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Benjamin
03-06-2013, 02:15 PM
Remember a few weeks back I said Facebook had culled my friends from 900 and something to 62, well the pain staking process of adding them back continues but I just realised that my friend Joey who ended his life last year is not in my friends and I can never add him back. I'm absolutely gutted. :(

Z
03-06-2013, 02:16 PM
Ohhh Ben :( I'm sorry to hear that, that's really upsetting! Probably a stupid question, but have you tried getting in touch with Facebook to see if they can restore anything?

Benjamin
03-06-2013, 02:16 PM
Yes, but they don't reply to individual requests. :(

Kizzy
03-06-2013, 02:18 PM
That is heartbreaking ben, so sorry to hear that :hug:

HD
03-06-2013, 02:36 PM
Wait... Facebook removed YOUR friends?

GiRTh
03-06-2013, 02:38 PM
That's terrible. Did FB explain why this had happened?

Benjamin
03-06-2013, 02:41 PM
No, I just logged on last month and it had wiped most of my friends, all my basic info and a few other bits. No idea why. I thought maybe I'd been hacked but my activity log showed nothing? Luckily all my photos were left in place.

Lee.
03-06-2013, 02:43 PM
That's awful Ben.. :hug:

I'd be devastated too

jackc1806
03-06-2013, 02:43 PM
That's terrible! Hope you're okay :)

Jake.
03-06-2013, 02:52 PM
Ah, really sorry to hear that Ben :( :hug:

Vicky.
03-06-2013, 02:54 PM
Ah I would be so upset if this happened. I have 2 people who died on my friends list.

Cherie
03-06-2013, 03:02 PM
They should have to explain why they did that? what do you mean they don't answer individual queries, there must be someone you can approach, I can't believe it is completely faceless???

Jords
03-06-2013, 03:04 PM
If you visit their page when you search their name itll always be one of the first to show. Depending on privacy settings is how much youll be able to view back now but at least thats something, Id be sad too.

Benjamin
24-09-2013, 12:34 AM
So turns out my ex deleted everyone. :mad:

Kizzy
24-09-2013, 12:37 AM
How did you find that out?
Didn't know you were seeing anyone #darkhorse.
He sounds like a dick btw :idc:

Benjamin
24-09-2013, 12:40 AM
How did you find that out?
Didn't know you were seeing anyone #darkhorse.
He sounds like a dick btw :idc:

I was a few months back. He gloated about it earlier to me via a message and I checked through my activity log and saw an option that said 'only me' (never noticed that before) so I clicked it and low and behold scrolling down the page is the activity for me removing all of my friends. I must have left my FB open on something of his before we broke up.

Kizzy
24-09-2013, 12:55 AM
Let's plot some payback?... :devil:

Benjamin
24-09-2013, 12:57 AM
I really can't be arsed with him or payback. I just want to get on with my life and leave him in the past.

Kizzy
24-09-2013, 01:01 AM
That's prob for the best, it was a ****ty thing to do ben, you deserve someone lovely :hug:

Kate!
24-09-2013, 01:04 AM
Aww Ben. :hug:

Karma will bite him hard on the arse one day. I'm a firm believer that people reap what they sow. There are some vile people in this world.

Marc
24-09-2013, 07:44 AM
Aw I didn't see this. Your ex is a twat for the OP reason alone

mizzy25
24-09-2013, 07:57 AM
I was going through my phone and deleting numbers the other day and it is awful when u have to delete a loved ones as they are no longer with you.

Jake.
24-09-2013, 08:24 AM
Ah what a complete **** of a human being!

Suze
24-09-2013, 12:11 PM
Is there absolutely no-one at all that can be contacted on facebook that you can explain the situation to and at least get those messages if no others restored? Or have any of your other friends got messages from your now deceased friend that can be forwarded to your FB account?

Ramsay
24-09-2013, 03:38 PM
Absolute wee prick to delete your friend that passed away..utter scumbag

Kazanne
24-09-2013, 04:45 PM
Ah,Ben,sorry to hear that,I know it's not much consolation,but you have your memories of your friend and hopefully the dick that did that to you gets a good bout of karma,It's a horrible thing to happen though:hug: