how many sexual partners have you had?

[Petershaw1984]

i know this is personal but im curious to know whats ok.

my mates girlfriend who he has been with for 9 years he is 32 and she is 33 has apparebtly been with about 50 men. he is ok with this but i couldbt get my head around it so before the age of 24 she had had sex woth 49 men, she is lovely but t would haunt me .

ive been with 3 women. 1 is my wife and the other the ex girlfriends


what do you think is acceptable?

[Marcus.]

i have been with only two ladies

[Jesus.]

Who cares?

What any person does before a relationship is their business. I have no issue with my partners sleeping with multiple people, but I grew up in the countryside where there wasn't a lot else to do, so maybe I'm realistic about this.

If she has slept with a decent number of people, and she is happy with your friend, he should be happy. She obviously knows what she wants, and she doesn't seem as though she'll having that "what have I missed out on" crisis.

I think it's good for people to do as much living as possible before settling down.

[Black Dagger]

1.

Not even as a boyfriend or anything. Just a couple of times in an afternoon, don't know what he's up to now, he moved to London... he was nice.

[AnnieK]

Who cares?

What any person does before a relationship is their business. I have no issue with my partners sleeping with multiple people, but I grew up in the countryside where there wasn't a lot else to do, so maybe I'm realistic about this.

If she has slept with a decent number of people, and she is happy with your friend, he should be happy. She obviously knows what she wants, and she doesn't seem as though she'll having that "what have I missed out on" crisis.

I think it's good for people to do as much living as possible before settling down.

Pretty much this....as long as she has been sensible with her sexual health, what she did before meeting him is irrelevant IMO

[Petershaw1984]

i have been with only two ladies

how many men?

[lily.]

My number is close to yours Peter.

[Marcus.]

how many men?

none peter

[Black Dagger]

But what people do is none of my business, if he had slept with 100 men I wouldn't care as long as I knew I would remain healthy as well.

I don't think it really matters... so to answer your question I see no unacceptableness (not even a word) in how many sexual partners people have.

[Petershaw1984]

Who cares?

What any person does before a relationship is their business. I have no issue with my partners sleeping with multiple people, but I grew up in the countryside where there wasn't a lot else to do, so maybe I'm realistic about this.

If she has slept with a decent number of people, and she is happy with your friend, he should be happy. She obviously knows what she wants, and she doesn't seem as though she'll having that "what have I missed out on" crisis.

I think it's good for people to do as much living as possible before settling down.



its maybe just me. if my missus had been with so many people and id onky been eoth my 3 id be wierded out
my mates missus does live him to death and they make a lovely couple.

[lily.]

Peter, can I ask how old you are? This might be an age thing.

[Firewire]

none

[Jesus.]

its maybe just me. if my missus had been with so many people and id onky been eoth my 3 id be wierded out
my mates missus does live him to death and they make a lovely couple.

If there is a huge disparity between the 2 then I could maybe understand a little anxiety, but it's never a conversation I either initiate, or take part in. I don't want to lie, and I don't want to be lied to, so some things don't need to be discussed.

[Brother Leon]

Depends if w count hands as one or two tbh. :pipe:

[Jesus.]

Don't forget the finger up the bum?

[Legend killer]

i know this is personal but im curious to know whats ok.

my mates girlfriend who he has been with for 9 years he is 32 and she is 33 has apparebtly been with about 50 men. he is ok with this but i couldbt get my head around it so before the age of 24 she had had sex woth 49 men, she is lovely but t would haunt me .

ive been with 3 women. 1 is my wife and the other the ex girlfriends


what do you think is acceptable?

Tell your Mate to enjoy his STD goals of 2013

[mizzy25]

4 including my partner

[Petershaw1984]

If there is a huge disparity between the 2 then I could maybe understand a little anxiety, but it's never a conversation I either initiate, or take part in. I don't want to lie, and I don't want to be lied to, so some things don't need to be discussed.

well thats true. i wouldnt want to know how many the wifes been with simply because id be afraid of the answer.

in an ideal world id have been her first and would of liked her to be be my first tpp.

[Niamh.]

If there is a huge disparity between the 2 then I could maybe understand a little anxiety, but it's never a conversation I either initiate, or take part in. I don't want to lie, and I don't want to be lied to, so some things don't need to be discussed.

This ^ I don't know why people even want to know. I really have no interest in how many people Gav slept with before me and I don't think he wants to know about me either.

[Conzors]

I have a lot of sex with one person.

Ive had a few hook up's with people i know.

Id say 5 - and im 19.

[MTVN]

None of your business Peter

[Jake.]

One billion

[Jake.]

In fact make that a billion and one

[Petershaw1984]

im 29 so maybe age is an issue

[Munchkins]

0
I'm a virgin :p for life xoxoxo

[Harry!]

Zilch.

[Mystic Mock]

i know this is personal but im curious to know whats ok.

my mates girlfriend who he has been with for 9 years he is 32 and she is 33 has apparebtly been with about 50 men. he is ok with this but i couldbt get my head around it so before the age of 24 she had had sex woth 49 men, she is lovely but t would haunt me .

ive been with 3 women. 1 is my wife and the other the ex girlfriends


what do you think is acceptable?

:shocked:

Anyway I've had none but I'm only 16 so time will tell.

[Annie]

Mmmm a LOT but it doesn't matter because I wouldn't tell a guy I was with because it would haunt him and I wouldn't want to know how many he had been with either.. if I found out, it would most likely put me off him if it was a lot and vice versa.