Did Courtney bully Lauren last night for the $lut comment?

[brucie]

There was a clip last night where courtney was lying on the sofa...and in conversation with someone ( the geordie foul mouthed chav one i think)...she said " I would never make fun of trans-genders/sexuals or something along those lines...and then turned to the other girl and laughed..

Lauren didn't seem happy at all..and for a moment it felt like bullying..

Shame because I think Courtney has been really sweet so far but does she have a nasty interior beneath the mesmerizing exterior..

[Vanessa]

I don't think so. They made up now anyway.

[brucie]

I don't think so. They made up now anyway.

you seem like a big fan!

[Jake.]

Bullying? Good God no. Such a tossed around word nowadays, she was just explaining that she wouldn't judge somebody in the first instance no matter their appearence.

[Niamh.]

I guess she was annoyed that someone she considered to be a friend would call her slutty. I don't see how it was bullying?

[Vanessa]

you seem like a big fan!

I like her. She's funny, sweet and eccentric. That is why she gets on so well with Lauren. They're both quite flamboyant. :hugesmile:

[fingers]

Bullying may be defined as the activity of repeated, aggressive behaviour intended to hurt another person, physically or mentally. Bullying is characterised by an individual behaving in a certain way to gain power over another person

Why is this constantly hurled at HMs without even thinking what the word means?

[brucie]

Bullying may be defined as the activity of repeated, aggressive behaviour intended to hurt another person, physically or mentally. Bullying is characterised by an individual behaving in a certain way to gain power over another person

Why is this constantly hurled at HMs without even thinking what the word means?

was shilpa 'bullied'???

[Niamh.]

was shilpa 'bullied'???

without a doubt, but she's one of the few genuine cases of bullying in all the years I think

[fingers]

was shilpa 'bullied'???

That was one of the worst cases of Group Bullying and was seen as such at the time.

[daniel-lewis-1985]

Does the word bully really have any meaning left seeing as members on here fling it about daily about anything and everything.

This was not bullying.

Did you think it was bullying by them kind of looking giggly and nervous over the trans thing which was made after Lauren had said Courtney dressed like a slut?

Not bullying I think the word you're looking for is rude or uncomfortable.

[Benji_]

The only bullying that has been classed as bullying BB was 3 situations as far as I can remember.

1. Jade Goody and Shilpa Shetty
2. Shahbaz gate
3. Last year with the Insiders bullying the Outsiders

[brucie]

shahbaz was bullied and even deana..

also freddie was bullied by that lesbian skinhead tea addict lisa from birmingham...with the tatoos who hadn't worked for 'years' and was proud of it

[Benji_]

Deana, Luke A, Adam and Lauren were bullied like hell last year..:(

[Niamh.]

shahbaz was bullied and even deana..

also freddie was bullied by that lesbian skinhead tea addict lisa from birmingham...with the tatoos who hadn't worked for 'years' and was proud of it

That's not true, she was unemployed at the time like a hell of a lot of people were and I don't think it was for years either I have her on FB and she's working now

[Josy]

No

[brucie]

That's not true, she was unemployed at the time like a hell of a lot of people were and I don't think it was for years either I have her on FB and she's working now

not surprised you have her on facebook...

her VT involved getting up at midday, drinking tea...a bit of internet to fill out the job seekers claim, meeting fellow tramps for tea, telly...dinner, a bit of facebook then bed...

and the routine was repeated daily..

[Niamh.]

not surprised you have her on facebook...

her VT involved getting up at midday, drinking tea...a bit of internet to fill out the job seekers claim, meeting fellow tramps for tea, telly...dinner, a bit of facebook then bed...

and the routine was repeated daily..

Yes well, She does have a job at the moment and has done for a long while. Most people have FB and go on it everyday, what's so outrageous about that? As far as I can remember she had had a job for years but the factory closed down, she wasn't a great HM, granted, but you're making out she was some kind of scrounger who never worked a day in her life, which isn't true

[brucie]

Yes well, She does have a job at the moment and has done for a long while. Most people have FB and go on it everyday, what's so outrageous about that? As far as I can remember she had had a job for years but the factory closed down, she wasn't a great HM, granted, but you're making out she was some kind of scrounger who never worked a day in her life, which isn't true

her VT displayed her as a workshy jobless skinhead with tatoos and who later went on to bully freddie badly..

she had a lot of issues and bullied freddie due to his education and wealth...

did you even watch the series?

[Niamh.]

her VT displayed her as a workshy jobless skinhead with tatoos and who later went on to bully freddie badly..

she had a lot of issues and bullied freddie due to his education and wealth...

did you even watch the series?

No I never watched the series and I don't have her on FB either and she doesn't have a job now, I must be lying........... :rolleyes:

[Marsh.]

No, but she was incredibly passive aggressive.

Claiming to understand the comment but continuing to bring it up with little comments and hints.

She should have just come out with it instead of being so childish about it.

[Niamh.]

No, but she was incredibly passive aggressive.

Claiming to understand the comment but continuing to bring it up with little comments and hints.

She should have just come out with it instead of being so childish about it.

She's not much more than a child though tbf :laugh:

[Lex]

shahbaz was bullied and even deana..

also freddie was bullied by that lesbian skinhead tea addict lisa from birmingham...with the tatoos who hadn't worked for 'years' and was proud of it

Tut Tut!...my, your p.c halo seems to be slipping a bit there Brucie!...that description of Lisa was every bit as distasteful as anything that Big Ron said the other night! :whistle: ...It's true that good old Halfwit was the victim of some blatant and nasty bullying for most of his stay in the BB house!...but it was by no means only Lisa that was guilty! :nono:

Anyway...back to Courtney "bullying" Lauren ...I can actually see why you got that impression, but in my view though there was no bullying going on at all,...there was a kind of discreet 'clearing of the air' being played out between the 'very underestimated Courtney' and Lauren!
To my mind it was clear that the whole coded conversation was about Courtney informing Lauren that she wasn't to be taken as a mindless bimbo....and could quite easily stand up for herself! ...and demonstrated this by hinting that her initial impression of Lauren was that "she looked like some kind of weirdo...but was too nice to say so!"

...and it was also clear to me that Lauren also understood it this way, and decided to either 'Knuckle-under and let her have it', or 'Save it for a more opportune time"!

...And do you know what?...i've a feeling that these two are going to pair up and become real friends, and a force in the house! :hug:

Cheers.

[brucie]

Tut Tut!...my, your p.c halo seems to be slipping a bit there Brucie!...that description of Lisa was every bit as distasteful as anything that Big Ron said the other night! :whistle: ...It's true that good old Halfwit was the victim of some blatant and nasty bullying for most of his stay in the BB house!...but it was by no means only Lisa that was guilty! :nono:

Anyway...back to Courtney "bullying" Lauren ...I can actually see why you got that impression, but in my view though there was no bullying going on at all,...there was a kind of discreet 'clearing of the air' being played out between the 'very underestimated Courtney' and Lauren!
To my mind it was clear that the whole coded conversation was about Courtney informing Lauren that she wasn't to be taken as a mindless bimbo....and could quite easily stand up for herself! ...and demonstrated this by hinting that her initial impression of Lauren was that "she looked like some kind of weirdo...but was too nice to say so!"
...and it was also clear to me that Lauren also understood it this way, and decided to either 'Knuckle-under and let her have it', or 'Save it for a more opportune time"!

...And do you know what?...i've a feeling that these two are going to pair up and become real friends, and a force in the house! :hug:

Cheers.


thats exactly how i saw it..

[brucie]

No I never watched the series and I don't have her on FB either and she doesn't have a job now, I must be lying........... :rolleyes:

so what's her job now then?

[Niamh.]

so what's her job now then?

She's a security guard

[Livia]

She's not much more than a child though tbf :laugh:

Exactly. I don't think anyone was bullied... although it was fair to say the dress was a bit slutty.

[Niamh.]

Exactly. I don't think anyone was bullied... although it was fair to say the dress was a bit slutty.

It was :joker: but tbf Lauren doesn't exactly dress like a nun herself

[anne666]

They were talking about making remarks about peoples appearance. Courtney said she wouldn't say she thought Lauren was weird, because she loves transgenders. She knows how to stand up for herself.I bet that regurgitates at some stage !:joker:

[anne666]

They both dress is a strange way. Lauren looks like she is dressed up in her mother's clothes ,jewellerey and nighties.

[Livia]

It was :joker: but tbf Lauren doesn't exactly dress like a nun herself

Erm... no. She dresses like a washed up movie star from the 1950s who think they're still sexy. A proper 'What Ever happened To Baby Jane' scenario going on right there...

And really, which one of us hasn't got 'a little slutty' on occasion. (Hopes it's not just me).

[Niamh.]

Erm... no. She dresses like a washed up movie star from the 1950s who think they're still sexy. A proper 'What Ever happened To Baby Jane' scenario going on right there...

And really, which one of us hasn't got 'a little slutty' on occasion. (Hopes it's not just me).

omg she does look a little like her :laugh:

[Marsh.]

Exactly. I don't think anyone was bullied... although it was fair to say the dress was a bit slutty.

It was :joker: but tbf Lauren doesn't exactly dress like a nun herself

:joker: So true.

I love how she strolls around the house in her lacy lingerie. :laugh:

[RodHull]

3. Last year with the Insiders bullying the Outsiders

NO NO NO

That was not bullying, it was 3 people who chose to operate outside the larger group and actually spent more of their time bitching and plotting than the other group who barely mentioned them from 1 day to the next.

[Northern Monkey]

No this was not bullying imo.Lauren called her(dress?) slutty.Courtney was saying that she would'nt say judgmental things about Lauren.

[Tozzie]

There was a clip last night where courtney was lying on the sofa...and in conversation with someone ( the geordie foul mouthed chav one i think)...she said " I would never make fun of trans-genders/sexuals or something along those lines...and then turned to the other girl and laughed..

Lauren didn't seem happy at all..and for a moment it felt like bullying..

Shame because I think Courtney has been really sweet so far but does she have a nasty interior beneath the mesmerizing exterior..

I saw that too, Courtney is one of my favourites but I really didn't like that side to her last night, then again it kinda reminded me that she is only 19 and a little immature, just as Charlotte is. If Courtney starts to show ugly sides like that I'm sure I will go off her as perhaps she isn't as sweet as I was thinking she was. Time will tell. Chopping and changing my mind all the time LOL. Love Louie & Lauren though........FOR NOW! haha

[Livia]

I saw that too, Courtney is one of my favourites but I really didn't like that side to her last night, then again it kinda reminded me that she is only 19 and a little immature, just as Charlotte is. If Courtney starts to show ugly sides like that I'm sure I will go off her as perhaps she isn't as sweet as I was thinking she was. Time will tell. Chopping and changing my mind all the time LOL. Love Louie & Lauren though........FOR NOW! haha

I don't see how Courtney was cruel and bullying to say what she said, but it was perfectly okay for Lauren to make scathing, cutting comments about Courtney. What is it about Lauren that makes people think she should be able to say what she likes about other people, but people must pussyfoot around her own issues? The only one of the two of them who's shown an ugly side is Lauren.

And more hilariously... after Lauren made the comments about Courtney, there she was wandering around in lacey lingerie and suspenders looking like an aged stripper. The irony...

[watchinittoomuch]

If I thought someone was calling me a slut Id sure as **** have something to say...as it was, Lauren explained the context and entirety of her comments and it was all sorted, no bullying involved.

Infact that word should be banned from use when BB is on. That and 'vile'.

[Tozzie]

]I don't see how Courtney was cruel and bullying[/B] to say what she said, but it was perfectly okay for Lauren to make scathing, cutting comments about Courtney. What is it about Lauren that makes people think she should be able to say what she likes about other people, but people must pussyfoot around her own issues? The only one of the two of them who's shown an ugly side is Lauren.

And more hilariously... after Lauren made the comments about Courtney, there she was wandering around in lacey lingerie and suspenders looking like an aged stripper. The irony...

eh? I never said anything about bullying? As I saw it Courtney & Charlotte were having a laugh at Laurens expense, I don't really call that bullying :conf: not very nice perhaps but it wasn't bullying. Like I said, I like Lauren FOR NOW, things can easily change if she starts to appear nasty to me.

[chuff me dizzy]

I thought Courtney was very sneaky the way she was looking at Charlotte to get her involved, just as Dame Judy said

[Jemal]

I swear that Brucie guy has been causing trouble.