I have never felt so stupid and humiliated.

[Conzors]

For three reasons!

1) I had a date tonight, he was texting me throughout the day saying yeah he's still coming and we'll meet in the pub near me at 6pm, at Half 5 he said he was leaving so i make my way to the pub and order us food and a drink like he requested. (it's a pub so you pay at the start of your meal so i paid expecting him to give me half).

6.30 came, the food was on the table and no sight of my date, i rang and texted him and no reply. I knew he was at his phone because he said he was on whatsapp. So here i am with two plates of food, two drinks and me sitting there by myself!

2) The man came over and asked if i was okay, and i said yeah my friend is in the toilet (obv a lie as he was looking at me all night weirdly) and then this was about 6.45 and i started to get really annoyed so i put my phone down hard on the table, but did it on the fork end by accident and didnt know that sauce was on the end of the fork (i had been nibbling the chips whilst i waited) and it went all over my face, causing laughs from the table next to me (who were whispering about my situation)

3) As i was about to get up and go, four people from work walked in and saw two full plates of food and only me, they had a smirk on their face and we just had an awkward stare.

So not only am i £20 down (not a lot, but i live alone every little thing counts), i have to face the humiliation of going into work on Monday knowing that they know i got stood up in the most horrendous way.

So here i am, 2 bottles of wine down, ****ed off my tits and i still feel like ****, i have never had anything like this happen and the guy still hasnt texted me or phoned or anything.

I need cheering up,
anyone care to help?
xxxxxxxx

[UPDATE 30/11]
He texted me this morning saying he got mugged last night and that this is his new phone he got from EE this morning.

I PERSONALLY think its a load of ****. I don't want to say -bull****- to him incase its true but now hes saying come over to his as he has a lot of work to do - so im going over there tomorrow but i dont know whether to act angry or okay or whatever.

helppppp

[jackc1806]

For three reasons!

1) I had a date tonight, he was texting me throughout the day saying yeah he's still coming and we'll meet in the pub near me at 6pm, at Half 5 he said he was leaving so i make my way to the pub and order us food and a drink like he requested. (it's a pub so you pay at the start of your meal so i paid expecting him to give me half).

6.30 came, the food was on the table and no sight of my date, i rang and texted him and no reply. I knew he was at his phone because he said he was on whatsapp. So here i am with two plates of food, two drinks and me sitting there by myself!

2) The man came over and asked if i was okay, and i said yeah my friend is in the toilet (obv a lie as he was looking at me all night weirdly) and then this was about 6.45 and i started to get really annoyed so i put my phone down hard on the table, but did it on the fork end by accident and didnt know that sauce was on the end of the fork (i had been nibbling the chips whilst i waited) and it went all over my face, causing laughs from the table next to me (who were whispering about my situation)

3) As i was about to get up and go, four people from work walked in and saw two full plates of food and only me, they had a smirk on their face and we just had an awkward stare.

So not only am i £20 down (not a lot, but i live alone every little thing counts), i have to face the humiliation of going into work on Monday knowing that they know i got stood up in the most horrendous way.

So here i am, 2 bottles of wine down, ****ed off my tits and i still feel like ****, i have never had anything like this happen and the guy still hasnt texted me or phoned or anything.

I need cheering up,
anyone care to help?
xxxxxxxx

Aww no, that's terrible :( Hope you are okay :hug:

[Drew.]

oh no its Locke/Mollie part 2

Sorry you're evening didnt go to plan though

[Jake.]

What a **** evening you've had, has he text you since then?

[Lee.]

If you feel the need to explain to your colleagues, you could just say that unfortunately your friend got called away in an emergency just as the food arrived..

Don't dwell on it too much though.. He obviously wasn't worth it! Send him a bill for £20!

[Conzors]

Thanks Drew.
Thanks Jack -hug-

And no Jake, he hasn't - and hes been on fb and everything SO ANNOYED. actually im not annoyed more upset and stupiddd.

[Conzors]

If you feel the need to explain to your colleagues, you could just say that unfortunately your friend got called away in an emergency just as the food arrived..

Don't dwell on it too much though.. He obviously wasn't worth it! Send him a bill for £20!

Normally i'd just tell them the truth and it;d be fine but im their manager so its even more embarassing as im this authority figure at work and for this to happen they wont even take me seriosuly!

[MTVN]

Hard luck, everyones worst nightmare

[fingers]

Wot a BASTARD!

[Glenn.]

Get yourself on pornhub

[T*]

Aww, so sorry to hear that :(

[GypsyGoth]

Aww, what a ****ty thing to do, that guy isn't worth wasting any more energy on :hug:

[jackc1806]

Get yourself on pornhub

:joker: Top advice Glenn

[fingers]

Make sure that he reimburses you the FULL £20 then dump him!

[Kizzy]

I agree what a twunt!
His loss, you're stunning so no seond chances...he blew it.
Step away from the wine you'll just feel worse and hungover tomorrow sweets :hug:
I agree with lee about the emergency thing, mind you it's none of their business.

[Conzors]

I agree what a twunt!
His loss, you're stunning so no seond chances...he blew it.
Step away from the wine you'll just feel worse and hungover tomorrow sweets :hug:
I agree with lee about the emergency thing, mind you it's none of their business.
thanks, i've just never felt like this before, its so weird and i dont wanna leave!

Make sure that he reimburses you the FULL £20 then dump him!
i dont even think hell talk to me let alone give me money back.

Aww, what a ****ty thing to do, that guy isn't worth wasting any more energy on :hug:
i know :( but i dunno why he did it!

Aww, so sorry to hear that :(
thanks x

[Glenn.]

:joker: Top advice Glenn

I'm useful for some thing I guess :laugh:

[Ammi]

..Conzors....if he’s dumb enough to do that to someone like you then the only excuses that you need to make are for him and his stupidity...

..don’t be deflated..
..someone like that..
..don’t deserve to be dated...
..or roughly translated...
..he’s a cretin....



..no more time wasted...



..:hug:....

[fingers]

It beggars belief that he TOLD you to order half an hour before, apparently, he intended to stand you up. You shouldn't feel in any way stupid or humiliated, you should feel unadulterated rage.

[Conzors]

..Conzors....if he’s dumb enough to do that to someone like you then the only excuses that you need to make are for him and his stupidity...

..don’t be deflated..
..someone like that..
..don’t deserve to be dated...
..or roughly translated...
..he’s a cretin....



..no more time wasted...



..:hug:....

It beggars belief that he TOLD you to order half an hour before, apparently, he intended to stand you up. You shouldn't feel in any way stupid or humiliated, you should feel unadulterated rage.

You both are cute and have made me feel slightly better.
Much Love.
xxxx

[Glenn.]

D:

That is awful news

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

**** him, his loss.

Re-your workmates. Beat them to it and Just make fun of yourself with this on Monday "so yeah..that was pretty funny hhahaha getting stood up is always hilarious." etc, they can only laugh along or give it a rest and move on.

[Conzors]

**** him, his loss.

Re-your workmates. Beat them to it and Just make fun of yourself with this on Monday "so yeah..that was pretty funny hhahaha getting stood up is always hilarious." etc, they can only laugh along or give it a rest and move on.

Meh i might just leave it and see if they say anything.
Thanks i appreciate it.
x

[Glenn.]

Pornmd conzors. PORNMD!

It's like a porn google :love:

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Meh i might just leave it and see if they say anything.
Thanks i appreciate it.
x

you have nothing to be ashamed of. It's part of life man, unfortunately. He wasn't the one and you prob had a lucky escape.

[Nemo123]

you have nothing to be ashamed of. It's part of life man, unfortunately. He wasn't the one and you prob had a lucky escape.
Is that you in your Avatar?

I think I love you too!

[Kizzy]

Pay no attention conzors, he's a jelly old git who gets his jollies eyeing up his cleaner.... :joker:

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Is that you in your Avatar?

I think I love you too!

Nope. But I posted a pic of myself somewhere deep inside the previous members thread :joker:

[jackc1806]

Anyway, don't feel bad Conzors xx

[Conzors]

Ill get over it!
I just got a bed after a month of sleeping on the floor so atleast ill sleep alright! hahaha
x

[erinp5]

What a barsteward .
His loss and you certainly don't need to explain anything to your workmates.
What goes around and all that ,he will get his one day.

[Kizzy]

See?... Come on now your young, gorgeous, successful and independent.
Have a little cry, have a wash tidy round and go to bed.
x

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Ill get over it!
I just got a bed after a month of sleeping on the floor so atleast ill sleep alright! hahaha
x

u2UP86bciVA

[Conzors]

ahaha thanks xx

[Shaun]

conor :hug:

[Conzors]

conor :hug:

-hug-
thanks
xx

[Conzors]

He texted me this morning saying he got mugged last night and that this is his new phone he got from EE this morning.

I PERSONALLY think its a load of ****. I don't want to say -bull****- to him incase its true but now hes saying come over to his as he has a lot of work to do - so im going over there tomorrow but i dont know whether to act angry or okay or whatever.

helppppp

[fingers]

He texted me this morning saying he got mugged last night and that this is his new phone he got from EE this morning.

I PERSONALLY think its a load of ****. I don't want to say -bull****- to him incase its true but now hes saying come over to his as he has a lot of work to do - so im going over there tomorrow but i dont know whether to act angry or okay or whatever.

helppppp

Wow, wonder how long it took him to think that one up! Just make sure you get reimbursed for the Pub Grub!


A 99p Sim card can give you a new number!

Edit: But if he reported it stolen the service provider can cancel the old Sim and re-issue him the same/original number.

[erinp5]

He texted me this morning saying he got mugged last night and that this is his new phone he got from EE this morning.

I PERSONALLY think its a load of ****. I don't want to say -bull****- to him incase its true but now hes saying come over to his as he has a lot of work to do - so im going over there tomorrow but i dont know whether to act angry or okay or whatever.

helppppp

Don't go over ,text him and say something has come up. .
Once bitten and all that .

[Marc]

I suggest dating women. They're not always punctual but they wouldn't get mugged like that inconsiderate bastard

[fingers]

I don't suppose there were any public telephones in the A&E or anywhere else for that matter.

[Kazanne]

aw Conzors ,it's his loss,he'll regret it,as for your work collegues,hold your head high and remind them YOU are the boss..:kiss:

[smeagol]

am i the only one that laughed at the fork thing lol sorry one day your laugh about it

get revenge and do the same to him then post it on here your feel so much better

[Conzors]

aw Conzors ,it's his loss,he'll regret it,as for your work collegues,hold your head high and remind them YOU are the boss..:kiss:

I know - I just dont know what to do now!


I don't suppose there were any public telephones in the A&E or anywhere else for that matter.
I know right, tbf he might not have remembered my number but still, theres facebook, twitter anything!

No need for that :mad: ****ty thing to say!

Some good advice in here already Conor (Lee Kizzy Ammi) that I echo, you're far too good for him, he's obviously a tosser.

Plenty more fish ( nicer ones ) in the sea.
I know but i'm so interested in him! :(

am i the only one that laughed at the fork thing lol sorry one day your laugh about it

get revenge and do the same to him then post it on here your feel so much better

If i was on the other side i could find it funny lol
x

[Stu]

One love, brah.

[Vanessa]

For three reasons!

1) I had a date tonight, he was texting me throughout the day saying yeah he's still coming and we'll meet in the pub near me at 6pm, at Half 5 he said he was leaving so i make my way to the pub and order us food and a drink like he requested. (it's a pub so you pay at the start of your meal so i paid expecting him to give me half).

6.30 came, the food was on the table and no sight of my date, i rang and texted him and no reply. I knew he was at his phone because he said he was on whatsapp. So here i am with two plates of food, two drinks and me sitting there by myself!

2) The man came over and asked if i was okay, and i said yeah my friend is in the toilet (obv a lie as he was looking at me all night weirdly) and then this was about 6.45 and i started to get really annoyed so i put my phone down hard on the table, but did it on the fork end by accident and didnt know that sauce was on the end of the fork (i had been nibbling the chips whilst i waited) and it went all over my face, causing laughs from the table next to me (who were whispering about my situation)

3) As i was about to get up and go, four people from work walked in and saw two full plates of food and only me, they had a smirk on their face and we just had an awkward stare.

So not only am i £20 down (not a lot, but i live alone every little thing counts), i have to face the humiliation of going into work on Monday knowing that they know i got stood up in the most horrendous way.

So here i am, 2 bottles of wine down, ****ed off my tits and i still feel like ****, i have never had anything like this happen and the guy still hasnt texted me or phoned or anything.

I need cheering up,
anyone care to help?
xxxxxxxx

[UPDATE 30/11]
He texted me this morning saying he got mugged last night and that this is his new phone he got from EE this morning.

I PERSONALLY think its a load of ****. I don't want to say -bull****- to him incase its true but now hes saying come over to his as he has a lot of work to do - so im going over there tomorrow but i dont know whether to act angry or okay or whatever.

helppppp

Forget about him. He's a waste of time. You can do so much better than that guy. :hug:

[Kyle]

Apologies if it's already been answered i have been too worked up about Nemo's disgusting remarks to properly remember what's been said but do you know for sure he hasn't been mugged?

It does sound like an excuse but I wouldn't wanna condemn a guy if it really did happen to him.

[fingers]

Apologies if it's already been answered i have been too worked up about Nemo's disgusting remarks to properly remember what's been said but do you know for sure he hasn't been mugged?

It does sound like an excuse but I wouldn't wanna condemn a guy if it really did happen to him.

It just seems ever so convenient!

[Kyle]

It just seems ever so convenient!

It does yeh but while there's like that 0.0000056% he might have actually got mugged I don't want to unleash the beast on him :hugesmile:

Agree with everyone else though (apart from the CLOWNfish) you probably dodged a bullet Conzors if he's a welcher like that. You'll probably be joking about it with the next guy! :hugesmile:

[Conzors]

thanks guys love you xxxxx

[Cherie]

If he asks to meet again, suggest meeting in the same pub, ask for him to order the same drink you had and the same meal, it might click with him that you are not being let down twice and if its doensn't he it out 20 quid so job done. Wouldn't go round to his place as he suggests as you need to be careful and he sounds like a liar.

[Ammi]

thanks guys love you xxxxx

..you feeling better about it all, Conor..?..

[Conzors]

A little, still in a dilemma about it tomorrow - will see how i feel tomorrow.
x

[fingers]

If he asks to meet again, suggest meeting in the same pub, ask for him to order the same drink you had and the same meal, it might click with him that you are not being let down twice and if its doens'nt he it out 20 quid so job done. Wouldn't go round to his place as he suggests as you need to be careful and he sounds like a liar.

Yeah, I'd be wary of going to his place, sounds like he is aware that you could be infatuated with him and he likes to play you.

[jackc1806]

Yeah, I'd be wary of going to his place, sounds like he is aware that you could be infatuated with him and he likes to play you.

I agree with this- be very careful! Don't want him to upset you anymore :(

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

If you do decide to go see this guy, don't go alone. He sounds dodgy.

[jackc1806]

If you do decide to go see this guy, don't go alone. He sounds dodgy.

I wouldn't go to his house, meet in public

[King Gizzard]

I once took a girl to a gig (ON MY BIRTHDAY), paid for her, got her travel, only for once we got her for her to ditch me and go find her boyfriend that I didn't know existed, and leading up to it for weeks I thought we liked each other, I'm not sure if that's better or worse than your situation....don't worry about it

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

I wouldn't go to his house, meet in public

yeah much better.

To be honest why even give him the time of day at this point? Are you really that interested in this guy? :conf:

[Cherie]

A little, still in a dilemma about it tomorrow - will see how i feel tomorrow.
x

How well do you know this guy, do you have friends in common or is he some random you met?

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

I once took a girl to a gig, paid for her, got her travel, only for once we got her for her to ditch me and go find her boyfriend that I didn't know existed, I'm not sure if that's better or worse than your situation....don't worry about it

Oh dear :/

[jackc1806]

I once took a girl to a gig (ON MY BIRTHDAY), paid for her, got her travel, only for once we got her for her to ditch me and go find her boyfriend that I didn't know existed, and leading up to it for weeks I thought we liked each other, I'm not sure if that's better or worse than your situation....don't worry about it

****! That must have been awful :/

[Ammi]

A little, still in a dilemma about it tomorrow - will see how i feel tomorrow.
x

..I agree with everyone else..just be cautious about him, Conor, ok...

[jackc1806]

..I agree with everyone else..just be cautious about him, Conor, ok...

If he says to buy dinner and drinks before he gets there again, definitely don't do it! He should pay!

[Legend killer]

I can confirm this story i was the mugger sorry op

[joeysteele]

Conzors, that is a pretty sad event you had to put up with,I never give advice to anyone really but one thing I thought was if he had a genuine reason not be there on time or at all then he could have rang the pub and left a message for you.

Furthermore all I would say is be wary and I agree with the others who have said,only meet him in a public place until you feel you can be sure of him,that is if you intend to maybe risk going through that again.
All best wishes and please take care.

[Black Dagger]

Pornmd conzors. PORNMD!

It's like a porn google :love:

It is quite an impressively run porno site.

[Kizzy]

Have you got mug tattooed on your forehead?..... run away....
Harsh but that's my advice :)

[Roy Mars III]

nothing good ever comes out of a relationship, just stay single mate

[james130]

What a prick.
Obviously I don't know how you really feel about the guy (he better be bloody good looking 'cause sounds like his personality sucks), but if I was in your position, I would not be going around to his. I'd just blank him 'cause there's bound to be someone better for you. If that's how the relationship was starting then you probably don't want to bother with the rest of it.
Sorry you had to go through that man.

I don't know you personally, but I feel 100% confident in saying you deserve better.

[Kyle]

It is quite an impressively run porno site.

Nice one I'll go and have a look at your website then :whistle:

[Cherie]

Reading back over the OP again, it seems such a strange thing to do to ask someone you are meeting for the first time to order you dinner and a drink (has he memorised the menu!), could it not wait until he got there :shrug: and if he was genuine would he not have offered to pay for the uneaten dinner at some point when he got his cards reissued (I assume his wallet was also taken in this mugging..).

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

nothing good ever comes out of a relationship, just stay single mate

Especially if it begins like this, already second guessing him. It might be the the theme for the relationship. Nothing but drama and trust issues.

[james130]

Intrigued to know if there's been any developments on this?

[Niamh.]

aawwww Conor that's awful :/