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Ammi
16-06-2013, 04:00 AM
Her eyes are transfixed as she struggles to prise away the powerful hand squeezing around her throat.

Glamorous TV cook Nigella Lawson looks stunned to be *attacked by her art collector husband Charles Saatchi during a vicious row at their *favourite London restaurant.

Fellow diners and passers-by at Scott’s in Mayfair were shocked to see the *advertising *multimillionaire reduce his celebrity wife to tears.

Saatchi launched a tirade of angry words. Four times he grasped her around the neck with Nigella, 53, looking powerless and petrified.

At first he used only his left hand, then both. At one stage he tweaked her nose then pushed both hands in her face. Twice Nigella jerked her head backwards as if in fear.

Several times she nodded *intently while the conversation became more and more heated.

By the end of the meal she was clearly distraught and in tears.

Now there are fears of severe problems in their 10-year marriage – his third and her second.

Nigella has been abroad *frequently promoting her latest book and TV series while Saatchi, 70, has become *ever more reclusive and tetchy

The bust-up came after the *couple had just finished eating at the *specialist seafood restaurant, a *popular haunt for *celebrities *including Pippa Middleton, Jeremy Clarkson and Simon Cowell.

Nigella and Saatchi always ask for the same table, which is outside *because he likes to smoke.

It is partly sheltered by olive trees and box bushes. But the attack could be clearly seen and heard by other customers and those passing by the restaurant in the busy street.

Nobody intervened although the incident looked brutal.

A couple on the adjacent table, who briefly chatted with Nigella earlier, turned round and gasped in alarm as they saw her in distress.

She dabbed her eyes on a linen napkin as Saatchi tapped his *cigarettes impatiently on the table.

Nigella then downed her glass of red wine in one gulp and began to talk, her voice trembling.

She seemed to be trying to pacify her husband, placing a hand on his left wrist as it lay on the table.

At that moment she leaned over and kissed his right cheek.

“It was utterly shocking to watch,” said one onlooker. “I have no doubt she was scared. It was horrific, *really. She was very tearful and was *constantly dabbing her eyes.

“Nigella was very, very upset. She had a real look of fear on her face. No man should do that to a woman. She raised her voice and got angry but at the same time was trying to calm him down, almost like you would try to calm down a child.

"The kiss was a strange thing. He was being *intimidating, *threatening.

“And yet she kissed him. She *appeared to be a woman who loves him but was clearly unable to stop him being abusive, *frightening and *disrespectful to her.”

Saatchi, 6ft and 17 stone, marched off, leaving his wife sobbing at the table and *grasping her mobile phone as he got into a car the couple had waiting.

The onlooker said: “He looked guilty. It was clear he knew he’d done something wrong. He was menacing, there’s no *question. She had been abused and *humiliated in public.”

As Nigella walked to the car she put a hand to her mouth and bit her lip while wiping away tears.

The *pair returned to the *£12million converted warehouse in Chelsea, central London, where they live with his daughter Phoebe, 19, and her children Cosima, also 19, and Bruno, 17 – all from *previous marriages.

Earlier Nigella *tweeted a *picture of her *breakfast – scrambled egg and smoked salmon – without a hint of any trouble at home.

The couple, due to celebrate their 10th *anniversary in September, went out for lunch last Sunday with Saatchi in his trademark black suit and crisp white shirt.

Nigella wore a black jacket with matching tight leggings and a top with red dots. Earlier this year her *voluptuous look and sensuous style made her a hit in Hollywood – as a judge on foodie talent show Taste.

Saatchi, who describes himself as a control freak and at times “cringingly vain” has also said his wife’s cookery is wasted on him and he *prefers *nursery food such as eggs and beans on toast.

Nigella once said of him: “Charles doesn’t really like proper food. He prefers a bowl of cereal.”

One acquaintance who had a *conversation with Nigella recently said: “For Saatchi, Nigella has eclipsed him and he’s grumpier.

“His ultimate act of rebellion has been to reject her food. I have a *feeling that drinking and smoking come into this as well. Her first *husband John Diamond died of throat cancer in 2001. Yet Saatchi smokes.

“She’d never say anything about it though. She wouldn’t like to do *anything to upset him.

“Nigella is in awe of him and *surprisingly lacking in confidence herself. She has been thrilled by the *reaction she has been getting in America after appearing on TV.

“And with the popularity in Britain it’s boosted her self-esteem.”

A spokesman for Scott’s said last night: “We do not comment on the private matters of customers.”

Neither Nigella nor Saatchi *responded to requests for a comment when *asked by the Sunday People


http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/nigella-lawson-attacked-husband-see-1955564#.Ubz-SRlNJUY.facebook



..I've put a link to the pictures which are quite upsetting, she looks terrified...if it's true then it kind of blows away any assumptions that it's weaker more vulnerable females who are abused...we just don't know what goes on in people's private lives...

Shaun
16-06-2013, 04:04 AM
:o what a pig. In public, too... wow.

arista
16-06-2013, 07:49 AM
http://i2.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article1955468.ece/ALTERNATES/s148/PEOPLE-ONLY-Nigella-Lawson-and-Charles-Saatchi-1955468.jpg


She can leave him
and the Massive home

thesheriff443
16-06-2013, 08:09 AM
clearly if this happens outside what goes on in private!

Omah
16-06-2013, 08:18 AM
Poor Nigella looks unkempt in those shocking pictures - no make-up and greasy hair - did the couple argue before they had even set off for lunch ?

:eek:

arista
16-06-2013, 08:23 AM
clearly if this happens outside what goes on in private!

2 bedrooms

Jake.
16-06-2013, 08:39 AM
That's awful!

thesheriff443
16-06-2013, 08:41 AM
2 bedrooms

I don't think its that civil indoors i'm afraid.

joeysteele
16-06-2013, 09:34 AM
clearly if this happens outside what goes on in private!

My thoughts too, if he is that unbalanced and cannot control himself he needs help and fast. If he won't get it she should sling him out.
I find this story worrying,I like Nigella and there is no need whatsoever for anyone to have to at any time put up with humiliation and brutality like this.

She is the one who will have to act though from the sounds of it.

Me. I Am Salman
16-06-2013, 09:38 AM
This is really weird and shocking :/

Kizzy
16-06-2013, 09:45 AM
My initial guess is she's had an affair and that was his reaction, not condoning his behaviour though.
The violence and the placating and the drama and the tears are an eerily familiar scenario for me :blush:

arista
16-06-2013, 09:53 AM
My initial guess is she's had an affair and that was his reaction, not condoning his behaviour though.
The violence and the placating and the drama and the tears are an eerily familiar scenario for me :blush:


She would be better off with the younger man

Marc
16-06-2013, 09:55 AM
:o poor Nigella!

YOU LEAVE OUR NIGELLA ALONE

Omah
16-06-2013, 10:00 AM
She would be better off with the younger man

Well, I DID make her an offer, but apparently £50k pa is not enough to keep her in the style to which she has become accustomed, so she went for the bank of Saatchi, worth £100m ..... :shrug:

Kizzy
16-06-2013, 10:02 AM
She's not exactly skint herself?......

Cherie
16-06-2013, 10:05 AM
She's not exactly skint herself?......

No. So why would she put up with that kind of humiliation. Beggars belief. I'd have kicked him in the goolies after I'd smashed my wine glass over his head.

Omah
16-06-2013, 10:06 AM
Nigella Lawson is Mr Saatchi's third marriage - his second wife Kay Saatchi was granted a divorce on the grounds of his unreasonable behaviour and Miss Lawson was named as the ' other woman'.

Miss Lawson revealed that she was physically abused by her mother when she was a child earlier this year.

A violent and depressive woman, Vanessa Salmon – who was married to Conservative politician Nigel Lawson, the former Chancellor – would lash out when her children made too much noise, Miss Lawson said.

Miss Lawson, who was one of four children, told FT Weekend: ‘I never thought I could please her.

‘She was funny but depressed and so sensitive to noise. The sound of a plastic bag being crinkled would send her deranged. She’d shout at all of us and say, “I’m going to hit you till you cry”, and so I never would cry. I still don’t.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2342414/Shocking-pictures-Nigella-Lawson-choked-husband-Charles-Saatchi-restaurant-spark-outrage.html#ixzz2WN8knyKJ

arista
16-06-2013, 10:15 AM
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2012/12/10/article-2245916-1670696C000005DC-226_634x581.jpg

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/16/article-2342414-009BFFE91000044C-25_634x404.jpg

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/16/article-2342414-009BFFE11000044C-8_634x444.jpg

GiRTh
16-06-2013, 10:37 AM
Nasty piece of work.

Kizzy
16-06-2013, 10:46 AM
''Nigella then downed her glass of red wine in one gulp and began to talk, her voice trembling.''
Nigella is drinking white wine?
#missmarple

Omah
16-06-2013, 11:16 AM
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/crime/10123316/Nigella-Lawson-attacked-by-husband-at-restaurant.html

Nigella has previously admitted that she and Saatchi have fiery rows and has described her husband as "an exploder".

She said in 2007: "I'll go quiet when he explodes, and then I am a nest of horrible festeringness."

Just like she was with her mother, seemingly ..... :sad:

arista
16-06-2013, 01:23 PM
"The couple were sitting outside Scott’s in Mayfair,
central London, when he appeared to lean
over and grab her by the throat.
Lawson, 53, looked terrified before leaving
the restaurant alone in floods of tears.
A witness told the
People: “It was utterly shocking to watch. "



I bet its Money trouble

Omah
16-06-2013, 10:43 PM
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2342414/Nigella-Lawson-leaves-marital-home-suitcase-hours-pictures-emerge-TV-chef-choked-husband-Charles-Saatchi.html#ixzz2WQCqnxrU

Nigella Lawson has left her marital home with a suitcase just hours after shocking pictures emerged of the TV chef apparently being choked by her husband millionaire Charles Saatchi during a row in a restaurant.

The 53-year-old mother of two looked anxious as she dashed into a waiting taxi with her teenager son - Mr Saatchi had left the multi-million pound London home 90 minutes before.

She should get a good divorce lawyer first thing tomorrow ..... :pipe:

Saph
16-06-2013, 10:45 PM
Poor Nigella :( I hope she gets away from him

I went to the Saatchi gallery with college last year and it was really boring

Jords
16-06-2013, 10:47 PM
oh wow :/

Marriage over.

Nedusa
16-06-2013, 10:49 PM
Perhaps the way to a man's heart is not through his stomach after all...!!!

GypsyGoth
16-06-2013, 11:03 PM
That's really sad.

I hope she gets away from him.

Omah
16-06-2013, 11:35 PM
Perhaps the way to a man's heart is not through his stomach after all...!!!

Saatchi has said his wife’s cookery is wasted on him and he prefers 'nursery food' such as eggs and beans on toast.

Nigella once said of him: “Charles doesn’t really like proper food. He prefers a bowl of cereal.”

One acquaintance who had a conversation with Nigella recently said: “His ultimate act of rebellion has been to reject her food. She’d never say anything about it though. She wouldn’t like to do anything to upset him.”

He sounds like a complete to$$er to me ..... :hmph:

Nedusa
16-06-2013, 11:40 PM
I don't get it, she is passionate about food and he doesn't give a fig about food preferring beans on toast to any of the wonderful dishes Nigella excels in making.

Why would she want to be with such a person...!!!

arista
17-06-2013, 08:37 AM
http://media.skynews.com/media/images/generated/2013/6/17/243312/default/v1/mirror-1-329x437.jpg

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/17/article-0-1A587D19000005DC-532_634x572.jpg

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/17/article-2342922-1A587D05000005DC-690_634x528.jpg

Kazanne
17-06-2013, 08:48 AM
Awful pictures,the woman looks terrified

Kizzy
17-06-2013, 08:52 AM
Wouldn't you think she would react though, her hands look really relaxed why is she not even trying to defend herself?

arista
17-06-2013, 09:01 AM
Kizzy
he got hold of her throat
she moves he hurts more.

She is reported to have left home with a case
thats good.

Police?

What is it to do with them

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Omah
17-06-2013, 09:06 AM
Wouldn't you think she would react though, her hands look really relaxed why is she not even trying to defend herself?

Because she learned to be passive when her mother abused her and her brother ..... Nigella was an unhappy child who went to five schools, and became so withdrawn her mother thought she was autistic.

:idc:

Livia
17-06-2013, 09:48 AM
Probably 10% of that article is what really happened.

Marc
17-06-2013, 09:52 AM
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2012/12/10/article-2245916-1670696C000005DC-226_634x581.jpg

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/16/article-2342414-009BFFE91000044C-25_634x404.jpg

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/16/article-2342414-009BFFE11000044C-8_634x444.jpg

http://media.skynews.com/media/images/generated/2013/6/17/243312/default/v1/mirror-1-329x437.jpg

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/17/article-0-1A587D19000005DC-532_634x572.jpg

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/17/article-2342922-1A587D05000005DC-690_634x528.jpg

:suspect: what a dick

she looks confused in the last pic

lostalex
17-06-2013, 10:01 AM
Perhaps the way to a man's heart is not through his stomach after all...!!!

My favorite Roseanne quote.... "The quickest way to a man's heart is through his chest."

Nedusa
17-06-2013, 10:59 AM
Probably 10% of that article is what really happened.

Who knows perhaps she was complaining of painful swollen glands due to constant eating and he was merely feeling her throat to check.

A picture doesn't always show what you think it shows....!!!!

Omah
17-06-2013, 11:11 AM
Who knows perhaps she was complaining of painful swollen glands due to constant eating and he was merely feeling her throat to check.

A picture doesn't always show what you think it shows....!!!!

OTOH:

The camera never lies.

WYSIWYG.

Where there's smoke, there's fire.

:pipe:

Livia
17-06-2013, 11:18 AM
Who knows perhaps she was complaining of painful swollen glands due to constant eating and he was merely feeling her throat to check.

A picture doesn't always show what you think it shows....!!!!


They say a picture is worth a thousand words. Sometimes though, one of those thousand words is 'bullsh1t'.

lostalex
17-06-2013, 11:19 AM
He's old and ugly. Why is she with him to begin with? She could have any man in the UK, and that's what she chose?

GiRTh
17-06-2013, 11:20 AM
He's old and ugly. Why is she with him to begin with?He's rich.

Livia
17-06-2013, 11:20 AM
OTOH:

The camera never lies.

WYSIWYG.

Where there's smoke, there's fire.

:pipe:

The camera never lies, it just embroiders the truth.

lostalex
17-06-2013, 11:21 AM
He's rich.

So is she, unless he's forced her to give him all her money like a pimp or something. I really hope she's not doing that.

GiRTh
17-06-2013, 11:21 AM
So is she, unless he's forced her to give him all her money like a pimp or something. I really hope she's not doing that.He's much richer than her. Its not even close.

Livia
17-06-2013, 11:23 AM
He's old and ugly. Why is she with him to begin with? She could have any man in the UK, and that's what she chose?

Love - like justice - is blind. Which is fortunate, otherwise only beautiful people would ever fall in love.

Omah
17-06-2013, 11:25 AM
He's much richer than her. Its not even close.

Latest estimates put him at over £100m, her at nearly £20m.

lostalex
17-06-2013, 11:25 AM
Love - like justice - is blind. Which is fortunate, otherwise only beautiful people would ever fall in love.

If love was truly blind most of the world would be lonely and single, cause the vast majority of people are assholes.

If love was truly blind the human race would go extinct within just a few generations.

Omah
17-06-2013, 11:27 AM
The camera never lies, it just embroiders the truth.

There are no facts, only interpretations.
- Friedrich Nietzsche

Livia
17-06-2013, 11:28 AM
If love was truly blind most of the world would be lonely and single, cause the vast majority of people are assholes.

If love was truly blind the human race would go extinct within just a few generations.

I disagree. I prefer to think that most people look further than a pretty face when it comes to falling in love. Most people aren't that superficial. Sometimes a pretty face is all you get, and I'm afraid that's not enough for me.

lostalex
17-06-2013, 11:29 AM
I disagree. I prefer to think that most people look further than a pretty face when it comes to falling in love. Most people aren't that superficial. Sometimes a pretty face is all you get, and I'm afraid that's not enough for me.

I think the truer statement is that love is BLINDING, not blind.

People are blinded by love and see what they want to see, and go for people that satisfy unconscious psychological needs.

Like laying on your back and seeing a cloud, you see whatever you want to see, it takes whatever shape you want it too, and before you know it, the cloud has passed and you are just staring into the sun. blinded.

Livia
17-06-2013, 11:41 AM
I think the truer statement is that love is BLINDING, not blind.

People are blinded by love and see what they want to see, and go for people that satisfy unconscious psychological needs.

Like laying on your back and seeing a cloud, you see whatever you want to see, it takes whatever shape you want it too, and before you know it, the cloud has passed and you are just staring into the sun. blinded.

I can honestly say that this hasn't been my experience of love.

Anyway, whatever I think of Nigella, she's a grown up. If she has a problem with her husband I don't think she needs the tabloids acting as judge and jury.

Nedusa
17-06-2013, 11:54 AM
At least this problem is now out in the open and can be addressed, his behaviour by all accounts amounts to assault and he could well find himself in trouble with the police.

Also, any divorce proceedings filed by her on the grounds of physical and mental cruelty will now carry much more weight after his actions were witnessed and photographed. He may not realise it now but that little episode may well cost him millions in a massive divorce settlement....!!!!

lostalex
17-06-2013, 11:55 AM
revved up like a douching and a rumming in the night.

xJh47LybCkU

lostalex
17-06-2013, 11:58 AM
Ziggy from BB8 said that Chanelle from BB8 liked being abused. He said that during sex once, she told him to hit her in the face, and he refused.

Some girls do get off on being abused.

Some girls get off on being smacked around and dominated. Maybe they have already talked about it, and she wanted him to treat her that way. It might be some sort of weird exhibitionism.

Nedusa
17-06-2013, 12:02 PM
What in Public..........???? No I think you're letting your imagination run a bit wild !!!!

lostalex
17-06-2013, 12:08 PM
What in Public..........???? No I think you're letting your imagination run a bit wild !!!!

I had an ex-boyfriend that wanted to suck my dick in public. It's not that strange. people have weird fetishes.

Nedusa
17-06-2013, 12:16 PM
I had an ex-boyfriend that wanted to suck my dick in public. It's not that strange. people have weird fetishes.

No offence Alex..... but you're not a public figure watched by Millions of people on TV an Heiress in your own right married to the Head of the Saatchi dynasty also an establishment figure worth even more than his wife....!!!!!!

lostalex
17-06-2013, 12:41 PM
No offence Alex..... but you're not a public figure watched by Millions of people on TV an Heiress in your own right married to the Head of the Saatchi dynasty also an establishment figure worth even more than his wife....!!!!!!

yes exactly, she's a public figure, and that didn't happen by accident, she's a public figure because she WANT'S to be in the public eye. It's not a stretch to think she might have exhibitionist tendencies.

Livia
17-06-2013, 01:10 PM
At least this problem is now out in the open and can be addressed, his behaviour by all accounts amounts to assault and he could well find himself in trouble with the police.

Also, any divorce proceedings filed by her on the grounds of physical and mental cruelty will now carry much more weight after his actions were witnessed and photographed. He may not realise it now but that little episode may well cost him millions in a massive divorce settlement....!!!!

Any divorce proceedings that were filed (assuming it gets that far on the strength of a story in the tabloids), his lawyers I assume would insist these photos were inadmissible. They were taken covertly without the permission of either party and what is going on is a matter for conjecture.

I would imagine his behaviour only amounts to assault if she presses charges. And frankly, you'd have a problem making that stick on the strength of those photos.

Nedusa
17-06-2013, 01:16 PM
Any divorce proceedings that were filed (assuming it gets that far on the strength of a story in the tabloids), his lawyers I assume would insist these photos were inadmissible. They were taken covertly without the permission of either party and what is going on is a matter for conjecture.

I would imagine his behaviour only amounts to assault if she presses charges. And frankly, you'd have a problem making that stick on the strength of those photos.

Maybe legally speaking these events are not evidence but the fact it happened and was witnessed and photographed and splashed onto the front covers of most tabloid newspapers does add some weight to Nigella's divorce petition. It at least strengthens her hand if she sues for divorce on grounds of physical/Mental abuse.

lostalex
17-06-2013, 01:19 PM
Maybe legally speaking these events are not evidence but the fact it happened and was witnessed and photographed and splashed onto the front covers of most tabloid newspapers does add some weight to Nigella's divorce petition. It at least strengthens her hand if she sues for divorce on grounds of physical/Mental abuse.

From the daily mail article pictures i saw, she at one point is clearly looking at the cameras, also she is eating in a very public place. I think she knows damn well that she is being watched. if she actually was in any kind of distress or danger, why wouldn't she say no or stop him or cry out for help?

This all just feels like a publicity stunt to me.

Nigella Lawson is the new Amanda Bynes.

Omah
17-06-2013, 01:20 PM
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-22935683

Art collector Charles Saatchi says images of him grasping his wife, celebrity chef Nigella Lawson, by the neck show "a playful tiff".

The photos in the Sunday People were taken about a week ago outside a restaurant in Mayfair, central London.

"The pictures are horrific but give a far more drastic and violent impression of what took place," he reportedly told London's Evening Standard.

In Monday's Evening Standard, Mr Saatchi said: "About a week ago, we were sitting outside a restaurant having an intense debate about the children, and I held Nigella's neck repeatedly while attempting to emphasise my point.

"There was no grip, it was a playful tiff.

"Nigella's tears were because we both hate arguing, not because she had been hurt.

"We had made up by the time we were home. The paparazzi were congregated outside our house after the story broke yesterday morning, so I told Nigella to take the kids off till the dust settled."

Totally unbelievable ..... :rolleyes:

What husband holds his wife's neck across a restaurant table to "emphasise a point about the children" ..... :puzzled:

Nedusa
17-06-2013, 01:20 PM
From the daily mail article pictures i saw, she at one point is clearly looking at the cameras, also she is eating in a very public place. I think she knows damn well that she is being watched. if she actually was in any kind of distress or danger, why wouldn't she say no or stop him or cry out for help?

This all just feels like a publicity stunt to me.

Nigella Lawson is the new Amanda Bynes.

Publicity Stunt.........???? for what purpose ???

Livia
17-06-2013, 01:21 PM
Maybe legally speaking these events are not evidence but the fact it happened and was witnessed and photographed and splashed onto the front covers of most tabloid newspapers does add some weight to Nigella's divorce petition. It at least strengthens her hand if she sues for divorce on grounds of physical/Mental abuse.

It really doesn't. It makes her a victim in the media, but it would add nothing at all to a divorce petition. Anyway, she wouldn't need her hand strengthened; it's easy enough to get a divorce. This whole thing is about selling newspapers. Nothing more.

lostalex
17-06-2013, 01:21 PM
Publicity Stunt.........???? for what purpose ???

umm, usually the purpose of a publicity stunt is, umm... PUBLICITY.

pub·lic·i·ty (p-bls-t)
n.
1.
a. Information that concerns a person, group, event, or product and that is disseminated through various media to attract public notice.
b. Public interest, notice, or notoriety achieved by the spreading of such information.
c. The act, process, or occupation of disseminating information to gain public interest.

Omah
17-06-2013, 01:22 PM
From the daily mail article pictures i saw, she at one point is clearly looking at the cameras, also she is eating in a very public place. I think she knows damn well that she is being watched. if she actually was in any kind of distress or danger, why wouldn't she say no or stop him or cry out for help?

This all just feels like a publicity stunt to me.

Nigella Lawson is the new Amanda Bynes.

Who's Amanda Bynes ..... :conf:

lostalex
17-06-2013, 01:22 PM
Who's Amanda Bynes ..... :conf:

She's a former nickelodeon star that thinks everyone is ugly.

Nedusa
17-06-2013, 01:30 PM
It really doesn't. It makes her a victim in the media, but it would add nothing at all to a divorce petition. Anyway, she wouldn't need her hand strengthened; it's easy enough to get a divorce. This whole thing is about selling newspapers. Nothing more.

I suppose the story could have been hyped up by the media, as I've said in one of my earlier posts not every picture tells the correct story.

My point to all of this is if she and her husband are having a difficult time and she is caught in a relationship which is becoming more and more physically abusive, this abuse may be kept hidden only happening in private. But as the relationship deteriorates the abuse will intensify and this may have been one of those times when Mr Saatchi lost control in a public place.

Now it may be she does want to leave him and get divorced but the grounds of that divorce would be hard to prove ie his word against hers. however this public display of aggression could strengthen her hand as part of a wider divorce petition citing physical and mental cruelty as the main reasons for the separation. Any Public knowledge of abusive behaviour by him could allow other witnesses to come forward and ultimately tip the size of any settlement well and truly in her favour...!!!!

Nedusa
17-06-2013, 01:35 PM
umm, usually the purpose of a publicity stunt is, umm... PUBLICITY.

pub·lic·i·ty (p-bls-t)
n.
1.
a. Information that concerns a person, group, event, or product and that is disseminated through various media to attract public notice.
b. Public interest, notice, or notoriety achieved by the spreading of such information.
c. The act, process, or occupation of disseminating information to gain public interest.

Yes I know what Publicity is.......BUT for what purpose...

She is already rich
She is already famous
She is Beautiful
She is currently on our TV screens

what would be the point of this type of Publicity ???

lostalex
17-06-2013, 01:39 PM
Yes I know what Publicity is.......BUT for what purpose...

She is already rich
She is already famous
She is Beautiful
She is currently on our TV screens

what would be the point of this type of Publicity ???

attention. some people need it like sex and oxygen.

Just ask Girth, he obviously understands the need for attention.

arista
17-06-2013, 02:06 PM
'It was just a playful tiff': Charles Saatchi
says he grabbed Nigella by the throat 'to emphasise his point'
during heated argument and claims she was unhurt

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2342922/Nigella-Lawson-Charles-Saatchi-says-row-playful-tiff-held-throat-emphasise-point.html#ixzz2WTy4yfXA

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/17/article-2342922-1A587D75000005DC-629_634x442.jpg

Marsh.
17-06-2013, 02:08 PM
From the daily mail article pictures i saw, she at one point is clearly looking at the cameras, also she is eating in a very public place. I think she knows damn well that she is being watched. if she actually was in any kind of distress or danger, why wouldn't she say no or stop him or cry out for help?

This all just feels like a publicity stunt to me.

Nigella Lawson is the new Amanda Bynes.

:joker:

But in all seriousness, a lot of the "celebs" that get papped are looking at the camera. They can see them. :laugh:

Sometimes they don't care about being discreet and will shove the camera in people's faces without another thought.

So, not necessarily proof of any stunt.

Omah
17-06-2013, 02:31 PM
Any Public knowledge of abusive behaviour by him could allow other witnesses to come forward and ultimately tip the size of any settlement well and truly in her favour...!!!!

His previous wife, Kay, divorced him for unreasonable behaviour but had to sell their home as part of the divorce settlement, probably as a result of a pre-nuptial agreement ..... :idc:

arista
17-06-2013, 02:43 PM
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/17/article-2342922-1A587F01000005DC-374_634x688.jpg

Wipe your tears the Thug lives on.

Livia
17-06-2013, 02:45 PM
His previous wife, Kay, divorced him for unreasonable behaviour but had to sell their home as part of the divorce settlement, probably as a result of a pre-nuptial agreement ..... :idc:

Honestly... I wasted my time at uni. I could have just come on here and picked it up from all you barrack-room lawyers. You've all taken a couple of photographs and made a whole epic fantasy tale out of them.

It's not like he had his hands round her throat and his knee on her chest, is it. They're at a pavement table at a restaurant, surrounded by people, and I wouldn't say she looks particularly distressed. These photos would not help her in a divorce case.

His previous divorce has nothing to do with this, and for the record, around 1 in 5 divorces cite "unreasonable behaviour" so it's not like his case was unique.

And that's all from me. I think this story had had enough publicity.

Nedusa
17-06-2013, 02:50 PM
Honestly... I wasted my time at uni. I could have just come on here and picked it up from all you barrack-room lawyers. You've all taken a couple of photographs and made a whole epic fantasy tale out of them.

It's not like he had his hands round her throat and his knee on her chest, is it. They're at a pavement table at a restaurant, surrounded by people, and I wouldn't say she looks particularly distressed. These photos would not help her in a divorce case.

His previous divorce has nothing to do with this, and for the record, around 1 in 5 divorces cite "unreasonable behaviour" so it's not like his case was unique.

And that's all from me. I think this story had had enough publicity.

No need to get all high and mighty just because you've had some legal training.

The points I raised in my last post are perfectly reasonable and other posters agree also that his behaviour however intended does not show him in a good light.......Nuff said !!!!!!

Livia
17-06-2013, 02:57 PM
No need to get all high and mighty just because you've had some legal training.

The points I raised in my last post are perfectly reasonable and other posters agree also that his behaviour however intended does not show him in a good light.......Nuff said !!!!!!

"Some legal training"? I have a first class honours degree from Cambridge.

I'm not getting all and and mighty. If you want to talk about legal issues, don't get all defensive when I tell you that you're wrong. If we stumble into your area of expertise, I'll be happy to be guided by you.

GiRTh
17-06-2013, 02:59 PM
"Some legal training"? I have a first class honours degree from Cambridge.

I'm not getting all and and mighty. If you want to talk about legal issues, don't get all defensive when I tell you that you're wrong. If we stumble into your area of expertise, I'll be happy to be guided by you.I thought you went to Oxford? :spin:

Omah
17-06-2013, 03:00 PM
Honestly... I wasted my time at uni. I could have just come on here and picked it up from all you barrack-room lawyers. You've all taken a couple of photographs and made a whole epic fantasy tale out of them.

It's not like he had his hands round her throat and his knee on her chest, is it. They're at a pavement table at a restaurant, surrounded by people, and I wouldn't say she looks particularly distressed. These photos would not help her in a divorce case.

His previous divorce has nothing to do with this, and for the record, around 1 in 5 divorces cite "unreasonable behaviour" so it's not like his case was unique.

And that's all from me. I think this story had had enough publicity.

OK ..... :xyxwave:

Nedusa
17-06-2013, 03:04 PM
"Some legal training"? I have a first class honours degree from Cambridge.

I'm not getting all and and mighty. If you want to talk about legal issues, don't get all defensive when I tell you that you're wrong. If we stumble into your area of expertise, I'll be happy to be guided by you.

OK.......so you have good legal credentials, but I am not really concerned with the legalities of what constitutes evidence in a divorce case, I like thousands of other people see those pictures and think this man is grabbing his wife by the throat.....It may be playful or serious BUT its in public and now everyone has seen this.So the perception of this man is now that he has no respect for his wife...!!! grabbing her throat in Public (or private) is very disrespectful.

Irrespective of any potential divorce this episode does not show him in a good light.

Please don't make me say this again in another post as I've already said this 3 times..........!!!!!

Livia
17-06-2013, 03:05 PM
I thought you went to Oxford? :spin:

I've been to Oxford... but I studied at Cambridge LOL...

Omah
17-06-2013, 03:06 PM
Suzanne Moore

guardian.co.uk, Monday 17 June 2013 15.14 BST

Was there a woman who saw those awful pictures of Nigella Lawson who didn't think "If he does this in public what does he do behind closed doors?" Not one that I have spoken to since they appeared. Some have said there is an issue about whether they should have appeared at all as they were in a private place. Actually Lawson and her husband, Charles Saatchi, were sitting in a courtyard outside an expensive restaurant in Mayfair where paparazzi always lurk. The pictures could have been taken by anyone with a mobile phone. No one appears to have intervened despite fellow diners eager to report Lawson's obvious distress. If a man had his hands round the throat of another man during a meal would the waiters have carried on as normal?
What is going on here? The police are now looking into the incident though Lawson has not reported it to them. The Community Safety Unit is making inquiries: it deals with hate crime and domestic violence. And we mustn't fall into the trap of using "domestic violence" to imply a kind of cosier or lesser violence. Of course there are cases of women abusing men but this looks like common or garden violence against women. It is indeed frighteningly common. A few months ago we saw pictures of Saatchi clamping his hand over her mouth apparently to shut her up.

:idc:

Omah
17-06-2013, 03:09 PM
I've been to Oxford... but I studied at Cambridge LOL...

Still here ..... :conf:

Well, I've been to Oxford, too ..... and I did some research at Cambridge just last week ..... :pipe:

Omah
17-06-2013, 11:13 PM
http://news.sky.com/story/1104943/saatchi-cautioned-for-assault-of-nigella-lawson

Advertising guru Charles Saatchi has been cautioned by police for assaulting his wife Nigella Lawson at a restaurant.

The 70-year-old voluntarily attended a central London police station and accepted the caution after photographs emerged showing his hand around Lawson's neck.

Good ..... :thumbs:

Nedusa
17-06-2013, 11:19 PM
http://news.sky.com/story/1104943/saatchi-cautioned-for-assault-of-nigella-lawson



Good ..... :thumbs:

Oh I heard this also, seems like I'm not alone in thinking what this man did was well out of order , looks now like it was not innocent role playing but a calculated physical assault on a defenceless woman.

Stupid cowardly man, she should start divorce proceedings immediately...!!!

arista
18-06-2013, 07:11 AM
http://media.skynews.com/media/images/generated/2013/6/17/243444/default/v1/express-2-329x437.jpg

http://media.skynews.com/media/images/generated/2013/6/17/243456/default/v1/mirror-2-329x437.jpg


American News is Shocked

Cherie
18-06-2013, 07:16 AM
A playful tiff? okay.

joeysteele
18-06-2013, 07:25 AM
I see nothing remotely decent as to a man having his hand/s at a woman's throat,especially when it would seem clear there was some disagreement at best going on between them in public.

I am glad he has been cautioned and if Nigella had any sense she would get away from him in my view.
It is these so called playful things happening that often lead to far worse,I am aware that Nigella can likely stand up for herself but you don't leave your home for any period with your youngest son following a playful tiff.

Kazanne
18-06-2013, 07:34 AM
Apparently Nigella is no longer living in the marital home Joey,so hopefully she is safe.

joeysteele
18-06-2013, 07:37 AM
Apparently Nigella is no longer living in the marital home Joey,so hopefully she is safe.

That's good, I really like Nigella. She deserves better than this.

Cherie
18-06-2013, 07:49 AM
Humiliating and upsetting your partner in public could never by any stretch of the imagination be considered "playful"!.

joeysteele
18-06-2013, 08:08 AM
Humiliating and upsetting your partner in public could never by any stretch of the imagination be considered "playful"!.

I 100% agree Cherie.

Z
18-06-2013, 08:10 AM
I see nothing remotely decent as to a man having his hand/s at a woman's throat,especially when it would seem clear there was some disagreement at best going on between them in public.

I am glad he has been cautioned and if Nigella had any sense she would get away from him in my view.
It is these so called playful things happening that often lead to far worse,I am aware that Nigella can likely stand up for herself but you don't leave your home for any period with your youngest son following a playful tiff.

I agree. I don't think the photos are anywhere near as serious as the papers drummed them up to be but what they do show is an unhealthy relationship so I'm glad she's moved out of their marital home. Even if he was just being unusually condescending in trying to get her to stop speaking, I still think that's wildly inappropriate and at least she has the courage to not stand for that and has moved out. I know I would be fuming if someone I was dating put their hands round my neck or over my mouth, ESPECIALLY in public, how humiliating...!

joeysteele
18-06-2013, 08:23 AM
I agree. I don't think the photos are anywhere near as serious as the papers drummed them up to be but what they do show is an unhealthy relationship so I'm glad she's moved out of their marital home. Even if he was just being unusually condescending in trying to get her to stop speaking, I still think that's wildly inappropriate and at least she has the courage to not stand for that and has moved out. I know I would be fuming if someone I was dating put their hands round my neck or over my mouth, ESPECIALLY in public, how humiliating...!

Absolutely, anyone doing that to me would not get the chance to do so again.
I'd be off,away from them completely, it shows no decency or respect whatsoever.

Z
18-06-2013, 08:30 AM
I have no respect for people who resort to physical violence in a romantic relationship as a way of dealing with problems; and while it may not have come to blows, I think he has no respect for her as a person if he's placing his hands over her mouth or round her neck, and that lack of respect in a relationship is in my opinion why domestic violence occurs. If he truly respected her as a person and as his partner, he wouldn't have placed his hands on her in that way, in my opinion.

Livia
18-06-2013, 08:58 AM
Charles Saachi voluntarily walked into a police station, presumably to cut short this trial by media, where the only people who profit are the paps and the lawyers. Everyone wringing their hands about poor Nigella should bear in mind that this happened over a week ago, and no complaint was made by Nigella herself. So it looks like some people are far more upset than Nigella herself was.

Cherie
18-06-2013, 09:06 AM
Charles Saachi voluntarily walked into a police station, presumably to cut short this trial by media, where the only people who profit are the paps and the lawyers. Everyone wringing their hands about poor Nigella should bear in mind that this happened over a week ago, and no complaint was made by Nigella herself. So it looks like some people are far more upset than Nigella herself was.

Many victims of abuse are very slow to report their partners, mainly because they have been conditioned to believe they are at fault for their partners behaviour. Nigella has moved out that is far more telling than reporting him, he is after all a seriously rich man who can employ top lawyers to defend himself. He has attended a police station presumably on the advice of his lawyers to minimise the damage to his public persona, nothing more.

Livia
18-06-2013, 09:13 AM
Charles Saachi voluntarily walked into a police station, presumably to cut short this trial by media, where the only people who profit are the paps and the lawyers. Everyone wringing their hands about poor Nigella should bear in mind that this happened over a week ago, and no complaint was made by Nigella herself. So it looks like some people are far more upset than Nigella herself was.

Many victims of abuse are very slow to report their partners, mainly because they have been conditioned to believe they are at fault for their partners behaviour. Nigella has moved out that is far more telling than reporting him, he is after all a seriously rich man who can employ top lawyers to defend himself. He has attended a police station presumably on the advice of his lawyers to minimise the damage to his public persona, nothing more.

So your assumption is that Nigella has been conditioned by long-term abuse, again with absolutely no proof apart from your imagination. Nigella's not exactly a pauper herself, you know, and I'm sure could afford a pretty good lawyer. And yes, Saachi may well have been advised to take himself to the police. However, I have highlighted the operative word in your last sentence.

Cherie
18-06-2013, 10:09 AM
Charles Saachi voluntarily walked into a police station, presumably to cut short this trial by media, where the only people who profit are the paps and the lawyers. Everyone wringing their hands about poor Nigella should bear in mind that this happened over a week ago, and no complaint was made by Nigella herself. So it looks like some people are far more upset than Nigella herself was.


I have highlighted yours as well,:joker: of course it is all speculation, but I can understand why she might not have reported him.

arista
18-06-2013, 10:11 AM
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/18/article-2342922-1A607803000005DC-167_306x423.jpg


Yes look at the Camera you Punk
its going Worldwide

joeysteele
18-06-2013, 10:18 AM
Going voluntarily to the police is likely only because he may have had a tip off they would be coming for him anyway in relation to this incident.

To be given the caution,he will have to have admitted committing an assault in a public place,had he been protesting his innocence or otherwise as to it being fun then the caution would not have been given to him and the matter probably taken further by the police.
To get away with a caution,he will have to have said he was guilty of it.

Omah
18-06-2013, 10:23 AM
Going voluntarily to the police is likely only because he may have had a tip off they would be coming for him anyway in relation to this incident.


You mean like a call from "a friend in the force", perhaps someone in the same Freemasons Lodge, maybe a Chief Inspector ..... :conf:

joeysteele
18-06-2013, 10:26 AM
You mean like a call from "a friend in the force", perhaps someone in the same Freemasons Lodge, maybe a Chief Inspector ..... :conf:

Well really in fact ,it was said in the press too that the police were looking into the incident anyway so he would have been rather foolish to not expect them going to talk to him at some stage.
He did only go once the story came out and was made known.

Omah
18-06-2013, 10:34 AM
Well really in fact ,it was said in the press too that the police were looking into the incident anyway so he would have been rather foolish to not expect them going to talk to him at some stage.
He did only go once the story came out and was made known.

Isn't it more likely that he was just invited to "attend for interview" as many celebrities, like Tulisa recently, are ?

There's no need for secret "tip-offs", surely - they belong in the world of snitches, grasses and frames.

Vanessa
18-06-2013, 10:35 AM
Ugh! What a scumbag! :nono:

joeysteele
18-06-2013, 10:45 AM
Isn't it more likely that he was just invited to "attend for interview" as many celebrities, like Tulisa recently, are ?

There's no need for secret "tip-offs", surely - they belong in the world of snitches, grasses and frames.

Indeed, that is a possibility too Omah, however if you read my post properly you will see I said he may have had a tip off,I did not say he had for certain.
No matter why,how or what the reason was he went to the police, he got a caution when he did for committing the assault.
That is enough for me.

I stated nothing for certain expect that he would have had to admit he committed assault to get away with that caution.
If he was innocent then he could have fought it had he wished to but he chose to take the caution and admit his guilt.

Having said that and really I shouldn't need to point his out, had he not gone after being invited to go by the police,then I think even he would have been pretty sure they would have at some point gone for him eventually since they were investigating the incident.

joeysteele
18-06-2013, 10:49 AM
Ugh! What a scumbag! :nono:

I agree and for me as others said too earlier in this thread, if he was so uncontrolled to do this in a public place then my concern would be what could go on in private.

My hope would be that Nigella keeps away from him with her sons too.His admission of guilt in this incident and receiving the caution from the police won't look good for him in any possible divorce.

I just really like Nigella though and I hate to see this unacceptable behaviour anywhere from anyone.

Omah
18-06-2013, 10:50 AM
Indeed, that is a possibility too Omah, however if you read my post properly you will see I said he may have had a tip off,I did not say he had for certain.

Even "may" implies that you propose the existence of an "unofficial communication channel" between the police force and a certain individual.

Omah
18-06-2013, 10:57 AM
My hope would be that Nigella keeps away from him with her sons too.

Nigella's children are Cosima Thomasina (f, born 1994) and Bruno Paul (m, born 1996)

joeysteele
18-06-2013, 10:59 AM
Even "may" implies that you propose the existence of an "unofficial communication channel" between the police force and a certain individual.

May means might,if I say I may have done something or may go somewhere it does not imply certainty that I have or will.
Just as you saying it was more likely he was invited by the police to attend, that is not certain either and at this point in time not something you yourself know for sure to be the case too.

Best end this here Omah because I don't, with the fullest respect to you as both a person and member, enjoy much in the way as to debating with you.
My apologies for that too but I guess we are just people who are poles apart.

Omah
18-06-2013, 11:10 AM
May means might,if I say I may have done something or may go somewhere it does not imply certainty that I have or will.
Just as you saying it was more likely he was invited by the police to attend, that is not certain either and at this point in time not something you yourself know for sure to be the case too.

Best end this here Omah because I don't, with the fullest respect to you as both a person and member, enjoy much in the way as to debating with you.
My apologies for that too but I guess we are just people who are poles apart.

Well, I do like to get the facts right and try to resist speculation ..... ;)

Cherie
18-06-2013, 11:13 AM
Nigella's children are Cosima Thomasina (f, born 1994) and Bruno Paul (m, born 1996)

So 19 and 17, not must older than my boys, I'm not sure what point you are making Omah, that she shouldn't be protective of them, maybe that is not what you meant.

Omah
18-06-2013, 11:17 AM
So 19 and 17, not must older than my boys, I'm not sure what point you are making Omah, that she shouldn't be protective of them, maybe that is not what you meant.

AFAIK, one of them is a girl ..... ;)

I was pointing out to the poster that his statement was not entirely correct ..... :pipe:

Kizzy
18-06-2013, 11:18 AM
Well, I do like to get the facts right and try to resist speculation ..... ;)

No you don't you like to copy and paste omah :joker:

I wouldn't say she looks particularly distressed...
:conf:

I for one would hope the photographs are used if they do divorce, CCTV is covert? but my guess is images from those have been used in many court cases :)

Omah
18-06-2013, 11:20 AM
No you don't you like to copy and paste omah :joker:


Ah, that's because I am not a proponent of unsubstantiated assertion ..... :pipe:

joeysteele
18-06-2013, 11:27 AM
AFAIK, one of them is a girl ..... ;)

I was pointing out to the poster that his statement was not entirely correct ..... :pipe:

Okay, I give you that one, I did type in sons so you can nitpick all you want as to that.
The news did state that she had left the family home with her son who was also there at the time.
I did actually for some reason think she had 2 sons to her first Husband, so I concede that to you.

Makes no difference whether they are girls or boys though,their ages remain the same and if this argument and incident was in anyway even partly about her chidren as some news state it was then still best to keep them away from him in my view.
As she should as well in my view.

Kizzy
18-06-2013, 11:31 AM
Ah, that's because I am not a proponent of unsubstantiated assertion ..... :pipe:

The printed word could never be accused of unsubstantiated assertion ... :laugh2:

Kizzy
18-06-2013, 11:33 AM
Okay, I give you that one, I did type in sons so you can nitpick all you want as to that.
The news did state that she had left the family home with her son who was also there at the time.
I did actually for some reason think she had 2 sons to her first Husband, so I concede that to you.

Makes no difference whether they are girls or boys though,their ages remain the same and if this argument and incident was in anyway even partly about her chidren as some news state it was then still best to keep them away from him in my view.
As she should as well in my view.

She should, the lad may well decide to grab him round his scrawny old throat haha!

CaudleHalbard
18-06-2013, 11:39 AM
She should, the lad may well decide to grab him round his scrawny old throat haha!

But the lad may be bearing in mind his future share of Saatchi's fortune - currently estimated at £128 million.

It will probably inhibit any grabbing! ;)

Omah
18-06-2013, 11:45 AM
The printed word could never be accused of unsubstantiated assertion ... :laugh2:

It may well be uninformed idle rumour and speculation, too (see my KP thread ..... ;))

:xyxwave:

Omah
18-06-2013, 11:46 AM
Okay, I give you that one, I did type in sons so you can nitpick all you want as to that.

OK

Omah
18-06-2013, 11:49 AM
But the lad may be bearing in mind his future share of Saatchi's fortune - currently estimated at £128 million.


Why would he, necessarily, have a "future share of Saatchi's fortune" ..... :conf:

Kizzy
18-06-2013, 11:53 AM
It may well be uninformed idle rumour and speculation, too (see my KP thread ..... ;))

:xyxwave:

Yeah, we can all chat sh*t... if you can get paid for it that would be sweet.

Omah
18-06-2013, 12:16 PM
http://news.sky.com/story/1104943/saatchi-nigella-lawson-caution-was-best

Speaking to the London Evening Standard, Saatchi said: "Although Nigella made no complaint, I volunteered to go to Charing Cross station and take a police caution after a discussion with my lawyer because I thought it was better than the alternative of this hanging over all of us for months."

Always best to consult the lawyer before "volunteering" for anything ..... ;)

Omah
18-06-2013, 03:01 PM
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/charles-saatchi-why-i-accepted-police-caution-for-assaulting-wife-nigella-lawson-8663608.html

Mr Saatchi said he was questioned for around four hours.

Not just hands up, "I done it", "You naughty boy", <smacked wrist>, endof, then ..... :suspect:

joeysteele
18-06-2013, 03:30 PM
She should, the lad may well decide to grab him round his scrawny old throat haha!

If she were my Mother I would be tempted to after humiliating her in public.
I am sure she will want to protect her 2 children though, we don't know what goes on behind closed doors.

I still cannot get over me thinking she had 2 sons to her first husband who died barely in his 40s, I think.
I would have argued that with others if it had come up in conversation so thanks to Omah for putting me right as to that.

(The times I have watched her cookery programmes and her sit down with her children too,how that fact escaped me is a mystery).

Omah
18-06-2013, 11:09 PM
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2343556/Nigella-Lawsons-husband-Charles-Saatchi-says-just-playful-tiff-Whats-really-going-marriage.html#ixzz2WbuqKxsz

Saatchi’s second wife, American-born art collector Kay Hartenstein, mother of his daughter Phoebe, 19, was dumped by Saatchi, who moved the newly-widowed Nigella and her children into his home in Eaton Square, Belgravia, barely nine months after Diamond’s death. Saatchi and Hartenstein then became embroiled in a bitter divorce fought on the grounds of his ‘unreasonable behaviour’ that ran up a £1 million legal bill.

Saatchi’s first marriage, to advertising executive Doris Lockhart, also ended when she divorced him citing ‘unreasonable behaviour’ after 17 years.

Saatchi’s third marriage - in the balance?

Not a particularly bad track record of marriage for an emotionally volatile wealthy man aged 70, but not one I'd be proud of ..... :nono:

SiaSiaSia
18-06-2013, 11:40 PM
Actually ****ing disgusting, poor Nigella

Omah
21-06-2013, 07:06 AM
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/4976461/Nigella-Lawson-spotted-without-wedding-ring.html#ixzz2WpdN2bZU

TROUBLED Nigella Lawson sits alone at a café table — ten days after another diner visit sparked a fateful row with her tycoon hubby.

The Domestic Goddess, 53, looked pale and drawn as she spoke on her mobile yesterday — notably minus her wedding ring — close to the Mayfair bolthole where she has been living apart from Charles Saatchi.

It was the first time the sexy chef had been seen in public since fleeing the couple’s home last Sunday.

Nigella left her £10,000-a-week rented apartment in central London shortly after 10am yesterday — WITHOUT her gold wedding band.

Unaccompanied and wearing little make-up, she appeared to have lost weight since she was last pictured leaving the family home, where Saatchi, 70, continues to live.

She paced just 20 yards to a restaurant for a late breakfast. But within seconds she walked out again to take a call on her phone, then trawled distractedly up and down the street, deep in conversation.

At one point Nigella, in knee-length boots, trousers and a blouse, grew so engrossed that she sat at the café table.

It is understood Nigella has been at the flat since Monday.

Of course, the ring may be off for cleaning or repair ..... :idc:

arista
21-06-2013, 08:00 AM
http://img.thesun.co.uk/multimedia/archive/01749/SNN2005A-620_1749039a.jpg

Nedusa
21-06-2013, 08:48 AM
No I think the rings are off as are the gloves....!!!

Omah
23-06-2013, 03:06 AM
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/nigella-lawson-wants-divorce-charles-1982779#ixzz2X0MDFmVf

Nigella Lawson is preparing to DIVORCE her abusive *husband in the wake of the Sunday People photographs that captured her being *throttled by him in public.

As she faces the biggest decision of her life, the woman the world knows as the “domestic goddess” has *confided in her loyal circle of friends, colleagues and advisers that she is on the verge of ending her 10-year marriage.

A well placed aide told how Nigella, 53, feels “broken and *desolate”.

If she takes him back her *flourishing career in the US could suffer if Nigella is viewed as a woman prepared to put up with domestic violence.

The aide, who has been in regular contact with her since the incident 10 days ago, said: “Her heart is bleeding right now. She wants out.

“Neither she nor Charles are *interested in counselling or trying to save the marriage. It seems they’re done and she is broken and desolate.”

The aide is among a group of friends who have spoken anonymously to the Sunday People.

Nigella’s heartache was clear when she was seen out and about on Friday with no sign of her wedding ring.

According to those close to her it was a sign that her intention to divorce Saatchi is all too real.

A legal adviser with links to the couple has told the Sunday People a separation agreement is expected to be drawn up shortly and a divorce *finalised in two years.

The adviser said: “It should be done confidentially and quietly and in a dignified manner.”

But should the divorce turn *acrimonious Nigella may face losing a chunk of her £20million fortune as most of her fame and earnings have come while married to him.

Another source, who has also *spoken to Nigella in the last seven days, said: “This is not how Nigella imagined her marriage might end but she realises it was the tipping point.

“The marriage has been under strain for some time but the *choking incident was the end.

“If anything it is a *relief for her that it could all be over very soon. There’s a sense she has *already moved on in her own head. Rather than *dwelling on the past she is already thinking about life without him.”

Another *matter Nigella’s friends say she will need to consider is how her relationship will affect her career in the US. She has just *finished a series there starring as a judge on a *reality TV show called The Taste.

Nigella is a domestic *goddess in American eyes too. To stay in a violent relationship could *harm her reputation as a strong woman.

The female source said: “Nigella’s friends know there will be no getting back together. If there was, her career in America would nose-dive. Charles comes across as a thug in an Armani suit after this whole sorry episode.”

Saatchi, according to friends, has become a cantankerous old man. One of Nigella’s confidantes said: “Saatchi used to be the king, regarded as the man who made Brit Art. Now he comes across as a grumpy old man.

“The 17-year age difference is *becoming a problem. When they first married it didn't seem so great .Now it is like an abyss. There are so many things that they don’t see eye to eye on.

“Nigella lives for food and parties while Charles is slowly starting to be just the opposite. Not many of Nigella’s friends like him but they tolerate him. He is quite old *fashioned.” Saatchi *divorced his first wife Doris in 1990 after 17 years of marriage.

His second wife Kay divorced him 12 years ago for unreasonable *behaviour after 11 years. They have one daughter, Phoebe, 19.

His estimated worth is £120million but divorce lawyer Vanessa Lloyd Platt said: “She would not be *entitled to his assets because he amassed most of them before the marriage.

“Anything they have amassed during the *marriage, such as *property bought together, they’d divide equally.”

:idc:

Omah
24-06-2013, 11:11 PM
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2347565/Nigella-Lawson-fly-U-S-months-earlier-planned.html#ixzz2XB6ADHR0

Nigella Lawson could fly out to America soon in an attempt to escape the media spotlight surrounding her controversial marriage to Charles Saatchi.

Ms Lawson's plans to move out to America earlier than expected came as Mr Saatchi today said he was attempting to wipe his wife's nose.

Speaking to the Evening Standard, he said: 'Even domestic goddesses sometimes have a bit of snot in their nose. I was trying to fish it out'.

Fish out snot, eh ..... :rolleyes:

Kizzy
24-06-2013, 11:17 PM
Hmmmm.... is there some inference there? I still say she's had an affair.

Omah
24-06-2013, 11:23 PM
Hmmmm.... is there some inference there? I still say she's had an affair.

You may infer, but I can only imply (but I'm not in this case).

I assume that your accusation of an "affair" is pure speculation ..... :hmph:

Kizzy
25-06-2013, 12:07 AM
'Even domestic goddesses sometimes have a bit of snot in their nose. I was trying to fish it out'.....
I meant was Mr Saachi inferring something with this comment?
My comment is supposition actually but let's not split hairs.

arista
30-06-2013, 11:22 AM
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/27/article-2349924-1A89E2AD000005DC-983_634x426.jpg
All Her Stuff Moving Out under his orders

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/28/article-2351115-1A907FED000005DC-463_634x435.jpg
[Friend's say that he refused to apologise
for grabbing her, and asked her
to remove her belongings]

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2351667/Saatchi-sues-Nigellas-aides-170k-shopping-spree-company-credit-cards--case-helped-spark-strangling-row.html#ixzz2XhJILRfZ

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/28/article-0-1A8E512B000005DC-915_634x607.jpg

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/29/article-2351667-1A6605DE000005DC-115_634x572.jpg
The Start of this mess

Kizzy
30-06-2013, 11:28 AM
Next daily mail headline ' nigella fakes crepes!'