Where Is the core of the chat here?

[Nemo123]

I make lots of posts, like a bloke with a poker in a fire, and everything I stick my poker in extinguishes.

[fingers]

Maybe if you lightened up......?

[Lee.]

Is that you in your avatar?

[fingers]

Is that you in your avatar?

Nah, that's Bradley Manning before he decided he was a woman.

[Nemo123]

Maybe if you lightened up......?

Cheers. Can't do it I'm afraid. Cos I'm mostly angry.

[Ramsay]

Is that you in your avatar?

:suspect:

[Lee.]

Cheers. Can't do it I'm afraid. Cos I'm mostly angry.

Why are you so angry?

[Nemo123]

Why are you so angry?

Why am I angry? Because I'm not happy!
I've always been a contrarian, well since I was about 18, and before that I was a contrarian to my religion, because it was wrong, but I was young and contrarian. It happened I was right. Roman Catholicism was rubbish. But I resisted it for personal reasons. A child who went through a strict catholic education.

[Lee.]

Why am I angry? Because I'm not happy!
I've always been a contrarian, well since I was about 18, and before that I was a contrarian to my religion, because it was wrong, but I was young and contrarian. It happened I was right. Roman Catholicism was rubbish. But I resisted it for personal reasons. A child who went through a strict catholic education.

Have you nothing to be happy about at all?

[King Gizzard]

I bet Nemo enjoys sunflowers everyone likes sunflowers

[Nemo123]

Have you nothing to be happy about at all?
Enjoy every day, it may be your last. I sort of live like that. Enjoy every nice day you have. You cannot schedule your happiness according to the calendar. Like Friday or Saturday night. Or Christmas. These days are for lots of people the most depressing days of the year, because they remind them how lonely and empty their lives are. These are the cruelest days of the year, and this is why I hate them.

[Lee.]

Enjoy every day, it may be your last. I sort of live like that. Enjoy every nice day you have. You cannot schedule your happiness according to the calendar. Like Friday or Saturday night. Or Christmas. These days are for lots of people the most depressing days of the year, because they remind them how lonely and empty their lives are. These are the cruelest days of the year, and this is why I hate them.

:( have you no family?

[fingers]

You sound like a sad and lonely person.

[Nemo123]

:( have you no family?

Mother, siblings, nieces and nephews. Mother will die soon, statistically, siblings are my best hope.

[Nemo123]

Practically, I need a wife.

[Lee.]

Mother, siblings, nieces and nephews. Mother will die soon, statistically, siblings are my best hope.

Friends?

Is your mother ill?

[Nemo123]

Friends?

Is your mother ill?

No but she's 85.

[Lee.]

Practically, I need a wife.

What age are you?

[Nemo123]

48 going on 49.

[Lee.]

48 going on 49.

Right, you're not going to meet a wife easily. Have you thought about Internet dating?

[Nemo123]

You sound like a sad and lonely person.

I'm a loner, in other words, I'm happy in my own company. But, I only live for my mother's presence. That she is there, or someone. I couldn't survive alone.

[Lee.]

I'm a loner, in other words, I'm happy in my own company. But, I only live for my mother's presence. That she is there, or someone. I couldn't survive alone.

Nothing wrong with being a loner and enjoying your own company, but everybody needs a bit of attention and affection!

[fingers]

85 for a woman is not really at the end of the scale, she could well live for another 8-10 years or more.

[Nemo123]

Right, you're not going to meet a wife easily. Have you thought about Internet dating?

I had an internet gf for 3 or 4 years. It doesn't always work.
I'll tell you straight what my problem is. I've retired into the womb. My mother pays all the bills and gives me pocket money. I'm comfortable, yet I think when she dies I'll die. I'll have no reason to live.

[fingers]

Don't be absurd. do you cook or do you leave that to your mother as well?

[Nemo123]

Don't be absurd. do you cook or do you leave that to your mother as well?

I cooked today. Spagbol

[fingers]

Well that's a start!

[smeagol]

dont stick your poker in fires is my advice - ouch toasted sausage

[fingers]

smeagol talks rubbish, but sometimes he makes sense!

[Nemo123]

Well that's a start!

I do take on a lot of the responsibility of a parent with my mother. The thing is I couldn't live without her. Her presence, just being there, here liveliness that wakes me up every day about midday. And, she's got all of the money, thanks to my dad.

[fingers]

At the very least you are now reacting, interacting, with other members here, a good start!

[Lee.]

I had an internet gf for 3 or 4 years. It doesn't always work.
I'll tell you straight what my problem is. I've retired into the womb. My mother pays all the bills and gives me pocket money. I'm comfortable, yet I think when she dies I'll die. I'll have no reason to live.

That's horrible.. You need to find a reason to live! Have you no hobbies? No way of meeting people?

[Nemo123]

At the very least you are now reacting, interacting, with other members here, a good start!
I always knew you responded to me.
If I lose my anger I lose my raison d'etre.

[fingers]

I always knew you responded to me.
If I lose my anger I lose my raison d'etre.

Once again that is rubbish! Anger is destructive, if you prefer anger you will ruin your life.

[Nemo123]

Once again that is rubbish! Anger is destructive, if you prefer anger you will ruin your life.

BS. Anger is passion.

[fingers]

BS. Anger is passion.
So you display that in front of your mother, do you?

[Nemo123]

So you display that in front of your mother, do you?

Yes I do. I eff and blind at her when I'm angry. For the most part we get on. I wouldn't still be living with her otherwise, although I've come close to being thrown out.

[fingers]

Yes I do. I eff and blind at her when I'm angry. For the most part we get on. I wouldn't still be living with her otherwise, although I've come close to being thrown out.

Not surprising that you've come close to being thrown out!

[Nemo123]

Not surprising that you've come close to being thrown out!
I've come so close to being thrown out. In fact, the first time, I was thrown out. But I came back home.

The first time I distilled codeine from painkilling tablets, and swallowed a lethal dose. My mother came home with my brother, discovered me in the bathroom, or rather didn't, because there was no answer, and the ambulance came down broke the door in and took me to hospital.

[fingers]

You really need to have a word with smeagol, Im sure he has the right advice for you.

[smeagol]

You really need to have a word with smeagol, Im sure he has the right advice for you.

i charge for advice lol

but as its xmas my best advice is step away from the turkey and put the gun down

[Lee.]

I'm not being cheeky, but have you ever thought about speaking to somebody about why you're so angry? Life's too short.. Try and find some inner peace and happiness :)

[Jesus.]

I'm not being cheeky, but have you ever thought about speaking to somebody about why you're so angry? Life's too short.. Try and find some inner peace and happiness :)

You don't actually buy that nonsense do you?

[MTVN]

BS. Anger is passion.

Sound like some kind of sith lord

[Lee.]

You don't actually buy that nonsense do you?

Buy what nonsense? That it's sometimes good to talk about how you feel? Or everybody should try and find happiness?

[Jesus.]

Buy what nonsense? That it's sometimes good to talk about how you feel? Or everybody should try and find happiness?

I definitely agree with that. We just have differing opinions on Nemos motives.

[Lee.]

I definitely agree with that. We just have differing opinions on Nemos motives.

Sometimes it's also good to put things to the side and actually find out a wee bit about people.

[Cherie]

I make lots of posts, like a bloke with a poker in a fire, and everything I stick my poker in extinguishes.

Maybe you need to use your poker less :shrug:

[smudgie]

Buy a dog that you can love..you need to love before you can be loved.


And don't stick your ruddy poker anywhere near it

[michael21]

Maybe you need to use your poker less :shrug:

:laugh2::worship::worship::worship:

[Jesus.]

Buy a dog that you can love..you need to love before you can be loved.


And don't stick your ruddy poker anywhere near it

Isn't that a bit harsh on the dog if he turns out to be incapable of love?

[smudgie]

Isn't that a bit harsh on the dog if he turns out to be incapable of love?

We are all capable of love..he just needs something to melt his heart.

[Jesus.]

We are all capable of love..he just needs something to melt his heart.

There are professionals that would probably disagree with that statement.

[smudgie]

There are professionals that would probably disagree with that statement.

Yes. I am sure of that.

But I think Nemo lacks something in his life...:devil: