Are you sensitive to insults (irl)

[Apple202]

WELL

[Marsh.]

On here or in life?

[Jesus.]

Only from people I care about.

[Apple202]

i am irl but not online i'd say

[Apple202]

On here or in life?

In real life

[Jake.]

Depends on what context I'm insulted, if that makes sense

[Benjamin]

I am from those I like/respect.

[Vicky.]

Neither in real life nor on here. If people have a problem with me then its their problem tbh. I dont care at all :laugh:

[Kizzy]

Yes, I don't take any nonsense!

[MTVN]

Yes, probably too much so, means I try not to do anything which could lead to me being insulted

[Apple202]

I think I'm more sensitive from people I don't know then those who I do

and I do what Matt just said too (hence why i dont do sports)

[Marcus.]

yes i am:sad:

[Drew.]

Yes, probably too much so, means I try not to do anything which could lead to me being insulted

am pretty much the same

[Vanessa]

I used to be, but now i just don't care. :hugesmile:

[Marsh.]

In that case, not really.

It depends on what was said, if it's very personal or about a family member and from someone I know then I might.

But if it's a random stranger or idiot on the street then no.

[Kazanne]

Only by people I really care about ,otherwise meh.

[Black Dagger]

Nah, little ****ers can call me what they like, I am prone to ignoring what morons think of me, I know I'm fabulous.

[Jake.]

Yes, probably too much so, means I try not to do anything which could lead to me being insulted

Yeah, kinda like this

[Lee.]

I'm so nice on real life, I never get insulted :idc:

But no, I don't give a **** what people think of me

[Ryan57]

No. It goes in one ear and out the other.

[Cherie]

No not really bothered.

[joeysteele]

I can be, I am a rather sensitive individual but getting stronger at dealing with it.

On here or in real life,I generally can ignore insults that are meaningless but insults against myself or my family then I can at times take offence at that,depending on their content and respond.
I really don't see the need for insults anyway and even more so to insult people you have never seen and don't really know personally.

[Omah]

Not bovvered ..... :bored:

[Livia]

No, I'm not bothered. I usually take a good, long sweeping look at the person who's doing the insulting and ask myself, who would I rather be, them or me? And it's never them.

[Apple202]

oh my god that's such a good idea

[Z]

Yeah, I'm really pessimistic, half the time I think someone doesn't like me when actually they're not all that bothered by me either way, I take indifference to mean they dislike me and when I actually am insulted by someone it really gets to me.

[Livia]

Yeah, I'm really pessimistic, half the time I think someone doesn't like me when actually they're not all that bothered by me either way, I take indifference to mean they dislike me and when I actually am insulted by someone it really gets to me.

They're probably just envious of your fabulousness, Zee. Phuq 'em.

[Shaun]

I seldom get them really, and it depends... if I'm on a night out and someone calls me fat or whatever I just call them a name back and move on from it, but if I'm sober and - for example, like the other day, suggests I'm a bad friend - I'll be pissed off.

[Z]

They're probably just envious of your fabulousness, Zee. Phuq 'em.

I like to think so. :dazzler:

[LemonJam]

I'm sensitive to what I presume people are thinking about me. It's quite a talent.

[Z]

I'm sensitive to what I presume people are thinking about me. It's quite a talent.

This is exactly my problem!

[Livia]

I'm sensitive to what I presume people are thinking about me. It's quite a talent.

That's got to work the other way too though. You know, people thinking positive thoughts about you. Do you pick up on that too?

[LemonJam]

That's got to work the other way too though. You know, people thinking positive thoughts about you. Do you pick up on that too?

hmm... I never thought of it that way. :bigsmile:

[Jake.]

I'm sensitive to what I presume people are thinking about me. It's quite a talent.

This exactly!

[Brother Leon]

I tend to laugh it off.

[Saph]

depends who they're from

[joeysteele]

No, I'm not bothered. I usually take a good, long sweeping look at the person who's doing the insulting and ask myself, who would I rather be, them or me? And it's never them.

Excellent point.
You said something on those lines in another thread on this kind of topic, I really liked the strength of that idea, so much so, I have tried to take that on board and do find it works for me too.
It is a very good way both of looking at the issue and dealing with it too.

[King Gizzard]

I don't get insulted in real life

[Ammi]

..I can't recall being insulted in real life..well, not directly to me anyway...I have no idea what people say if I can't hear them...

[swinearefine]

I can't really take criticism from anyone, no matter who it's from. If someone insults me I instantly despise them and want their blood, but I get over it right afterwards and go about my day.

[Ammi]

..at least you get over it quickly and can move on, swinearefine..that's a good thing...

[Glenn.]

I don't get insulted in real life because I'm amazing.

Insults online are just hilarious anyway so they don't bother me in the slightest.

[Harry!]

Not really, after being picked on at school I mostly ignore then these days.

[Kazanne]

Not really, after being picked on at school I mostly ignore then these days.

Aw Harry , you are far better than those that pick on you , good for you ignoring them.