and grammar but the lovely people on here is helping me with it

Kazanne

15-01-2013, 07:54 PM

Exactly. I only work with them. I can't stand most of them. There are are very few nice people in there. The more i work there the less of them i like! :joker:

You dont need lots of friends Vanessa,just a really good best mate and some aquantainces to go out with,imo,afterall it's quality not quantity that counts:hugesmile:

Ammi

15-01-2013, 07:56 PM

..don't tell anyone but I can't stand that Lemonjam..he's so two faced...

..but really...:love:

Marcus.

15-01-2013, 07:56 PM

You dont need lots of friends Vanessa,just a really good best mate and some aquantainces to go out with,imo,afterall it's quality not quantity that counts:hugesmile:

here here kazy

KingBilly

15-01-2013, 07:56 PM

so are fcuking manner's

No they are not, actually.

I am really two-faced. I am a complete **** ♥

http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

Vanessa

15-01-2013, 07:56 PM

You dont need lots of friends Vanessa,just a really good best mate and some aquantainces to go out with,imo,afterall it's quality not quantity that counts:hugesmile:

Agreed. :hugesmile: There's only a person i'm close to at work and she's picked on because of her race. :bored:

Marcus.

15-01-2013, 07:57 PM

No they are not, actually.

I am really two-faced. I am a complete **** ♥

http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

well that nice to know kingbilly

InOne

15-01-2013, 07:57 PM

This doesn't have much to do with the thread but with what people are talking about it reminded me of this book lol

http://d.gr-assets.com/books/1172012208l/132615.jpg

Kizzy

15-01-2013, 07:57 PM

Aw :( were these blokes too?
Just laugh when you see them and say something like 'hi there fishwives'!
what a pair of twonks!
Hope you really embarrassed them walking in peter :joker:

Kazanne

15-01-2013, 07:57 PM

so are fcuking manner's

http://i617.photobucket.com/albums/tt254/slcbostonPB/Smilies/hi5.gif

Nice one:hugesmile:

Ammi

15-01-2013, 07:57 PM

Thanks ammi. Its just hard hearing it, i dont mind people disliking me or talking about me really its just upsetting when you hear it.

..yeah, it's hard to hear it Peter..but just don't believe it..

KingBilly

15-01-2013, 07:57 PM

You don't get extra marks for grammar, punctuation or spelling on here Billy. Everyone has different skills.

Then the people with lesser skills should work on improving them. Life is harder for the illiterate people. I'm just trying to help.
http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

Marcus.

15-01-2013, 07:59 PM

Then the people with lesser skills should work on improving them. Life is harder for the illiterate people. I'm just trying to help.
http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

well i bet they are but it may take a bit of time

Vanessa

15-01-2013, 07:59 PM

so are fcuking manner's

:thumbs::thumbs::thumbs:

Kazanne

15-01-2013, 07:59 PM

Agreed. :hugesmile: There's only a person i'm close to at work and she's picked on because of her race. :bored:

You and her stick together then and ignore the idiots as much as you can:hugesmile:

Petershaw1984

15-01-2013, 08:01 PM

well we don't really know that he has.

Seriously though it takes a strong character to say...I don't do this talking behind backs stuff, unfortunately it goes on in I would hazard a guess 100% of workplaces and most of us will have been spoken about at some time or other. You did the right thing bringing it to their attention that you had heard.

I dont talk about people at all cherie, i have been so supportive to this one person who after struggling at first and having the majority of the workplace against her has turned into a pretty decent worker and the staff that didnt particuly like her have become pally and respectful to her and that is pretty much down to me.
As i said to ammi its hard hearing what people think of you. I suppose i just feel really let down

Livia

15-01-2013, 08:01 PM

Then the people with lesser skills should work on improving them. Life is harder for the illiterate people. I'm just trying to help.
http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

If that's the case, perhaps you can take on board the comment about manners. Perhaps you can work on them. Just trying to help...

KingBilly

15-01-2013, 08:02 PM

If that's the case, perhaps you can take on board the comment about manners. Perhaps you can work on them. Just trying to help...

I have manners. I use them on people that are worthy.
http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

thesheriff443

15-01-2013, 08:02 PM

Then the people with lesser skills should work on improving them. Life is harder for the illiterate people. I'm just trying to help.
http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

you just concentrate on yourself.

Kazanne

15-01-2013, 08:02 PM

If that's the case, perhaps you can take on board the comment about manners. Perhaps you can work on them. Just trying to help...

http://i282.photobucket.com/albums/kk258/mediaville/applause.gif

KingBilly

15-01-2013, 08:03 PM

you just concentrate on yourself.

Why? I have no flaws. I am flawless.
http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

Livia

15-01-2013, 08:04 PM

I have manners. I use them on people that are worthy.
http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

I haven't seen much evidence of them on this thread. I'm all for confidence, but there's no need to be quite so rude. It doesn't make you look cool, it makes you look silly and spiteful.

Petershaw1984

15-01-2013, 08:04 PM

Aw :( were these blokes too?
Just laugh when you see them and say something like 'hi there fishwives'!
what a pair of twonks!
Hope you really embarrassed them walking in peter :joker:

Both women kizzy, i work in a pretty female dominated job. Most of the blokes that work there get on quite well, infact i thought i got on with everyone.

Kazanne

15-01-2013, 08:05 PM

when are you comeing round:joker:

http://i282.photobucket.com/albums/kk258/mediaville/applause.gif

Marcus.

15-01-2013, 08:11 PM

http://i282.photobucket.com/albums/kk258/mediaville/applause.gif

sorry kazy but a glee gif yesssssssssssss

Kazanne

15-01-2013, 08:16 PM

sorry kazy but a glee gif yesssssssssssss

No need to be sorry Marcus:hugesmile:

Marcus.

15-01-2013, 08:16 PM

No need to be sorry Marcus:hugesmile:

thanks kazy:flowers::blush::hugesmile:

Cherie

15-01-2013, 08:29 PM

I dont talk about people at all cherie, i have been so supportive to this one person who after struggling at first and having the majority of the workplace against her has turned into a pretty decent worker and the staff that didnt particuly like her have become pally and respectful to her and that is pretty much down to me.
As i said to ammi its hard hearing what people think of you. I suppose i just feel really let down

I know Peter, that's why I said it takes a very strong person not to get involved in office gossip and as you said you have taken a stand and don't get involved, of course its very disappointing that this has happened, unfortunately that is human nature for you. I suppose looking at it from her point of view, if she was an outsider to begin with and is now in the gang she might find it difficult to walk away and finds it easier to just go with the flow and fit in. Some people just cant stand alone, don't take it to heart its more their problem than yours.

Petershaw1984

15-01-2013, 08:39 PM

I know Peter, that's why I said it takes a very strong person not to get involved in office gossip and as you said you have taken a stand and don't get involved, of course its very disappointing that this has happened, unfortunately that is human nature for you. I suppose looking at it from her point of view, if she was an outsider to begin with and is now in the gang she might find it difficult to walk away and finds it easier to just go with the flow and fit in. Some people just cant stand alone, don't take it to heart its more their problem than yours.

Yeah cherie i know she did struggle at first and has more than once said she feels part of something now she has even said if it wasnt for me then she would have left by now, she probably didnt mean any of what was said.

Ive always been of the mind set that people at work dobt bother me wether they like or dislike me as the people i want to like and love and appreciate me are at home.

AnnieK

15-01-2013, 08:50 PM

Yeah cherie i know she did struggle at first and has more than once said she feels part of something now she has even said if it wasnt for me then she would have left by now, she probably didnt mean any of what was said.

Ive always been of the mind set that people at work dobt bother me wether they like or dislike me as the people i want to like and love and appreciate me are at home.

Agree with this although it doesn't make it easier when you hear bad things about yourself. Try and take it with a pinch of salt, you will be the bigger person for it. I bet they were mortified.

armand.kay

16-01-2013, 12:47 AM

I've never acted lie someone face but I never go up to a person and tell them what I think I normally just bitch and if the person ever addresses me then I tell them what I think... I mean its my last year of school I don't see the point of hurting people, and I cant get into much trouble because I will never see them again.http://i.imgur.com/OQC1K.gif

Petershaw1984

17-01-2013, 10:14 PM

back at work tomorow and im working with both these people. not gunna chsnge im just gunna be me. nervous though

Vanessa

17-01-2013, 10:49 PM

back at work tomorow and im working with both these people. not gunna chsnge im just gunna be me. nervous though

I'm in a similar situation. I'm just going to be myself and get on with my job. It's not worth getting upset over people who are quite clearly nasty. Good luck tomorrow.

Petershaw1984

17-01-2013, 10:56 PM

I'm in a similar situation. I'm just going to be myself and get on with my job. It's not worth getting upset over people who are quite clearly nasty. Good luck tomorrow.

best way to be aint it hun? they arent really my problem im theirs it seems . anyway. thanks off to bedfordshire now