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Amy Jade
09-03-2013, 08:21 PM
I want to just say sorry to everyone on here, I've been lying about my name, age and how I look. My name is Amy, not Jade and I am only 15. I pretended to be somebody else because I thought it would make people like me, I think it worked but I never thought I would make friends here and hate myself for lying.

My personality is the same, but I'm not pretty, I'm not skinny, I'm not popular or loved and stupidly pretending any of those things doesnt make me feel good.
I hope anyone who feels hurt can forgive me, I will leave tibb after Glasshouse but I don't want to let my friend Jenna down.

Thank you for reading. Sorry again.

Marcus.
09-03-2013, 08:23 PM
oh amy
we still think you fab

Vanessa
09-03-2013, 08:24 PM
I want to just say sorry to everyone on here, I've been lying about my name, age and how I look. My name is Amy, not Jade and I am only 15. I pretended to be somebody else because I thought it would make people like me, I think it worked but I never thought I would make friends here and hate myself for lying.

My personality is the same, but I'm not pretty, I'm not skinny, I'm not popular or loved and stupidly pretending any of those things doesnt make me feel good.
I hope anyone who feels hurt can forgive me, I will leave tibb after Glasshouse but I don't want to let my friend Jenna down.

Thank you for reading. Sorry again.

:hug:

Cherie
09-03-2013, 08:24 PM
aw honey dont worry about it we all do stuff we regret, its part of growing up....

anyway can we call you Amy now instead of SH?

Vicky.
09-03-2013, 08:24 PM
Ahh dont leave over this. You seem lovely

In the past we have had females pretending to be males, males pretending to be young girls, many many people who use fake photos...etc etc

Its nothing new :p

Marc
09-03-2013, 08:25 PM
That's okay Jade

OJ :p don't leave over it

Jack_
09-03-2013, 08:25 PM
This seems to happen a lot on here :p but it's a surprise coming from you I have to say!

But don't worry about it, you're lovely as you are and I don't want you to leave :love: if you ever wanna talk about anything just PM me!

Cherie
09-03-2013, 08:25 PM
by the way it really doesn't matter what shape you are, its the person that counts.

Amy Jade
09-03-2013, 08:25 PM
oh amy
we still think you fab

Thanks Marcus, it means a lot to me right now, i don't want pity from people or even understanding but I really appreciate you liking me for me for my personality.

Marcus.
09-03-2013, 08:26 PM
by the way it really doesn't matter what shape you are, its the person that counts.

hear hear cherie

Marcus.
09-03-2013, 08:27 PM
Thanks Marcus, it means a lot to me right now, i don't want pity from people or even understanding but I really appreciate you liking me for me for my personality.

any time amy
it not they way you look outside that conts it what you are like on the inside

Marsh.
09-03-2013, 08:27 PM
:shocked:

Vanessa
09-03-2013, 08:27 PM
Thanks Marcus, it means a lot to me right now, i don't want pity from people or even understanding but I really appreciate you liking me for me for my personality.

Don't worry about it. We all like you in here. :kiss:

Cherie
09-03-2013, 08:28 PM
:shocked:

:joker: have you anything to confess..

Jack_
09-03-2013, 08:28 PM
What you look like isn't important, it's what you're like as a person that counts. **** what anybody else says or what anybody else thinks about you, you are a lovely girl and that is all that matters.

Amy Jade
09-03-2013, 08:29 PM
Thank you everyone. I am glad I found some real friends out of this. you are all really kind and friendly people. I don't deserve any of this kindness but it is appreciated.

joeysteele
09-03-2013, 08:29 PM
Don't leave because of that, you showed you are a really decent person by the opening post.
I would say, don't worry about it and anyone who mattered wouldn't blink an eyelid at what you said in the opening post here anyway.

Really I have just read his post as I an typing this but Jack sums it up perfectly above.

MTVN
09-03-2013, 08:32 PM
You're definitely not the first lol and you won't be the last, I wouldn't worry too much about it, people on here will still like you anyway and it's no reason to leave

Ninastar
09-03-2013, 08:33 PM
I have a confession too. My name is Jacob and I'm actually a male

Withano
09-03-2013, 08:33 PM
You made a Skype account just for your TiBB persona?!

Cherie
09-03-2013, 08:35 PM
I have a confession too. My name is Jacob and I'm actually a male

okay Jacob see ya round.

Amy Jade
09-03-2013, 08:35 PM
You made a Skype account just for your TiBB persona?!
I made it to talk to Jenna/Munchkins, I didnt have skype before that.

MTVN
09-03-2013, 08:36 PM
I have a confession too. My name is Jacob and I'm actually a male

You asshole, leave right now please

Black Dagger
09-03-2013, 08:36 PM
We've had people who've had a cock and vagina during their stints on here. A name change is nothing, you're still lovely.

Marc
09-03-2013, 08:37 PM
I have a confession too. My name is Jacob and I'm actually a male

I knew you had a penis

Amy Jade
09-03-2013, 08:38 PM
We've had people who've had a cock and vagina during their stints on here. A name change is nothing, you're still lovely.

Thank you, Lucas that means so much. I started avoiding you because I hated lying to you because you accepted me from day 1.

Josy
09-03-2013, 08:40 PM
I agree with what others have said, you certainly aren't the first and there's no point in leaving over it.

AnnieK
09-03-2013, 08:40 PM
Aw....You Stupidhoe!! :laugh:

Don't worry, those who like you, will still like you...:love: just be yourself...

Mrluvaluva
09-03-2013, 08:41 PM
I have a confession too. My name is Jacob and I'm actually a male

:nono: I feel so cheated and used. I feel dirty. :bawling:

:tongue:

Amy don't worry about it. It must have been difficult to write that post but I am sure a lot will respect you for it. It's your persona that counts and you seem really nice.

Amy Jade
09-03-2013, 08:42 PM
I'm leaving because somebody I was close to said they can't be on the forum if I am. I'm unfair to him for me to be here when I lied to him.

Me. I Am Salman
09-03-2013, 08:42 PM
whoever that is is tragic as hell

Glenn.
09-03-2013, 08:43 PM
Aww remember Jacob? :love:

Amy I feel duped :bored:














-is joking-

I still love you :love:

Vanessa
09-03-2013, 08:43 PM
I'm leaving because somebody I was close to said they can't be on the forum if I am. I'm unfair to him for me to be here when I lied to him.

I think they'll come round. Maybe they just need some time. :hug:

Mrluvaluva
09-03-2013, 08:43 PM
We've had people who've had a cock and vagina during their stints on here. A name change is nothing, you're still lovely.

Who was the hermaphrodite? :conf:

Saph
09-03-2013, 08:43 PM
well I didnt even know your name was Jade so this makes no difference to me :p but dont leave :love:

thesheriff443
09-03-2013, 08:44 PM
well well well,hello amy:xyxwave:
i knew something was not right!, but no harm done!,this forum is not based on looks,

Jords
09-03-2013, 08:45 PM
Ya not the first dont worry about it :)

Brother Leon
09-03-2013, 08:45 PM
PM me the link to that girl's twitter or FB please?

(Dependant on age)

x


But nar, jus stay init..etc etc.

Amy Jade
09-03-2013, 08:45 PM
whoever that is is tragic as hell
I'm sorry, I wish I could take it back I really do.

reece(:
09-03-2013, 08:46 PM
If someone would rather you leave because of this then they weren't a true friend anyway, don't leave :hug:

Black Dagger
09-03-2013, 08:46 PM
Thank you, Lucas that means so much. I started avoiding you because I hated lying to you because you accepted me from day 1.

Aww. :love:

Marcus.
09-03-2013, 08:47 PM
I'm leaving because somebody I was close to said they can't be on the forum if I am. I'm unfair to him for me to be here when I lied to him.

we you know what amy more fool them i say

Black Dagger
09-03-2013, 08:47 PM
Who was the hermaphrodite? :conf:

:laugh:

Me. I Am Salman
09-03-2013, 08:48 PM
I'm sorry, I wish I could take it back I really do.

No I have no problems with you :) I was referring to the person who 'couldn't be on the same forum' if you didn't leave

AnnieK
09-03-2013, 08:50 PM
I'm leaving because somebody I was close to said they can't be on the forum if I am. I'm unfair to him for me to be here when I lied to him.

Can you not just avoid each other?

Kate!
09-03-2013, 08:51 PM
Don't leave Tibb Amy. You're really well liked here and have made a nice group of friends.

That's all really.

:)

Jesus.
09-03-2013, 08:52 PM
Whatever is going to happen is going to happen, but I think people should hold off criticising the other person who doesn't feel they can share a forum with her. We have no idea what their conversations were, what they were led to believe, or anything like that.

They were obviously close because of how betrayed that person feels, and I don't think it was very fair to bring that up in this thread. That should have been a private conversation.

Me. I Am Salman
09-03-2013, 08:53 PM
whoever it is sounds annoying and should just leave

Scarlett.
09-03-2013, 08:54 PM
I'm leaving because somebody I was close to said they can't be on the forum if I am. I'm unfair to him for me to be here when I lied to him.

If someone would rather you leave because of this then they weren't a true friend anyway, don't leave :hug:

I agree.

The lie isnt even a lie, when you joined the forum, I imagine the persona you created was to probably make more people like you, but you still created that persona, you are still what you came across to other members as - a forumer worth listening to, someone who is nice and easy to get on with. :)

Edit: JC does have a point though. Just try talking things through privately to this other person.

Brother Leon
09-03-2013, 08:54 PM
What Jesus said tbh.

We dunno ****,really.

:worship:

Livia
09-03-2013, 08:55 PM
What Jesus said tbh.

We dunno ****,really.

:worship:

Same.

joeysteele
09-03-2013, 08:55 PM
Stupidhoe, only once did I seriously consider leaving the forum because of someone else, time went by and it didn't bother me so much as time went on.
I now think why should I leave because of one or a few when I get on with so many and they seem to get on with me.

I rarely offer advice, however please don't leave because of one or even a few other people, if you really don't want to leave yourself, they don't matter and the people who enjoy your posts and communicating with you are the ones who do matter.

On this thread are people who really want you here.So many saying you should stay, speaks volumes.

Vanessa
09-03-2013, 08:56 PM
Don't leave, Stupidhoe. You're well liked in here. :pipe:

Vanessa
09-03-2013, 08:57 PM
Stupidhoe, only once did I seriously consider leaving the forum because of someone else, time went by and it didn't bother me so much as time went on.
I now think why should I leave because of one or a few when I get on with so many and they seem to get on with me.

I rarely offer advice, however please don't leave because of one or even a few other people, if you really don't want to leave yourself, they don't matter and the people who enjoy your posts and communicating with you are the ones who do matter.

On this thread are people who really want you here.So many saying you should stay, speaks volumes.

:worship::worship::worship:

Kizzy
09-03-2013, 08:57 PM
I'm leaving because somebody I was close to said they can't be on the forum if I am. I'm unfair to him for me to be here when I lied to him.

Don't you dare amy, nobody can hound you off the forum... PM ben with this issue I'm sure he will help, he might even change your flipping username! haha :)

Scarlett.
09-03-2013, 08:57 PM
Don't leave, Stupidhoe. You're well liked in here. :pipe:

Is that Spike in your avatar? :hugesmile:

Amy Jade
09-03-2013, 08:57 PM
Yeah i don't want the other person getting any heat for this, they were not at fault at all.

reece(:
09-03-2013, 08:58 PM
I agree.

The lie isnt even a lie, when you joined the forum, I imagine the persona you created was to probably make more people like you, but you still created that persona, you are still what you came across to other members as - a forumer worth listening to, someone who is nice and easy to get on with. :)

Edit: JC does have a point though. Just try talking things through privately to this other person.

The fake persona obviously wasn't done in malice or to cause conflict as proven by how she's become a great asset to the forum, lots of us have many insecurities and it can lead to some extremities such as the said false persona.

Vanessa
09-03-2013, 08:59 PM
Is that Spike in your avatar? :hugesmile:

Yes, it is! :amazed::lovedup:

thesheriff443
09-03-2013, 08:59 PM
look we all make mistakes, its a bb forum, so there is no need for people to jump on the moral band wagon.

Vanessa
09-03-2013, 09:01 PM
look we all make mistakes, its a bb forum, so there is no need for people to jump on the moral band wagon.

I know, right? Lots of people hide their true identities in here.

Jesus.
09-03-2013, 09:02 PM
Yeah i don't want the other person getting any heat for this, they were not at fault at all.

Did you lead this other person on sexually or relationship wise?

Scarlett.
09-03-2013, 09:02 PM
Yes, it is! :amazed::lovedup:

Just finished watching my Buffy rewatch the other week, Spike is awesome :joker:

Kizzy
09-03-2013, 09:03 PM
So she is 15 not 16 whats the big deal.. unless someone has made some rather inappropriate comments.....

thesheriff443
09-03-2013, 09:03 PM
Did you lead this other person on sexually or relationship wise?

thats none of your busness jesus

Vanessa
09-03-2013, 09:03 PM
Just finished watching my Buffy rewatch the other week, Spike is awesome :joker:

I love him, he always makes me laugh! :laugh:

Amy Jade
09-03-2013, 09:04 PM
Did you lead this other person on sexually or relationship wise?
No, not that I am aware of.

Jesus.
09-03-2013, 09:06 PM
thats none of your busness jesus

Well before everyone rushes to this persons defence, there is another party involved that is currently being dismissed by most of the posters in this thread. If that person has been led, shared information, pics or anything like that with, then it's a huge violation, and becomes more than a basic take 2 years off someones age.

I'm not having a go at her, but there is someone else involved who has been made a fool of.

Jesus.
09-03-2013, 09:08 PM
No, not that I am aware of.

Thank you for answering. So was it just friendly chat then?

thesheriff443
09-03-2013, 09:09 PM
Well before everyone rushes to this persons defence, there is another party involved that is currently being dismissed by most of the posters in this thread. If that person has been led, shared information, pics or anything like that with, then it's a huge violation, and becomes more than a basic take 2 years off someones age.

I'm not having a go at her, but there is someone else involved who has been made a fool of.

true ,but she dont have to explain details to you!

Amy Jade
09-03-2013, 09:10 PM
Thank you for answering. So was it just friendly chat then?
Yes, I just wanted to make friends nothing more.

Ninastar
09-03-2013, 09:11 PM
I knew you had a penis

You were right and mine is definitely bigger

Vanessa
09-03-2013, 09:14 PM
Yes, I just wanted to make friends nothing more.

Don't worry, this person will understand in time. If not, they were never your friend to begin with. :)

Jesus.
09-03-2013, 09:15 PM
Maybe close this thread and talk to that other person before anything goes further. Everyone that wants can support her in pm or on her wall.

Amy Jade
09-03-2013, 09:17 PM
Yes, Vanessa., I think you are right. I am happy with the friends who have stood by me, though. :hug:

Jesus, we both decided it best to crease contact.

Jesus.
09-03-2013, 09:20 PM
Yes, Vanessa., I think you are right. I am happy with the friends who have stood by me, though. :hug:

Jesus, we both decided it best to crease contact.

I think maybe the mods need to find out who that other person is unless you're leaving, because as of now someone is leaving the forum through no fault of their own, and that's not fair.

Maybe the mods can find a way for you both to stay.

InOne
09-03-2013, 09:21 PM
I never really talked to you anyway so it doesn't affect me in the slightest.

Amy Jade
09-03-2013, 09:23 PM
I think maybe the mods need to find out who that other person is unless you're leaving, because as of now, someone is leaving the forum through no fault of their own, and that's not fair.

Maybe the mods can find a way for you both to stay.
I will leave after Glasshouse, I don't want to let Jenna down. The person won't stop posting here, just where I post.

I will leave before if it's a problem, It's all my fault so I don't want anyone feeling uncomfortable.

Glenn.
09-03-2013, 09:24 PM
Surely something can be sorted Amy. Seems silly leaving over this.

thesheriff443
09-03-2013, 09:25 PM
I think maybe the mods need to find out who that other person is unless you're leaving, because as of now someone is leaving the forum through no fault of their own, and that's not fair.

Maybe the mods can find a way for you both to stay.

its got nothing to do with the mods

Redway
09-03-2013, 09:25 PM
your a mod now!

I'll make a suggestion to Jesus to ban you in that case. :amazed:

But yeah, Amy. There's a lot worse than a fake name and what's 2 years? You're fine.

InOne
09-03-2013, 09:26 PM
Whoever this person is should email Nev from Catfish, he will get to the bottom of this.

Jack_
09-03-2013, 09:26 PM
You should both just put each other on ignore, that should work.

your a mod now!

Is there any need to start getting sarcy as per? He's only trying to help.

Brother Leon
09-03-2013, 09:31 PM
Whoever this person is should email Nev from Catfish, he will get to the bottom of this.

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Me. I Am Salman
09-03-2013, 09:33 PM
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MrWong
09-03-2013, 09:34 PM
Hi SH :wavey:

I couldn't give a ****.

You're still one of my favourite posters.

.... and you can't leave because the new BB starts in a few months :amazed:

Drew.
09-03-2013, 09:49 PM
right.. no i'm sorry.. despite fully respecting everything you've said to me even though iv completely exposed you for who you really are.. no way am i going to continue sitting here watching you milking this all up and getting the sympathy vote. You've completely lied about everything throughout the time iv known you and you've stolen the identity of a poor girl i found on twitter last night. You've gone from using her twitter for pictures to using her facebook for pictures and her details.. to even telling me details about where she works, the names of her friends, sending me pictures of this girl and also ones with her friends in.. you didnt even think of using false details, you've quite literally stolen this girls identity and used every piece of detail you know about her on me except from where she lives.. and you've probably fooled many others along the way. You've been pleading with me not to let this girl know shes had someone else pretending to be her i fully respected your needs and how you wanted to go about this, whether it was confessing on here or just leaving tibb for good without saying anything.. Despite me telling you i wanted to know who you really were and yes if you'd told me you were a 30 year old bloke id have gone and told this girl.. you still found time to bad mouth me to a certain someone and make me out to be the bad guy in all of this and accusing me of threatening you. You were fully exposed last night and you had no choice but to admit it and come clean.. once you said you were 15 i wont lie i was ****ing relieved i had caught you and this hadn't gone any further.. iv been speaking to someone about you and it seems im not the first to assume you weren't who you said you were and quite frankly i had the opportunity to expose you like this last night for who you really are but no, i stuck with your wishes and let you do this in your own time.. you dont add up at all, this isnt the behavior of a 15 year old, yes there are intelligent 15 year olds out there but you are insanely clever at what you do, you've spoken about gay websites or something along them lines on here, you've spoken about things most people my age have never heard of.. i for one to not believe one word you've said, i fully believe you could well be a guy and i feel sorry for anyone else who's been close to you and thats finding this out.. the thought of me keeping quiet about this and you potentially going on to get close to other members on here in the future is too much to risk... you've quite literally messed with my emotions and my head, iv been genuine on this forum and accepted every single one of you for who you say you are.. yes iv assumed things about you but never once led myself to believe they were false until last night, you've thrown it all in my face and you've got me over thinking about what if half the people i talk to on here arent who they say they are.. theres two damn ****ing sides to every story and i genuinely hope i never have to speak to you again.. whether people think im coming across harsh, your entitled to think that.. but stupidhoe, whatever your name is.. you dont add up, your a mind ****, and you deserve to be exposed for who you really are. I have plenty of people that know all the true facts and have seen them, i wont bring any names into this unless they need to be named..

as for me not wanting to be on here whilst your on... you've been mentioning your suicidal to me, which iv been worrying about that for the past 24 hours.. how did you honestly expect me to stay on here for the next few weeks whilst we were in glasshouse together? lets be ****ing real.. im not going to sit around watching you stringing along these people and the thought of acidently somehow letting slip you arent who you say you are and you going all suicidal was for your own good! watching you baiting all this up enjoying the attention of people bad mouthing me for not being a good person has got too much.. i honestly dont believe your suicidal now, i dont believe your 15, or a female, or called Amy.. people like you should be left playing the ****ing sims so you can pretend to be a different gender all you want.. not real lives

Jack_
09-03-2013, 09:53 PM
:o :o :o

InOne
09-03-2013, 09:53 PM
Ooooo, it just got interesting. So 'Amy' is a professional Catfish. God knows how many other sites she's on leading poor people like our Drew astray :o

Black Dagger
09-03-2013, 09:54 PM
I WAS NOT EXPECTING THIS.

-grabs a brew and reads the whole paragraph-

Black Dagger
09-03-2013, 09:56 PM
Oooh this is juicy. -keeps reading-

Brother Leon
09-03-2013, 09:56 PM
Ether.

Black Dagger
09-03-2013, 09:56 PM
MrTz5xjmso4

Sean will fix this.

Smithy
09-03-2013, 09:57 PM
ooOH GORL ONE DRAMA ENDS AND ANOTHER BEGINS

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Me. I Am Salman
09-03-2013, 09:59 PM
Is that why his user title is Catfish omg :laugh3: