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Glenn.
06-11-2013, 07:52 PM
The last few weeks has felt like a chore to come on here tbh. I used to love Off Season but this has to be the worst I've ever encountered while being a member. The flair that made it great is gone.

Anyone else feel that way?

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 07:53 PM
The last few weeks has felt like a chore to come on here tbh. I used to love Off Season but this has to be the worst I've ever encountered while being a member. The flair that made it great is gone.

Anyone else feel that way?

No, not really. But that must be because X Factor is still on. :hugesmile:

Kyle
06-11-2013, 07:54 PM
I'm depressed anyway so I doubt I'll notice :hugesmile:

What's different about it?

Jake.
06-11-2013, 07:54 PM
The fact it's pretty dead doesn't help

reece(:
06-11-2013, 07:55 PM
It's a shame that the only appeal to the forum at the mo is reading the TiBB BB and playing +1 -1 games. :joker:

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 07:55 PM
I'm depressed anyway so I doubt I'll notice :hugesmile:

What's different about it?

:hug:

MeMyselfAndI
06-11-2013, 07:55 PM
I'm liking this off season, I think I might prefer it too last years :elephant:

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 07:56 PM
I'm liking this off season, I think I might prefer it too last years :elephant:

And we have I'm a Celeb starting soon! :amazed:

fingers
06-11-2013, 07:56 PM
If you're not into games or role playing or X Factor it does drag a bit!

Kyle
06-11-2013, 07:57 PM
:hug:

Thanks V :kiss:

MTVN
06-11-2013, 07:57 PM
No not really, if it was depressing me I'd probably just stop coming on, might annoy me sometimes but no more so than any other year and still find it enjoyable to post

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 07:58 PM
There's always something to talk about. :blush:

Smithy
06-11-2013, 07:58 PM
It's been really boring recently #bringbackscott

Glenn.
06-11-2013, 07:58 PM
It's been really boring recently #bringbackscott

:worship:

Kizzy
06-11-2013, 07:59 PM
I don't see anything wrong with it....
theres the usual mix of music,games chat, SD and x factor, what's not to like?

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 07:59 PM
It will get busy again once CBB starts in January. :D

Me. I Am Salman
06-11-2013, 07:59 PM
We need Scott back can the mods PLS unban him

smudgie
06-11-2013, 08:00 PM
My first year of season.

Normally just stick around for BB.

Really enjoying it.:hugesmile:

Brother Leon
06-11-2013, 08:00 PM
It was dull even with Scott. Has been for a while :laugh:

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 08:00 PM
We need Scott back can the mods PLS unban him

He's been gone a long time. :suspect:

Kyle
06-11-2013, 08:02 PM
Mods just did their job. It would be disrespectful to those members who were abused.

Glenn.
06-11-2013, 08:03 PM
Mods just did their job. It would be disrespectful to those members who were abused.

I was abused but I still want him back.

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 08:04 PM
Omg! Avatar is on! :amazed::worship:

Kyle
06-11-2013, 08:06 PM
I was abused but I still want him back.

Different people have different tolerance levels. There's just no excuse plain and simple.

Kizzy
06-11-2013, 08:06 PM
Mods just did their job. It would be disrespectful to those members who were abused.

I agree and i'm sick of this discussion coming up every couple of weeks.
I have a feeling some love drama and anything that triggers controversy like this is gold.

Natalie.
06-11-2013, 08:06 PM
I'm depressed anyway so I doubt I'll notice :hugesmile:

What's different about it?

:hug: Know the feeling..



This is my first off season? I'd like it to be a bit busier but I like it on here. I'm a celeb starts soon, don't know if that makes it any busier?

Kyle
06-11-2013, 08:06 PM
I was abused but I still want him back.

Different people have different tolerance levels. I admire your constitution but some people got a right barrel load. There's just no excuse plain and simple.

Kyle
06-11-2013, 08:08 PM
:hug: Know the feeling..



This is my first off season? I'd like it to be a bit busier but I like it on here. I'm a celeb starts soon, don't know if that makes it any busier?

492 posts, you should be ashamed! Get posting and make this place busy! :joker:

Saph
06-11-2013, 08:08 PM
It has been quite boring for most of this year tbh

Shaun
06-11-2013, 08:08 PM
Not really, but I was a bit disappointed a week or two ago when nobody was applying for ICB and I was considering jacking it all in together.

I think there're too many members unwilling to do things for the benefit of the forum at the moment... we've lost quite a few members who were willing to run games due to various scandals (Mollie) or a seeming loss of interest in the site (Locke/Novo). Obviously there're still plenty of members putting the effort in but I find it a bit of a kick in the teeth when people complain about how dead the forum is and then don't make threads or posts.

But then it is hard to care about a forum that even the owner doesn't care about, or hasn't shown any signs of caring about for well over a year.

Smithy
06-11-2013, 08:10 PM
david and andy are on their honeymoon, give them a break shaun :rolleyes:

Apple202
06-11-2013, 08:11 PM
Is this because you were evicted http://atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/ahh.gif

Natalie.
06-11-2013, 08:12 PM
492 posts, you should be ashamed! Get posting and make this place busy! :joker:

I'll try :joker:

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 08:12 PM
I'm having problems with my laptop. That is the reasons i'm not taking part in games at the moment. I need to get it fixed.

Stu
06-11-2013, 08:14 PM
Not really, but I was a bit disappointed a week or two ago when nobody was applying for ICB and I was considering jacking it all in together.

I think there're too many members unwilling to do things for the benefit of the forum at the moment... we've lost quite a few members who were willing to run games due to various scandals (Mollie) or a seeming loss of interest in the site (Locke/Novo). Obviously there're still plenty of members putting the effort in but I find it a bit of a kick in the teeth when people complain about how dead the forum is and then don't make threads or posts.
It's a chicken and egg argument. They don't make threads or posts because they find the place dead.

This is just a forum. I know a few of us have been here for awhile but I have quite a casual outlook on it. Fair dues to those who put in the effort but I don't think it's a prerequisite to have to 'put in effort' and go starting threads and games all the time in order to feel the place has become a bit of a drag. Myself I'm just a poster really.

On that note this is more aimed at previous more obvious examples than your post but I've seen people in the past do the whole "I set up games, what do you do, buster?" thing and I'm just like "pfffft ........ ?". There is something a bit uppity about that mentality I think. If you're a decent poster then you're pulling your weight already, IMO. Extra curricular stuff is not mandatory.

Me? I think it's graaaand, like. No better or worse than the last few off seasons. If less is going on I use the forum less, which is what is happening now, and have more time to do other things in the day. It all works out either way.

S'all good.

fingers
06-11-2013, 08:15 PM
I'm having problems with my laptop. That is the reasons i'm not taking part in games at the moment. I need to get it fixed.

What's wrong with it? Is it a physical problem or just operating system prob.?

Jordan.
06-11-2013, 08:16 PM
It's fine, people moaning about the forum is more depressing.

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 08:17 PM
What's wrong with it? Is it a physical problem or just operating prob.?

Not sure. It works fine for a while, then it gets really slow and stops working. I think there's a component that needs fixing. :(

Glenn.
06-11-2013, 08:18 PM
Is your battery in good shape?

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 08:20 PM
Is your battery in good shape?

I have no idea. I'm taking the laptop in Italy. My brother in law can take a look. :blush:

Glenn.
06-11-2013, 08:22 PM
I found from previous experience, replacing the battery made my laptop faster. Do you have it on charge a lot?

Patrick
06-11-2013, 08:23 PM
Gave up on the forum as a regular thing 2 years ago lol, because it was so boring.

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 08:24 PM
I found from previous experience, replacing the battery made my laptop faster. Do you have it on charge a lot?

Yes. I quite often forget to unplug it. :blush2:

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 08:25 PM
Off season is always more quiet, but if you like other reality tv then you won't get bored. :D

T*
06-11-2013, 08:26 PM
Is this because you were evicted http://atrl.net/forums/images/smilies/images/smilies/ahh.gif

You are so low...

jackc1806
06-11-2013, 08:27 PM
Take part in my Christmas Countdown and have a fun TiBB December!

http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showthread.php?t=240026

Kyle
06-11-2013, 08:27 PM
I believe Cuda changing his Avatar every second day is bringing the forum down.

Sometimes I just want to log off because of it. :nono:

Braden
06-11-2013, 08:29 PM
It's a tad on the boring side but there are still a few active posters that make the forum enjoyable.

This discussion always appears frequently whenever it's off-season, so it's probably just the change of having lots of threads and discussions about a particular subject to not having it at all.

T*
06-11-2013, 08:29 PM
Yes, I am feeling depressed. I'm insulted because of my age, I'm insulted for being me, I'm bitched about, other people are bitches about, and it's bringing me down. I feel like packing it in but I still want to be part of the nice part of the forum with my friends.

Glenn.
06-11-2013, 08:29 PM
Apple following me around the forum. My impact :love:

Vicky.
06-11-2013, 08:30 PM
No. If it was I just wouldnt come on. I dont feel tied to this forum like some other do..I cant imagine feeling like I had to log on or anything :shrug:

Vicky.
06-11-2013, 08:31 PM
I didnt mean that to come across as bitchy as it did :laugh:

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 08:31 PM
Yes, I am feeling depressed. I'm insulted because of my age, I'm insulted for being me, I'm bitched about, other people are bitches about, and it's bringing me down. I feel like packing it in but I still want to be part of the nice part of the forum with my friends.

Don't take it personally. The forum has always been quite a bitchy place. Everyone gets talked about at some point. :hug:

Glenn.
06-11-2013, 08:31 PM
Yeah ok Vicky you bitch :idc:

thesheriff443
06-11-2013, 08:35 PM
one person does not make a forum and no one person is bigger than a forum.
you reap what you sow .

Stu
06-11-2013, 08:36 PM
You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it forum.

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 08:36 PM
one person does not make a forum and no one person is bigger than a forum.
you reap what you sow .

It's off season anyway. It's bound to be quiet. I quite like it to be honest. :)

T*
06-11-2013, 08:39 PM
I hate it being quiet, it feels like Radiator Springs off Cars :joker:

Roy Mars III
06-11-2013, 08:39 PM
I only really like this place for games anymore, but I don't have time for them with work and school

Saph
06-11-2013, 08:41 PM
I wish we had a 'like' feature on here similar to facebook where we can just 'like' posts we like

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 08:42 PM
I hate it being quiet, it feels like Radiator Springs off Cars :joker:

It's only busy when BB is on. Not long to go for CBB now. :hugesmile:

Glenn.
06-11-2013, 08:43 PM
I wish we had a 'like' feature on here similar to facebook where we can just 'like' posts we like

The place would just die at a faster rate if that happened.

Stu
06-11-2013, 08:43 PM
I hate on season busyness. All it really adds to the forum is a slew of temporary generic members and "THIS IS MY VIEW ON WHEN SALHAD SPAT IN THE TOASTER. MY VIEW NEEDS IT'S OWN THREAD ALSO" activity.

Glenn.
06-11-2013, 08:45 PM
I despise on season.

King Gizzard
06-11-2013, 08:46 PM
I miss people who used to post and I do think it's quieter than it was in some areas so it is kind of. Not a serious depression though

Shaun
06-11-2013, 08:46 PM
to be fair, Salhad spitting in the toaster defined CBB 19

Kizzy
06-11-2013, 09:02 PM
There is still something for everyone though, news, sport, whatever... you can even just post pictures all day or discuss the scent of insects if you wish, what's the prob?
If you log on and there's nothing you wish to comment on you can as said make a thread or log out.

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 09:02 PM
There is still something for everyone though, news, sport, whatever... you can even just post pictures all day or discuss the scent of insects if you wish, what's the prob?
If you log on and there's nothing you wish to comment on you can as said make a thread or log out.

I agree. If anything, i think this year off season is really good. :shrug:

Glenn.
06-11-2013, 09:17 PM
I don't laugh when I come on like I used to. I could always count on something or someone to make me laugh.

Josy
06-11-2013, 09:18 PM
Nope not depressing me infact if anything was depressing me then I would just stop doing it tbh.

I do find the place is a bit quieter though.

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 09:19 PM
Nope not depressing me infact if anything was depressing me then I would just stop doing it tbh.

I do find the place is a bit quieter though.

Yes. Until it all starts again on January. :hugesmile:

Marcus.
06-11-2013, 09:19 PM
we need to put the magic back in somehow

Stu
06-11-2013, 09:19 PM
I find amusement in singing 'Josy Josy Josy Josy' to the tune of 'Ruby' by the Kaiser Chiefs.

Always cheers me up.

Glenn.
06-11-2013, 09:20 PM
Nope not depressing me infact if anything was depressing me then I would just stop doing it tbh.

I do find the place is a bit quieter though.

Maybe I need some time away then

Benjamin
06-11-2013, 09:21 PM
I go through phases of loving this place to then pretty much finding everything most members do really irritating. I don;t really know why I still use here, I don't really talk to many people anymore or join in wit most of the things.

Josy
06-11-2013, 09:22 PM
:laugh:

I forgot to add to my post, comments like so and so needs to be unbanned etc are all just bollocks IMO

Lets be honest in Scott's case he rarely ventured out of the chat thread so I doubt very much the place would be any busier with him unbanned..

Stu
06-11-2013, 09:23 PM
Scott was an occasionally funny nuisance. We should be relying on attracting good new members, not reviving crap dead ones.

Why was he even banned anyway? I missed that episode.

Glenn.
06-11-2013, 09:23 PM
Scott's hilarious though :worship:

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 09:24 PM
I go through phases of loving this place to then pretty much finding everything most members do really irritating. I don;t really know why I still use here, I don't really talk to many people anymore or join in wit most of the things.

I think we all feel like that sometimes, especially during on season. :laugh:

Marcus.
06-11-2013, 09:24 PM
Maybe I need some time away then

glenn it helped me get the magic of this back
but dont go so long as me

Kyle
06-11-2013, 09:24 PM
There seems to be scattered bands of people here and there and then the mod team and then in between there it's a free for all.

Maybe community orientated activities would bring people together, I like Shaun's member reviews stuff like that which get people feeling like they are actually part of the forum and not a ghost.

Jake.
06-11-2013, 09:25 PM
:laugh:

I forgot to add to my post, comments like so and so needs to be unbanned etc are all just bollocks IMO

Lets be honest in Scott's case he rarely ventured out of the chat thread so I doubt very much the place would be any busier with him unbanned..

Literally took the words out of my mouth. The chat thread would be bumped more. That's it.

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 09:26 PM
Is Scott perma banned? :suspect:

Glenn.
06-11-2013, 09:26 PM
I might just piss off for a bit. Come back at Christmas. Surely it will be better than it is now.

T*
06-11-2013, 09:26 PM
I find amusement in singing 'Josy Josy Josy Josy' to the tune of 'Ruby' by the Kaiser Chiefs.

Always cheers me up.

I love that song!

Marcus.
06-11-2013, 09:28 PM
I might just piss off for a bit. Come back at Christmas. Surely it will be better than it is now.

glenn it help me
i was losing the magic on here
going to take 2 weeks of but took longer
and the magic is back :dance:

Kazanne
06-11-2013, 09:30 PM
TIBB is quiet,but it's ok gives us chance to get to know people better.It would take more than a quiet forum to depress me,there's a big old world out there Glenn,go grab it:hug:

Roy Mars III
06-11-2013, 09:33 PM
Scott was an occasionally funny nuisance. We should be relying on attracting good new members, not reviving crap dead ones.

Why was he even banned anyway? I missed that episode.

Agree 100%. I tried to form a movement to try and attract new members to the forum (preferably good looking females) but no one else was on board

Jake.
06-11-2013, 09:35 PM
Agree 100%. I tried to form a movement to try and attract new members to the forum (preferably good looking females) but no one else was on board

They'd all no doubt be men anyway

Glenn.
06-11-2013, 09:36 PM
I would like to just point out the forum isn't making me suicidal :laugh:, I just feel it's lost its spark.

Kyle
06-11-2013, 09:36 PM
Agree 100%. I tried to form a movement to try and attract new members to the forum (preferably good looking females) but no one else was on board

Sticking a picture of your penis on the chat thread and writing 'free gift when you sign up today' was never a good idea but at least I signed up :whistle:

Marcus.
06-11-2013, 09:37 PM
Sticking a picture of your penis on the chat thread and writing 'free gift when you sign up today' was never a good idea but at least I signed up :whistle:

wowers :joker:

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 09:37 PM
I would like to just point out the forum isn't making me suicidal :laugh:, I just feel it's lost its spark.

Sometimes taking some time off helps. :hug:

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 09:37 PM
Sticking a picture of your penis on the chat thread and writing 'free gift when you sign up today' was never a good idea but at least I signed up :whistle:

:laugh2:

Marcus.
06-11-2013, 09:38 PM
Sometimes taking some time off helps. :hug:

aye

Kizzy
06-11-2013, 09:40 PM
Personally I didn't find scott funny, I was really concerned for him and saw him as a rather tragic character.
Enabling his destructive behaviours did nothing to help him and I got the impression that many laughed at him rather than with him.

Vanessa
06-11-2013, 09:42 PM
I hope Scott is ok anyway.

Marcus.
06-11-2013, 09:43 PM
aye scotty was canny

Glenn.
06-11-2013, 09:43 PM
I certainly laughed with him. Not at him.

Smithy
06-11-2013, 09:47 PM
noone enabled his destructive behaviour, everyone was really worried about him

T*
06-11-2013, 09:47 PM
I certainly laughed with him. Not at him.

I would like to just point out the forum isn't making me suicidal :laugh:, I just feel it's lost its spark.

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Kizzy
06-11-2013, 10:02 PM
noone enabled his destructive behaviour, everyone was really worried about him

I was to the point of begging him to get help for his drinking, I was struggling myself at the time too... The post was removed.
I'm not meaning anyone in particular when I say that either, but I saw the humour the tales of his behaviours caused.
Anyway that was just how I saw it, best not to make this a scott discussion thread.

HD
06-11-2013, 10:05 PM
It'd be less depressing if Glenn wasn't ERE!!!!

<war>

Ithinkiloveyoutoo
06-11-2013, 10:08 PM
I find that when I visit a forum where the main focus is one subject-be it big brother, some singer, actor, sport stars-someone always starts a thread saying the forum has lost it's spark during "off season" :joker:

Ithinkiloveyoutoo
06-11-2013, 10:10 PM
Scott was an occasionally funny nuisance. We should be relying on attracting good new members, not reviving crap dead ones.

Why was he even banned anyway? I missed that episode.
Wow mean, I used to get on with scott. :(


Yeah how did he get banned? And zippy never came back. Shame.

Smithy
06-11-2013, 10:12 PM
Zippy was a mess, good riddance

Stu
06-11-2013, 10:12 PM
Wow mean, I used to get on with scott. :(

So did I. I still found him a bit much. Not a reflection on him as a person - because I don't know anything about his issues - just a reflection of his posts.

Don't find that mean myself at all personally but to each their own. I'm sure he was banned for a reason.

Chuck
06-11-2013, 11:00 PM
And zippy never came back. Shame.

Zippy :love:

Glenn.
07-11-2013, 12:00 AM
It'd be less depressing if Glenn wasn't ERE!!!!

<war>

http://i1294.photobucket.com/albums/b614/GlennG88/tumblr_mauixfg8Pm1qg8fs0o1_13484762_zpsf5dcd1b3.jp g

Ammi
07-11-2013, 04:39 AM
..no, TiBB doesn't depress me at all, I find that when I get 'irritated' more or notice it being quieter more is usually when I'm not working..holidays/half term etc..so it's not really anything different on TiBB, just my perspective of it because it becomes more of a focus if I'm not doing anything else and the habit is to log on...once I go back to work and I have my 'balance' back which I need, the sun starts to shine on TiBB once again...

Ammi
07-11-2013, 04:47 AM
..I think for me, because my OH doesn't get so much time off work as I do and the boys are older and doing their own thing most of the time..the school holidays can become like a 'monthly period' and I get grumpy/bored/restless/irritated and then it's like pfffft, with your top 10s, Shaun..:idc:...

smeagol
07-11-2013, 10:56 AM
forums cant make you depressed then your depressed anyway lol

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 10:57 AM
The forum keeps crashing for me this morning. :suspect:

Kyle
07-11-2013, 11:28 AM
the influx of shitty members being here over off-season hasn't helped.

:hugesmile:

This forum must have been a wonderful place filled with sunshine and rainbows and unicorns before the likes of me turned up.

Cherie
07-11-2013, 11:28 AM
the influx of shitty members being here over off-season hasn't helped.

Charming.

It's a forum why would anyone come on here if it depressed them :conf: It is bound to change as people move on with their lives. As for banned members surely the people who were friendly with them can contact them outside the forum, and if they can't how good a "friend" can they be.

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 11:29 AM
Charming.

It's a forum why would anyone come on here if it depressed them :conf: It is bound to change as people move on with their lives. As for banned members surely the people who were friendly with them can contact them outside the forum, and if they can't how good a "friend" can they be.

Agreed. Everyone is welcome in here. I like the new members, even if we don't always agree on things. :)

Kazanne
07-11-2013, 11:32 AM
the influx of shitty members being here over off-season hasn't helped.

Well that's you off my Christmas card list:nono:

Kyle
07-11-2013, 11:32 AM
Agreed. Everyone is welcome in here. I like the new members, even if we don't always agree on things. :)

In principle yes but I disagree in practicality.

A lot of new members have to do a lot to get 'noticed' unless they cosy up with one of the favourites or spark up something controversial.

I was practically a ghost until I lit the touch paper on that H.M.S Samuel thread.

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 11:34 AM
In principle yes but I disagree in practicality.

A lot of new members have to do a lot to get 'noticed' unless they cosy up with one of the favourites or spark up something controversial.

I was practically a ghost until I lit the touch paper on that H.M.S Samuel thread.

It's hard to be a new member for everyone. But i think after a while you start to get used to the forum. :hugesmile:

Niamh.
07-11-2013, 11:34 AM
In principle yes but I disagree in practicality.

A lot of new members have to do a lot to get 'noticed' unless they cosy up with one of the favourites or spark up something controversial.

I was practically a ghost until I lot the touch paper on that H.M.S Samuel thread.

Well isn't that true of life in general, you get noticed if you speak to people or start good threads/conversations? Sitting in a corner saying nothing is never going to get you noticed on a forum :laugh:

Kyle
07-11-2013, 11:37 AM
Well isn't that true of life in general, you get noticed if you speak to people or start good threads/conversations? Sitting in a corner saying nothing is never going to get you noticed on a forum :laugh:

Well saying nothing would leave your post count at a big fat zero.

If I see new members or members that have few posts to their name I bump their threads to give them air time.

smudgie
07-11-2013, 11:40 AM
Well saying nothing would leave your post count at a big fat zero.

If I see new members or members that have few posts to their name I bump their threads to give them air time.

:flowers: :angel:

We all need a bit of help now and then.

smeagol
07-11-2013, 11:41 AM
i prefer to skulk and sneak in the shadows thats a good tip for new members. sneak n skulk then pounce on the precious lol and say wakey wakey sleepies

Niamh.
07-11-2013, 11:41 AM
Well saying nothing would leave your post count at a big fat zero.

If I see new members or members that have few posts to their name I bump their threads to give them air time.

That's great, I do try to make an effort to speak to newer members as well but I think it's unfair to say you need to "cosy" up to one of the favourites to get noticed it makes the place sound like some type of a cartel and it's simply not true either (whoever the favourites are) I think most of our regular members here love to see good and interesting new members and like to speak to new people, it's what forums are about really

Kyle
07-11-2013, 11:47 AM
That's great, I do try to make an effort to speak to newer members as well but I think it's unfair to say you need to "cosy" up to one of the favourites to get noticed it makes the place sound like some type of a cartel and it's simply not true either (whoever the favourites are) I think most of our regular members here love to see good and interesting members and like to speak to new people, it's what forums are about really

I've seen new members blamed for the apparent sundering of this forum. We will disagree I know that but it's just my opinion.

Niamh.
07-11-2013, 11:50 AM
I've seen new members blamed for the apparent sundering of this forum. We will disagree I know that but it's just my opinion.

Yeah I've seen that too from a handful of members but that's always happened and always will, every year on here (and other forums) you always get people talking about how great it was in the good old days and how crap the new members are but I think for the most part, new members are welcomed and wanted on here

Kyle
07-11-2013, 11:55 AM
Yeah I've seen that too from a handful of members but that's always happened and always will, every year on here (and other forums) you always get people talking about how great it was in the good old days and how crap the new members are but I think for the most part, new members are welcomed and wanted on here

Listen I don't know what this place was like a couple of years ago. Maybe it was better, maybe people like me are to blame for this forum going down the ****ter.

One thing I do know is that this forum needs a private sub forum, hidden away from non members or those that aren't involved where people can thrash out their differences. Things get deleted and tempers simmer and nobody knows what's going on. I don't know about you but if people genuinely thought I was a reason this forum was losing its flair I'd want to know about it,

Jake.
07-11-2013, 11:56 AM
Tbh it's what you make of it, get involved in games, chat a bit more, talk about the things you like and chat with others with similar interests and you'll find it more worthy to log on everyday

Glenn.
07-11-2013, 11:58 AM
I'm fed up with posts being deleted tbh :idc:

Niamh.
07-11-2013, 12:00 PM
Listen I don't know what this place was like a couple of years ago. Maybe it was better, maybe people like me are to blame for this forum going down the ****ter.

One thing I do know is that this forum needs a private sub forum, hidden away from non members or those that aren't involved where people can thrash out their differences. Things get deleted and tempers simmer and nobody knows what's going on. I don't know about you but if people genuinely thought I was a reason this forum was losing its flair I'd want to know about it,

It's been discussed before but it's always decided that it wouldn't be a good idea and would end up spilling all over the forum or involving people who don't want to be involved or used as a place just to get away with insulting people

Kazanne
07-11-2013, 12:05 PM
Listen I don't know what this place was like a couple of years ago. Maybe it was better, maybe people like me are to blame for this forum going down the ****ter.

One thing I do know is that this forum needs a private sub forum, hidden away from non members or those that aren't involved where people can thrash out their differences. Things get deleted and tempers simmer and nobody knows what's going on. I don't know about you but if people genuinely thought I was a reason this forum was losing its flair I'd want to know about it,

SM,You are great fun on this forum,it's nice to be able to chat and joke with people ,TIBB to me is pretty much the same as it's always been and I've been her since 2009,no way have you made it go down the ****ter as you call it:joker::joker: now wheres my tenner?

Kyle
07-11-2013, 12:06 PM
I understand why things are deleted or closed because sometimes it completely derails the thread and turns into a slagging match.

I just wish there was a better way than 'let's delete everything and sweep it all under the carpet' because nothing gets resolved and people think the other person is being protected.

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 12:07 PM
I understand why things are deleted or closed because sometimes it completely derails the thread and turns into a slagging match.

I just wish there was a better way than 'let's delete everything and sweep it all under the carpet' because nothing gets resolved and people think the other person is being protected.

Things can always be discussed further on pm. Sometimes it helps to resolve issues.

Glenn.
07-11-2013, 12:09 PM
The post Jesus just made was a perfectly valid opinion. It's stuff like this that gets to me. It's like we can't have an opinion on something if it upsets the apple cart. We don't seem to be able to express our view for fear of upsetting someone.

That's the culture around here now.

Jesus.
07-11-2013, 12:10 PM
I understand why things are deleted or closed because sometimes it completely derails the thread and turns into a slagging match.

I just wish there was a better way than 'let's delete everything and sweep it all under the carpet' because nothing gets resolved and people think the other person is being protected.

Really valid point.

Jesus.
07-11-2013, 12:12 PM
Tbh it's what you make of it, get involved in games, chat a bit more, talk about the things you like and chat with others with similar interests and you'll find it more worthy to log on everyday

When jealous people try to tear down every game you appear in, then it's easier not to bother anymore - for everyones sake.

Jemal
07-11-2013, 12:12 PM
Nothing really depressed me online tbh..
Only a couple members annoy me.. Wouldn't say i get depressed about anything on here.
But one thing that does get to me so much is how members who have been here for a while keep on saying how good TIBB was before.. And imo it just brings down the current crop of new members (who joined from June to now).
that gets to me a lot im not gonna lie. It pisses me off abit.

I also think that +1 -1 game is dire now.

Kazanne
07-11-2013, 12:13 PM
The post Jesus just made was a perfectly valid opinion. It's stuff like this that gets to me. It's like we can't have an opinion on something if it upsets the apple cart. We don't seem to be able to express our view for fear of upsetting someone.

That's the culture around here now.

I agree,we are adults not kids(well most of us):hugesmile:It's frustrating being censored all the time,but I suppose it's hard to strike a happy medium.

Kyle
07-11-2013, 12:15 PM
Really valid point.

What about a social group? Open to anyone who chooses to join and a few rules like no personal insults, digs at personal life or what have you and it does not leave the group.

It's away from the forum.

Jesus.
07-11-2013, 12:15 PM
Nothing really depressed me online tbh..
Only a couple members annoy me.. Wouldn't say i get depressed about anything on here.
But one thing that does get to me so much is how members who have been here for a while keep on saying how good TIBB was before.. And imo it just brings down the current crop of new members (who joined from June to now).
that gets to me a lot im not gonna lie. It pisses me off abit.

I also think that +1 -1 game is dire now.

I wouldn't take personally. Everyone who's a member will have times they enjoy more and times they enjoy less. It's more to do with all people around, and not just new members.

AnnieK
07-11-2013, 12:17 PM
My OH is on a forum where pretty much anything goes....its not always pretty or nice but they seem to vent and then move on much more than on here at times. I don't think anyone wants all out war but its frustrating when, as adults, we are censored and made to feel like naughty school kids at times. (Well not me being the angel that I am obviously)...

chuff me dizzy
07-11-2013, 12:18 PM
Listen I don't know what this place was like a couple of years ago. Maybe it was better, maybe people like me are to blame for this forum going down the ****ter.

One thing I do know is that this forum needs a private sub forum, hidden away from non members or those that aren't involved where people can thrash out their differences. Things get deleted and tempers simmer and nobody knows what's going on. I don't know about you but if people genuinely thought I was a reason this forum was losing its flair I'd want to know about it,

:cheer2:

Jesus.
07-11-2013, 12:20 PM
What about a social group? Open to anyone who chooses to join and a few rules like no personal insults, digs at personal life or what have you and it does not leave the group.

It's away from the forum.

It's pretty pointless - Social groups are terrible things anyway in my book. I've joined a couple, but then think what's the point and leave them. I don't like how messy they make my profile look either!!

When people are just willing to lie and spew out anything, then they avoid having to face their own actions anyway, because justification is better than reflection.

Anyone who knows me, will say I'm the first person to raise my hand and apologise when I know I'm wrong, but that doesn't work with everyone, and one-sided discussions about stuff is pretty meaningless.

chuff me dizzy
07-11-2013, 12:20 PM
My OH is on a forum where pretty much anything goes....its not always pretty or nice but they seem to vent and then move on much more than on here at times. I don't think anyone wants all out war but its frustrating when, as adults, we are censored and made to feel like naughty school kids at times. (Well not me being the angel that I am obviously)...

In an adult forum ,that is how it should be ,I find it insulting when scraps of kids say the most revolting things and nothing is done if they are part of the golden gang, I would love a place where I could tell these people exactly what I think ,it should be mod free

Kyle
07-11-2013, 12:27 PM
The only other way I can think of is where the posts are left for all to see but people accordingly punished for what they have said.

Obviously remove it if it's racist or hugely personal or inciting violence.

It's annoying when things are removed and people are like 'what did he say? What did she do?'

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 12:27 PM
The only other way I can think of is where the posts are left for all to see but people accordingly punished for what they have said.

Obviously remove it if it's racist or hugely personal or inciting violence.

It's annoying when things are removed and people are like 'what did he say? What did she do?'

If it helps, i think you're a great member. You've grown on me a lot. :hugesmile:

Kyle
07-11-2013, 12:31 PM
If it helps, i think you're a great member. You've grown on me a lot. :hugesmile:

Thanks V :hug:

smeagol
07-11-2013, 12:31 PM
i think people take the net too seriously myself.
The net is the matrix in reality none of anything we say really matters that much anyway.

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 12:32 PM
i think people take the net too seriously myself.
The net is the matrix in reality none of anything we say really matters that much anyway.

True, i suppose. It's just a bit of fun, isn't it? At least that's the way i see it.

Kyle
07-11-2013, 12:34 PM
I don't know if this means much but what I've noticed is that members who previously quite often have been at loggerheads with each other are actually coming together to advocate a more open door policy.

It's not like it's the more placid members who likely don't get embroiled in disagreements that are for it, it's the people that are likely to be affected by it.

I think that says something myself although others may disagree of course.

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 12:39 PM
This forum is still lot more open than Digital Spy. You can get banned for breathing in there. :joker:

Kazanne
07-11-2013, 12:42 PM
Well I for one don't like to be told what I can say,but hopefully I have enough self control not to overly upset anyone,I would much rather talk through stuff than sit here seething that I cant put a point across,I can take some insults myself and hopefully others can too,it doesn't mean I hate anyone,I just disagree with them.

chuff me dizzy
07-11-2013, 12:46 PM
Well I for one don't like to be told what I can say,but hopefully I have enough self control not to overly upset anyone,I would much rather talk through stuff than sit here seething that I cant put a point across,I can take some insults myself and hopefully others can too,it doesn't mean I hate anyone,I just disagree with them.

Exactly ,i believe if you dish stuff out, you have to expect to get it back, some are allowed to do that on here, others are not, it should one rule for everyone ,and Im quite capable of allowing people to speak their minds on me ,but they have to expect to get the same treatment back ,thats where a place we can go and let off steam without mods jumping in and infracting would be good for this forum ,would you in everyday life let someone keep sticking a knife in your back ? I wouldnt

smeagol
07-11-2013, 12:48 PM
True, i suppose. It's just a bit of fun, isn't it? At least that's the way i see it.

yeah thats all forums are really chit chat bit of fun and learn a thing or two

people just need to realize a disagreement is not a attack its just a different opinion. and really what some stranger thinks of us doesn't matter in the real world anyway.
its like big brother we all like different people & sometimes disagree n things get abit loony lol but next season we might like the same people. suddenly yr friend is your hater and yr enemy is yr friend lol. cause basically none of it matters anyway.

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 12:52 PM
yeah thats all forums are really chit chat bit of fun and learn a thing or two

people just need to realize a disagreement is not a attack its just a different opinion. and really what some stranger thinks of us doesn't matter in the real world anyway.
its like big brother we all like different people & sometimes disagree n things get abit loony lol but next season we might like the same people. suddenly yr friend is your hater and yr enemy is yr friend lol. cause basically none of it matters anyway.

I think the forum is more fun during on season. It's off season that people start to take things more seriously. :laugh:

Kazanne
07-11-2013, 12:53 PM
I've made a couple of really good friends on here,infact hope to meet up with them asap,so friendships can be made.

Josy
07-11-2013, 12:54 PM
Listen I don't know what this place was like a couple of years ago. Maybe it was better, maybe people like me are to blame for this forum going down the ****ter.

One thing I do know is that this forum needs a private sub forum, hidden away from non members or those that aren't involved where people can thrash out their differences. Things get deleted and tempers simmer and nobody knows what's going on. I don't know about you but if people genuinely thought I was a reason this forum was losing its flair I'd want to know about it,

My OH is on a forum where pretty much anything goes....its not always pretty or nice but they seem to vent and then move on much more than on here at times. I don't think anyone wants all out war but its frustrating when, as adults, we are censored and made to feel like naughty school kids at times. (Well not me being the angel that I am obviously)...

In an adult forum ,that is how it should be ,I find it insulting when scraps of kids say the most revolting things and nothing is done if they are part of the golden gang, I would love a place where I could tell these people exactly what I think ,it should be mod free

I am so sick of reading stuff like this as if allowing for an all out war is going to sort out the on going differences between certain members..well it's not.

There is no way at all that things will be kept in a private forum, we already see the same petty differences between members popping up in threads day after day and ruining them because the members in question just cant help but snipe at each other and refuse point blank for stupid reason to use the ignore function.

The sad thing is here most of the on going disagreements are between the mostly older members of the forum who I would have expected to be a bit more mature about online arguments tbqh, so if you all want to insult each other and tell each other what you really think then use the private messages option with a chance of a ban for it or go else where because most other members don't want to see it on the forum and couldn't really care at all about all your pointless arguments.

Kyle
07-11-2013, 12:56 PM
yeah thats all forums are really chit chat bit of fun and learn a thing or two

people just need to realize a disagreement is not a attack its just a different opinion. and really what some stranger thinks of us doesn't matter in the real world anyway.
its like big brother we all like different people & sometimes disagree n things get abit loony lol but next season we might like the same people. suddenly yr friend is your hater and yr enemy is yr friend lol. cause basically none of it matters anyway.

Tbh I have gone off big brother completely now. I have no right to actually be here anymore really lol :hugesmile:

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 12:57 PM
Tbh I have gone off big brother completely now. I have no right to actually be here anymore really lol :hugesmile:

You never know. You might enjoy the next series. It depends from the housemates they choose.

smeagol
07-11-2013, 12:59 PM
Tbh I have gone off big brother completely now. I have no right to actually be here anymore really lol :hugesmile:

lol well plenty other threads i guess. i hated the last bb worst one in the history of bb for me hardly ever watched it
im hoping the next one is good as i do enjoy the bb chats

Kyle
07-11-2013, 01:01 PM
We'll that's that then.

I will say no more on the matter.

Kazanne
07-11-2013, 01:05 PM
We'll that's that then.

I will say no more on the matter.

:sad:

chuff me dizzy
07-11-2013, 01:06 PM
I will say no more apart from if young members were stopped from attacking in gangs after planning it on their messages things wouldnt be so bad on here ,IMO its the young members who cause all the bother, the older ones are more street wise and maybe know better ,but the young ones dont show respect

Josy
07-11-2013, 01:08 PM
I will say no more apart from if young members were stopped from attacking in gangs after planning it on their messages things wouldnt be so bad on here ,IMO its the young members who cause all the bother, the older ones are more street wise and maybe know better ,but the young ones dont show respect

No one gets away with attacking anyone Chuff but you can choose to believe that if you like.

And IMO and I see a lot more than you do, it's certainly not the younger members that cause most of the bother on this forum, the older (in age) members are far far worse.

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 01:10 PM
No one gets away with attacking anyone Chuff but you can choose to believe that if you like.

And IMO and I see a lot more than you do, it's certainly not the younger members that cause most of the bother on this forum, the older (in age) members are far far worse.

That is so true! :joker:

Jesus.
07-11-2013, 01:13 PM
No one gets away with attacking anyone Chuff but you can choose to believe that if you like.

And IMO and I see a lot more than you do, it's certainly not the younger members that cause most of the bother on this forum, the older (in age) members are far far worse.

Other details can be argued, but that's demonstrably not true.

AnnieK
07-11-2013, 01:13 PM
I am so sick of reading stuff like this as if allowing for an all out war is going to sort out the on going differences between certain members..well it's not.

There is no way at all that things will be kept in a private forum, we already see the same petty differences between members popping up in threads day after day and ruining them because the members in question just cant help but snipe at each other and refuse point blank for stupid reason to use the ignore function.

The sad thing is here most of the on going disagreements are between the mostly older members of the forum who I would have expected to be a bit more mature about online arguments tbqh, so if you all want to insult each other and tell each other what you really think then use the private messages option with a chance of a ban for it or go else where because most other members don't want to see it on the forum and couldn't really care at all about all your pointless arguments.

I actually said I don't think anyone wants all out war....but it certainly adds to frustrations when censorship happens.

reece(:
07-11-2013, 01:15 PM
I think the forum is more fun during on season. It's off season that people start to take things more seriously. :laugh:

That's definitely the case, it's much less "pantomime" off season.

reece(:
07-11-2013, 01:18 PM
I will say no more apart from if young members were stopped from attacking in gangs after planning it on their messages things wouldnt be so bad on here ,IMO its the young members who cause all the bother, the older ones are more street wise and maybe know better ,but the young ones dont show respect

I find that highly narrow minded.. it's a two way street, respect is earned. Some of the younger ones here have far more maturity than the "elders".

Stu
07-11-2013, 01:18 PM
I also think that +1 -1 game is dire now.
Yeah you're dead right. I never saw the point in them to begin with, to be honest. Is it a post count exercise? People just copy and pasting a list adding or subtracting a figure. Riveting.

No one gets away with attacking anyone Chuff but you can choose to believe that if you like.

And IMO and I see a lot more than you do, it's certainly not the younger members that cause most of the bother on this forum, the older (in age) members are far far worse.
This is also true.

I have to say I can't see which posts got deleted so maybe I can't comment fairly but I personally have grown out of this "give us freedom mods garhhhh!" thing. Anyone who knew me on here years ago will know I was the most outspoken person going when it came to freedom of expression. But nowadays I'm like "look if the moderators closed or deleted something it was probably because you were all nattery and taking-the-internet-too-seriously and you could all do with shutting the **** up."

It's weird. I was always held up - mostly in a positive light - as being this really volatile, argumentative person but I really don't see that in myself. Maybe before but for ages now I've felt pretty zen about the whole dealio. I see everyone else bickering at each other now. Really boring bickering, too. Nothing really entertaining to watch.

Tales from Back In The Day will continue in it's same slot next week.

Shaun
07-11-2013, 01:24 PM
is chuff, the person who spends every on-season attacking HMs for their weight, appearance and background, really preaching about respect?

Novo
07-11-2013, 01:31 PM
the main problem is that there is no motivation/interest from the Admins to improve the site and there have been so many good suggestions from members in the past few years that have just been ignored.. and i'm saying spend every hour of the day adding features and **** but just at least listen to people instead of dismissing everything.

Kazanne
07-11-2013, 01:43 PM
is chuff, the person who spends every on-season attacking HMs for their weight, appearance and background, really preaching about respect?

Chuff does nothing that others members don't do about BB housemates,I think we are on about FORUM members here.

Jake.
07-11-2013, 01:55 PM
In an adult forum ,that is how it should be ,I find it insulting when scraps of kids say the most revolting things and nothing is done if they are part of the golden gang, I would love a place where I could tell these people exactly what I think ,it should be mod free

Tit for tat, I love how easy it is to ship the blame on to younger members considering I've seen equal heaps of trype written by so called 'adults' on here

Ammi
07-11-2013, 03:39 PM
..I don’t think it’s an age thing at all that cause any conflict, people don’t respect age, they respect other people regardless of age...it’s personalities/characters, not age who may not get along but I can’t imagine there’s a forum where that wouldn’t happen, it's just inevitable ..it’s unfair and quite offensive to say ‘it’s the older ones’, ‘it’s the younger ones’....and it just isn’t true...if anyone has ‘issues’ then they have an option to ignore, but if they want to resolve anything and they can't/don't do it through PM, then having a private 'slog it out' type forum would be pointless and wouldn't make any difference at all....

Jack_
07-11-2013, 04:09 PM
It's been discussed before but it's always decided that it wouldn't be a good idea and would end up spilling all over the forum or involving people who don't want to be involved or used as a place just to get away with insulting people

Then all you do is have a strict zero tolerance policy in every area of the forum other than the private area. If any kind of argument breaks out on the main board after the issue has been resolved in the said section, they're just banned for a week or something. The idea would be that if a debate turns into an argument in a thread, then it's stopped and sent to the private area where it can continue for as long as needs be. The PM idea is perfectly reasonable but when there's still rules governing that it doesn't solve anything either?

If you let people have an area to really go to town and sort out their differences, I think in the end people would laugh it off and it would end up solving a lot of problems. Sweepings things under the carpet and not allowing issues to be resolved, no matter whether that takes a slanging match or not, just festers more problems than it solves because people still have issues with each other and aren't allowed to go at it to sort them out

If nothing else I think it should be trialled for a couple of weeks, this idea has been suggested so many times that it may as well at least be given a go to see who is right or wrong about whether it'll work or not

Josy
07-11-2013, 04:13 PM
The private area idea wont work and wont be given a go no matter how much it's brought up we have been through all this before.

There has been a couple of occasions where we have took a step back and let things run there course and that never worked, reports were coming in constantly and people were blaming us asking where we were and why we never stepped in.

Seriously if people want to argue with other members so much then they can go find somewhere else to do it.

Stu
07-11-2013, 04:14 PM
It sounds like a pig of an idea, to be honest. Sanctioning a public bloodbath forum just to satiate some nutters need to have their conflict viewed in a public space. Why would anybody even want to promote that kind of carry on, let alone the people to whom the maintenance of the site is held accountable to?

How would it work? It would take the novelty out of spontaneous arguments. Do I set up a thread saying "Hey joeysteele, I'm calling you out, bro".

It's just childish. We don't even have a decent pedigree of argumentative members to make it work. It would just be unending catcalls and gifspam.

arista
07-11-2013, 04:17 PM
It sounds like a pig of an idea, to be honest. Sanctioning a public bloodbath forum just to satiate some nutters need to have their conflict viewed in a public space. Why would anybody even want to promote that kind of carry on, let alone the people to whom the maintenance of the site is held accountable to?

How would it work? It would take the novelty out of spontaneous arguments. Do I set up a thread saying "Hey joeysteele, I'm calling you out, bro".

It's just childish. We don't even have a decent pedigree of argumentative members to make it work. It would just be unending catcalls and gifspam.


He would Love That



Great Points Stu

Marcus.
07-11-2013, 04:18 PM
an chill out room thing
lt let them air the prolems

Lee.
07-11-2013, 04:19 PM
I think the Great Argument of 2010 proved that a free for all argument doesn't make the situation any better. Whatsoever. Ha2

Niamh.
07-11-2013, 04:22 PM
I think the Great Argument of 2010 proved that a free for all argument doesn't make the situation any better. Whatsoever. Ha2

Yep, I was just talking about that as an example earlier in the admin section actually. We ended up getting blamed for not stepping in as well, which would happen here as well

Jack_
07-11-2013, 04:24 PM
I will say no more apart from if young members were stopped from attacking in gangs after planning it on their messages things wouldnt be so bad on here ,IMO its the young members who cause all the bother, the older ones are more street wise and maybe know better ,but the young ones dont show respect

Since this is obviously directed at me

1) I have been infracted for things that have concerned you before, so don't assume that I haven't. Thanks

2) I know 18 isn't old but being referred to as the 'youngsters' as if we're some little bunch of yobs that terrorise TiBB and all of its lovely, respectable, squeaky clean older members during on-season is quite patronising and now that I'm writing it also quite hilarious, please stop it

3) Age is completely irrelevant when it comes to who gets into trouble on here. I could quite easily sit here and say that there's a hell of a lot of 'older' members that have caused many problems on this forum in the last few months, and I would be correct, but there have been many young, gay, female, religious, atheist, black, white people that have done the same...do you not see what I'm getting at? Age is irrelevant, so are all of these other categories. Individuals cause problems, not social groups determined by factors beyond those individuals control (age being the example here). What's next? 'Those ****ing greedy bi's on TiBB are ruining the forum with their rude attitudes'? You wouldn't get away with categorising anyone else and accusing them of causing the problem, so why is age any different?

Ramsay
07-11-2013, 04:28 PM
No Glenn, i do not find the forum depressing. i'm quite content.

Jake.
07-11-2013, 04:28 PM
Jack pretty much summed it up

Lee.
07-11-2013, 04:34 PM
Yep, I was just talking about that as an example earlier in the admin section actually. We ended up getting blamed for not stepping in as well, which would happen here as well

Of course you would! I'm all for healthy debate and civilised disagreements, but it would end up in name calling, pettiness and all round hysteria.

Kazanne
07-11-2013, 04:37 PM
Of course you would! I'm all for healthy debate and civilised disagreements, but it would end up in name calling, pettiness and all round hysteria.

http://i179.photobucket.com/albums/w294/MoDans55/Animations/pieface.gif (http://media.photobucket.com/user/MoDans55/media/Animations/pieface.gif.html) :hugesmile:

Jack_
07-11-2013, 04:48 PM
It sounds like a pig of an idea, to be honest. Sanctioning a public bloodbath forum just to satiate some nutters need to have their conflict viewed in a public space. Why would anybody even want to promote that kind of carry on, let alone the people to whom the maintenance of the site is held accountable to?

How would it work? It would take the novelty out of spontaneous arguments. Do I set up a thread saying "Hey joeysteele, I'm calling you out, bro".

It's just childish. We don't even have a decent pedigree of argumentative members to make it work. It would just be unending catcalls and gifspam.

I'd much rather sort stuff out via PM myself as I alluded to in my last post, but the rules still apply there. The problem is that if I were sent a PM with insults in then hey fair enough it's just the internet, but I could hypothetically send one back with the same kind of content and that person could report it? That's not really fair and isn't really resolving anything. If you scrap the rules for private messaging and just pretend it's like some messaging service that's not part of the forum then yeah, I'd have no problem and it would probably work. The odd occasion when I've taken an argument to PM it has been resolved, but there are just the odd couple of members that have issues with me and to an extent vice versa and if we could just be allowed to say what we really want to say without repercussions, I think in the end the problem would either be resolved, or we'd just conclude that it's best to stay away from each other. We wouldn't even need to be having this discussion if the idea of a no holds barred forums would just be implemented for private messaging, I'd be more than happy with that. The forum idea has only been suggested because PM'ing is no different to the main board rules

Arguments would still break out on the main board, they'd just be told to go to the specified thread in a subsection or something. That way not only would the people who don't like threads going off-topic have their issues resolved with the thread getting back on track, but the people who have long standing issues with each other would at least be able to go into depth about how they feel without feeling they're going to be silenced. In the end that really doesn't resolve anything because the problem is still there, it only gets resolved (or at least people mutually agree to stay clear of each other) when people have the opportunity to say what they wish. You'd of course get members that are disagreeing about the latest Strictly elimination going in there and going 'well I hope you die you ******' but that comes with the territory :laugh: the point of it would be to try and resolve the petty, longstanding problems that certain people have with each other on here by allowing them to say what they wish, and it can only stay in that one private section (where it's not ~spoiling the forum for guest browsers), if someone drags it up again on the main board then you go all ghetto on their ass and just ban them. The current system whereby people are infracted and posts get deleted when arguments break out just means that those involved haven't really finished what they started and it's only going to start up some other time

And I say all of this as someone which would probably enter this on the first day to make two lengthy posts about two members, try and resolve the issue and then never return again.

Yep, I was just talking about that as an example earlier in the admin section actually. We ended up getting blamed for not stepping in as well, which would happen here as well

But it wouldn't happen since in the past when you may have let things carry on there are still rules that are in place which give people the right to complain. A no-holds-barred forum would have no rules (well, I'd say other than no attacks on people's personal lives, appearance and obviously the standard no racist/homophobic etc etc), so anyone stepping into it either to read or partake who then complains, well they have no ground to stand on since by that point the point of the forum would have been made clear and that there were no rules governing it. People have no right to complain if it's clear that people are free to go at it as they wish

arista
07-11-2013, 04:58 PM
Of course you would! I'm all for healthy debate and civilised disagreements, but it would end up in name calling, pettiness and all round hysteria.




Hocky You

Lee.
07-11-2013, 05:12 PM
Hocky You

Pardon you

Josy
07-11-2013, 05:22 PM
Pardon you

:joker:

Me. I Am Salman
07-11-2013, 05:42 PM
lol @ people a few pages back still moaning about posts insulting members being deleted

Z
07-11-2013, 05:51 PM
Community spirit is needed. Most Loved is coming in just a couple of weeks. That is all. :)

Jake.
07-11-2013, 05:54 PM
Ah I forgot about most loved!

HD
07-11-2013, 05:58 PM
wtf is most loved. i guess clue's in the name but y'no...

Glenn.
07-11-2013, 06:42 PM
Community spirit is needed. Most Loved is coming in just a couple of weeks. That is all. :)

:amazed: asdfgjkl

Glenn.
07-11-2013, 06:43 PM
lol @ people a few pages back still moaning about posts insulting members being deleted

Yeah it's hilarious

Niamh.
07-11-2013, 07:49 PM
Community spirit is needed. Most Loved is coming in just a couple of weeks. That is all. :)

Yeah cos ML never causes arguments :laugh:

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 07:51 PM
Yeah cos ML never causes arguments :laugh:

At least we can opt out if we want to, which is great. :blush:

Me. I Am Salman
07-11-2013, 08:13 PM
Yeah it's hilarious

certainly is :)

Z
07-11-2013, 08:31 PM
Yeah cos ML never causes arguments :laugh:

It's always the same people who like to wind each other up who argue in the thread though, it's not like the thread itself is a cause of the arguments, it's just because it's such a popular thread that everyone gets sucked into it while the countdown is being posted and that inevitably means the people who hate each other are posting at the same time, trying to bait each other. :bored:

MeMyselfAndI
07-11-2013, 08:34 PM
I haven't been able to post on the last 2 ML's, so hopefully I will for this one :love:

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 08:34 PM
It's always the same people who like to wind each other up who argue in the thread though, it's not like the thread itself is a cause of the arguments, it's just because it's such a popular thread that everyone gets sucked into it while the countdown is being posted and that inevitably means the people who hate each other are posting at the same time, trying to bait each other. :bored:

That is exactly why i don't take pat anymore. There's enough baiting going on in the forum as it is.

Kyle
07-11-2013, 08:47 PM
Can't wait to see what all the fuss is about with this most loved thingy. The way everybody goes on about it it's like the second coming of Jesus.

Z
07-11-2013, 08:48 PM
Can't wait to see what all the fuss is about with this most loved thingy. The way everybody goes on about it it's like the second coming of Jesus.

Sadly it won't be the second coming of TiBB's Jesus, as far as I know he is withdrawing from all future editions.

Kyle
07-11-2013, 08:50 PM
Sadly it won't be the second coming of TiBB's Jesus, as far as I know he is withdrawing from all future editions.

What actually is it? Why do people opt out?

Kizzy
07-11-2013, 08:50 PM
Have I to log back out?..... :laugh:

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 08:50 PM
What actually is it? Why do people opt out?

Yes, you can choose to opt out if you want.

Drew.
07-11-2013, 08:51 PM
What actually is it? Why do people opt out?

if someone likes you they'll give you points.. pretty much a popularity contest.

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 08:52 PM
If you opt out you can still vote, which is good.

Kyle
07-11-2013, 08:54 PM
Yes, you can choose to opt out if you want.

if someone likes you they'll give you points.. pretty much a popularity contest.

Well that's me *****ed then. :hugesmile:


Sounds a laugh though, think I'll join in. When's Tibbs biggest *****?

Benjamin
07-11-2013, 08:55 PM
When's Tibbs biggest *****?

It got banished by admin a few years back after it erupted in a mass war. :laugh:

#thisisvicky.com

MeMyselfAndI
07-11-2013, 08:56 PM
I got #4 which I'm proud of, as the top 3 are all perm banned

Kyle
07-11-2013, 08:56 PM
It got banished by admin a few years back after it erupted in a mass war. :laugh:

#thisisvicky.com

:joker:

Who won? :devil:

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 09:00 PM
Most loved usually still ends up in a massive argument. :laugh:

Benjamin
07-11-2013, 09:02 PM
:joker:

Who won? :devil:

Stacey iirc.

Thomas C was 2nd and Scott 3rd? I think I was #18. :laugh:

Stu
07-11-2013, 09:02 PM
When's Tibbs biggest *****?
A few times a day.

Kyle
07-11-2013, 09:05 PM
A few times a day.

http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view/1030586/angry-cat-o.gif

mizzy25
07-11-2013, 09:06 PM
no i dont find it depressing @ all infact i like it better, its just too busy sometimes on season. Off season u can get to know everyone more. I have no idea who scott is and i have no idea why he was banned.

Drew.
07-11-2013, 09:06 PM
A few times a day.

:joker:

Vanessa
07-11-2013, 09:07 PM
http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view/1030586/angry-cat-o.gif

That gif! :laugh:

Niamh.
08-11-2013, 09:03 AM
It got banished by admin a few years back after it erupted in a mass war. :laugh:

#thisisvicky.com

:lovedup:

lostalex
08-11-2013, 09:07 AM
it's definitely lost it's edge. probably because BB fans have just gotten older, not many new younger fans.

I don't think channel 5 is winning over a new generation. I haven't noticed many young people excited about BBUK.

reece(:
08-11-2013, 03:16 PM
^ I think it's more the opposite, older people are turning off and more younger fans are coming through because that's the way the show is edited now

Ammi
08-11-2013, 03:20 PM
^ I think it's more the opposite, older people are turning off and more younger fans are coming through because that's the way the show is edited now

..I still don't think it's an old/young thing Reece, I think it's more the type of programme they want it to be and the housemates they choose, who seem to be chosen more for conflicting personalities...which you do have to have but you do have to have a balance to those personalities as well, but they do also have a broader age range of housemates, whereas before it was often one token 'oldie'....

Brother Leon
08-11-2013, 03:32 PM
Could swear we just finished ML not long ago :laugh:

Me. I Am Salman
08-11-2013, 03:37 PM
It was over half a year ago

Me. I Am Salman
08-11-2013, 03:37 PM
I think :suspect:

Drew.
08-11-2013, 03:39 PM
Nothing's changed in 6 moths :laugh: surely it'll just be the same results near enough

reece(:
08-11-2013, 03:40 PM
Nothing's changed in 6 moths :laugh: surely it'll just be the same results near enough
I hope it isn't!!!!

Natalie.
08-11-2013, 03:57 PM
What's ml?

Niamh.
08-11-2013, 03:58 PM
What's ml?

Most loved, people basically vote for their favourite people on TiBB and Zee does a countdown of the 50 members with the highest votes

Apple202
08-11-2013, 03:58 PM
I came #27 last time I think

Me. I Am Salman
08-11-2013, 04:00 PM
I didn't make it last time lmfao

Natalie.
08-11-2013, 04:03 PM
Most loved, people basically vote for their favourite people on TiBB and Zee does a countdown of the 50 members with the highest votes

Oh nice, thanks. Should be an interesting read :hugesmile:

Brother Leon
08-11-2013, 04:06 PM
Nothing's changed in 6 moths :laugh: surely it'll just be the same results near enough

They'll be one or two surprise placings as usual, but yeah I imagine it may be fairly similar. :laugh:

Marcus.
08-11-2013, 10:20 PM
i came in at 40 odd last time

HD
08-11-2013, 10:38 PM
I'll prob come top 500 tbh

Marc
08-11-2013, 10:39 PM
Not ML chat. Pls.

Vicky.
09-11-2013, 11:35 AM
How long before the mass arselicking starts? :suspect:

Z
09-11-2013, 11:39 AM
How long before the mass arselicking starts? :suspect:

Probably the moment I post the thread :joker:

Kyle
09-11-2013, 11:43 AM
Love you all vote me please I don't really talk about you all behind your back I have candy love me look I'm reasonable give me points praise meeeeeeeee

Ramsay
09-11-2013, 11:43 AM
You are all smelling great today

Kizzy
09-11-2013, 11:54 AM
I'm going for reverse psychology...
I hate you all, you all talk utter bollox and if I ever met you in the street I would spit in your face. :love:

Kyle
09-11-2013, 11:56 AM
That's how people from Leeds act anyway Kizzy so I thought that would be your natural character :hmph:

Josy
09-11-2013, 12:08 PM
How long before the mass arselicking starts? :suspect:

:joker::joker:

Probably already started

arista
09-11-2013, 02:21 PM
I'm going for reverse psychology...
I hate you all, you all talk utter bollox and if I ever met you in the street I would spit in your face. :love:













Kinky

Z
09-11-2013, 02:24 PM
:laugh3:

Jesus.
09-11-2013, 05:13 PM
I don't think Arista saw the "p".

arista
09-11-2013, 05:30 PM
I don't think Arista saw the "p".


I saw the p.