If a straight male...

[Conzors]

...who is totally into girls, finds them sexually attractive and what not, and classes himself a straight, but likes the feeling of a sexual act that's considered a gay act (anal sex), does that make him gay?

Personally, I don't think so. As he is straight, he is into females. But he just likes the feeling of, say a dildo or a finger up his anus, and it turns him on if a woman does it. He probably wouldn't get turned on if a man stuck his penis up there as it's a man, and he is into women.

I know straight males who like women etc, but likes the feeling of something up there - but would NEVER do anything with a man.

Opinions please,
I'm interested.

[Ninastar]

no cause he would want a girl to do it to him, surely?

sex is sex

the only way it changes your sexuality is when it's with someone of the opposite/same whatever gender

[Conzors]

Exactly Ninastar.

People at work just weren't getting it haha.

[Smithy]

sex is sex, it's nothing to do with sexuality :shrug:

[Jords]

I remember my gay mate telling me that my other mate liked sticking a finger up his arse whilst he wanked and thought he might be gay :|

Hes not though, wonder what he gets his gf to do... LOL

[Me. I Am Salman]

don't some women use strap-ons with men?

[smeagol]

if you want a guy to enter yr back door your pretty much gay or in denial i would say

i got no entry tattooed on my ass lol. whats with girls who want to go there. noooo ty

[Mystic Mock]

Although it's personally not my kind of thing on what I've heard about it, I wouldn't call someone gay just because they like it up there, as we all have different tastes.

[Conzors]

if you want a guy to enter yr back door your pretty much gay or in denial i would say

i got no entry tattooed on my ass lol. whats with girls who want to go there. noooo ty

Yes, if you want a GUY to do it its gay, but if its a woman... no.

[smeagol]

Yes, if you want a GUY to do it its gay, but if its a woman... no.


nah
if a guy wants to be rammed by agirl from behind would it really matter if it was guy doin it. i doubt it. the feeling surely would be the same ( i dont know)

thats bordeline.

[Conzors]

nah
if a guy wants to be rammed by agirl from behind would it really matter if it was guy doin it. i doubt it. the feeling surely would be the same ( i dont know)

thats bordeline.

then surely, if a man was to give to you oral sex, and then a woman was to give you oral sex - you wouldnt know the difference?

lol.

[Firewire]

Doesn't make him gay at all. It would only make him gay if he was sexually attracted to the male species, which he is not.

[smeagol]

then surely, if a man was to give to you oral sex, and then a woman was to give you oral sex - you wouldnt know the difference?

lol.

id hopefully know by the facial hair lol but i do go out with trolls and orcs :)

[Vicky.]

No.

Mind I have to admit I would probably get a bit worried if a boyfriend constantly wanted to do me up the ass or something.

[GypsyGoth]

No.

Mind I have to admit I would probably get a bit worried if a boyfriend constantly wanted to do me up the ass or something.

:laugh2:

[Conzors]

lool

[Marsh.]

No.

Mind I have to admit I would probably get a bit worried if a boyfriend constantly wanted to do me up the ass or something.

Do you like it up the ass?

[Patrick]

no cause he would want a girl to do it to him, surely?

sex is sex

the only way it changes your sexuality is when it's with someone of the opposite/same whatever gender

Not really - the only way it changes your sexuality is when you have emotional AND sexual feelings for another man or whatever.

If your point was correct, most British teenagers would be classed as gay as alot of people experiment and sh*t. Personally, I never have and the thought of it makes me sick. But I know alot of friends who have kissed other guys, and aren't gay.

[Ramsay]

load of my friends think im a big ragin' gay cus i said i wish was bi the other day
ha that rhymed

[Ramsay]

in regard to the OP, no that doesnt make him gay

[Marsh.]

Not really - the only way it changes your sexuality is when you have emotional AND sexual feelings for another man or whatever.

If your point was correct, most British teenagers would be classed as gay as alot of people experiment and sh*t. Personally, I never have and the thought of it makes me sick. But I know alot of friends who have kissed other guys, and aren't gay.

It doesn't have to include emotions at all.

Your sexuality is exactly that, your sexual preference. Emotions and love comes later.

If you fancy a member of your own gender then you're gay.

That doesn't mean you're gay if you experiment, as you say many people do. That's just being curious, but if you have sexual urges towards one gender then that determines your sexuality.

[Iceman]

load of my friends think im a big ragin' gay cus i said i wish was bi the other day
ha that rhymed

A,A, B, Let's C, im a ****ing poet, dont ****ing know it!!!!

[Vicky.]

Do you like it up the ass?

I doubt it, have never tried. The thought of it just doesnt appeal at all.

Only one of my boyfriends ever actually wanted to try and I told him to **** right off.

[Ninastar]

By this logic, surely lesbians who use strap ons on each other are 'straight'

Cause they totally want the D of course

[Ninastar]

Not really - the only way it changes your sexuality is when you have emotional AND sexual feelings for another man or whatever.

If your point was correct, most British teenagers would be classed as gay as alot of people experiment and sh*t. Personally, I never have and the thought of it makes me sick. But I know alot of friends who have kissed other guys, and aren't gay.

Obviously I didn't include bi-curious, in denials etc etc etc

Oh and porn stars that do gay for pay or w.e it's called

But yeah, I still stand by my general idea, you have sex with someone you aren't usually attracted to and enjoy it and would do it again, it changes things

[Niall]

Not at all? Just because a man (or a woman for that matter) likes a certain sexual act that's associated with a certain sexual orientation doesn't automatically make them someone of that sexuality.

[Me. I Am Salman]

I've always found people who experiment weird. You don't need to have sex to know what you're sexuality is

[nicole_burks]

A,A, B, Let's C, im a ****ing poet, dont ****ing know it!!!!

Terrible language....

[Marc]

One guy at uni was -ya know- and the girl started to stick her finger up his ass, he quickly stopped her :laugh:

[Conzors]

whats -ya know-? lol x

[Marsh.]

Take a wild guess. :rolleyes:

[Me. I Am Salman]

it actually is unclear..

[Mystic Mock]

One guy at uni was -ya know- and the girl started to stick her finger up his ass, he quickly stopped her :laugh:

I'm not surprised.:joker: