How would you describe your life right now?

[Benjamin]

On a day to day basis, describe your life.

[Me. I Am Salman]

**** and boring

[Marcus.]

samey at mo

[Vanessa]

Boring as hell. :bored:

[Jake.]

Empty? I don't know, just seems like I do the same stuff (either work or college) and I don't really enjoy any of it, only thing I do like is going out on a Saturday night if I can.

[Stu]

Wonderful. I've shed virtually every neurotic aspect of my personality. I'm breathing in light and pissing out the love. I wake up, get some work done, come home, get creative, see some friends and indulge in my interests. I go to bed at the end of the day peaceful and stress free and watch a movie or play some Xbox. I really can't complain. I'm never bored because I find it quite easy to explore something new or engage in a new thought process/activity.

Seems like I'm in the minority. Any time one of these threads come up the vast majority of this gaf seems really despondent :(.

[King Gizzard]

terrible? Why else am I on here most of my spare time

[Ninastar]

pretty ****. i think this is the lowest I've ever been

[Saph]

why is Tibb getting all deep tonight :laugh:

I'm not really sure where my life is atm, I kinda feel like I'm in that in between stage, I need to decide whether to go down the uni route or the money route :/ on top of 1000 other things

[Ninastar]

why is Tibb getting all deep tonight :laugh:

I'm not really sure where my life is atm, I kinda feel like I'm in that in between stage, I need to decide whether to go down the uni route or the money route :/ on top of 1000 other things

i'd say uni.

my biggest regret

[Stu]

My god I want to give you all a hug and some inspirational JPEGS from Pinterest or something.

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Come on. REM are like guaranteed to make a mahfuka smile

[Smithy]

kinda promising/exciting?

I'm finally doing things that i've been putting off, I started driving lessons, I'm working still (although I have more free time than i'd like), I've got a few night out with people from work planned, i'm going away next week for 3 weeks and I might be moving out of home by next year

[Benjamin]

why is Tibb getting all deep tonight :laugh:

I'm not really sure where my life is atm, I kinda feel like I'm in that in between stage, I need to decide whether to go down the uni route or the money route :/ on top of 1000 other things

It happens when TiBB gets quiet, we all actually start learning about each other and actually pay attention to everyone. Don't worry, when December hits normality will resume. :laugh:

[Saph]

oh god I dont even want to think about driving lessons.. thats another thing to add to the list

[Smithy]

oh god I dont even want to think about driving lessons.. thats another thing to add to the list

I've put them off for like 3 years, but my first one was on monday, and my instructor was amazing, she put me at ease so quickly it was like i'd known her for months

[Stu]

And yeah I'd go to Uni too. You'll have the time of your life and you can always make loads of money later. Or have the time of your life, drop out and make a pittance later. Like me.

[MeMyselfAndI]

Stressfull, which is why I've been on this forum so much the past 2 weeks :laugh3:

Picking my 5 uni choices, writing my personal statement, Biology exam next week, and all of my unit tests in my subjects etc, and also I'm worried about my uni course & just ucas form. I need this month over, but I'm not even doing anything, like revision/ucas/looking at more uni's because I'm panicking over it.

I've also very recently started driving lessons and my instructor is a twat so I'm not enjoying them like at all

[Saph]

I've put them off for like 3 years, but my first one was on monday, and my instructor was amazing, she put me at ease so quickly it was like i'd known her for months

aw I hope I can get one like that, I think i'd have to go with a female one, idk why but a male one would probably make me feel more nervous

[Kyle]

Room for one more on the bus to sh*tsville?

[MeMyselfAndI]

I've put them off for like 3 years, but my first one was on monday, and my instructor was amazing, she put me at ease so quickly it was like i'd known her for months

My instructor shouts really loudly if I release the clutch slightly too fast & is so patronizing and condensing and just makes rude remarks all the time. You're lucky :laugh:

[Smithy]

aw I hope I can get one like that, I think i'd have to go with a female one, idk why but a male one would probably make me feel more nervous

ask around your friends who've passed what their instructors were like :hugesmile:

[Samm]

Crazy/love

Loving the winter and can't wait for the new year

[HD]

Dull but I'm gonna make it interesting, somehow, some way... Probs starting next week or something. :hugesmile:

[Me. I Am Salman]

I'm so stressed out over college stuff, like this year seems so difficult and I'm not motivated. I keep procrastinating (e.g. on here) and don't feel like I'm taking anything in, I'm getting paranoid over the course I'm planning to do (English language + linguistics) in terms of whether I'll get a good job I also enjoy out of it. With UCAS I haven't been to one tutorial yet because my college is a bit of a mess, so have had to rely on the help of my friends with it, no guidance from a tutor.

Also I'm stressing over my contact lenses, because I'm getting special ones as my eyes are a weird shape but they might not even fit, meaning I won't ever be able to wear contacts ever and that's a terrifying thought..

There's a ****load of other problems too, e.g. family stuff, and things so much worse than what I've mentioned. I'm not depressed though, but I haven't feel properly 'happy' and content, I'm just getting on with things if that makes sense ;s

[Kate!]

At this precise moment, rock bottom. ****.

[Kazanne]

Hectic,but I'm in a good place right now,have a good hubby and great kids,and am thankful for that

[Kazanne]

At this precise moment, rock bottom. ****.

Aw Kate,you've had a shock,it takes some getting over,you know we are here for you:hug:

[smudgie]

Content with my life.

I feel for al you younger ones, having to choose your uni courses and career paths.
But you have your who lives full of adventure ahead of you so quite jealous as well.:hugesmile:
Nothing at all to complain about in my life, health could be better, but I am loved and I am happy.

[smudgie]

At this precise moment, rock bottom. ****.


Awww Kate, can I give you a big hug. :hug:

[GypsyGoth]

My life is going well, and like Stu, I'm never l bored. I sometimes feel on the verge of being kinda snowed under by life, but that anxiety is fleeting and passes.

There's a lot more structure to my days since I started work and I find that I pace myself better.

[joeysteele]

Kate, all my very best wishes to you,I really and sincerely hope you have cause to feel really good soon.

My life at present is full of chewing over decisions that are needed to be made but I am really happy at this point in my life.

[MTVN]

Well in my typical day I get up late, normally start the day with a bacon butty and a cuppa watching bargain hunt, do a bit of work, pause for countdown, do a bit more work, pause for Pointless, do a bit more work if I can be bothered then kick back with a couple of beers in the evening, heat up a ready meal and watch some more telly

What's not to like

[Smithy]

matt you're a 65 year old trapped in a 20 year olds body

[MTVN]

Nonsense, I am living the dream

[Kate!]

Aw Kate,you've had a shock,it takes some getting over,you know we are here for you:hug:

Awww Kate, can I give you a big hug. :hug:

Kate, all my very best wishes to you,I really and sincerely hope you have cause to feel really good soon.

My life at present is full of chewing over decisions that are needed to be made but I am really happy at this point in my life.

Thanks guys. Thought I was coming to terms with it but all I've done yesterday and tonight is bawl my eyes out.

[Kizzy]

:hug: kate x
I'm not unhappy but things could be better, I'm staying positive and willing good things to me.
Keep getting stuck in a fug, then emerging...

[BigSister]

*hugs for Kate*
If you had said to me a few months ago I would have said total crap but atm things seem ok...prob best for a while my diabetes seem under control again I havent got a job yet since the hospital seem in no hurry to get an appoitment for my eyes but hopeful of some voluneter work in the new year while im not working, but im plodding along and seeng my best friend every week helps with her 2 children gets me out of the house. So crossed fingers its not the best but it was a lot worse a few months back

[Josy]

Dear god, I feel bad posting this...

My life is pretty amazing atm, everything is spot on and the way I want it to be.

Had a bad time last month losing a very close family member but other than that everything is perfect.

[Jake.]

What an awful person you really are Josy

[Cherie]

Thanks guys. Thought I was coming to terms with it but all I've done yesterday and tonight is bawl my eyes out.

Aw Kate that is all part of the grieving process, you will have good days and bad days but gradually the good days will increase and the bad days will decrease it takes time and there are a lot of mile stones to get through, Christmas, Birthdays etc but it does gradually get better, sorry if that sounds a little harsh but it is very early days for you, and it is good that you are crying if that makes sense.

[smeagol]

a waste

[Niamh.]

My life is pretty good atm, bit stressed out with money things as a few things happened at once that we weren't expecting but It'll be fine I'm sure.

[Lee.]

Content and happy and grateful for what I have :)

[Stu]

bang on right
lee

[Lee.]

Sign of the times
stu

[mizzy25]

Boring but hectic if that makes sense.

[Apple202]

everything's perfectly fine, nothings wrong it's just everything's a bit dull

i want to achieve something

[daniel-lewis-1985]

My god just masterbate.

Solves all your problems.

[Vanessa]

:laugh2:

[daniel-lewis-1985]

I'm so stressed out over college stuff, like this year seems so difficult and I'm not motivated. I keep procrastinating (e.g. on here) and don't feel like I'm taking anything in, I'm getting paranoid over the course I'm planning to do (English language + linguistics) in terms of whether I'll get a good job I also enjoy out of it. With UCAS I haven't been to one tutorial yet because my college is a bit of a mess, so have had to rely on the help of my friends with it, no guidance from a tutor.

Also I'm stressing over my contact lenses, because I'm getting special ones as my eyes are a weird shape but they might not even fit, meaning I won't ever be able to wear contacts ever and that's a terrifying thought..

There's a ****load of other problems too, e.g. family stuff, and things so much worse than what I've mentioned. I'm not depressed though, but I haven't feel properly 'happy' and content, I'm just getting on with things if that makes sense ;s

These are so trivial in the grand scheme of things.

Cancer---Contact lenses .

Cancer---No motivation/relying on others.

Whats worse?

[Me. I Am Salman]

Bitch it's still stressful

And there's other much worse issues but I'm not comfortable with revealing them because I don't like saying personal stuff on the internet

[daniel-lewis-1985]

Bitch it's still stressful

And there's other much worse issues but I'm not comfortable with revealing them because I don't like saying personal stuff on the internet

We all go through ****e.

People take their own lives, family members die, friends go to rehab, people get shunned for their sexual orientation, people get ill.

In the big picture college and contact lenses arent that big a deal right?

Take it on the chin, have a bitch about someone, get pissed, order 10 pizzas to your tutors house, watch Home Alone.

C'mon we live in the Western World be ****ing grateful.

[Kyle]

Just because we live in the Western World doesn't mean we have no right to be stressed or depressed.

[Cherie]

We all go through ****e.

People take their own lives, family members die, friends go to rehab, people get shunned for their sexual orientation, people get ill.

In the big picture college and contact lenses arent that big a deal right?

Take it on the chin, have a bitch about someone, get pissed, order 10 pizzas to your tutors house, watch Home Alone.

C'mon we live in the Western World be ****ing grateful.

Bit harsh, what can seem a minor problem to one person can be a huge thing for someone else, that is what makes us individuals. Yes I get the gist of what you are saying that there are far worse things can happen in life, but that doesn't diminish what is happening in peoples lives at the moment. It is all relative.

[x-evenstar-x]

My life right now sucks!

It doesn't matter where you are from, you could be the richest man on the planet and be so incredibly unhappy or the poorest man but be totally happy! Happiness doesn't come from where you are or what you have.

[daniel-lewis-1985]

Ok then sorry.

My life sucks! The plaster in my new flat is taking ages to dry so im living in one room!

Im sure some child who has to walk miles for water and lives in a **** hut would sympathise with me though.

Depression and mental illness sufferers then yes that sucks but stressing over contact lenses or college im sorry get over it.

Atleast you can #WorkBitch

[x-evenstar-x]

Ok then sorry.

My life sucks! The plaster in my new flat is taking ages to dry so im living in one room!

Im sure some child who has to walk miles for water and lives in a **** hut would sympathise with me though.

Depression and mental illness sufferers then yes that sucks but stressing over contact lenses or college im sorry get over it.

Atleast you can #WorkBitch

I agree, but sometimes the stresses that are put on people can become too much. Sure it's not the end of the world and it will get resolved but people are aloud to feel stressed out or down or whatever. People can't feel guilty because of the position they are in, we don't choose to have the life's we get. Of course it's awful some circumstances people are in in this world, in fact it's so unfair but that's life, what can you do?

[King Gizzard]

It is all relative.

Definitely agree with this

[erinp5]

Happy.

[MeMyselfAndI]

stressed about college ah

[Livia]

Busy... happy... looking forward... but always with a bit of a shadow.

[Ammi]

I'm so stressed out over college stuff, like this year seems so difficult and I'm not motivated. I keep procrastinating (e.g. on here) and don't feel like I'm taking anything in, I'm getting paranoid over the course I'm planning to do (English language + linguistics) in terms of whether I'll get a good job I also enjoy out of it. With UCAS I haven't been to one tutorial yet because my college is a bit of a mess, so have had to rely on the help of my friends with it, no guidance from a tutor.

Also I'm stressing over my contact lenses, because I'm getting special ones as my eyes are a weird shape but they might not even fit, meaning I won't ever be able to wear contacts ever and that's a terrifying thought..

There's a ****load of other problems too, e.g. family stuff, and things so much worse than what I've mentioned. I'm not depressed though, but I haven't feel properly 'happy' and content, I'm just getting on with things if that makes sense ;s

..honestly Salman, having astigmatism isn't anything unusual and if the contact lenses you are getting don't suit you, there are lots of other ones and one of them will be just right for you, so try not to worry that you won't be able to wear them, ok...I know you will worry because that's what we do, isn't it..but it's like anything, they'll just try different ones out with you until they find the right ones and there will be 'right ones'....

[lostalex]

angry and lonely.

[Ammi]

angry and lonely.

..obviously lonely doesn't take much figuring out but do you know why you're angry or is it more 'angry at the world/everything and I don't know why..'


..anyway, sorry I didn't mean to pry or anything Alex, I was just going to give you an internet hug but that somehow just seemed a bit hollow...





..:hug:..

[zakman440]

Hmmm, average. I mean, I've got mock GCSEs coming up so that a bit stressful, but apart from that, my life's pretty okay!

[LemonJam]

Ok then sorry.

My life sucks! The plaster in my new flat is taking ages to dry so im living in one room!

Im sure some child who has to walk miles for water and lives in a **** hut would sympathise with me though.

Depression and mental illness sufferers then yes that sucks but stressing over contact lenses or college im sorry get over it.

Atleast you can #WorkBitch

Good job Daniel, Salmans life will be right on track after your wise words!!!!11

like seriously, that arguments so ****ing dumb and self-righteous. Just because other people are much worse off than him it doesn't make his feelings less valid or solve any of his problems.

[Redway]

Average, in one word.

[reece(:]

Pretty poor.... may just be "trivial" things but..

College - full of expectations I'm meant to meet yet I get given minimal time to complete assignments and I naturally write a lot so never get stuff done so I'm ending up with **** grades.
friends - Barely see some of my really valued friends anymore cos they've all got into relationships and /there's me/ah/, loneliness gets to me a lot (and the ever growing fear of being unwanted).
Then there's loads of family stuff I'd rather not divulge into online.

[mizzy25]

Im actually sick of feeling like crap. I would love to have one full nights sleep without any weird dreams. Ive not a full nights sleep for years. I sleep about 4 hours before waking up. I would love to wake up and think I feel great, never happened for about 20years.

[Black Dagger]

repetitive.

[michael21]

i just read thought this thread

poor tibb members :hug: